"Men have much 'dirtier' minds than women, in general,"

[LaraMN]

or so my friend's husband claims.

I call bullshit. I think this is an outright fallacy. I beseech any male who believes this is true to live in my head-or my pants, for that matter-for one day. :rofl: Perhaps I'm a poor representative of my gender, but I KNOW most of my irl friends are pretty capable of perversion, too. What are your thoughts?

[TimeChaser]

1. My boyfriend tells me I corrupt him

:evilgrin:

[LaraMN]

5. Then I'd say he's a lucky boy!

I happen to love my sicko friends. I know there's nothing I can't tell them, and they won't laugh (unless they're supposed to.):)

[RevolutionaryActs]

2. I'm with you on this.

All the girls I know are 10 times worse than any guy I know. :o

[LaraMN]

8. I am FAR worse than my husband.

He's not asd creative-minded as I am. :dilemma:

[sasquatch]

19. I object

You have yet to meet me (and prohbably for good reason) and I'm WAY filthy.

[RevolutionaryActs]

27. Nope.

Nope, nope, nope.


My girls at work could put any man to shame. :P

[redqueen]

132. I wonder how many guys are really open with us ladies

about their perverted minds... :shrug:

[WritingIsMyReligion]

196. If they're in high school....

they sure don't give a damn who hears their dirty talk......

:D :D :eyes:

[elshiva]

3. Big old STEREOTYPE.

[LaraMN]

10. Just doin' my part to nip it in the bud.

Nip. Hee-hee. :P

[SeattleGirl]

4. I agree -- it's bullshit!

Though I'm not going to share my "dirty" thoughts here, 'cause I don't want to get the thread locked! :rofl:

[LaraMN]

12. You and- we have a sisterhood of mentality, I just know it.

:loveya:

[SeattleGirl]

31. I do believe you're right, Lara!

:loveya:

[billyskank]

124. Well why doesn't that surprise me?

:P

[SeattleGirl]

134. Why billy, what evah do you mean?????

:P back atcha!

[MrScorpio]

6. That is bullshit

That's why I like women and their dirty minds!

[LaraMN]

Good for you!

Men who are frightened by women like us, I've noted, are usually reeeally dull.

[SeattleGirl]

33. It boggles my mind, Lara, how many men ARE afraid of

women like us. They categorize us as sluts, whores, etc., and they're scared to go to bed with us. I don't get it!

[MrScorpio]

38. My philosophy goes a little something like this

I'm a freaky dude. So it goes that I should have a woman who is, at the least, just as freaky as I am.

To want otherwise would make me a hypocrite... And we can't have that now, can we?

[LaraMN]

40. I still like to laugh about how my husband made me

"wait," when we started dating, because I was all set to jump on him within weeks of us becoming a couple, and he wanted to connect more, first.

Five weeks. Five long weeks, we made it. :rofl:

[SeattleGirl]

47. Woohoo! Five weeks!

:rofl: :rofl:








(Try 6 months.....:cry: )

[LaraMN]

49. Really?!

Keep alot of batteries on hand, for awhile?:rofl:

[SeattleGirl]

54. Check your PM in a minute.

(I own stock in Eveready!) :rofl:

[mongo]

183. Rechargable batteries are the only way to go

Always full power....

[Rabrrrrrr]

7. Could be; but women sure make dirtier public bathrooms.

God, I hated being a janitor and cleaning the women's rooms.

Ick.

[SeattleGirl]

9. I'm going to disagree with you on that

I've cleaned my share of public restrooms in my day, and the men's -- GAD! :puke:

[HughBeaumont]

119. So have I . . . for eight damned years while I went to college.

The nightmares I still have of unwrapped "jelly donuts" falling from the toilet paper dispensers . . . that "special wastebasket" I had to clean and gag over . . .

I mean, HOW THE HELL DOES ONE SHIT UNDER the RIM of the TOILET where the HINGES are?? HOW???

Women's bathrooms win, hands down.

:P

[SofaKingLiberal]

14. Really?

I have been in some nasty F'n mens rooms, I can hardly imagine anything worse.

