Reply #241: I like that we are human beings striving to be civil.

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Funny, I'm involved in another thread right now with someone who is trying to call me names and I am resisting treating in kind. You'd be proud.

And if I may, since you brought it up, you say:

I like having boobs, my husband is happy I have a good set, but when a baby comes along it is understood that they are finally going to be put to real use, and I will do it in public.

You have a husband and he is happy about them, so I'll submit that is also a "real use." It's part of the bond you two have formed, and does not diminish whatever other reasons there may be. We're built that way. (Pun intended.)

Um, pardon my ignorance. What's a doula? It's not done with swords, I assume.

--IMM