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True Earthling (373 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 09:57 PM Original message |
Homeless with 15 children..."Somebody needs to be held accountable" |
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Ineeda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:06 PM Response to Original message |
1. Two, three kids |
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lbrtbell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:59 PM Response to Reply #1 |
24. +1 |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 11:16 PM Response to Reply #1 |
30. My first thought was "Grandmother raising her kids and her kids' kids" |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 09:56 AM Response to Reply #30 |
116. What about the fathers? Women don't get |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:11 AM Response to Reply #116 |
124. The fathers are scum. They should pay support for their children and not leave the woman hanging. |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 02:47 AM Response to Reply #124 |
271. I agree, but in the video the woman says the father of 10 of the 15 children is in prison. nt |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 02:52 PM Response to Reply #271 |
285. He clearly didn't have any kind of savings plan in place against the day |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:26 AM Response to Reply #116 |
151. Yes, but if even the law cannot track them down or hold them accountable... |
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JoeyT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:56 PM Response to Reply #151 |
202. Sadly the only pregnancy counciling we can get the |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 05:32 PM Response to Reply #202 |
244. I don't understand why the govt simply doesn't deny funds to fake (Bible-banging) abortion clinics |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:53 AM Response to Reply #116 |
162. 'Fathers' are a dime a dozen. |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 02:54 PM Response to Reply #162 |
216. And another RightWing talking point rears its ugly head |
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dana_b (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 03:58 PM Response to Reply #216 |
226. I know, right??!! |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 04:50 PM Response to Reply #226 |
237. LOL |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 09:01 AM Response to Reply #1 |
98. +10000000 |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:07 PM Response to Original message |
2. More jobs that support only one working parent would help, too, instead of making a two-income |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 09:02 AM Response to Reply #2 |
99. ummmm, I don't think that even a 2 parent working family |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:27 AM Response to Reply #99 |
152. You're right. I know someone who adopted 6 kids. The husband makes great money... |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:13 PM Response to Original message |
3. As someone who chose not to have children (yes, I know that sounds odd)... |
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joeglow3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:16 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. You can have kids or you can have everything else |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:38 PM Response to Reply #4 |
15. I chose everything else, including happiness and love |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 11:32 PM Response to Reply #15 |
34. but don't you know, REP? |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:10 AM Response to Reply #34 |
44. Oooh that's one scary thought! lol nt |
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joeglow3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:32 AM Response to Reply #34 |
57. You hearing things? |
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GoCubsGo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 09:04 AM Response to Reply #57 |
100. Actually, it works both ways. |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 09:10 AM Response to Reply #100 |
102. Links? |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:07 AM Response to Reply #102 |
122. I've never seen it either, but I've seen plenty of it the |
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GoCubsGo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:56 AM Response to Reply #102 |
165. Maybe not here... |
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joeglow3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 09:22 AM Response to Reply #100 |
105. Bullshit |
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GoCubsGo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:59 AM Response to Reply #105 |
166. Pssstt... |
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joeglow3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:11 PM Response to Reply #166 |
188. Psssttt... |
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GoCubsGo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:20 PM Response to Reply #188 |
193. "I have the responsibility to teach children I don't feel the need to act like one. " |
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joeglow3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 02:24 PM Response to Reply #193 |
209. Okay, that was snarky. I admit it. |
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GoCubsGo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 02:46 PM Response to Reply #209 |
214. Yeah, the Christian right are pretty awful. |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 03:36 PM Response to Reply #214 |
220. I've heard lots of cruel, insulting comments |
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GoCubsGo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 04:22 PM Response to Reply #220 |
232. Or, you could just ignore it. |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 04:35 PM Response to Reply #232 |
235. A little empathy goes a long way |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:29 AM Response to Reply #100 |
153. Thanks! :) nt |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:46 AM Response to Reply #57 |
139. LOLOL |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 12:40 AM Response to Reply #57 |
266. It's residual reactionary blowback. |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:09 AM Response to Reply #15 |
42. Isn't it wonderful? nt |
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stuntcat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 04:30 PM Response to Reply #15 |
234. Yay! |
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True Earthling (373 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:16 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. It's the "Baby Mama" mentality |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:29 PM Response to Reply #5 |