:shrug:

[LaraMN]

16. Ugh. Gross. I cleaned hotel rooms for a summer.

The worst one ever was occupied by some construction workers. I won't. even. describe.:puke:

[RevolutionaryActs]

21. That is bullshit.

The guys bathroom is always WAY nastier than the womens. OMG. The things I've seen in the mens bathroom at work. :scared:

[MrScorpio]

23. Same here, waaay back in the day

That experience scarred me for life

[Rabrrrrrr]

24. Saw the most wicked disgusting stuff in the women's room,

and not just regular stuff, either, but deliberate and malicious grotesqueries.

Never saw it in the men's room. The men's room might have pee on the floor by the urinals and toilets, but never on the walls. It might have dirty footprints all over. It might have toilet paper on the floor, too; but never on the walls, and never on the wall with feces in it.

And let's not even talk about hygeiene products in all the wrong places.

[MrScorpio]

36. Oh... Please. Don't remind me what some women did used tampons

Dah horrah, Dah horrah!

[Common Sense Party]

79. Exactly. The hygiene products definitely freaked me out.

I was only 18 or so back then...I was shocked at how slovenly the ladies' room was.

[Common Sense Party]

78. 100% true. I cleaned the johns at the department store.

The ladies room was absolutely disgusting. The men's was not too bad.

This was the same week after week.

Granted, there are more women shoppers than men, so that may have been part of it.

But it boggled the mind how some women didn't even make a pretense of being neat or tidy. Just toss it anywhere.

[Rabrrrrrr]

84. Yep. Men were just sloppy; women were clearly intentional.

One does not accidentally shit on the walls, or accidentally leave a used tampon fifteen feet from the trash can, nor accidentally wedge a tampon between the toilet and the wall...

[redqueen]

137. Wait a second... are you implying

that men are never intentionally messy or nasty?

GMAFB!

[Rabrrrrrr]

143. Oh, no - sometimes wwe are.

I'm talking only about in public bathrooms - I never saw anywhere near the obviously intentional grotesquery in the men's rooms that I saw in the women's rooms.

Men do their nasty and gross in different ways, outside the bathroom, because men like to do their nasty gross things publicly where they can be properly appreciated by an audience. To a man, the "joke" of wedging a used tampon between the wall and the toilet paper roll is a waste of a "joke", because he won't be there when the joke happens. No, a guy would more than likely put the used tampon down his friend's pants or in his shirt, or hide it in his coat pocket.

[redqueen]

153. Yeah, but I think that could be the quantity factor...

MUCH more women in dept. store restrooms. Plus kids.

And ... erm... "upper decking"? No, a guy wouldn't do it with a tampon... but... they have their ways as well.

[Misunderestimator]

157. Wow... I have NEVER seen tampons thrown about like that.

Conversely, every time I've had to use a men's bathroom... there's PISS on the floor... without exception.

[I Have A Dream]

166. I can honestly say that I've never, in my entire life, seen...

anything like what you're describing! The worst things that I've seen are graffiti & urine on the toilet seats.

:scared:

[progmom]

168. same here

:shrug:

[amitten]

85. Well, about HALF AS MANY men shop at any given store.

At any given department store on any given day, women outnumber men by about 4 to 1. Less use=less mess.

I've worked at stores that employed only women, and our employee bathrooms were spotless.

FURTHERMORE, who takes the little ones to "go potty"? That's right--the women. And if you think that a toddler on a toilet doesn't make a mess, you've never met a toddler!

[ZombieNixon]

11. ...

I quote: I beseech any male who believes this is true to live in my head-or my pants, for that matter-for one day.

Can I really? :evilgrin: :o

[LaraMN]

18. Not unless you've got some amazing technology, sugar.

:rofl:

[ZombieNixon]

20. Damn! Foiled again!

:grr:

[swag]

13. Wouldn't say that.

[WCGreen]

15. Dirty Dirty Girlie....

Well, I don't think you pants would fit....

And of course, I'm perverted...

But not in that way....

At least until you brought it up....

