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84. You are suggesting that a responsible person can predict when he might need his firearm ...
Thu May 17, 2012, 03:33 AM
May 2012

for self defense.

If a responsible person realized that he would need his concealed weapon to go somewhere, he would simply avoid going there.

Would you admit that it is there is a possibility that a person might be merely walking through a parking lot and find himself attacked by an individual who not only wished to steal his money but intended to also severely injure or even kill his victim.

Parking Lot Security
by Gary R. Cook

Security for parking lots seems to be getting a lot of press lately. If you look at the statistics, roughly 80% of the criminal acts at shopping centers, strip malls and business offices occur in the parking lot. Lawyers make a good living off liability cases based on a lack of sufficient security measures or not taking "reasonable care" in the protection of employees and customers against criminal threats. The lawsuits often revolve around lack of sufficient lighting, surveillance and response. Once crime takes a foothold in an area it is difficult to break the trend, but there are some things you can do that can improve security, deter crime, reduce potential liability and make your customers feel safer. It's interesting to note that where parking lot security has been implemented, customer use has actually increased because they feel safer. Increased customer use means increased profit which can be used to justify the increased cost related to any security improvements
http://www.crimewise.com/library/parking.html


On Location: Wal-Mart Parking Lots

Chris Bottoms, one of our cinematographers, and I met Megan Holden’s family in mid-July in Henderson, Texas, a very small town in the western part of the state about four hours east of Dallas.

Megan HoldenWe didn't know what to expect from the Holden family. Megan Holden, a young woman of 19 years, had been kidnapped out of a Wal-Mart parking lot. She was brutally murdered. The killer had been hanging around both inside and outside the store for hours. He later turned up on the grainy tape that the cameras outside pick up. But nobody was monitoring the cameras. At Wal-Mart stores nobody ever monitors the cameras. It would take one low paid worker to do it for every eight hour shift, not much money when you add it up, but the cameras at Wal-Mart stores go unwatched.

***snip***

There were other crime stories that crystallized the "Wal-Mart way" for me. So many cameras to protect merchandise, so much money spent on keeping people from stealing mascara, or a microwave. So little spent on the safety of customers in the notoriously dangerous parking lots of Wal-Mart, too little. During one of our crime story interviews, I asked a man what he would tell his daughter who was going out to shop at a Wal-Mart at night: "Don't go," he said. That sort of sums it up.
http://www.walmartmovie.com/crime.php




PARKING LOT SAFETY FOR WOMEN FAQ

This is what you need to know about parking garage and parking lot safety for women. Lessons from crime victims teach you how to stay safe.

A man pointed a gun at a woman in the parking lot of an Arizona restaurant and ordered her into his vehicle, but she ran into the business and called the police.

A petite woman was getting into her car in a California parking garage when a man came up to her, put a knife to her throat and told her to get in the car. She knew that whatever harm he’d do to her in a parking lot would be worse if she went with him. She pushed the knife away but he put it back. The woman shoved her purse at him and ran for help. The man jumped into her car and sped out of the garage.

Parked cars provide ideal hiding spots for a crouching, stealthy predator to close in on you unless you’re especially aware of parking lot safety. Also beware of cars cruising the lanes; they can suddenly stop and jump out to attack or rob you.


http://www.crime-safety-security.com/Parking-Lot-Safety.html



I will agree with you that:

" Responsible gun owners don't leave firearms lying around where they may be stolen or found by curious kids. Responsible gun owners don't shoot people who pose no immediate threat."

I partially agree with your statement:

Responsible gun owners don't encourage others to carry firearms in public places unless there is overwhelming evidence that it is necessary.

I don't encourage anyone to carry a firearm and in fact do my best to discourage those who ask me about owning a firearm let alone carrying one. Firearms are not for everybody and the decision to own or to carry one involves serious thought and a thorough knowledge of yourself, your weaknesses and the potential of harm to others in your family. I have personally experienced the tragedy that firearms can cause. A person that I trained to safely handle firearms had been abusing alcohol and in a moment of shear stupidity managed to kill herself while handling a firearm. I use her example to point out how dangerous mixing firearms and alcohol can be and why you never handle a firearm while drinking just as you never drive when you have been consuming alcohol and are above the legal limit. Many people that I know were surprised by her death and said that she always appeared to be very safe around firearms.

