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cbayer

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Mon Jun 17, 2013, 07:33 PM Jun 2013

Organized Religion is Failing the Gay and Transgender Community [View all]

http://www.chicagonow.com/trans-girl-cross/2013/06/organized-religion-failing-lgbt-community/



By Meggan Sommerville, Sunday at 8:27 pm

Organized religion. Those words can cause some lively if not heated discussion. You add the topic of sexual orientation and gender identity into the mix and the heat gets dialed up a few notches. Then add being gay or transgender in the church and the conversation can often go to the negative extremes. Organized religion has failed when it comes to the perception of the church that is so dominate in the LGBT community.

Being transgender and being Christian, I know that I am a minority of a minority. I consider my walk with Christ to be the most important part of who I am and unfortunately, I have seen and been the victim, more than once, of the church’s ignorance, shallowness and prejudice towards the transgender community.

A recent study done by PEW Research shows some interesting and extremely disappointing numbers. Only 1 out of 10 people that identify as LGBT say that mainstream religious institutions are friendly to the LGBT community. Though it is the pastors of Christian churches that are the ones we hear about most speaking out against the Marriage equality or transgender policies in schools, it is not the only religion that takes a hit in this survey. The majority of the LGBT individuals surveyed rate that the Muslim, Mormon and the Catholic church as unfriendly. For me, this statistic is one of the saddest numbers I have ever seen. But from experience, it’s one statistic that doesn’t surprise me in the least.

The most important commandment that Christ left us with was to love one another just as He loves us. Whether my child chooses to have tattoos, body piercings or a radical and extreme hairdo, I love my child. If my child chooses to wear clothes that rebel against what the rest of society deems normal, I love my child. If my child would come to me in the years to come and tell me he or she is gay or trans – then I will love them all the same and I dare say many of you would as love your children the same way.

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so all his/her friends are going to hell if they're not a christian. some friend nt msongs Jun 2013 #1
Where do they say that? cbayer Jun 2013 #2
we are getting there, slowly arely staircase Jun 2013 #3
I agree, but we need more, particularly in less urban areas. cbayer Jun 2013 #4
absolutley, and to be honest my small town rural parish lost some members over this arely staircase Jun 2013 #5
What happened at your local parish? cbayer Jun 2013 #10
members left because of the inclusive approach (just a handful) arely staircase Jun 2013 #25
Good riddance. There will always (sadly) be churches where their bigotry can be coddled cbayer Jun 2013 #28
At least it's consistent. gcomeau Jun 2013 #6
Everyone? Hardly. cbayer Jun 2013 #7
Yes. Everyone. gcomeau Jun 2013 #8
Tell that to all the African Americans who benefitted from the civil rights movement. cbayer Jun 2013 #9
But religion didn't cause it. gcomeau Jun 2013 #11
Your statement was that it has failed everyone. cbayer Jun 2013 #12
My statement remain unchanged. gcomeau Jun 2013 #13
Er, I was replying to that post you made, so I'm not sure what you are referring to. cbayer Jun 2013 #14
I realize your post appeared as result of you pushing the "reply" button. gcomeau Jun 2013 #16
Oh. Sorry. I didn't respond to the statement because it wasn't relevant cbayer Jun 2013 #17
It was entirely about what you were saying. gcomeau Jun 2013 #18
But I wasn't making the argument that religion should be credited for cbayer Jun 2013 #19
Uh-huh... gcomeau Jun 2013 #20
So much dogma, so many words. cbayer Jun 2013 #21
Get back to me when you figure out what dogma is. gcomeau Jun 2013 #24
Nah, I think I will just let you have the last word and wish you adieu. cbayer Jun 2013 #31
Yeah, you seem to do that a lot. gcomeau Jun 2013 #32
So many personal attacks, so little content. trotsky Jun 2013 #26
Or tell it to the white slaveholders and the KKK members who made the CRM necessary. trotsky Jun 2013 #15
It hasn't failed me. arely staircase Jun 2013 #27
In what sense? -eom gcomeau Jun 2013 #29
in finding inner peace and an outward way to live arely staircase Jun 2013 #36
Yeah, about what I thought. gcomeau Jun 2013 #40
my faith teaches me to find common ground with people of other faiths and no faith at all arely staircase Jun 2013 #41
"Your faith"... gcomeau Jun 2013 #42
but to my question arely staircase Jun 2013 #43
Yes. gcomeau Jun 2013 #44
i get great joy from that answer arely staircase Jun 2013 #47
It's because the major religions are inherently bigoted... MellowDem Jun 2013 #22
Wow, what an extreme position you have. cbayer Jun 2013 #23
Again with the personal attacks. trotsky Jun 2013 #30
I'm not putting them all in the same box... MellowDem Jun 2013 #33
It's only a position that requires intellectual dishonesty and cognitive dissonance cbayer Jun 2013 #34
I have made no assumptions of you... MellowDem Jun 2013 #38
Oh, sorry. It seemed apparent that when you said "your position on god", then went on to cbayer Jun 2013 #39
It was the impersonal "your"... MellowDem Jun 2013 #45
I would also argue that one's position on the lack of god/gods is not more credible than either. cbayer Jun 2013 #46
It depends on your preferences... MellowDem Jun 2013 #48
That's cool. But these things get mushy when it comes to areas like love, religion, politics, cbayer Jun 2013 #49
I never claimed that my opinion... MellowDem Jun 2013 #50
I believe all those things are true about you. cbayer Jun 2013 #51
I think we may be missing the author's points here. pinto Jun 2013 #35
Agre with your take on this. cbayer Jun 2013 #37
Well, this wins the prize for Zoeisright Jun 2013 #52
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