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In reply to the discussion: Do you identify as a man or a woman? [View all]pipi_k
(21,020 posts)sound wonderful!
Is it sort of a Moroccan theme?
I love that style of decor...
Like you, I'm also a problem solver...it's very hard for me to hear tales of woe without trying to find a solution...something I'm sure annoys my daughter, who often uses me as a sounding board, but comes away with more than just a sympathetic ear. On the other side of that, I get annoyed when someone presents me with a problem and I come up with a solution that seems rational enough and the person I'm trying to "help" says "Yeah, but...yeah, but..." and continues on with the same self-defeating behavior.
Head vs heart...for me it's almost an everyday struggle. The world at large doesn't seem to quite trust someone who can't choose one side over the other. We're seen as "wishy-washy" or disingenuous.
Anyway...
it's cold and rainy here, but we're expecting warmer weather by the end of next week. Hope you are enjoying your holiday too