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justhanginon

(3,290 posts)
8. Hi ellenrr. Ain't it fun?
Wed Aug 6, 2014, 11:05 PM
Aug 2014

I'm 10 years past you and know whereof you speak. I'm at the age when I get up in the morning I wonder what the hell is going to hurt today.
I have had asthma all my life and about a year and a half ago it turned into COPD. Two years ago I was alternately riding my bike and walking every morning. Now PFFFTTT. Run out of breath pretty quick. I always enjoyed gardening and building stuff but now I am good for about a half hour and then I have to quit. It is hard enough getting older and trying to adapt to that and then coping with the COPD , let me tell you I get so frustrated at times I am starting to make up my own curse words.
I think that the hardest part for me is just accepting the fact that I cannot do some of the things I used to and that is the normal progression of life. I also love to cook and bake so I am doing more of that for friends and also trying to pace my outdoor activities a little better. I have found that it helps me to just laugh at some of stuff that I still try to do and that helps keep me semi sane.
As one of my friends said to me the other day, dude, we're approaching 80. We may actually be getting old.
Nahhhh! Just a number. Now let's see, where did I put that inhaler.
Keep a good attitude and do the work arounds and if you can, keep a smile just for yourself and every once in a while treat yourself to one of those pity parties. By God at this point we've earned it. But just once in a while.

HI, ellenrr, think we're related??? elleng Aug 2014 #1
Oh, my Dear Ellenrr! NYC_SKP Aug 2014 #2
I have had arthroscopic surgery for torn meniscus in both knees. (Not both at once.) enough Aug 2014 #3
May I ask how long it took you to recover from each surgery? I am in line to Nay Sep 2014 #29
thanks all, ellenrr Aug 2014 #4
Regarding things to do post-retirement... NYC_SKP Aug 2014 #5
Great to hear of the work you're doing, SKP! elleng Aug 2014 #6
super! We must have meaningful things to do, or we just wait to die... ellenrr Aug 2014 #11
Meaningful things to do, or bingo? No Vested Interest Aug 2014 #18
boy howdy. mopinko Aug 2014 #7
oh, mopinko, thanks for the group hugs :) ellenrr Aug 2014 #12
Hi ellenrr. Ain't it fun? justhanginon Aug 2014 #8
yeah, accepting limits... ellenrr Aug 2014 #13
i dont know my limitations, at all mopinko Aug 2014 #16
Definitely aging but not particularly frail. No Vested Interest Aug 2014 #9
Hey, not too long at all. ellenrr Aug 2014 #14
DUers are very supportive of personal problems as well as No Vested Interest Aug 2014 #21
Far be it from me to tell you what to do, SheilaT Aug 2014 #27
I tell my "younger" friends" - the 60's are good years. No Vested Interest Aug 2014 #28
I'll be 66 in a couple more weeks, SheilaT Aug 2014 #10
Sheila T, remind me in 2045, and I'll celebrate yr birthday with you! ellenrr Aug 2014 #15
More about cataracts and the surgery. SheilaT Aug 2014 #17
I had cataract surgery in March on both eyes. RebelOne Aug 2014 #19
Yes. You should have been given several choices SheilaT Aug 2014 #20
Hi ellenrr Crewleader Aug 2014 #22
thank you crewleader. good luck with your knee. when the time comes. nt ellenrr Aug 2014 #23
Hi ellenrr ReRe Aug 2014 #24
thank you rere ellenrr Aug 2014 #25
Yeah, I started using those motor carts too... ReRe Aug 2014 #26
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