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seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
7. here it is...
Fri Nov 29, 2013, 11:45 AM
Nov 2013

Only Psychos Think Rape is OK...Right?

Societal Attitudes Supporting Rape

- A survey of 6,159 college students enrolled at 32 institutions in the U.S. found the following: (ref 4)

· 54% of the women surveyed had been the victims of some form of sexual abuse; more than one in four college-aged women had been the victim of rape or attempted rape;

· 57% of the assaults occurred on dates;

· 73% of the assailants and 55% of the victims had used alcohol or other drugs prior to the assault;

· 25% of the men surveyed admitted some degree of sexually aggressive behavior;

· 42% of the victims told no one.

- In a survey of high school students, 56% of the girls and 76% of the boys believed forced sex was acceptable under some circumstances. (ref 5)

- A survey of 11-to-14 year-olds found ref 5)

· 51% of the boys and 41% of the girls said forced sex was acceptable if the boy, "spent a lot of money" on the girl;

· 31% of the boys and 32% of the girls said it was acceptable for a man to rape a woman with past sexual experience;

· 87% of boys and 79% of girls said sexual assault was acceptable if the man and the woman were married;

· 65% of the boys and 47% of the girls said it was acceptable for a boy to rape a girl if they had been dating for more than six months.


- In a survey of male college students:

· 35% anonymously admitted that, under certain circumstances, they would commit rape if they believed they could get away with it (ref 6,7).

· One in 12 admitted to committing acts that met the legal definitions of rape, and 84% of men who committed rape did not label it as rape.(ref 6,7)

- In another survey of college males: (ref 8)

· 43% of college-aged men admitted to using coercive behavior to have sex, including ignoring a woman's protest, using physical aggression, and forcing intercourse.

· 15% acknowledged they had committed acquaintance rape; 11% acknowledged using physical restraints to force a woman to have sex.

- Women with a history of rape or attempted rape during adolescence were almost twice as likely to experience a sexual assault during college, and were three times as likely to be victimized by a husband. (ref 9)

- Sexual assault is reported by 33% to 46% of women who are being physically assaulted by their husbands.(ref 10)

http://www.uic.edu/depts/owa/sa_rape_support.html

Here in the US chervilant Nov 2013 #1
I see the UK source, but I don't see the US source. Please link it. ancianita Nov 2013 #2
Please do your own research. chervilant Nov 2013 #3
You miss the point. If I presented a phrase like "research shows...", I'd link it. That's just a ancianita Nov 2013 #10
we have done it so many times, only to be ignored. and then, asked again... seabeyond Nov 2013 #14
Oh. Sorry. I never think of links as derailing, but okay, if that's the practice here... ancianita Nov 2013 #15
ya. kinda like totally dismissing all i said, throw this jab out and still IGNORE the seabeyond Nov 2013 #16
No, I do very much appreciate yours. I was mostly responding to chervilant, initially, to do my own ancianita Nov 2013 #17
Okay, chervilant Nov 2013 #19
I wouldn't dream of asking you to dig for that, if I'd known. ancianita Nov 2013 #27
P.S. chervilant Nov 2013 #20
Of course. I wouldn't post here just to argue with other women. ancianita Nov 2013 #25
i ound a really good on on highschool and middle school kids. it will knock you on your butt. seabeyond Nov 2013 #6
here it is... seabeyond Nov 2013 #7
? ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #9
Before my daughter went off to college... Chalco Nov 2013 #4
both nieces did the same. both nieces now 20 and 24 are hard ass radical fems. sons on the seabeyond Nov 2013 #5
i see a lot of the predators in street harassment go after our 12 yr old. there abouts. the girls seabeyond Nov 2013 #8
btw... this really sticks with me. the women that are so supportive of the men attacking feminists seabeyond Nov 2013 #11
The eager female cohorts are pathetic. Sheldon Cooper Nov 2013 #12
they give up a lot to get them. seabeyond Nov 2013 #13
Again, they get to have it every which way xulamaude Nov 2013 #21
as a stay at home for almost two decades and happy with my choice, and would make the same, ... seabeyond Nov 2013 #22
Absolutely you made (and were able to make) xulamaude Nov 2013 #26
i love the way you reply. i want to clarify or stress though. what the feminist say about being seabeyond Nov 2013 #28
Compartmentalization... xulamaude Nov 2013 #31
There is a famous statement which... discntnt_irny_srcsm Nov 2013 #18
+1 ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #23
thanks discntnt_irny_srcsm Nov 2013 #37
love it, thanks. seabeyond Nov 2013 #24
you're welcome discntnt_irny_srcsm Nov 2013 #36
it fit... i think it looks perfect, just as it is. my sig. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #38
Well done discntnt_irny_srcsm Nov 2013 #39
That's really good. Sheldon Cooper Nov 2013 #32
Thanks discntnt_irny_srcsm Nov 2013 #35
"Don't treat me like a SICK CHILD" HockeyMom Nov 2013 #29
what a conversation you two must have been having. seabeyond Nov 2013 #30
Why do males do this? HockeyMom Nov 2013 #33
because, they have been raised all their lives womens submissive roles, they the care taker, seabeyond Nov 2013 #34
that was a good but startling read. thanks for the link. nt Sheri Nov 2013 #40
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