Get it....

[LaraMN]

25. You, Sir, are a beacon of virtuousness.

[WCGreen]

56. You know I go the.....

[LaraMN]

57. Lol! I think of you everytime I pass the Cool Whip section

at the grocery store! I'm warped for life!:rofl: :hug:

[WCGreen]

63. I've done my job.....

[Benfea]

17. The chemical "trigger" is in higher concentrations in men...

…how you react to said trigger is another matter entirely. The human mind is a complex thing.

[LaraMN]

26. Chemicals vs. the intangibles...

I'll take a dose of the intangible stuff first, anyday!

[Benfea]

32. Don't discount the chemical entirely, though.

After all, there's a certain time of month when women are far more likely to engage in infidelity. ;)

[LaraMN]

37. Oh hell, I ovulate, and I see it every month!

It's crazy! But it has more to do with intensity and frequencey of feelings, not the form of them.

[Benfea]

39. I'm sure you already know this but just for the record...

…the male hormonal cycle is daily, not monthly. We're at our absolute horniest first thing in the morning and it just keeps goin' down 'til you go to sleep.

[LaraMN]

42. Okay, and I am the worst of the two us in the morning....

I think... Maybe he's holdin' out on me!:o :rofl:

[Benfea]

148. I can't speak for other men but...

…morning sex is the best.

[fleabert]

102. that isn't true in my house...

just the opposite in fact.

[Benfea]

146. No, it's true.

In men, testosterone is at its highest levels when we wake up, and just keeps going down during the day. As I said before, that's just the chemical "trigger" and the mind is a complex thing. *shrug*

Anyway, now you know where "morning wood" comes from. ;)

[fleabert]

186. doesn't happen here.

his chemicals are different I guess.

[CaliforniaPeggy]

67. And how do you account for us

post-menopausal women? We have NO monthly cycle......

I scare my poor husband all the time! :evilgrin:

[Benfea]

151. Isn't testosterone still manufactured post-menopause?

Stupid trivia: men can live without estrogen, but women can't live without testosterone (both are rare conditions). Testosterone increases the efficiency with which your body processes oxygen.

[CaliforniaPeggy]

180. My dear Benfea......

I do believe you are correct about this.....

I've heard this before.....and then I think:

My god, is this how young men feel? Whew! Somedays it is too much......

It is so amazing.....and so much fun, too! :blush:

[Benfea]

195. Actually, I'm pretty sure...

…that the concentration of testosterone in your blood at that time is still significantly lower than what you'll find in your average 14 year old boy.

(Edit: addendum)
The reason is obvious. If you look at the reproductive arrangements and social structures of the majority of mammals, it makes sense. For just about every other mammal, the female is only fertile for a very small window. Thus, the males need to be kept in an insane state of lust so that as soon as they get the slightest positive signal from a female… BANG.

Our reproductive cycles and social structures may be totally different, but we have still have a lot of traits that date back to some distant past when our ancestors were more like other mammals.

[CaliforniaPeggy]

200. My dear Benfea......

Believe it or not, I am actually happy to hear this fact.....If I had any more testosterone in my blood, I'm not sure how well I'd handle it....

Ah well....'nuff said!


BTW, thank you......


:hug:

[Dave Reynolds]

22. Nope.

One of the funniest (in a filthy way) people I ever knew was a woman.

She stayed with us for a while, and after she left I found a new directory on my computer. In this directory was a few nudie shots of herself and a note saying "just wanted to leave you something to jerk off to".


:rofl:

[LaraMN]

28. Wow! Did you ever luck out!

:wow: :rofl:

[CaliforniaPeggy]

29. I believe that women have dirtier minds......

At least the women I am friends with!

And especially as we get older.......the inhibitions FALL away.......

Life is too damn short to be inhibited, IMHO.......

I do not see it as perversion, BTW.....I just think it's fun!

:toast: :evilgrin:

[LaraMN]

34. I agree, it's only 'perversion' from the standpoint of what's "endorsed"

so to speak, by societal standards. That's just the thing though- there's hardly a subject that's more individual than a person's sexuality. I embrace most anything that's not harmful and is enjoyable.
:toast: :evilgrin: Right back atcha' Babe!

