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Mental Health Support

Maraya1969

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3. I guess I kind of feel the because this has been his life for so long that he will not be able to

Reply to elleng (Reply #1)

Sat Nov 9, 2013, 02:28 PM

Nov 2013

get well in that situation. Maybe that is me just lying to m myself or playing God or something. I don't know. But I feel real nervous putting him back on the streets.

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I am having a real hard time forgiving and deciding what to do with my "boyfriend" [View all] Maraya1969 Nov 2013 OP

This may be his 'bottom,' elleng Nov 2013 #1

I guess I kind of feel the because this has been his life for so long that he will not be able to Maraya1969 Nov 2013 #3

Listen to what Tobin said, elleng Nov 2013 #4

You are too kind Maraya. Literally. Tobin S. Nov 2013 #2

+1 LiberalEsto Nov 2013 #6

No more conditions, no more negotiations, no more agreements. enough Nov 2013 #5

Job one would seem to be protecting yourself...physically, economically, and emotionally HereSince1628 Nov 2013 #7

"If he doesn't agree to ..." Tell him to leave you alone. Now. Not later. AnotherMcIntosh Nov 2013 #8

Thank yo all for the great information and help. I've decided to pack his things in the car and Maraya1969 Nov 2013 #9

what a horrible situation otherone Nov 2013 #10

I don't know, the advice I gave to a guy who talked to me after group while IP... moriah Nov 2013 #11

Co-Dependency Feral Child Mar 2014 #12