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Epiphany4z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 01:52 PM Original message |
I am angry but not sure how I want to deal with this parenting issue of sorts |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 01:54 PM Response to Original message |
1. yeah, late term abortion is not an OK conversation to have with another persons 10 year old child |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 01:55 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. +1000 |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:31 PM Response to Reply #1 |
53. Anti-choicers target children for exactly that reason |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:45 PM Response to Reply #1 |
62. Absolutely, none of this should be going on -- it's bullying of a child ... brainwashing ... |
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Why Syzygy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 01:55 PM Response to Original message |
2. Why do you want your son to be able to play |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 01:55 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. Don't punish the kids because of the parents, imo |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 01:56 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. indeed |
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Auggie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 01:56 PM Response to Reply #2 |
9. Find the kid a new friend. |
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Epiphany4z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 01:58 PM Response to Reply #2 |
10. The kid is fine and I don't want my son to feel punished |
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Realityhack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:16 PM Response to Reply #10 |
37. You are 100% correct on this point. n/t |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:21 PM Response to Reply #10 |
41. There's another piece to this and that is helping your kid recognize |
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Auggie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:21 PM Response to Reply #10 |
42. You're the boss |
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peace frog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:22 PM Response to Reply #10 |
44. Allow the friend |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 05:25 PM Response to Reply #44 |
74. +1 |
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Why Syzygy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 03:23 PM Response to Reply #10 |
68. What if that man |
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damntexdem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 01:56 PM Response to Original message |
5. This is serious enough that you might seek a court order ... |
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Journeyman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:06 PM Response to Reply #5 |
27. A court order -- $1200 to $2200 with an attorney, couple of hundred DYI. . . |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 05:38 PM Response to Reply #5 |
79. Yes - but you shouldn't punish the kids for hanging out with each other |
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Happyhippychick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 01:56 PM Response to Original message |
7. You handled it well. Kudos to your son for talking to you about it. As much as it would be great |
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Dogtown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:23 PM Response to Reply #7 |
45. I agree completely, Hhc! |
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donco6 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:35 PM Response to Reply #7 |
57. +1 here. |
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HopeHoops (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 01:56 PM Response to Original message |
8. We've had situations like this. |
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Epiphany4z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:02 PM Response to Reply #8 |
15. oh my son is not going over the house anymore |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:05 PM Response to Reply #15 |
23. I know you wouldn't want to do it, but one thing, if someone did do that |
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HopeHoops (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 05:13 PM Response to Reply #15 |
73. Oh no - not birth control. Discuss the benefits of marijuana! |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 11:05 PM Response to Reply #15 |
83. I posted at the bottom before reading the responses to your thread. |
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haroldweeks (24 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 01:59 PM Response to Original message |
11. It might not be the worst thing |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:03 PM Response to Reply #11 |
17. Honestly, I can't think of anything much more vulgar and obscene than what the OP outlined.. |
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Epiphany4z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:06 PM Response to Reply #17 |
28. yep...I am truly in shock |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 11:07 PM Response to Reply #11 |
84. Obvious troll is... |
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abelenkpe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 01:59 PM Response to Original message |
12. you are a better person than me |
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Epiphany4z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:19 PM Response to Reply #12 |
38. you know I never thought I had to |
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no_hypocrisy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:00 PM Response to Original message |
13. Have the friend only visit your kid at your house. |
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Epiphany4z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:05 PM Response to Reply #13 |
21. That is what we are doing |
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Mz Pip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:01 PM Response to Original message |
14. It seems like you've |
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Epiphany4z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:08 PM Response to Reply #14 |
30. yep..one of his boys he was lecturing along with my son |
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mike_c (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:03 PM Response to Original message |
16. you're probably not going to appreciate this advice.... |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:06 PM Response to Reply #16 |
26. The OP isn't preventing her child from playing with his friend. |
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mike_c (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:11 PM Response to Reply #26 |
33. I understand.... |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:19 PM Response to Reply #33 |
39. Religious differences is one thing. Graphic descriptions of "baby killing" is another. |
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Realityhack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:25 PM Response to Reply #33 |
47. Um... that IS what the OP did until... |
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John Q. Citizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:33 PM Response to Reply #33 |
54. You are missing the point, which is the abusive behavior of the other dad toward her son. |
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Realityhack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:39 PM Response to Reply #33 |
59. An analogy... |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:42 PM Response to Reply #16 |
61. I think, so long as his intolerance |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:51 PM Response to Reply #16 |
