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25. One of my children was treated very badly by cops on the night of her 17th birthday

Tue Jun 9, 2015, 07:34 PM

Jun 2015

Actually had a fake drug charge that wound up on her record without her ever being charged, arraigned, going to court, convicted, sentenced or even knowing about it. It would have ruined her life if she hadn't happened to marry the son of high ranking officer in the local police who launched an investigation after she was denied a concealed carry permit. Even with her father in law pulling every string and a high powered lawyer it took quite some time to get the completely fake charge dismissed.

It's a sore point with me due to personal experience, I wrote about it here in 2009.

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"Call my momma! Oh God!" This is "mouthing off"? Only when a black girl does it. [View all] pnwmom Jun 2015 OP

If the mother had shown up, it might have been a totally scenario. nt ladjf Jun 2015 #1

How so? Spazito Jun 2015 #29

For one thing, I erroneously failed to include the ladjf Jun 2015 #111

Thanks for the clarification... Spazito Jun 2015 #115

Thank you for that clarification. I misunderstood your implication. yardwork Jun 2015 #148

Yes, the cop would have shot her dead. nt valerief Jun 2015 #31

If you're suggesting that mothers follow their 15 year olds everywhere, yardwork Jun 2015 #91

IF they were white the white racist women who called the police TO THE SCENE never make NoJusticeNoPeace Jun 2015 #2

True. Many of these recent calls to police, that went terribly wrong, were made by white folks that FailureToCommunicate Jun 2015 #40

k&r uppityperson Jun 2015 #3

How quickly we forget Fumesucker Jun 2015 #4

What does this have to do with the OP? n/t gollygee Jun 2015 #6

Fumesucker is illustrating the "everyone does it" TBF Jun 2015 #9

Yup. Nt uppityperson Jun 2015 #10

The OP didn't say that white people are never treated badly by police gollygee Jun 2015 #12

+1 Bobbie Jo Jun 2015 #80

I don't think that is what Fumesucker meant. yardwork Jun 2015 #92

Well enlighten us then. nt TBF Jun 2015 #113

His own posts in this thread provide more info. yardwork Jun 2015 #114

I don't doubt his story - TBF Jun 2015 #118

Thank you for your nice response. yardwork Jun 2015 #147

Because, clearly, the girl at the pool was deliberately engaging in civil disobedience jberryhill Jun 2015 #21

It happened to my own daughter, I wrote about it here in 2009 Fumesucker Jun 2015 #28

Oh please. phil89 Jun 2015 #34

I had no reason to lie about it in 2009 Fumesucker Jun 2015 #41

I remember that fume sucker JustAnotherGen Jun 2015 #153

Ask Kalief Clayguy61 Jun 2015 #51

you like to call people liars heaven05 Jun 2015 #52

You've noticed that too Hekate Jun 2015 #97

You're a peach. EOM Dorian Gray Jun 2015 #158

Cops hurting defenseless American children for personal reasons. byronius Jun 2015 #69

The other one was for political reasons gollygee Jun 2015 #72

We'll have to agree to disagree on this one. byronius Jun 2015 #74

I'm familiar with it gollygee Jun 2015 #77

All right. I can accept that. Point taken. byronius Jun 2015 #93

This incident looks to me like a racist version of 50 Shades of Grey, utterly disgusting! Dont call me Shirley Jun 2015 #139

Police brutality. romanic Jun 2015 #110

How many of those were half-naked children waiting for their Mommas to drive them home? n/t pnwmom Jun 2015 #14

One of my children was treated very badly by cops on the night of her 17th birthday Fumesucker Jun 2015 #25

There's obviously no excuse whatsoever for what happened to your daughter. pnwmom Jun 2015 #57

Thank you... Fumesucker Jun 2015 #64

"out from under false charges" Solomon Jun 2015 #130

Bit of a difference between a protest and a children's pool party kcr Jun 2015 #20

