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Pryderi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:06 PM Original message |
Poll question: Does what Rep. Anthony Weiner did constitute cheating on his wife? |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:09 PM Response to Original message |
1. That depends on what their understanding was. |
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Tx4obama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:12 PM Response to Original message |
2. There was no physical contact and no meetings face to face, so NO. n/t |
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Cid_B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:13 PM Response to Reply #2 |
3. Ha.... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:15 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. hey, i know i couldnt get away with it with hubby.... nt |
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JoePhilly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 08:43 PM Response to Reply #5 |
90. Is masturbating cheating? |
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Cid_B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 08:45 PM Response to Reply #90 |
91. There is a difference and it is fairly obvious... |
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JoePhilly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-09-11 06:59 AM Response to Reply #91 |
100. SO carry that thought to the next logical point. |
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Cid_B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-09-11 07:57 AM Response to Reply #100 |
101. Didn't say it was the exact same thing... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-09-11 08:09 AM Response to Reply #100 |
103. as we have all said, everyone is individual. personally, i dont want |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 08:47 PM Response to Reply #90 |
92. i think it is a foreplay to cheating, personally. why i said.... wouldnt fly with hubby. we work |
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lbrtbell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:19 PM Response to Reply #2 |
10. Cybersex is also cheating |
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unapatriciated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:27 PM Response to Reply #10 |
77. I agree and it is just as damaging to a relationship as physical cheating |
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MissMarple (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:15 PM Response to Original message |
4. Physically or virtually, it's pretty much the same. So, yes. |
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Tx4obama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:19 PM Response to Reply #4 |
9. Virtual reality is NOT 'reality'. It's all in the mind. |
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lbrtbell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:20 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. We need to say no to the excuse-makers |
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TheKentuckian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:25 PM Response to Reply #12 |
19. Why do you have "expectations" regarding other people's relationships? |
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masmdu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:50 PM Response to Reply #12 |
47. Unless she also gets off on having him share the pix |
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Raine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:49 PM Response to Reply #9 |
46. Disagree ... there is a REAL PERSON on the other end |
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emilyg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 07:06 PM Response to Reply #4 |
81. Yes. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:16 PM Response to Original message |
6. Cheating in the same sense as having a credit card using your work address. |
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George Wythe (93 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:17 PM Response to Original message |
7. Betrayal is cheating... |
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Pryderi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:26 PM Response to Reply #7 |
21. +1 |
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thewiseguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:18 PM Response to Original message |
8. 8 people voted no? Really? |
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William769 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:21 PM Response to Reply #8 |
13. Define the word cheat? |
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thewiseguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:22 PM Response to Reply #13 |
15. So it is ok to have phone sex and send pictures of your penis to other women when you are married? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:24 PM Response to Reply #15 |
17. phone sex, cyber sex, oral sex, emotional connection all ok, just dont put A into B |
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thewiseguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:26 PM Response to Reply #17 |
20. That is some meaningful relationship right there |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:31 PM Response to Reply #17 |
28. Is viewing porn cheating? n/t |
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William769 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:27 PM Response to Reply #15 |
24. Adultery? |
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masmdu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:51 PM Response to Reply #15 |
48. Yes, it's ok if both partners agree to it. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:53 PM Response to Reply #48 |
49. of course it is ok if both agree.... geeez. nt |
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masmdu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:57 PM Response to Reply #49 |
51. My point being that we don't have any idea whether she agreed to it or not , so why call it cheating |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:04 PM Response to Reply #51 |
57. his statement says, he promised he would stop before marrying, and he is sorry he hurt her now |
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masmdu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:12 PM Response to Reply #57 |
65. Sounds like you are correct ,then. It would be her call as to whether it is cheating or not |
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masmdu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:14 PM Response to Reply #65 |
67. I just object to the idea that under ANY circumstane sexting is cheating |
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George Wythe (93 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:06 PM Response to Reply #51 |
59. Tell me now, does Huma look like the type of woman who would approve |
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masmdu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:09 PM Response to Reply #59 |
62. Books and covers...Always hard to tell...Did Weiner look like he'd be taking pix of his cock? |
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Tx4obama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:15 PM Response to Reply #59 |
68. You can't tell how kinky women are by just looking at them. |
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George Wythe (93 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:54 PM Response to Reply #68 |
80. I am well aware of that. However, if you are suggesting that a serious professional woman |
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masmdu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 09:11 PM Response to Reply #80 |
94. If you are suggesting that a serious professional woman who is expecting her first child is not |
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lbrtbell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:21 PM Response to Reply #8 |
14. Now it's up to 11 |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:22 PM Response to Reply #14 |
16. betcha if their spouses did this, put this time into this, hooked up on the phone, we would hear a |
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Tx4obama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:27 PM Response to Reply #16 |
23. With that logic then all the men that spend 'time' in the bathroom with a magazine |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:32 PM Response to Reply #23 |
29. not even... nt |
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thewiseguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:33 PM Response to Reply #23 |
31. LOL, so watching porn is the same as having phone sex? |
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Tx4obama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:38 PM Response to Reply #31 |
33. Yes they married a yeara ago and are having a baby |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:48 PM Response to Reply #33 |
44. private life doesnt go on the net, ergo, not private. he said promised he would stop BEFORE they |
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Tx4obama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:11 PM Response to Reply #44 |
64. Please post a link with a quote that says he 'promised he would stop' |
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TheKentuckian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:30 PM Response to Reply #16 |
27. That is for those in the relationship to define and to decide how they want to handle it. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:33 PM Response to Reply #27 |
30. dont approve, wouldnt want it done to your, yet nonsense. |
