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In reply to the discussion: Ladies of the lounge who have been through or are going through "the change" [View all]HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)Last edited Fri Sep 28, 2012, 12:18 PM - Edit history (1)
As a guy, I recognize the "leave me the fuck alone" zone and respect it. It usually results in me giving her back rubs at 3 in the morning (after not getting laid). By then she's forgotten why she was angry about nothing. I keep my cool, like I always have. My youngest (of 3) daughter is the PMS queen. BACK OFF is the operative with her. The older two are much easier to deal with.
On the plus side, GOOD-BYE PUSSY PADS!!!!! Now she only puts them in after a romp in the sack (leakage). I got my nuts clipped 17 years ago, so that's convenient. Fifteen minutes of being a baby on a table and two weeks of stitches getting caught on EVERYTHING!!!
Consider it a blessing. Earlier is better. Well, on that point, we don't have to put down old towels on the bed anymore. It's normal, good, and a convenience. Don't fight it.
Hell, I rarely cum anymore. It isn't the objective now. I just enjoy the closeness. When I was 18, that's all that mattered. Now it's just an "I need to take a nap now" moment. It's just about the closeness. Nothing else matters. Just try not to be a bitch with him (sorry for the language, but I couldn't think of another term). He's aware of what is going on with you. Trust me. You're doing just fine.
On Edit: I've gotten a lot of VERY negative feedback on this post. I'm leaving it in place AND with the original text for the reason that removing or altering it would render said negative feedback pointless. There are some very well phrased posts that follow and very good points. Removing it would be, well, cowardly. I posted it and got reamed out for it. Please read the responses to this post.