9. God almighty, even a song for bullshit like that? I swear it, some women are f****** crazy! nt |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:39 PM Response to Reply #9 |
16. The problem is that too many "baby-mamas" are 14-17 yr old GIRLS |
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gkhouston (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:51 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. "and the government is there to lend a hand". |
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w8liftinglady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 11:05 PM Response to Reply #20 |
27. my son just told me you have to be over 18 to buy a condom. |
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DBoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 11:33 PM Response to Reply #27 |
35. sharpies prevent pregnancy? |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 04:26 AM Response to Reply #35 |
77. I'm thinking it might be local merchants taking it upon themselves to prevent graffiti. |
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gkhouston (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:58 AM Response to Reply #27 |
65. WTF? I know kids can huff Sharpies, but there aren't many kids |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 02:32 AM Response to Reply #27 |
72. That is THE DUMBEST rule, of all time! |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:28 AM Response to Reply #27 |
134. We sell condoms to kids all the time. |
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w8liftinglady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:02 AM Response to Reply #134 |
143. sadly,this is the general belief in Texas |
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ThomThom (752 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:11 PM Response to Reply #27 |
189. I heard you can get high sniffing a sharpie |
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Old Troop (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 05:25 PM Response to Reply #189 |
243. And maybe free sharpies too |
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U4ikLefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 04:27 AM Response to Reply #243 |
273. Sniffing sharpies leads to babies. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 11:13 PM Response to Reply #20 |
29. Penny (not-so) wise & pound foolish. |
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jwirr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:12 AM Response to Reply #20 |
46. Lend a hand? Sure if you like living in poverty and having the social |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:22 AM Response to Reply #46 |
53. I love what you said: |
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jwirr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:27 AM Response to Reply #53 |
55. Thank you. |
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gkhouston (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:59 AM Response to Reply #53 |
66. +1. n/t |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:02 AM Response to Reply #16 |
38. You are probably right. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 09:11 AM Response to Reply #16 |
103. Okay....hear my story |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:18 PM Response to Reply #103 |
192. I never called *your* nieces "baby-mamas".. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:35 PM Response to Reply #192 |
195. Don't be sorry for their circumstances. |
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ThomThom (752 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:08 PM Response to Reply #16 |
187. like you said " the family many of them never had" |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:18 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. Enslavement? |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:30 PM Response to Reply #6 |
10. It's not for me, and the glorification of it certainly is causing out of wedlock kids to be born all |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:38 PM Response to Reply #10 |
13. I'm glad you know it's not for you. |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:40 PM Response to Reply #13 |
17. There is tremendous societal pressure on women to have Mommyhood become their identities |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:12 AM Response to Reply #17 |
45. I'm so grateful that I never gave a damn that other people wanted me to procreate |
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joeglow3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:38 AM Response to Reply #45 |
60. And I bet many of them feel quite sorry for you. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 02:53 AM Response to Reply #60 |
74. Are you not aware that the decision to not have kids is generally looked down upon? |
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joeglow3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 08:16 AM Response to Reply #74 |
91. So, you are justfiying what you admit is judgemental behavior |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:55 AM Response to Reply #91 |
164. Well, I certainly hope Sarah DUer upthread does not say her thoughts out loud to parents. |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:36 PM Response to Reply #164 |
176. Nope! In fact, I thank them constantly because I KNOW how much they missed out on by having kids. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:18 PM Response to Reply #176 |
191. I have a few childless female friends. |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:51 PM Response to Reply #191 |
200. Good for you, Quantess! |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 02:02 PM Response to Reply #200 |
203. Same to you! |
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joeglow3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:16 PM Response to Reply #164 |
190. I don't feel the need to list my reasons why I did not choose their lifestyle |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:36 PM Response to Reply #190 |
197. But if you're a great parent (Dad?) then why do you care whether some childless |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:45 PM Response to Reply #197 |
198. If I said I felt sorry for childless women on DU, I'm pretty sure I'd get a beat-down |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 02:31 PM Response to Reply #198 |
210. But you are overlooking that society is smiling upon you for being a parent. |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 03:59 PM Response to Reply #210 |
227. I can tell you I received plenty of criticism in life for my choices |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 05:16 PM Response to Reply #227 |
