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woolldog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 07:37 PM Original message |
Why is using the "b-word" Sexist? |
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Ptah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 07:40 PM Response to Original message |
1. I vote no |
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miss_american_pie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 07:41 PM Response to Original message |
2. ... |
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khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 07:44 PM Response to Original message |
3. It's really not anymore |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 09:53 PM Response to Reply #3 |
10. well, it's used for gay men |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 10:00 PM Response to Reply #3 |
11. er...well... yeah. It's used for men - to demean them by saying they are like a woman. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 02:24 PM Response to Reply #11 |
61. yeah that's what i meant to say, iris |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 02:27 PM Response to Reply #61 |
65. funny, I thought you said it quite well! |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 10:03 PM Response to Reply #3 |
12. I'm sorry, I have to very strongly disagree. |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 10:05 PM Response to Reply #12 |
15. "It is used to belittle any sign of assertiveness in a woman" |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 10:32 PM Response to Reply #15 |
18. That's an important point. |
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khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 10:35 PM Response to Reply #3 |
19. Yeah it's still used that way |
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woolldog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 07:50 PM Response to Original message |
4. lol |
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Ptah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 07:54 PM Response to Reply #4 |
5. Then you win. Discussion over. |
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woolldog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 08:00 PM Response to Reply #5 |
6. I don't want to win. |
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Ptah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 08:03 PM Response to Reply #6 |
7. I was trying to say, that dead horse beating is old. |
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woolldog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 08:06 PM Response to Reply #7 |
8. if this has been discussed before, I haven't seen it. |
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Ptah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 10:09 PM Response to Reply #6 |
17. You won big time. |
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woolldog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 01:14 PM Response to Reply #17 |
50. I dunno about that. |
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MonkeyFunk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 08:13 PM Response to Original message |
9. As another DUer poignantly pointed out awhile ago |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 10:07 PM Response to Reply #9 |
16. It's not just silly to deny that it's sexist, it think it's naive. |
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MonkeyFunk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 07:34 AM Response to Reply #16 |
25. Of course it's naive. |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 05:31 PM Response to Reply #25 |
82. so sad to me |
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woolldog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 06:48 PM Response to Reply #25 |
93. You're not a very good mind reader. |
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spindrifter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 10:05 PM Response to Original message |
13. Sadly, I saw a |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 05:55 AM Response to Reply #13 |
24. I respectfully disagree |
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BarenakedLady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 07:54 AM Response to Reply #24 |
28. Exactly |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 08:30 AM Response to Reply #28 |
34. Well, a lot of blacks are moving away from calling themselves niggers. |
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BarenakedLady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 08:31 AM Response to Reply #34 |
35. I was just explaining the phenomenon |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 08:34 AM Response to Reply #35 |
37. It's cool, I wasn't specifically addressing you, although I can see where it |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 08:22 AM Response to Reply #24 |
32. That reminds me of a T-shirt I saw once that said: |
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spindrifter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 10:05 PM Response to Original message |
14. duplicate--deleted |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 11:10 PM Response to Original message |
20. It is because that's the way it feels to a woman |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 02:23 PM Response to Reply #20 |
59. nicely put. |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 02:52 PM Response to Reply #20 |
68. That's it. |
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IndianaJones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-21-08 11:16 PM Response to Original message |
21. why is using the n-word racist? seriously. nt. |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 08:34 AM Response to Reply #21 |
36. ... |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 05:15 AM Response to Original message |
22. "bastard?" |
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NMDemDist2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 09:09 PM Response to Reply #22 |
101. calling a man a bastard is implying his mother was a whore |
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hellbound-liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 05:52 AM Response to Original message |
23. On the lighter side, I once had a female supervisor who had a sign over her desk that said |
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TZ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 07:40 AM Response to Original message |
26. I'm surprised how often I hear women assert |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 07:54 AM Response to Original message |
27. Depends is the bastard word sexist? |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 07:59 AM Response to Reply #27 |
29. No, "bastard" is quite different |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 08:19 AM Response to Reply #29 |
31. Well unless you are referring to a femal dog, you are using the words in as slang |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 05:32 PM Response to Reply #29 |
83. and bastard utlimately maligns, yet again, a woman |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 08:04 AM Response to Original message |
30. I've heard the argument that using it on men (straight or gay) is still |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 08:37 AM Response to Reply #30 |
38. So, are you saying that men *should* be insulted by being compared to a woman? Or not be |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 08:52 AM Response to Reply #38 |
