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ismnotwasm

(42,023 posts)
27. That's actually sad
Wed May 21, 2014, 01:57 PM
May 2014

Given what's out there for porn is about as erotic as a rock. I believe it stifles the sexual imagination and is the sexual equivalent of shopping at Target or Walmart. Corporate sex for sale, with some of it so fetishized it needs 'don't try this at home' warnings.

What bugs me is the domination of 'young girls'-- which the disclaimer they're all over 18. With the proliferation of small porn companies or amateur porn, I wonder. Also it's racist as hell. It's so unregulated--they refuse condom use, there has been a significant rise in STD's, you can't tell willing participants from trafficked women, girls or boys. It's a bloody mess. IMO

What a fuckwit. geardaddy May 2014 #1
what a taterguy exception. Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #2
I think it's romantic fiction written by a woman. Shrike47 May 2014 #3
I am really questioning the validity of it myself. It lacks a certain ring of truth to it, I agree. Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #4
OMFG wryter2000 May 2014 #5
IKR Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #6
Agreed. Even if it's fiction, which I think it is. Sheldon Cooper May 2014 #7
and for some reason, I am thinking that on fetlife ... really, would this guy have so much trouble? Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #8
I don't know about fetlife in particular, but on the sex-based dating sites Sheldon Cooper May 2014 #9
shitty personality ... oh yes, but Honestly are people on Fetlife for personality? Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #10
No. People are not on fetlife for personality. Sheldon Cooper May 2014 #11
if he really exists he probably is giving off a skeevy vibe, trudat Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #12
Even if it's 1/4 fiction it's really funny. Whisp May 2014 #32
What an abusive ass ismnotwasm May 2014 #13
I appreciate that level of honesty Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #14
I'm not sure. CrispyQ May 2014 #16
for some reason I took it that she was a little on the heavy side ... still curvy ... Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #17
Yeah, she was a little on the heavy side. CrispyQ May 2014 #20
My first guess is he was pornified into thinking his g/f wasn't 'hawt' enough. Whisp May 2014 #33
What an immature little shit. CrispyQ May 2014 #15
does the word date mean what it used to mean? Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #18
I think particular site is for sex ismnotwasm May 2014 #19
and that is why I have trouble believing this story = Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #21
Well, it's been interesting, let me tell you. CrispyQ May 2014 #22
thank you for sharing that. Honestly, I wish people would just say it straight out ... Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #23
That's actually sad ismnotwasm May 2014 #27
It's a bloody mess. Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #28
Unfortunately true. ismnotwasm May 2014 #29
It's as bad as the gun debate. CrispyQ May 2014 #31
Unfortunately, I have met men like that and I'd bet many here have. hlthe2b May 2014 #24
yes but, do you see them posting online about all this? Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #25
It's easy to hide in the anonymity of the internet. CrispyQ May 2014 #26
I don't see any nastiness on FB but, I have blocked a lot of stuff over there. I actually feel more Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #30
there's an odd duck around sometimes. Whisp May 2014 #34
May be fiction, but could be true. At least it reflects the basic truth that eridani May 2014 #35
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