[mongo]

184. Yeah!

Thanks for another sex positive thread on DU!

More power to ya.

[redqueen]

140. Yes! Fun!

:loveya:

Great way to put it! :thumbsup:

[LeftyMom]

30. No friggin way

:evilgrin:

[LaraMN]

43. Oh I KNOW you're on the same wavelength as me!

[LeftyMom]

50. Hell yeah!

:woohoo: :yourock:

[La Lioness Priyanka]

35. i often say this to frat boys...

i have slept with more women than you...and unlike you they still remember me...


so yeah women are just as sexual as men

[LaraMN]

46. Lol!

I'd love to see the looks on their faces! :rofl: Priceless.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

52. i tell you the look on their faces are priceless

[HarukaTheTrophyWife]

41. My mind is filthy. Disinfection required filthy.

:evilgrin::evilgrin::evilgrin::evilgrin::evilgrin:

[LaraMN]

48. So, I believe, are most great minds.

At least that's what I keep telling myself! :evilgrin:

[meow2u3]

197. One of my friends has "Dirty Mind Syndrome"

She reads something sexual into the most innocent comment I make--and it drives my bats! I can't say anything without her twisting it into something nasty.

[Oeditpus Rex]

44. I believed this until just a few years ago

My sexuality was quite late to develop — likely because of a rather repressed upbringing. Looking back, it played a large role in messing up some relationships.

All I can say is "Thank Dog for the women who showed me the light." :loveya:

[LaraMN]

51. That's sad. I definitely won't scare my kids about things sexual.

It's a healthy part of life, not something to fear, but people can really warp each other.

[Oeditpus Rex]

55. No one really scared me

At least not actively.

Mostly, I'd guess, it was that I never saw any display of affection between my folks. None. Not even a hug. And they didn't sleep together after I was about 10.

Once on my mom's birthday when my sister and I were little, we were imploring my dad, "Kiss her, daddy, kiss her!" He went to do it and she said, "Herman, stop it!"

That kinda thing leaves a mark, I guess.

[LaraMN]

59. I've never seen my parents kiss or hug or hold hands, either. Ever.

Yet, my Mom made sure I was told all about sexuality and anatomy. They were wierd-my folks-didn't really like each other, but they sure joked about sex alot.

[Oeditpus Rex]

64. The birds and the bees?

My mom gave me a couple of books — "Being Born" was one; I think the other was "Attaining Manhood." They were those repressive, biology-only books that were about all there was then.

And she just gave them to me. "Read this." No discussion.

[LaraMN]

70. Geez. Lovely.

I think my Mom may have felt it prudent to explain things early on, as I had developed an affinity for chasing and kissing boys, by kindergarten. She giggled alot about the subject matter, but never acted prudish about it. For that, I thank her.:P

[Oeditpus Rex]

72. And when did you eventually give up this (ahem) pursuit?

Just curious...

[LaraMN]

74. Oh-um....First grade.....

yeah, that's it....

Seriously, I was a total KinderSkank. I kissed boys that didn't WANT me to kiss them.
:rofl:

[Oeditpus Rex]

75. 'KinderSkank'

:rofl:

[LaraMN]

76. I kissed this boy, Eric,

who had a colostomy bag and a lazy eye- but he was beautiful to me.:rofl:

[Oeditpus Rex]

77. Well, that's different

You were a kind-hearted, compassionate KinderSkank. :hug:

[LaraMN]

80. But of course! I still am, on some levels.

How do you think I tolerate a self-professed Republican Husband?

[Oeditpus Rex]

83. Uh...

He's "gifted"? :shrug:

[LaraMN]

87. Don't you know it!

He also laughs at everything I say. That helps.

[Laelth]

81. Sounds to me like your mother ...

... was a truly wonderful person.

Too many people grow up to believe sexuality is bad ... girls, especially. It is nice to find women that are not so repressed, i.e. women who believe it's OK to be a sexual animal.

