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faceit (95 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 11:38 AM Original message |
So, is internet online sex cheating? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 12:12 PM Response to Original message |
1. i wouldnt do it to hubby. he wouldnt do it to me. neither of us would |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 12:16 PM Response to Original message |
2. If it is something you have to keep a secret from SO, then yes it's cheating. |
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faceit (95 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 12:39 PM Response to Reply #2 |
8. That's what I thought - |
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Nuclear Unicorn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 02:22 PM Response to Reply #2 |
18. Please don't make me choose between the BF and... |
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OmahaBlueDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 09:15 PM Response to Reply #2 |
38. By that definition... |
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cwydro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 12:17 PM Response to Original message |
3. HELL to the yes! |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 12:21 PM Response to Original message |
4. Sure. |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 12:23 PM Response to Original message |
5. yes. |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 12:25 PM Response to Original message |
6. Ultimately, your friend will have to decide for herself. |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 12:30 PM Response to Original message |
7. So, there's an iFuck computer peripheral device? |
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faceit (95 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 12:40 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. Web cams & mutual masturbation. |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 12:43 PM Response to Original message |
10. Well even if it isn't |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 01:16 PM Response to Original message |
11. Did he pay for it? |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 01:32 PM Response to Reply #11 |
14. I'm curious. |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 01:51 PM Response to Reply #14 |
16. We have two children to support. |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 01:21 PM Response to Original message |
12. If a member of a committed relationship thinks it is, yes. n/t |
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Tailormyst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 01:29 PM Response to Original message |
13. Yes it is |
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faceit (95 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 05:37 PM Response to Reply #13 |
22. Well, it seems unanimous. Cheating it is... |
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nickinSTL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:37 PM Response to Reply #22 |
72. looking at Playboy is cheating? |
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Orrex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 10:20 PM Response to Reply #72 |
74. Actually, even *typing* Playboy is cheating. |
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nickinSTL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 12:40 PM Response to Reply #74 |
75. and if my wife is ok with me looking at porn? |
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Orrex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:14 PM Response to Reply #75 |
80. Especially then. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:46 PM Response to Reply #80 |
81. or |
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nickinSTL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:18 PM Response to Reply #81 |
82. lol. Have you met my wife? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:23 PM Response to Reply #82 |
83. oh lordy..... this was funny. |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 01:38 PM Response to Original message |
15. If you think it would bother the other person in your relationship, then yes, it is cheating |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 01:59 PM Response to Original message |
17. i can see both sides of this argument. |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 02:23 PM Response to Original message |
19. It might be cheating, but I still don't consider it sex. |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 03:48 PM Response to Original message |
20. It involved a lie, and another person-- it's cheating. |
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Orrex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
21. Not if he keeps his receipts and can itemize it as a deduction |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 05:38 PM Response to Reply #21 |
23. like a bj isnt really cheating, it isnt intercourse you know, lol. nt |
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hippywife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 05:56 PM Response to Original message |
24. Fuck yes! n/t |
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TreasonousBastard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 06:03 PM Response to Original message |
25. He seems to have thought it wouldn't bother her, so... |
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faceit (95 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 01:24 PM Response to Reply #25 |
51. He hid it from her and lied when confronted going on chats |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 06:47 PM Response to Original message |
26. Here's how to determine it: If he doesn't mind his wife doing likewise. |
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Lucian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 06:55 PM Response to Original message |
27. I'm going to go against the consensus and say no, it isn't. |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 07:01 PM Response to Original message |
28. I may be revealing some geometric ignorance here, but how does one have online sex? |
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Pryderi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 07:04 PM Response to Original message |
29. Yes, it is. |
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Pryderi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 07:06 PM Response to Original message |
30. How about lap dances at strip clubs? |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 08:11 PM Response to Reply #30 |
35. Yup. |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 07:13 PM Response to Original message |
31. No penetration? Not cheating. |