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Raine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:02 PM Response to Reply #27 |
55. I had to deal with it too and it was this type |
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LadyHawkAZ (800 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:38 PM Response to Reply #16 |
34. You'd be wrong |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:49 PM Response to Reply #34 |
45. yes... i understand. sell yourself, too. your right. big thumbs up. |
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LadyHawkAZ (800 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:57 PM Response to Reply #45 |
52. I love the smell of tolerance in the morning |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:05 PM Response to Reply #52 |
58. not only tolerance, yours to do. truly |
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LadyHawkAZ (800 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:08 PM Response to Reply #58 |
60. If I thought you genuinely believed any of that |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:18 PM Response to Reply #60 |
72. i do. absolutely. and you will never hear me say otherwise. if you do |
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LadyHawkAZ (800 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:24 PM Response to Reply #72 |
74. No |
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masmdu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:03 PM Response to Reply #16 |
56. You'd lose that bet as often as not |
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krabigirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:15 PM Response to Reply #8 |
70. I am laughing that this is still even an issue. |
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winston65 (45 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 07:50 PM Response to Reply #8 |
86. yes, I did vote no because I do not |
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TheKentuckian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:20 PM Response to Original message |
11. No and if he did I don't care because he isn't my mate |
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DCBob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:25 PM Response to Original message |
18. My wife would certainly think so.. |
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FLPanhandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:26 PM Response to Reply #18 |
22. So would my wife. |
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DevonRex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:47 PM Response to Reply #18 |
41. I bet a lot of wives have now made it very clear that they |
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Pryderi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:28 PM Response to Original message |
25. If my wife sent nude pix of herself to other men, I would feel cheated on. |
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tnlefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:29 PM Response to Original message |
26. Isn't that for his wife to determine? |
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Pryderi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:40 PM Response to Reply #26 |
35. And if your spouse sent nude pix to others? Don't you have an opinion? |
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masmdu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:46 PM Response to Reply #35 |
40. My opinion (even though you didn't ask ME) is that IF she got off on what he was up to, then "No" |
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tnlefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:15 PM Response to Reply #35 |
69. And if he did, it would be for me to determine, not you nor anyone else. |
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JohnnyLib2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:38 PM Response to Original message |
32. Not successfully? |
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bainz (278 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:41 PM Response to Original message |
36. My wife thought I was cheating |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:42 PM Response to Original message |
37. No, not in my book. But anyway, that's for his wife to decide, isn't it? |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:42 PM Response to Original message |
38. If she thinks it was cheating, then it was. Simple as that. n/t |
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masmdu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:44 PM Response to Original message |
39. No, not necessarily. The sexting may have been a part of their relationship |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:48 PM Response to Original message |
42. Ask his wife. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:48 PM Response to Original message |
43. Where is the "none of my business" option? |
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Philippine expat (412 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:54 PM Response to Original message |
50. Emotionally |
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KarenS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:58 PM Response to Original message |
53. If he didn't think it was cheating, then why lie?? n/t |
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Tommy_Carcetti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 05:59 PM Response to Original message |
54. Let me ask my good friend Tommy Lee Jones... |
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6000eliot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:08 PM Response to Original message |
61. There wasn't a choice for "It's none of our goddamned business." |
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dkf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:11 PM Response to Original message |
63. I'm not sure but he certainly humiliated her. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 07:15 PM Response to Reply #63 |
82. Yep. Women really like that. So I'm sure they had this deal. |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:14 PM Response to Original message |
66. If one won't do something like this with full knowledge and consent of the spouse |
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KamaAina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:15 PM Response to Original message |
71. I dunno. |
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MountainLaurel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:22 PM Response to Original message |
73. Depends on how they and they alone define cheating n/t |
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TroglodyteScholar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:25 PM Response to Original message |
75. Was he cheating? No. Was he acting like an immature, selfish, moronic teenager? Yes. n/t |
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hack89 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:26 PM Response to Original message |
76. Yes. nt |
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gkhouston (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:40 PM Response to Original message |
78. The only opinion that matters is his wife's, so why ask us? n/t |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 06:45 PM Response to Original message |
79. Only cheating is cheating, not imaginary cheating. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 07:17 PM Response to Reply #79 |
83. Well, if your spouse did it what would you think? |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 08:17 PM Response to Reply #83 |
88. She was crazy. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 07:34 PM Response to Original message |
84. Dishonest and creepy? Sure. Cheating? No. |
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scarletwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 07:35 PM Response to Original message |
85. The thing about marriage - it generally means you take yourself out of the hookup market. |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 07:53 PM Response to Original message |
87. Intent is Always Part of The Punishment |
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Johonny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 08:30 PM Response to Original message |
89. I do not know |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 08:52 PM Response to Original message |
93. Not in my opinion. |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 09:12 PM Response to Original message |
95. Has anyone asked the wife? |
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Hamlette (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 09:15 PM Response to Original message |
96. if you said "yes", how to you classify cat calls or men who whistle at women? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 09:21 PM Response to Reply #96 |
97. asses... just sayin. nt |
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JackRiddler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-08-11 09:30 PM Response to Original message |
98. This poll constitutes a kind of harrassment of his wife, I'd say. |
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JackRiddler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-09-11 06:50 AM Response to Reply #98 |
99. What's this? Did I kill this thread? I'd better kick it or people might think about Japan... |
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lynne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-09-11 08:00 AM Response to Original message |
102. YES, definitely cheating. - |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-09-11 08:09 AM Response to Original message |
104. The only person whose answer to that question matters is his wife |
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