Not surprisingly, a large percentage of women on DU fall into this camp. I'd bet money that this crowd is not reflective of the American population as a whole.

Here's to the really cool moms who made these awesome liberal chicks!

:toast:

-Laelth

[LaraMN]

88. She's a little bit crazy, but I love her.

My Dad too, though I'd likely have been disturbed if he'd tried to broach any subjects of sexuality with me. He thoroughly rocks.

[Laelth]

90. Just so you know ...

... that reply put a really big smile on my face. :)

I hope that one day my daughters will be able to say that their dad "thoroughly rocks." Thanks for giving me hope.

-Laelth

[fleabert]

104. the girls in my first grade had a game...

pick a boy in the morning, tell him until recess that he was the one...the bell rang and he shot out the door to get away from us. We would all pin him down and kiss him. Really awful when I think about it- would probably get us expelled today. The teachers probably thought it was cute back then.

[mongo]

185. Sounds like the ones I got

Which explained the biology in detail but lacked the tab A goes into slot B.

The picure showed a couple in bed (under the covers) lying on their backs next to each other.

I kept asking my mom "how does the sperm get into the uterous? I thought it flew through the air like a homing missle or something. I never got a satisfactory explanation until I was about 12 and say my first playboy -- a school mate had to explain it to me.

[Oeditpus Rex]

188. I think I was 11 when I first saw Playboy

There was a photo of Sean Connery on top of a woman who was laying face-down. Somehow, in my youthful wisdom, I concluded that one impregnated a woman by peeing into her butt.

:rofl:

[mongo]

190. LOL!

OK, you win...

[Sheri]

45. Sure, women are equally capable of perversion.

Just not as frequently interested in "going there" so to speak as men are.

Speaking for myself, anyway. ;)

[LaraMN]

53. That's likely the case.

But when we are "there," it sure is fun, isn't it?:bounce:

[Sheri]

58. Yeah.

Not too often for me these days (chasing after kids all day), but when it's good ... it's awesome. :blush:

[u4ic]

62. Welcome to DU!

:toast:

[Sheri]

66. Thanks

I'm mainly a lurker ... just stuck my head out tonight. In one of those moods. ;)

[NMMNG]

60. My mind is as pure as the driven snow

[LaraMN]

61. Well, not YOU of course, but the rest of us slovenly nymphets....

:rofl:

[La Lioness Priyanka]

68. hmm...the snow in nyc is black...

[NMMNG]

69. I see you are skeptical.

I don't understand why you impugn my reputation so. :cry:

[EstimatedProphet]

65. I think what it is is that men are more visually oriented

and for some people, that translates as 'dirty'

[LaraMN]

71. I think that does make it a more outward experience.

Definitely observable in the media, of course. That's probably somewhat to blame for the stereotype.

[EstimatedProphet]

171. Sounds about right

I don't doubt for a minute that women have just as rich a fantasy life as men, or that they are just as sexually alive as men. It would be ridiculous to think otherwise.

[Parrcrow]

73. That's not true

except for me. I'm a pig.

[gmoney]

82. Nominated

Lara, take me, I'm yours...

[LaraMN]

86. Lol!

You can't make me laugh like a donkey at 1 am! I should sooooo be in bed, by now!

[gmoney]

114. It's good to know...

that I CAN make you laugh like a donkey at 1 am. I'll just tactfully let slide that comment about you being in bed...

:bounce:

[XemaSab]

100. Where the fuck have you been,

foo?

[gmoney]

120. Xema, my worrier princess...

Good to know I've been missed (not enough to merit a PM, but apparently missed)...

My photographic shooting spree continues, and it's taken over my schedule like topsy/kudzu. I'm doing about 5 shoots a week lately, and between shoots, scheduling, processing images, etc. there's barely time for eating, sleeping, day job, paying bills, housekeeping and recreation -- and sadly, DU. I drop in from time to time and lurk around a bit, but it seems that things around here have managed to roll on without me.