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cwydro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 04:22 AM Response to Reply #31 |
43. Is that you Bill? |
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faceit (95 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 01:29 PM Response to Reply #43 |
52. Funny... |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 03:41 PM Response to Reply #43 |
63. LOL! |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:38 PM Response to Reply #31 |
73. Nope. |
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Wapsie B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 07:13 PM Response to Original message |
32. How about fantasizing about someone else while you're having sex with your s.o.? |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 07:17 PM Response to Original message |
33. I'm not into setting rules for other people's relationships. |
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Pryderi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 07:23 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. Whatever is comfortable for both parties. If one spouse feels uncomfortable about an activity, then |
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Dr Morbius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 08:16 PM Response to Original message |
36. If I did it, my wife would kick my ass. That makes it cheating. (nt) |
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OmahaBlueDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 09:07 PM Response to Original message |
37. Cheating = 2 or more people + physical contact + ..... |
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faceit (95 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 01:32 PM Response to Reply #37 |
53. It is a slippery slope. |
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Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 10:46 PM Response to Original message |
39. No. |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-01-10 11:45 PM Response to Original message |
40. Yep, cheating. |
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Pushed To The Left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 12:18 AM Response to Original message |
41. If another person was involved, I would put it in the cheating category, sort of like phone sex |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 12:43 AM Response to Original message |
42. Yes. Duh. |
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Blasphemer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 04:40 AM Response to Original message |
44. It depends... in this case, I would say no |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 07:18 AM Response to Original message |
45. Not even remotely... |
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Macoy (102 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 08:57 AM Response to Reply #45 |
46. YES it is cheating! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 08:59 AM Response to Reply #46 |
47. . |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:01 AM Response to Reply #46 |
48. So sorry. |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 08:22 PM Response to Reply #46 |
69. I'm sorry for your suffering... |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 01:39 PM Response to Reply #45 |
54. Any situation |
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faceit (95 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 01:41 PM Response to Reply #45 |
55. The wife is creepy? That is way off base. |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 02:41 PM Response to Reply #45 |
58. A husband hiring a prostitute without the knowledge of his wife is therefore not cheating? |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 06:39 PM Response to Reply #58 |
67. it says, requires an emotional context if not a physical one |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 02:24 PM Response to Reply #67 |
79. Seems to me that the statement implies either/or... |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 06:39 PM Response to Reply #58 |
68. it says, requires an emotional context if not a physical one |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:07 AM Response to Original message |
49. This thread misses the damn point by a mile ... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:09 AM Response to Reply #49 |
50. you are right. i couldnt call it cheating. i could say neither of us would do it, or want it done |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 01:58 PM Response to Original message |
56. Why in the world would someone tell their co-workers about this? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 02:39 PM Response to Reply #56 |
57. clearing throat. an exact example of difference between male and female |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 02:56 PM Response to Reply #57 |
59. Not necessarily a male / female thing ... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 03:05 PM Response to Reply #59 |
61. lol. it is said often. but again |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 03:02 PM Response to Reply #57 |
60. I think it is a cultural more than a male/female thing |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 03:11 PM Response to Reply #60 |
62. broad brush or generalization works as long as we realize we are talk tend to, not all people |
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faceit (95 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 12:50 PM Response to Reply #62 |
77. Little respect for her husband? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 12:57 PM Response to Reply #77 |
78. you said it was a hot office topic. that implied everyone was talking about it |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 04:45 PM Response to Reply #56 |
64. If a person wants to throw away his or her own privacy... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 04:54 PM Response to Reply #64 |
65. ya. and what is going to happen when he is forced going to her christmas party.... knowing no one |
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faceit (95 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 12:47 PM Response to Reply #64 |
76. There are only two people here beside her and we are long time friends |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 05:00 PM Response to Original message |
66. depends on your marital contract |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:30 PM Response to Original message |
70. If someone hides it and it upsets the spouse...YES |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-02-10 09:37 PM Response to Original message |
71. If you're hiding it/lying then you're cheating. |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:51 PM Response to Original message |
84. Yes it is, but of the unsatisfying type |
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