However I don't discourage those who do decide to legally carry a firearm from carrying their firearm in public places. I often ask a person who has a carry permit if he has an app on his phone that tells him that he definitely should carry his firearm on a given day.

I have never had a person tell me that he has any reliable means of determining just when he might have a legitimate reason to carry his weapon.

At one time I told the range master when he asked me if I always carried my firearm, "I only carry it when I go into bad areas."

He proceeded to chew my ass. He told me, "The state of Florida after running a background check on you and making sure that you had the necessary training to carry a firearm decided to give you a license to carry. Now carry your damn firearm everywhere you go because you never will know when it might save your life or the life of another person. I definitely don't want to pick up the Tampa Tribune and find that you died because you were attacked and later find out that you didn't have your firearm with you. I also don't want see you come in here and listen to you whine about how you might have been able to stop an attack on another innocent person but was unable to because you left your carry gun behind in your safe."

I recognized the wisdom in his tirade. Therefore I carry unless I am going into an area where firearms are prohibited.

Of course you disagree and nothing I say will change your viewpoint. I have no problem with that.

Those damn guns always killing people. ileus May 2012 #1
"But, but, but."..... TheCowsCameHome May 2012 #2
Ok, wait. NewMoonTherian May 2012 #72
Can you put that number in context? hack89 May 2012 #3
I think a peron commiting suicide would think twice if he didn't have a gun handy. Slicing ones demosincebirth May 2012 #5
So do countries with low gun ownership rates have lower sucide rates? hack89 May 2012 #6
Silly hack89, don't you realize non-gun suicide victims aren't as dead as gun suicide victims? friendly_iconoclast May 2012 #28
Well one thing is for sure, it doesn't make near as much noise noluv4hyps May 2012 #83
You're absolutely right. DanTex May 2012 #9
Low gun states tend to have... krispos42 May 2012 #22
That may be true. DanTex May 2012 #32
It is true. krispos42 May 2012 #56
So education, poverty and access to mental health care are the same in each state? hack89 May 2012 #29
In Japan, the non-gun suicide rate is higher than *all* our murder and suicide rates combined friendly_iconoclast May 2012 #30
Those people are equally dead. You had a point? DanTex May 2012 #33
Most suicides I see... jeepnstein May 2012 #12
At least when you take an over-dose of pain killers to commit suicide you have time to demosincebirth May 2012 #49
It is not a matter of re thinking gejohnston May 2012 #51
Who knows how many have changed their mind before hanging themselves or jumping in front of demosincebirth May 2012 #69
those would be the same ones gejohnston May 2012 #70
that argument is nonsense. demosincebirth May 2012 #76
How so? gejohnston May 2012 #77
You may be confusing the two groups of suiciders. ManiacJoe May 2012 #78
I give up. nt demosincebirth May 2012 #79
Right, 'cause that's the only other method available.... PavePusher May 2012 #24
There are many easy, painless, ways to kill one's self. GreenStormCloud May 2012 #34
pills...easy peasy. gas...easy peasy. pills and alcohol easy peasy. Tuesday Afternoon May 2012 #93
There are several types that shouldn't be included. ileus May 2012 #7
Context: DanTex May 2012 #10
Why do you vastly understate the death toll from alcohol? Why ignore the death toll from drugs? hack89 May 2012 #13
I was giving context. DanTex May 2012 #14
We are not talking actions. We are talking agents. hack89 May 2012 #16
We have obviously not been very successful at fighting gun violence. DanTex May 2012 #17
That is because of our stupid war on drugs. hack89 May 2012 #18
Drugs are illegal in most other countries as well. The big difference is gun availability. DanTex May 2012 #19
How is an alcoholic drinking himself to death different from a suicide? hack89 May 2012 #21
Here's my problem with your number krispos42 May 2012 #25
make the assertion, provide the substantiation iverglas May 2012 #26
In recent years... krispos42 May 2012 #55
I could agree that the substitution rate is probably greater than 0%. DanTex May 2012 #57
