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In reply to the discussion: Got some bad news today [View all]

hamsterjill

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3. I have an elderly guy.
Mon Nov 23, 2015, 05:02 PM
Nov 2015

I wake up every morning and look for him to make sure he made it through the night. The vet estimates that he's probably around 20. I've had him for 16 of those years. He's skinny and slow, but he has certain rituals that he still loves (ice water in a bowl!) and he is still eating and moving around. As long as he's happy being here, he will stay with me. When he is no longer enjoying his time here, I will make that hard decision.

Hugs and comfort to you. Thank you for obviously taking GREAT care of those two littermates for them both to have made it to such an old age. Thank you for loving them. Enjoy the remaining time. I read something recently that I though was profound. It went something like - - - don't worry about how they're going to do tomorrow. Just think about how they're doing today. Because if you worry about tomorrow, you'll miss the chance to enjoy them today.

Got some bad news today [View all] Rebkeh Nov 2015 OP
I imagine it's never easy. Wilms Nov 2015 #1
Been there recently with a mom cat and her son. Blessings to you.... glinda Nov 2015 #2
I have an elderly guy. hamsterjill Nov 2015 #3
Thanks, good advice there Rebkeh Nov 2015 #8
No, he's not Siamese. hamsterjill Nov 2015 #18
So sorry for your little girl yellerpup Nov 2015 #4
Thank you and I will n/t Rebkeh Nov 2015 #9
Thanks all Rebkeh Nov 2015 #5
. Omaha Steve Nov 2015 #6
so sorry. such a tough place. mopinko Nov 2015 #7
Such a nice group. Warm here. Rebkeh Nov 2015 #10
So sorry to hear this... Phentex Nov 2015 #11
so sorry. grntuscarora Nov 2015 #12
Just hold them and love them, keep them comfortable japple Nov 2015 #13
I am so sorry for your situation. Curmudgeoness Nov 2015 #14
The love is worth it though eridani Nov 2015 #15
I'll 2nd Wilms: it's never easy. Duppers Nov 2015 #16
I'm sorry Rebkeh, it's so hard watching them get older and ill. polly7 Nov 2015 #17
I am sorry shenmue Nov 2015 #19
Thanks all n/t Rebkeh Nov 2015 #20
I am so sorry your kitties are sick nadine_mn Nov 2015 #21
In decline tonight Rebkeh Dec 2015 #22
Peace shenmue Dec 2015 #23
So painful to experience. It's hard to imagine life without them. Judi Lynn Dec 2015 #24
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