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In reply to the discussion: Dude's Demand for an Open Relationship Backfires Spectacularly (Careful what you wish for) [View all]ismnotwasm
(42,023 posts)27. That's actually sad
Given what's out there for porn is about as erotic as a rock. I believe it stifles the sexual imagination and is the sexual equivalent of shopping at Target or Walmart. Corporate sex for sale, with some of it so fetishized it needs 'don't try this at home' warnings.
What bugs me is the domination of 'young girls'-- which the disclaimer they're all over 18. With the proliferation of small porn companies or amateur porn, I wonder. Also it's racist as hell. It's so unregulated--they refuse condom use, there has been a significant rise in STD's, you can't tell willing participants from trafficked women, girls or boys. It's a bloody mess. IMO
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Dude's Demand for an Open Relationship Backfires Spectacularly (Careful what you wish for) [View all]
Tuesday Afternoon
May 2014
OP
I am really questioning the validity of it myself. It lacks a certain ring of truth to it, I agree.
Tuesday Afternoon
May 2014
#4
and for some reason, I am thinking that on fetlife ... really, would this guy have so much trouble?
Tuesday Afternoon
May 2014
#8
I don't know about fetlife in particular, but on the sex-based dating sites
Sheldon Cooper
May 2014
#9
shitty personality ... oh yes, but Honestly are people on Fetlife for personality?
Tuesday Afternoon
May 2014
#10
for some reason I took it that she was a little on the heavy side ... still curvy ...
Tuesday Afternoon
May 2014
#17
thank you for sharing that. Honestly, I wish people would just say it straight out ...
Tuesday Afternoon
May 2014
#23
I don't see any nastiness on FB but, I have blocked a lot of stuff over there. I actually feel more
Tuesday Afternoon
May 2014
#30