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ChillZilla

(56 posts)
18. "We need to allow them to be angry, powerful, physical"
Wed Oct 24, 2012, 05:21 PM
Oct 2012

Well, that's great unless you're the one that gets to deal with their anger, and are within the reach of their physical power. My sister turned angry at 13 and didn't stop screaming until she was around 25. My life (brother) was misery when she was around. This wasn't societies fault by the way, it was life.

There's probably a million reasons why girls and women are increasingly unhappy. How would the OP feel if we told girls that their best chance for long term happiness and fulfilment was to get married, to a man, and raise children in a stable home vs get a job and put off marriage/family because it would limit them? Not so fashionable nowadays, maybe it correlates with the depression? I see lots of tv role models for girls, and most are either party girls or professionals. Not a lot of stay at home moms. Not that it's easy or a road to guaranteed happiness, but women seem to me to be hard wired to get fulfillment from raising a family. I know my wife is, even if we all drive her insane sometimes.

Not what you wanted to hear, but it's obvious you're not a big fan of men/boys.

Food for thought Sherman A1 Aug 2012 #1
There was a book which came out almost 20 years ago... redqueen Aug 2012 #2
Just watch any MSM show femrap Oct 2012 #22
"Why are Women Increasingly Unhappy?" decades watching rape as entertainment seabeyond Aug 2012 #3
And yet... MadrasT Aug 2012 #4
sigh.... seabeyond Aug 2012 #5
... as things. redqueen Aug 2012 #8
Yep. whathehell Aug 2012 #7
Yes, well they say that depression is anger turned inwards. whathehell Aug 2012 #6
"I perceived my days of "freedom" were ending..." redqueen Aug 2012 #9
Yes, well, I suppose we're both lucky in that we whathehell Aug 2012 #10
mom was on the golf course around dinner. some man off in the distance yelled she should be cooking seabeyond Aug 2012 #11
Good for her! whathehell Aug 2012 #12
Times my butt. redqueen Aug 2012 #13
omFg. no way? what happens to a girl raised in that manner. really.... seabeyond Aug 2012 #14
Well all those negative stereotypes about men, redqueen Aug 2012 #15
amazing what a father gives his daughter. mine did not cheat, or have playboy seabeyond Aug 2012 #17
My condolences.. whathehell Aug 2012 #16
It was just beginning then... femrap Oct 2012 #23
"We need to allow them to be angry, powerful, physical" ChillZilla Oct 2012 #18
Women are not "hardwired" to get fulfillment from raising a family. MadrasT Oct 2012 #19
Yeah cause ismnotwasm Oct 2012 #21
Oh for gods sake ismnotwasm Oct 2012 #20
You need to go read a femrap Oct 2012 #24
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