240. Very well then, you think you're such a rebel? |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 05:16 PM Response to Reply #227 |
241. Very well then, you think you're such a rebel? |
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joeglow3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 02:21 PM Response to Reply #197 |
208. I wanted to reply. Twilight summed it up perfectly |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:34 AM Response to Reply #74 |
154. You're right. I think a lot of parents hate it when someone is happy to have no kids... |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:01 PM Response to Reply #154 |
168. Yes! But OTOH, I agree that it's kind of rude to talk about how free you are |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:29 PM Response to Reply #168 |
173. In real life I never tell parents with kids how much fun my life is. Even my sister... |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:52 PM Response to Reply #173 |
181. Women are SUPPOSED TO want to have babies. |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:05 PM Response to Reply #181 |
186. It's wonderful to be able to be in charge of our own bodies and make decisions like these |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 05:50 PM Response to Reply #173 |
247. Again you don't understand that many people with kids "are living their life fully and to the max" |
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SteveM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 03:36 PM Response to Reply #74 |
221. Boy, you got that right... |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:16 AM Response to Reply #60 |
126. Exactly, thank you. Why can't people |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:19 AM Response to Reply #45 |
127. Tell you what. You don't judge me or "feel sorry" for me |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 05:51 PM Response to Reply #127 |
248. +100000000000000000000 nt |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:14 PM Response to Reply #45 |
170. Don't feel sorry for mothers. You may not understand them or their choices, but they |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 07:53 PM Response to Reply #45 |
288. I am sorry that you feel you can pass judgment on others for their choices. |
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gkhouston (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:53 PM Response to Reply #13 |
21. +1. The youth minister at my church always recruits the teens |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:12 AM Response to Reply #21 |
47. You know, maybe that would be a good thing to do: have teens care for the little ones |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 07:12 AM Response to Reply #47 |
79. Gosh |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:23 AM Response to Reply #79 |
130. Well, that just goes along with her calling |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 03:09 PM Response to Reply #130 |
218. I particularly liked the "enslavement belly" comment |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:20 AM Response to Reply #21 |
128. LOL. That's good, because they SHOULDN'T be parents |
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Spider Jerusalem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:50 PM Response to Reply #10 |
19. Well no, biology is causing that |
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csziggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 11:02 PM Response to Reply #19 |
25. There were only certain periods and places where early marriage was common |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 11:57 PM Response to Reply #25 |
37. I lived in Spain for several years, and moved back about 10 years ago... |
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csziggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:09 AM Response to Reply #37 |
43. Yes, I've never understood why women/girls want children early - or at all |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:19 AM Response to Reply #43 |
52. Isn't it wonderful having no kids? I swear to you I feel GUILTY to feel so good about it. lol |
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csziggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:17 AM Response to Reply #52 |
67. The only times I wanted kids was when I think of the slave labor |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 07:41 AM Response to Reply #67 |
83. LOL! And, in fact, that's what happened in olden days - having kids to help on the farm was |
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ellie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 08:47 AM Response to Reply #67 |
96. I come from a family of nine |
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jwirr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:26 AM Response to Reply #25 |
54. I found that in my genealogical research also. Wonder why they |
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csziggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:14 PM Response to Reply #54 |
264. I suspect that in Europe they had to wait longer until they could have a home |
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jwirr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 08:21 PM Response to Reply #264 |
289. Access to land and homes is a good guess. My family all farmed |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 11:50 PM Response to Reply #19 |
36. When I went to school years ago, girls weren't tripping over themselves trying to get pregnant |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:37 AM Response to Reply #36 |
59. Teen pregnancy is down, actually. |
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SteveM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 03:46 PM Response to Reply #59 |
224. What I read as well. The mother in the OP sounds more like a "horder" |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:21 PM Response to Reply #3 |
7. High school girls who want a child generally don't have a good family life and think the baby |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:31 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. Or maybe they think if they have a baby with this guy or that, the guy will stay. Actually.... |
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TheDebbieDee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:38 PM Response to Reply #3 |
14. For the high school girls in some areas, having a guy's baby |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:05 AM Response to Reply #14 |
39. You're right, it is sad. They have 0 goals. As for the baby being a way to hold on to a guy... |
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beam me up scottie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:15 AM Response to Reply #39 |
50. Of course the baby daddy will probably be a lousy father because he didn't want the kid. |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:16 AM Response to Reply #50 |