when you start with a false premise iverglas May 2012 #59
Seems to be bright lines between accidents (a few hundred) and murder and suicide, which split the AtheistCrusader May 2012 #31
You carefully selected your context... NewMoonTherian May 2012 #73
How about them crazy bathtubs, the real killers? Starboard Tack May 2012 #36
I saw that article as very reflective of the gun control attitude in America hack89 May 2012 #40
You saw Japanese bathtub deaths as "very reflective of the gun control attitude in America" Starboard Tack May 2012 #43
No - society's attitudes as to what is dangerous and what is accepted. hack89 May 2012 #44
Deep bathtubs might be more dangerous. I think I get it. Starboard Tack May 2012 #46
No you don't get it. hack89 May 2012 #47
19308+11015+600=/=31513 Taitertots May 2012 #4
Bathtubs Starboard Tack May 2012 #37
Well Old Codger May 2012 #8
That's nothing compared to those bathtub killers Starboard Tack May 2012 #38
HMMMMM Meiko May 2012 #11
How many smoke themselves to death in the bathtub? Starboard Tack May 2012 #39
just one little note (edited) iverglas May 2012 #15
This poster is no longer with us. Clames May 2012 #103
Oh no, Paco! X_Digger May 2012 #104
Your point? HALO141 May 2012 #20
Guns are evil, I think. nt hack89 May 2012 #23
That's the price we pay for the freedom to own firearms. Atypical Liberal May 2012 #27
Not so. It's the price we all pay when fools use firearms around other people. Starboard Tack May 2012 #41
So tell us how to distinguish the responsible from the irresponsible hack89 May 2012 #45
My pleasure. Here are a few pointers. Starboard Tack May 2012 #48
No - I mean how do you write laws that distinguish between the two hack89 May 2012 #50
I'm not big on writing laws and legislation is not always the answer. Starboard Tack May 2012 #52
It won't be an election issue if Democrats leave well enough alone. hack89 May 2012 #54
I appreciate your maturity. NewMoonTherian May 2012 #74
One issue sarisataka May 2012 #61
I'm not going either, but if I had no choice. Starboard Tack May 2012 #62
You are suggesting that a responsible person can predict when he might need his firearm ... spin May 2012 #84
Needs lesson in geography. GreenStormCloud May 2012 #86
I have 3 suggestions for you Starboard Tack May 2012 #87
I personally hate shopping at Walmart ... spin May 2012 #88
Sounds like you'll be fine Starboard Tack May 2012 #89
have to ask gejohnston May 2012 #90
I really couldn't say Starboard Tack May 2012 #91
A Chevy Volt would gejohnston May 2012 #95
I like the Chevy volt Starboard Tack May 2012 #96
why not long distance? gejohnston May 2012 #97
The Volt only runs on it's electric motor. Starboard Tack May 2012 #98
OK you convinced me gejohnston May 2012 #99
The reason I avoid Walmart is that I dislike big box stores ... spin May 2012 #92
That's right. And as long as we have easy access to firearms... Atypical Liberal May 2012 #60
When was the last time a gun killed someone? ileus May 2012 #35
Just before the bathtub, or was it the knife, or the foot, or the car. Starboard Tack May 2012 #42
who other than gun control advocates view gejohnston May 2012 #53
Another reminder... Clames May 2012 #58
Are drive by shootings included w/car statistics or firearm statistics? nt Remmah2 May 2012 #81
So what would you propose to "fix" this "problem"? crayfish May 2012 #63
Just a question: discntnt_irny_srcsm May 2012 #65
Ohhhh...I didn't even notice that, thank you for pointing it out. I need to learn how to read crayfish May 2012 #66
think nothing of it discntnt_irny_srcsm May 2012 #68
The OP's usual M.O.... Clames May 2012 #71
Thanks, I would never have guessed. ;) discntnt_irny_srcsm May 2012 #75
Are you advocating... discntnt_irny_srcsm May 2012 #64
Where's the spammer from Italy when we need him? ileus May 2012 #67
Hey, yeah, I haven't seen him around in awhile. LAGC May 2012 #80
Then maybe the guns should go to jail and the people should be exonerated noluv4hyps May 2012 #82
Did those guns need help to kill those 31k, or did they do it on their own? ileus May 2012 #85
Fiction: The Personification of Inanimate Objects by jpak Tuesday Afternoon May 2012 #94
33,800 people killed in auto wrecks (2009) BiggJawn May 2012 #100
OMG LETS BAN CARS gendoikari87 May 2012 #102
19000? gendoikari87 May 2012 #101
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