64. Disagree with this heartily . . . this is bullying, brainwashing of a child . . . |
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Why Syzygy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 03:19 PM Response to Reply #16 |
67. I think it is a big red flag |
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gateley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:04 PM Response to Original message |
18. I think you're handling it perfectly. If you were to approach the kid's |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:04 PM Response to Original message |
19. You're handling it well. Your ten year old's world is widening, |
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Realityhack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:05 PM Response to Reply #19 |
24. +1 n/t |
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marlakay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:04 PM Response to Original message |
20. I am sorry for your son |
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Epiphany4z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:14 PM Response to Reply #20 |
35. Oh I did to |
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Realityhack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:05 PM Response to Original message |
22. You handled it fine already. |
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Epiphany4z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:21 PM Response to Reply #22 |
43. Ya I think that is how it is going stand |
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Realityhack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:31 PM Response to Reply #43 |
52. Oh definately. |
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ginnyinWI (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:05 PM Response to Original message |
25. it is these same people who won't let Obama speak to schoolchildren. |
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Beer Snob-50 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:07 PM Response to Original message |
29. I think you handled this situation well. |
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timtom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:21 PM Response to Reply #29 |
40. Excellent suggestion. |
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Beer Snob-50 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:34 PM Response to Reply #40 |
55. I would agree with that. |
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SPedigrees (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:08 PM Response to Original message |
31. I think you handled this beautifully. |
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StopTheNeoCons (608 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:09 PM Response to Original message |
32. You need to remove your child from ANY contact with this nutcase, ditch the friend..eom |
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kitkat65 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:13 PM Response to Original message |
34. Sounds like you're taking a good approach to it |
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snagglepuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:24 PM Response to Reply #34 |
46. +1 |
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snake in the grass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:15 PM Response to Original message |
36. The insanity is wide spread. |
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Fuzz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:28 PM Response to Original message |
48. What the fuck is wrong with people? Seriously? |
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Epiphany4z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:30 PM Response to Reply #48 |
51. we have situations and friends like that also |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:28 PM Response to Original message |
49. First.. a TEN YEAR OLD should not be preached to by the parent of ANY friend |
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enough (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:30 PM Response to Original message |
50. The graphic and violent nature of what he's been saying to your son takes this |
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Epiphany4z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:35 PM Response to Reply #50 |
58. Thanks for all great replies |
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Realityhack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:50 PM Response to Reply #58 |
63. He did. And he was completely in the wrong to do so. n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:35 PM Response to Original message |
56. i had to talk to both my boys about abortion before they were ready to hear or understand |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 02:40 PM Response to Original message |
60. I think you made the right decision |
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get the red out (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 03:16 PM Response to Original message |
65. They think they are moral? |
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krabigirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 05:29 PM Response to Reply #65 |
76. Yep. That Dad is insane. |
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newtothegame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 03:16 PM Response to Original message |
66. Late-term abortion makes me sick to my stomach just thinking about it. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 05:26 PM Response to Reply #66 |
75. It's not appropriate to talk to kids about. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 11:29 PM Response to Reply #66 |
86. Deleted message |
Mopar151 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 11:40 PM Response to Reply #66 |
87. That's why George Tiller is a hero. |
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struggle4progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 03:36 PM Response to Original message |
69. I grew up in a neighborbood of conservative whackadoodles. My parents taught me to think |
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surrealAmerican (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 04:18 PM Response to Original message |
70. You did the right thing. |
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Vinca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 04:35 PM Response to Original message |
71. IMHO, what the kid's father did was child abuse. |
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frogmarch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 04:49 PM Response to Original message |
72. I think you did the right thing in |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 05:32 PM Response to Original message |
77. IMHO, the majority of hardcore anti-choicers are creepy pervs. |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 05:37 PM Response to Original message |
78. Parenthood is so hard, and crap like this must make it nigh impossible. |
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BlancheSplanchnik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
80. I think you made an excellent decision. also, something no one here has mentioned: |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 10:56 PM Response to Original message |
81. Tell that asshole nicely you'd like him to respect boundaries. n/t |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 11:00 PM Response to Original message |
82. Not ONLY was it okay for him to have that conversation with your child... |
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NoSheep (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 11:10 PM Response to Original message |
85. I immediately thought I would do what you are doing (just visit at your house) AND |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-26-09 11:40 PM Response to Original message |
88. You should stop your child's access to that home or that father. |
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