Reply #58: I don't see this as infidelity

[gollygee]

she has been unable to communicate with him for ages. If I were in Terry's position I would understand if my husband had a new relationship and in fact would be glad that he'd found someone else he loved. Well, assuming of course I was able to think, which Terry isn't.

He can still love Terry and want what's best for her, but have found someone else. It is completely understandable that he has found someone else.