Hope you're doing well my dear... any plans to head East this spring? I have an indigo bunting tied to a tree limb outside my back window just waiting for you.

xox,
G

[fleabert]

105. I thought you were mine!

:cry:

[gmoney]

112. Of course I'm yours...

...you just never take me!

:hug:

[Wetzelbill]

89. we are all dirty minded

I've heard some women say some pretty sick things. :) Men are pretty much ruled by our penises, but just because we are outright obvious horndogs 24/7 doesn't mean our minds are any dirtier. I think we are just more juvenile about it. I had a girl I'm friends with tell me girls are easily as perverted as guys. I had three female roommates and they all got way more action than I did, I was a frickin' saint compared to them, haha. They talked like truck drivers, lol. At times they did anyway. I once heard a girl say that women get hornier than men too. Then she proceeded to try to get 5 of us to sleep with her one right after the other. I had to say "No" to that one. Much like Jerry Seinfeld, I am not an orgy kind of guy. :)

[Laelth]

92. Don't mistake the fact that ...

... women can get laid whenever they want for the notion that they want to get laid as often as men do.

Those are not the same at all.

-Laelth

[Wetzelbill]

93. oh not even close

No way! Men want to get some 24/7. It's our nature, it's not even controllable. Women don't want it as often.

But, we all have dirty thoughts. I would say that is universal and pretty equal. I may be wrong though. I literally know next to nothing about women even though I try to figure them out every day. :evilgrin:

[Laelth]

94. My SO is "dirtier" than I.

I prefer the boring ... just a lot of it.

She's "dirtier" if that means adventurous, or kinky, or open-minded. Compared to her, I'm a prude.

So, I hear ya. I don't think men are "dirtier." But I don't think your roomies were dirtier, either. They were just enjoying the power they had ... the power to get what they wanted when they wanted it.

:toast:

-Laelth

[Wetzelbill]

95. oh yeah, that power

they so have that over us, lol. :)

[Laelth]

97. Don't sweat it.

The balance changes as we get older. 13-50 and they've got us whipped. After 50, I think we have the "upper" hand, as it were.

Oh, and I wouldn't bother trying to "figure them out." Just be polite when a woman gives you the time of day. If you're chosen, she'll let you know. Then ... just be thankful.

Friendly advice. ;)

-Laelth

[Wetzelbill]

98. I just try to be charmingly inept

which isn't hard because that's what I am. :)

Ha! We get the upper hand! Oh she will rue the day! :)

[Texacrat]

96. It's biological

n/t

[Wetzelbill]

99. I believe that

no doubt it is

[obxhead]

91. BS... Thank goodness.

:)

[fleabert]

101. I have always argued that women are MUCH MUCH MUCH

dirtier than men. Men are more crass, but women are filthy. Having spent my teens and early twenties as the only girl in a group of male friends, and my later twenties and early thirties surrounded by mostly women- women get the award for dirty talk. I have also always said that women think about sex just as much, if not more, than men.

[gmoney]

122. I always hear this claim...

... but so few of you seem willing to prove it to me. :)

[fleabert]

187. that's cause I only talk that way to my girlfriends!

dirty chatter over knitting and coffee!

[XemaSab]

103. Lemme tell ya,

anyone who tells ya they're pure as the driven snow is fulla shit.

I am *purer* than the driven snow.

Yes, yes indeed.

I have never had a remotely filthy thought in my life, Trent Reznor notwithstanding.

It's a fact.

And I *defy* you to refute it.

[Orsino]

106. You have no idea...

...what we are capable of imagining. Casts of thousands, nine-digit special-effects budgets...you name it, we have dreamed it. :-)

In fairness, though, you might be able to claim the same. I just suspect--very strongly--that the stereotype is right.

[RetroLounge]

107. I choose one day living in your pants...

:rofl:

RL

[LaraMN]

111. Do * I * get to keep them

on?
:evilgrin:

[RetroLounge]

123. of course silly...

and boots too!

:hi:

RL

[LaraMN]

126. Well, what a gentleman you are.

but I usually wear a skirt with boots.