41. It is NOT insulting to be a woman, or a man, or a black person, or a muslim, or gay or whatever |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 08:58 AM Response to Reply #41 |
43. Okay, I get it now. Intent really does matter. Thanks for clarifying. |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 08:29 AM Response to Original message |
33. You've got to be kidding. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 01:13 PM Response to Reply #33 |
48. thank you deep13. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 01:13 PM Response to Reply #33 |
49. thank you deep13. |
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bbernardini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 08:40 AM Response to Original message |
39. You have to understand, there are some here who think that saying ANYTHING negative about a woman... |
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Tyler Durden (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 09:00 AM Response to Reply #39 |
44. And that is incorrect why? |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 08:50 AM Response to Original message |
40. Why don't you ask your mother? |
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Tyler Durden (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 08:58 AM Response to Original message |
42. Calling a woman a "female dog." |
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woolldog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 09:05 PM Response to Reply #42 |
100. It's an insult to be sure... |
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Tyler Durden (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 11:28 PM Response to Reply #100 |
102. Sigh. |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 03:02 PM Response to Reply #102 |
136. thanks for trying, TD |
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Dogtown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 11:49 AM Response to Original message |
45. you're a dick |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 11:52 AM Response to Reply #45 |
46. HAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!! |
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woolldog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 01:19 PM Response to Reply #45 |
51. That's an interesting point. |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 01:36 PM Response to Reply #51 |
52. I think usually an -ist has to involve a power structure |
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Dogtown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 01:54 PM Response to Reply #51 |
54. Really? |
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woolldog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 06:55 PM Response to Reply #54 |
94. No. You were making a brilliant point |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 11:56 AM Response to Original message |
47. It's a matter of intent and perception. |
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montanto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 01:38 PM Response to Original message |
53. It's silly |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 02:09 PM Response to Original message |
55. Because so many people make a big deal out of nothing |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 02:22 PM Response to Reply #55 |
58. yes, people on a progressive discussion board would never, ever suggest that words actually have |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 02:23 PM Response to Reply #58 |
60. anyone who points sexism. racism, homophobia is whiney |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 02:24 PM Response to Reply #60 |
62. yes because these things don't exist, nor do they cause any harm in our society |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 02:26 PM Response to Reply #62 |
64. yes ofcourse one could argue that people who whine about not being able to use a sexist word |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 03:23 PM Response to Reply #64 |
73. I've survived for over 41 years now |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 03:24 PM Response to Reply #73 |
74. ... |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 03:31 PM Response to Reply #74 |
75. well |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 02:48 PM Response to Reply #60 |
66. Well, I look at it this way... |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 05:21 PM Response to Reply #66 |
80. I'm not asking for anything to be burned. But when people use words to tear down groups of people, |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:20 PM Response to Reply #80 |
113. I Totally agree - bullying is indefensable |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:22 PM Response to Reply #58 |
114. Words definately have power - power to hurt - power to change |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 02:12 PM Response to Original message |
56. It's a gender specific term - that's why |
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woolldog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 06:59 PM Response to Reply #56 |
97. that's what I'm asking in post #51 |
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Renew Deal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 02:13 PM Response to Original message |
57. We're going to have the Bitch wars again? |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 02:24 PM Response to Original message |
63. Have you asked your mother yet? |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 02:50 PM Response to Reply #63 |
67. My mother died two months ago |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 02:56 PM Response to Reply #67 |
69. My mother died four years ago |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:19 PM Response to Reply #69 |
112. Point well taken |
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MAGICBULLET (606 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 02:58 PM Response to Original message |
70. it IS demeaning |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 03:06 PM Response to Original message |
71. I'll say it again - Read Above Post "Well I Look at it This Way" |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 03:47 PM Response to Reply #71 |
78. What does that have to do with whether or not it's sexist. You could say the same of the n-word. |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 05:23 PM Response to Reply #78 |
81. exactly. And people who are offended have just as much right to free speech AGAINST offensive words |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:12 PM Response to Reply #78 |
107. There are negative terms for white people |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:18 PM Response to Reply #78 |
111. I Agree the B word is sexist - so is the N word in the right contexts |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:26 PM Response to Reply #111 |
119. Say what? The N word is sexist in the right context? What context would that be? |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:43 PM Response to Reply #119 |
127. When a black guy uses it |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:44 PM Response to Reply #127 |
128. It's not sexist in that context. Try again. |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:59 PM Response to Reply #128 |
130. Wow - you got me there |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 01:08 PM Response to Reply #130 |