51. Exactly right. He got what he wanted, and that sure wasn't a baby! nt |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 07:16 AM Response to Reply #50 |
80. A lot of those "women" |
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beam me up scottie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 09:47 AM Response to Reply #80 |
110. I don't understand how all of these "accidents" happen in this day and age. |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:37 AM Response to Reply #110 |
156. Exactly! There's a reason why there's birth control. nt |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 03:37 PM Response to Reply #110 |
286. Totally agree with that |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 09:47 AM Response to Reply #80 |
111. Lots of females think that having sex with a man will snag a man. Both to me are perplexing. nt |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 11:05 PM Response to Reply #3 |
26. Kids are cute and hilarious. |
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ingac70 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 11:23 PM Response to Reply #26 |
31. It isn't an attitude, it's a fact... |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:13 AM Response to Reply #31 |
48. Absolutely. When you have kids, your dreams suddenly have to all take a back seat |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:44 AM Response to Reply #48 |
63. Some people don't value being "center stage" quite as much |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 08:00 AM Response to Reply #63 |
85. Trust me, I'm not out there putting the spotlight on myself, but since there's only one life... |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:26 AM Response to Reply #48 |
68. Bullshit. You're speaking nonsense from a position of ignorance... |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 08:02 AM Response to Reply #68 |
86. That's your opinion. There are plenty of studies bearing out that children place tremendous |
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EOTE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:27 AM Response to Reply #86 |
132. No one is saying that you shouldn't be happy or satisfied. |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:49 AM Response to Reply #132 |
141. Do you see me stopping women from spreading their legs without contraception? |
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EOTE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:56 AM Response to Reply #141 |
142. Not at all, that's a huge strawman. |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:11 AM Response to Reply #142 |
146. As long as I'm not forcing women not to pop kids out, I have the right to my view, which is |
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EOTE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:34 AM Response to Reply #146 |
155. And everyone else has the right to say that you're selfish, full of yourself |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:45 AM Response to Reply #155 |
160. Why? Because I feel sorry for people that have kids, and LOVE my life without them? lol |
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EOTE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:02 PM Response to Reply #160 |
169. You're clearly the one who's threatened. |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:23 PM Response to Reply #169 |
171. Again, I feel sorry for people who have kids because they're missing out on all that I can do and |
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EOTE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:30 PM Response to Reply #171 |
174. Are you incapable of even basic comprehension? |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:41 PM Response to Reply #174 |
178. I'm not defensive. The defensive one is you. Re-read your post. I merely said I feel sorry for |
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EOTE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:44 PM Response to Reply #178 |
179. Hilarious, more rank hypocrisy from you. |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:53 PM Response to Reply #179 |
182. To keep my DU very pleasant |
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EOTE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:55 PM Response to Reply #182 |
183. This is vital information. |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 02:35 PM Response to Reply #183 |
211. LOL |
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EOTE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 02:44 PM Response to Reply #211 |
213. Thanks. I think that for some, live and let live is far too much to ask. |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 03:03 PM Response to Reply #213 |
217. I heartily agree |
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EOTE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:47 PM Response to Reply #178 |
180. And you need to stalk me to comment on me? |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 05:57 PM Response to Reply #178 |
250. You are posting very negatively about people who chose to have children. |
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EOTE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 02:50 PM Response to Reply #250 |
284. Some people will go through incredible lengths to justify their hypocrisy. |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 06:33 PM Response to Reply #174 |
254. They seem to be incapable of empathy |
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EOTE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:32 PM Response to Reply #171 |
175. Why do you need to lash out at others because you can't have children? |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 03:40 PM Response to Reply #141 |
287. Nobody's done that |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:55 AM Response to Reply #86 |
163. I could care less about your choice. |
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girl_interrupted (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:39 AM Response to Reply #48 |
69. Your dreams have to take a backseat? |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 08:07 AM Response to Reply #69 |
87. It's tempting to say that kids affect nothing, that people remain just exactly as they are. Wrong. |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 02:05 PM Response to Reply #87 |
204. Who, in this thread, ever said "kids affect nothing"?? |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 07:19 AM Response to Reply #31 |
82. No it's not... |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 03:40 PM Response to Reply #31 |
222. Commitments to other people do not deny you your own life... |
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MH1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 09:55 AM Response to Reply #26 |
