Reply #28: You change the topic rather than talk about the real issues - fine

[FreeState]

but if you want to do something to help the GLBT movement this is what people who are supporting the day with out a gay are asking people to do:

Call in gay and volunteer your time to a charity
Dont purchase anything from anyone all day (and if you must use a gay business if you can)
If you work for a gay business you can call in gay or not (per the organizers website)
If your self employed volunteer all day or not (per the organizers website)

http://www.daywithoutagay.org/

you want to make excuses as to why you dont want to do it fine - no one is forcing you to do it.