Reply #49: Well, it is better that they found her now

[Nikia]

It would be worse to be an older child and find out that the people who you thought were your parents, really weren't. You weren't adopted either. They killed your mother and abducted you.
I think I remember hearing about a story or two where a child was abducted as a baby and raised by the abductors as their own. They later found out and were devestated.