115. The really disgusting attitude is calling someone else's truth 'disgusting' |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:39 AM Response to Reply #115 |
157. I agree with everything you said. The right wing religious spend mega-millions promoting |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:36 AM Response to Reply #26 |
138. It's true. Kids do tie you down. |
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dkf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 11:24 PM Response to Reply #3 |
32. Ah you've never felt "it". |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:08 AM Response to Reply #32 |
41. Oh, I never said I disliked kids. I love kids. I have oodles of nephews and nieces... |
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jwirr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:42 AM Response to Reply #41 |
62. Believe it or not that is how it feels to be a grandma - you get the |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 08:09 AM Response to Reply #62 |
88. It's great!!! And yes, I've heard that. And not having that responsibility for the kids |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 09:15 AM Response to Reply #41 |
104. Me too. |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 09:34 AM Response to Reply #104 |
107. I'm like you. And you know what? While my nieces and nephews love their mom and dad... |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:21 PM Response to Reply #107 |
194. Exactly. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 11:31 PM Response to Reply #3 |
33. society dictates that everybody multiply |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:06 AM Response to Reply #33 |
40. So true. I think there are more mediocre parents than good parents. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:35 AM Response to Reply #40 |
58. there's more mediocre than good everything |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 08:33 AM Response to Reply #58 |
94. I agree! with absolutely everything you've said. I was fortunate. As a child I noticed parents... |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:24 PM Response to Reply #58 |
172. That is the unavoidable reality. |
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seamac (4 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:41 AM Response to Reply #3 |
61. Chilluns satisfy some peoples needs |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:44 AM Response to Reply #61 |
159. I agree! Some want to see if the kids look like them, some want to show off the kids, some want |
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MayHamm (24 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 08:23 AM Response to Reply #3 |
92. Beats me |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:10 AM Response to Reply #3 |
123. That's fine that you choose to be child-free, |
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hifiguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 03:47 PM Response to Reply #3 |
225. I don't either, Sarah. |
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dana_b (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 04:03 PM Response to Reply #3 |
228. well, as a mom |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 05:43 PM Response to Reply #3 |
246. You obviously don't GET IT as your post is full of really odd bits. |
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OhioBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 01:12 AM Response to Reply #3 |
267. wow... |
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Skidmore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 11:07 AM Response to Reply #3 |
279. So your choice allows you the freedom to |
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w8liftinglady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:25 PM Response to Original message |
8. My partner offered to teach 5th grade boys std and pregnancy prevention |
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gkhouston (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:57 PM Response to Reply #8 |
22. Christ on a trailer hitch, that's stupid. |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:15 AM Response to Reply #8 |
49. I can't stand that. It's as if they were trying to make kids stupid nt |
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Zywiec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:33 PM Response to Original message |
12. Can anyone be proud of this country? :( |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:41 PM Response to Original message |
18. Sam Brownback, is that you? |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 09:23 AM Response to Reply #18 |
106. LOL |
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ingac70 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 10:59 PM Response to Original message |
23. The only person accountable in that situation.... |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-11 11:08 PM Response to Original message |
28. It baffles me that so many teens get pregnant. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:31 AM Response to Reply #28 |
56. a lot of teens can't do math |
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jwirr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:51 AM Response to Reply #28 |
64. But Odin if I use a condom that means I an willing to do this and that |
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Sen. Walter Sobchak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 03:45 AM Response to Reply #28 |
75. Because they don't really care either way |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 06:21 AM Response to Reply #75 |
78. Ghetto and trailer park = having absolutely nothing good in your life to look forward to |
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girl_interrupted (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 02:10 AM Response to Original message |
70. This is one kid everyone should be proud of |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 02:18 AM Response to Original message |
71. Like many things, it's generational. One single mom raises 3 kids, and those |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 09:52 AM Response to Reply #71 |
114. Lots of that happens in the white community too--look at Casey Anthony. nt |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:39 PM Response to Reply #114 |
177. Exactly! It's a trend with young kids, this thing about having a baby by the guy they like |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 02:36 AM Response to Reply #114 |
269. I know it does, but the numbers are overwhelming in the black community. nt |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:02 AM Response to Reply #71 |
118. This is not only a phenomenon of the black community! Turn on Jerry Springer, Dr. Phil, and any |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 02:45 AM Response to Reply #118 |
