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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 12:13 PM Original message |
Do you have a problem with an SO / potential SO having lots of friends of the opposite sex? |
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taterguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 12:14 PM Response to Original message |
1. Not a bit |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 12:15 PM Response to Original message |
2. Oh hell no. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 12:26 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. I don't recall ever hearing a woman say anything like that... |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 12:37 PM Response to Reply #4 |
14. One of my best friends (male).... |
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mcctatas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 12:20 PM Response to Original message |
3. Probably one of the reasons he is the "soon to be ex" |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 12:26 PM Response to Original message |
5. hells no! |
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Symarip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 12:28 PM Response to Original message |
6. I'm 50/50 |
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mcctatas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 12:31 PM Response to Reply #6 |
7. But you aren't bitter... |
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Symarip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 12:33 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. Not one bit :) |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 12:33 PM Response to Reply #6 |
10. Exactly... I've had that mutual attraction thing with friends before... |
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Symarip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 12:35 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. Well... |
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Javaman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 12:31 PM Response to Original message |
8. Not at all. And furthermore, I find jealousy extraordinarily boorish. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 12:34 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. Oh I'm *very* jealous. |
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insanity (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 12:37 PM Response to Original message |
13. As with everything, it depends on circumstances |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 12:44 PM Response to Reply #13 |
15. I think it's just human nature. |
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MrCoffee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 12:45 PM Response to Original message |
16. The biggest fight MrsCoffee and I ever had was over my friendship with a girl |
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AirmensMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 12:53 PM Response to Original message |
17. I can only say |
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NYC_SKP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
18. Nope, My next SO might be among them!!! |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 01:20 PM Response to Original message |
19. Not at all. I'd be suspect if she didn't have any male friends. |
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GOPisEvil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 01:22 PM Response to Original message |
20. Not a problem at all for me. |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 01:23 PM Response to Original message |
21. i've always had male friends... and my husband has female friends |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 02:13 PM Response to Reply #21 |
30. "I think people simply need friends" |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 02:20 PM Response to Reply #30 |
33. well, it's more fun to drink good beer with other folks, right? |
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enigmatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 01:31 PM Response to Original message |
22. no n/t |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 02:02 PM Response to Original message |
23. I didn't used to, until Monday evening when he told me he fell in love with one |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 02:03 PM Response to Reply #23 |
24. Aww, |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 02:06 PM Response to Reply #23 |
26. Ah geez... I'm sorry... |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 02:16 PM Response to Reply #23 |
31. That sucks. On the bright side, if he told you that means he probably doesn't have the nerve to... |
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City of Mills (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 03:57 PM Response to Reply #23 |
37. I'm sorry :( |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 02:06 PM Response to Original message |
25. No, it wouldn't upset me |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 02:08 PM Response to Original message |
27. I'm not the jealous type |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 02:11 PM Response to Original message |
28. no. i dont. that guy is insecure and likes to pretend that others are too. nt |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 02:12 PM Response to Original message |
29. If she's fucking them, yeah. |
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SidneyCarton (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 02:19 PM Response to Original message |
32. Mrs. Carton had quite a few friends of the opp. sex when we got married |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 02:28 PM Response to Original message |
34. Nope, I think that kind of thing is insecure bullshit. |
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Wapsie B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 03:00 PM Response to Original message |
35. Lots of friends of the opposite sex? Not at all. |
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City of Mills (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 03:55 PM Response to Original message |
36. I didn't mind until the wife slept with one of them |
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LadyoftheRabbits (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 03:58 PM Response to Original message |
38. I don't think it's a problem |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 05:21 PM Response to Original message |
39. No. |
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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 05:26 PM Response to Original message |
40. Same here, although I know it can get touchy |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 05:26 PM Response to Original message |
41. Honestly, I think the idea of controlling who someone is friends with is just creepy |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 05:27 PM Response to Original message |
42. in most circumstances, no problem at all |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 05:29 PM Response to Original message |
43. If she's with me, she's with me. |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-18-08 05:40 PM Response to Original message |
44. Nope, doesn't bother me. |
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