[RetroLounge]

144. Skirt? I could live there too...

:D

RL

[LaraMN]

149. Sure, so long as you're coordinated enough to avoid getting tangled up

in my garters.;-)

[RetroLounge]

155. You would be surprised at how coordinated I am...

:evilgrin:

RL

[LaraMN]

159. No I wouldn't.

I hold high expectations of intelligent, passionate men. ;) Not that there aren't sloppy geniuses and physically intelligent neanderthals, but as a rule...

You've been doing pilates, haven't you? :evilgrin:

[RetroLounge]

161. You have found me out...

Pilates, Yoga, Tai Chi and Kegels...

:D

RL

[LaraMN]

163. Kegels!

:rofl:

Do you have a video for doing those or do you just wing it?

:rofl:

[RetroLounge]

165. I have the Vin Diesel "Kegel Like A Man" Video

with a guest appearance by Chuck Norris.

It's quite good!

RL

[LaraMN]

167. Did you know that Chuck Norris can impregnate a woman with his sweat?

Use caution.:P

[RetroLounge]

169. He is not of this world.

I think he's actually the 5th Element...

RL

[LaraMN]

174. 5th, 6th, AND 7th, in fact!

Now don't you go pulling anything, watching videos...;)

[GirlinContempt]

108. I already live in your head

Can I try your pants for a while?

[LaraMN]

113. Of course, sugar!

I'll even polish up my best boots for ya!:bounce:

[GirlinContempt]

115. Now there's an offer I can't refuse

;)

[DS1]

109. Cannot comment without getting thread locked

:shrug:

[Nicholas D Wolfwood]

110. I definitely agree with you.

I've seen how groups of women talk. It's flat out worse than what men say to each other. Guys will say, "I'd like to her." Women will go into great detail about what they'd do. I don't even think there's any contest.

[LaraMN]

116. Agreeing with me is always a wise of course of action.

:rofl: :crazy:

[lcbart]

117. If there is a woman out there...

Who's mind is as sex obsessed as mine is....

PLEASE let her step forward! :)

[Nikia]

118. Women porbably are dirtier in quality. Men in quantity.

At first I was going to say, you have no idea how men talk when they are together. I have overheard some men comment about every single woman they have encountered as in they talk about 20 women that they saw when they went to a restaurant the previous night.
None of my female friends feel the need to imagine sex with every man. It is more detailed though.

[LaraMN]

121. Yes! We right-brainers are capable of deliciously intricate detail.

I think that's a big part of it.

[GumboYaYa]

125. That's not what Dr. Kinsey says and he knows a lot more about

it than your friend's husband. It all depends upon the individual. Besides, who the hell gets to decide what is perverse anyway?

[LaraMN]

127. Yeah "perverse" is a pretty subjective idea.

With negative connotations I wouldn't truly accept so readily.

[Tyrone Slothrop]

128. Most of the women I know

Have much filthier minds than most of the men I know.

Most of my male friends -- even the big skirt-chasers -- are still pretty vanilla. But the females...

Well, anyway, vive la difference!

[khashka]

135. I think thats true

Men seem to be more obsessed by sex, but women seem to be much more perverse.

There are certain activities I really enjoy. Can't find a man for love nor money who will engage in them. Whereas women have already thought about it, done it, or will say "Sure, Khash, let's try it."

Khash.

[khashka]

129. I think he's probably right

Try living in my jockey shorts for a day! You will thank god you were born female. Men are sex monkeys. That's just a fact. We can rarely manage more than a few seconds without thinking about it.

I have a transexual friend who told me that becoming a woman was the best thing she'd ever done - because although she still had a high sex drive and was very perverse, for the first time it was a matter of choice.

Well, for most guys there is no choice. It's SEX SEX SEX all the time. Blame it on testosterone poisoning :)

So Lara, what are you wearing? Please feel free to provide details about your underwear. :)

See, we're incorrigible :)

Khash.

[LaraMN]

136. Ok, but I can't walk past a mirror at home without rubbing my own ass.

It's true.:rofl: and I'm constantly touching my own boobs. I don't feel the least bit evil about it, either. I enjoy my body.