270. Of course, and the percentages have gone up across the board, but it |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 02:41 AM Response to Original message |
73. Birth control? What's that? |
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catrose (591 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 08:29 AM Response to Reply #73 |
93. Ignorance plays a big part too |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:05 AM Response to Reply #93 |
120. Are some of these women learning disabled perhaps? Learning disabilities account for a lot of |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:41 AM Response to Reply #120 |
158. From my understanding, people with learning disabilities |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:54 PM Response to Reply #93 |
201. Sounds like she is mentally handicapped and doesn't have any support. |
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catrose (591 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:39 PM Response to Reply #201 |
265. Not really any support |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 01:28 PM Response to Reply #265 |
283. UGH! Here in Minnesota folks like her would get in-home staff to help them. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 04:13 AM Response to Original message |
76. She's as messed up as the Duggars. Her kids should be taken away. |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 09:44 AM Response to Reply #76 |
109. Oh, that female from 19 Kids and Counting?? Well... |
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RZM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:17 AM Response to Reply #109 |
147. I'd bet the farm that the siblings do a lot of the work in this family as well |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:23 AM Response to Reply #147 |
149. No doubt. There's no way 1 adult can care for so many kids without help |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:45 PM Response to Reply #109 |
199. great post |
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Abin Sur (647 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:07 AM Response to Reply #76 |
121. They have been. Thankfully. |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 02:19 PM Response to Reply #76 |
207. Other than the tax breaks and free public education they get, the Duggars are paying their own way |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 07:18 AM Response to Original message |
81. Wow. What a thread |
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Vinca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 07:58 AM Response to Reply #81 |
84. You make a good point that some women have children to fill other needs. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 08:15 AM Response to Reply #84 |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 09:47 AM Response to Reply #90 |
112. Wait a minute. Would you, if you were in dire straits, had no one to help you and 0 cash, have |
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Vinca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:28 AM Response to Reply #90 |
133. FYI, my mother had 2 children and then died when I was 8 and my brother was 3. |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 02:40 PM Response to Reply #133 |
212. Huh? |
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Vinca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 06:00 PM Response to Reply #212 |
251. You don't think women with so many children they can't feed them |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 07:39 PM Response to Reply #251 |
259. You responded to my statement |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:32 AM Response to Reply #81 |
136. Newt is an evil a-hole. I suspect he's a psychopath. There are 2 types of psychopaths: |
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cherish44 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 08:09 AM Response to Original message |
89. I've seen it |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:29 AM Response to Reply #89 |
135. Betcha the parents have some serious learning disabilities and emotional problems |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 08:42 AM Response to Original message |
95. Gosh, the problem is worse than Wall Street ripping away the social safety net I betcha. |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 08:58 AM Response to Reply #95 |
97. I hear you, Starry Messenger |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 09:05 AM Response to Reply #97 |
101. +1000 |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 09:38 AM Response to Reply #95 |
108. It sure as hell isn't! But I look at having kids from a personal perspective. For me, it's bad. |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 09:52 AM Response to Reply #108 |
113. The first line of the OP refers to "chronic social problem" |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:15 AM Response to Reply #113 |
125. It applies. Women, more so than men, need to realize they will always be more |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:26 AM Response to Reply #125 |
131. I come from a very poor and large Irish family. |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:33 AM Response to Reply #131 |
137. Well, me too. I'm glad I exist, and I never fail to thank my parents for it, since it's so |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 07:11 PM Response to Reply #113 |
256. Awesome as always! |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 07:39 PM Response to Reply #256 |
260. *blush* |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 07:41 PM Response to Reply #260 |
261. 80 degree weather in December messes with our minds |
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RZM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:00 AM Response to Reply #95 |
117. People can have opinions on more than one matter |
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LooseWilly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:49 AM Response to Reply #117 |
161. People can also disingenuously pretend that they aren't saying what they are really saying... |
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RZM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:59 AM Response to Reply #161 |
167. A few things |
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LooseWilly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:35 PM Response to Reply #167 |
196. Why sir, I never said I was talking about *you*... |
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RZM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 03:30 PM Response to Reply #196 |
219. What a crock |
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LooseWilly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 04:14 PM Response to Reply #219 |
230. "This woman" is not the point of the OP, as I pointed out... but you continue to pretend otherwise |