132. You DO have a need to have the last word. |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 03:46 PM Response to Reply #132 |
140. I'll keep that in mind |
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Phoonzang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 03:22 PM Response to Original message |
72. I view it as the feminine version of "asshole" |
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Blue Diadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 03:38 PM Response to Original message |
76. Tell my little 9 year old granddaughter that it isn't sexist.. |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 03:43 PM Response to Original message |
77. I don't think you really want serious answers. |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 04:27 PM Response to Original message |
79. Final Word |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 05:35 PM Response to Reply #79 |
85. Why don't you answer people who've responded to you already |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 05:36 PM Response to Reply #85 |
86. how would one get the final word that way? |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 05:37 PM Response to Reply #86 |
88. He'll have to keep posting then, if that's the mission. |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:16 PM Response to Reply #85 |
110. Valid Point - See my latest post |
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elleng (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 05:32 PM Response to Original message |
84. Nothing sexist |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 05:37 PM Response to Reply #84 |
87. except that it suggests your mother might have had sex out of marriage |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 05:38 PM Response to Original message |
89. Bubba? Naw, I don't think so. |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 06:19 PM Response to Original message |
90. These are the people who believe in not offending anyone |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 06:37 PM Response to Reply #90 |
91. "Just like the person with homosexual feelings that secretly hates gays" Cute. You are pushing the |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:14 PM Response to Reply #91 |
109. No question about it - I love pushing the envelope - Maybe that was too far |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:24 PM Response to Reply #109 |
116. Yes, I would agree that saying something homophobic like that is pushing it too far. nt |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:35 PM Response to Reply #116 |
124. Ditto |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:41 PM Response to Reply #124 |
126. Ditto? So you agree that your remarks were homophobic? |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:56 PM Response to Reply #126 |
129. NO |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 01:11 PM Response to Reply #129 |
133. Then you don't understand how generalizing about how homophobic people must be gay is homophobic. |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 03:55 PM Response to Reply #133 |
141. Rocky - Help! |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 06:39 PM Response to Reply #90 |
92. I fail to see how calling people names is conducive to open dialogue. |
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woolldog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 09:04 PM Response to Reply #92 |
99. Oh the irony... |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 02:55 PM Response to Reply #99 |
135. How so? |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:13 PM Response to Reply #92 |
108. Standards are good - in most contexts |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 02:55 PM Response to Reply #108 |
134. Which ones? The ones you condone? |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 04:03 PM Response to Reply #134 |
143. Spank me baby - spank me |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 06:56 PM Response to Reply #90 |
95. And there are those who get a big stiffy out of going online anonymously and trying to make people |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 06:57 PM Response to Reply #95 |
96. what I love about growing older |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-22-08 07:01 PM Response to Reply #96 |
98. See, I started out just not caring a whole lot... |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:11 PM Response to Reply #95 |
105. Threre is some truth to that |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 11:59 AM Response to Original message |
103. I admit - you are all right about many things |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 01:02 PM Response to Reply #103 |
131. It's easy to not get riled up about the term when it's never been used against you. |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 03:09 PM Response to Reply #131 |
138. it would take certain amount of emotional maturity to realize that. |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 04:05 PM Response to Reply #131 |
144. True |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:11 PM Response to Original message |
104. why dont we just go back to using the n word while we are it? |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:25 PM Response to Reply #104 |
117. Never |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:26 PM Response to Reply #117 |
120. why not? i though you were all about lifting restrictions? and words cant hurt or demean |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:38 PM Response to Reply #120 |
125. I'm im a great mood today |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 03:07 PM Response to Reply #125 |
137. believe it we know |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 03:58 PM Response to Reply #137 |
142. 10/4 |
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Cant trust em (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:12 PM Response to Original message |
106. Why is this in the lounge? |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:28 PM Response to Reply #106 |
121. It started out funny - Could have been - I guess we digressesd |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:22 PM Response to Original message |
115. Because it is a derogatory and demeaning term directed toward women. And IS sexist. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:25 PM Response to Reply #115 |
118. no shit. |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:33 PM Response to Reply #118 |
123. That is a naughty word |
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Help_I_Live_In_Idaho (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 12:31 PM Response to Reply #115 |
122. Yes unless I am saying it to my computer - which I often do |
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montanto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 03:45 PM Response to Reply #115 |
139. Bitch |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-23-08 04:10 PM Response to Original message |
145. I'm serious too, and I will give you a serious answer. |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-24-08 10:01 AM Response to Reply #145 |
146. most mature response yet. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-24-08 10:02 AM Response to Reply #145 |
147. And yet it's still here. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-24-08 11:28 AM Response to Original message |
148. It means a female dog. Hence, it is sexist because it denotes a female, and deragatory because |
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