And I'm slummin' it, sweetie. Believe me, I'm not the stuff of anyone's dreams, today.:rofl:

[Oeditpus Rex]

199. Uh...

Pics...?

:blush:

[In_The_Wind]

130. I don't agree with your friend's husband.

I don't think my mind is dirty at all. However I do think about sex more frequently than most men I've known.

My mind is normally highly erotic. I'm a touch_me_not with everyone except for the one man who is my lover, then I'm very sensual.

My ex husband once told me he was worried because he thought I would be disappointed with his lower libido.

[redqueen]

131. That's some high-grade bullshit.

My husband challenges me... he refers to some program where they interviewed a man who had changed genders and talked about how liberating it was not to think about sex all the time... but I think it's an individual thing.

It certainly seems as if there are more dirty-minded men than dirty-minded women... but how much of that is a result of societal pressure? Of people conforming themselves to fit their gender roles?

Goddess knows... I'm right there with you on the perversion, honey... and I thought I was bad when I was young! I'm only getting worse! Or better... depending on your perspective. ;)

[khashka]

164. Hah!

I'm getting worse (or better) too. I thouht men lost some of their sex drive as they aged. Apparently not. Me as a horny teenager doesn't even compare to me as a horny middle aged man :)

Khash

[redqueen]

177. hehehehe...

That's good to hear! I'm quite enjoying myself. :)

[plcdude]

192. same with

my wife it is wonderful

[redqueen]

193. *waves*

:hi:

[miss_american_pie]

133. Women are just conditioned to be quiet about it

Or more discreet perhaps.

But maybe the Lounge is not exactly a good representation of women in general. :shrug:

[LaraMN]

138. I know I am *NOT* quiet....

I rather love noises....:evilgrin:

[miss_american_pie]

139. Sometimes

I think you may be a long-lost sister. ;)

[LaraMN]

141. I love you, girl!

:toast:

We'd have so much fun hanging out!

[miss_american_pie]

142. I don't have enough bail money

Let me come up with some fundraiser ideas. :toast:

[LaraMN]

145. Bwahahaa!

Think our DU cohorts might pitch in? Maybe if we sent them "jailhouse pics." :rofl:

[miss_american_pie]

150. Do they allow boots in jail?

:evilgrin:

[LaraMN]

152. They HAVE to. I've seen them in prison movies on Cinemax!

:rofl:

[miss_american_pie]

156. We're all good then

:thumbsup:

[redqueen]

147. Noises...

yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes!

[LaraMN]

154. and...um....inadvertent impassionated cursing....

:blush:

[redqueen]

158. Oh yes...

*sigh*

[LaraMN]

160. It's too early in the day for this, isn't it?

[redqueen]

162. Errrrr...

I guess.

:blush:

[KitchenWitch]

170. irl friends?

:rofl:

My mind dwells in the gutter.

[LaraMN]

175. What? What?

I hate it when I don't know why someone's laughing at me! :P

[KitchenWitch]

179. Sorry!

:hug:

[Beer Snob-50]

172. I would love to live in your pants for one hour......

i will behave I promise.

:evilgrin:

[LaraMN]

176. I dunno- are you gonna stretch them out?

Because I have a hard time finding pants.

[Beer Snob-50]

178. well in that case,

jsut take them off and we can improvise from there.

[Reverend_Smitty]

173. I live with 3 other women...

and some of the things that come out of our mouths would make a sailor blush

[WritingIsMyReligion]

181. Clearly this guy has not seen teenage girls.

We're quite as bad as our male counterparts, though they still take the cake for ultimate sex obsession at any age. :eyes::eyes:

[Montauk6]

182. Maybe women are better at hiding it?

[plcdude]

189. I don't think

it is a gender thing it is more of a hormonal horny thing.

[Ellen Forradalom]

191. Is that a fact?

He doesn't know me.

[GoddessOfGuinness]

194. Bullshit.

It depends on the person, not their sex.

[napsi]

198. After my wife has had a couple of glasses of wine.....

she makes me look like.......well........you get the picture:)