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RZM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 04:26 PM Response to Reply #230 |
233. I understand you're too invested now to back down |
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LooseWilly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 05:08 PM Response to Reply #233 |
239. So now you're a mind reader? I'm not too invested to back down... I'm just not convinced. |
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RZM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 05:53 PM Response to Reply #239 |
249. You just can't give up on this bullshit comparison, can you? |
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LooseWilly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 07:20 PM Response to Reply #249 |
257. My, someone's defensive about being judged as he judges others... |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 04:39 PM Response to Reply #219 |
236. Welcome to the 'Usernames that Confuse the Easily Confused" Club |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 05:21 PM Response to Reply #236 |
242. I think it's more "Welcome to the Argument |
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RZM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 06:00 PM Response to Reply #242 |
252. I think it's safe to assume this women knows that sex produces children |
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RZM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 06:04 PM Response to Reply #236 |
253. LOL. You must mean this: |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 07:04 PM Response to Reply #253 |
255. Yup. Among others. I've been REP longer though. |
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RZM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 09:29 PM Response to Reply #255 |
263. Thanks for that :) |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 05:04 PM Response to Reply #117 |
238. The Fox link is a repost from Breitbart. Who is a documented racist. |
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RZM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 04:19 AM Response to Reply #238 |
272. The story originated with the local NBC affiliate in Tampa, Fla. |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 08:21 AM Response to Reply #272 |
274. Progressives care. |
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RZM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 10:29 AM Response to Reply #274 |
275. I don't understand |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 10:34 AM Response to Reply #275 |
276. You were the one who had a problem with my comment on the OP. |
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RZM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 10:51 AM Response to Reply #276 |
277. Talking about this story on DU puts you in DU's company, not theirs |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 10:58 AM Response to Reply #277 |
278. This sort of thing seems confusing to you. |
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RZM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 11:27 AM Response to Reply #278 |
281. I don't think that's in the spirit of the chart you posted yesterday n/t |
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Abin Sur (647 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:05 AM Response to Original message |
119. How about holding the mother in question accountable? |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:21 AM Response to Reply #119 |
129. Two things here... |
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Throd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:18 AM Response to Reply #129 |
148. Learning disabilities or run-of-the-mill-dumbfuck? |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:24 AM Response to Reply #148 |
150. Learning disabilities. What you might call, 'dumbfuck' is often learning disabilities |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 10:48 AM Response to Reply #119 |
140. they don't even hold people who start illegal wars accountable |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:08 AM Response to Reply #140 |
145. Definitely not. If they're going to do that, first they have to hang Repukes by their feet |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 01:01 PM Response to Reply #119 |
185. Having watched it now, I can see her point a bit better. |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 07:21 PM Response to Reply #185 |
258. That's a big cause of poverty |
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w8liftinglady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 11:05 AM Response to Original message |
144. I also need to add...only married women under 18 qualify (in Texas) |
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Aerows (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 12:58 PM Response to Original message |
184. Abstinence |
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Youth Uprising (294 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 02:13 PM Response to Original message |
205. I saw this trending on YouTube |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 02:50 PM Response to Reply #205 |
215. We have some "forced sterilization" types here, too |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 04:22 PM Response to Reply #205 |
231. Not surprised at all. |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 02:18 PM Response to Original message |
206. Having that many kids MIGHT have something to do with choices the woman has made |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 03:45 PM Response to Reply #206 |
223. I imagine the consequences are predicated upon many factors |
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SteveM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 04:12 PM Response to Original message |
229. Of course, we have that urban legend from Groucho Marx... |
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bermudat (985 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 05:34 PM Response to Original message |
245. a foxnews link, really? |
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VenusRising (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-11 08:06 PM Response to Reply #245 |
262. Not to mention the link under the Fox video. |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 01:14 AM Response to Original message |
268. No one should be homeless -- and I'm sure Obama will be saying that any minute now .... !!! |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 11:22 AM Response to Original message |
280. That case is unusual |
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JNelson6563 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-03-11 12:02 PM Response to Original message |
282. We all need each other! |
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