Is that the yard of a Middle-Class White? WinkyDink Jun 2015 #23

It's a college campus, so...sorta? Maedhros Jun 2015 #127

Close to touche', but no cigar. :-) WinkyDink Jun 2015 #149

yeah, one or two incidents like this heaven05 Jun 2015 #30

Happened to one of my own kids on her 17th birthday Fumesucker Jun 2015 #33

typical treatment by the fascist heaven05 Jun 2015 #39

She happened years later to marrry the son of a high ranking officer in a police department Fumesucker Jun 2015 #44

No less than you've quickly forgotten the difference between a standard and an aberration. LanternWaste Jun 2015 #116

If I saw a cop on my kid like that, Ilsa Jun 2015 #5

If you're that out phil89 Jun 2015 #35

right heaven05 Jun 2015 #45

um... ejbr Jun 2015 #48

Cops have been NOLALady Jun 2015 #56

Not if the asshole sulphurdunn Jun 2015 #65

yes it is legal Vattel Jun 2015 #90

I bet if the misconduct Dorian Gray Jun 2015 #159

Attacking children is not OK, attempting to stop such a crime in progress Dragonfli Jun 2015 #70

Neither is it okay for asswipe cops to attack children. nt Ilsa Jun 2015 #75

Well aren't you something. It's like the context went whooshing right over your head. Hekate Jun 2015 #98

No it didn't Hekate, and that's the disturbing part of it. bluesbassman Jun 2015 #102

I agree with you Hekate Jun 2015 #103

Attacking little girls who beg for their mommies is not okay, even if you have a badge. n/t pnwmom Jun 2015 #108

Can't believe you said that. BlancheSplanchnik Jun 2015 #134

Since when? ieoeja Jun 2015 #135

I think there is something wrong with you. coyote Jun 2015 #151

My adrenaline NOLALady Jun 2015 #36

The adrenaline would probably get you thrown in a grave frylock Jun 2015 #38

Having to choose between sulphurdunn Jun 2015 #71

agreed frylock Jun 2015 #89

Probably dead. Drahthaardogs Jun 2015 #85

I wouldn't be thinking about that. Ilsa Jun 2015 #88

I have a sister who got in trouble a bit as a teen - TBF Jun 2015 #7

Yes, the kid with the camera is white marym625 Jun 2015 #11

It's just heartbreaking marym625 Jun 2015 #8

he runs the pool center. kwassa Jun 2015 #26

Thank you. eom marym625 Jun 2015 #83

He did more than just stand there, he laid hands on two other female chidren Dragonfli Jun 2015 #82

I have only watched on my phone marym625 Jun 2015 #84

When two young girls that were her friends ran over to her, just before the cop drew his weapon Dragonfli Jun 2015 #86

absolutely! marym625 Jun 2015 #87

The cop is a pervert too. His man-handling of the teen was so sexual in context, so obvious! Dont call me Shirley Jun 2015 #140

I agree some pervs will do anything to touch young girls, 14 is the age of a CHILD /nt Dragonfli Jun 2015 #143

I have a strong suspicion that the same folks who think that she was "mouthing off" and that logosoco Jun 2015 #13

Lawn chemicals? That's just... Hekate Jun 2015 #99

I was thinking that she was already being abused , mistreated and humiliated, and on top of that logosoco Jun 2015 #112

Those lawn chemicals are toxic! If they sprayed that morning she would have had lungs full of it! Dont call me Shirley Jun 2015 #142

The racist whites who called police on the black children onecaliberal Jun 2015 #15

Really? A hundred kids show up and some start climbing the fence TexasMommaWithAHat Jun 2015 #43

The pool party was cleared before hand. onecaliberal Jun 2015 #47

I'm afraid you are mistaken TexasMommaWithAHat Jun 2015 #61

First of all I hAve read or heard no where about 100 kids at the pool or fight onecaliberal Jun 2015 #63

I'm not defending anything indefensible. TexasMommaWithAHat Jun 2015 #73

Yes because you clearly know more than the people who were there. onecaliberal Jun 2015 #76

That one has a history of, well... U4ikLefty Jun 2015 #133

and you don't need a history to see Solomon Jun 2015 #141

That person is quite obvious, stating what is obvious sadly might get me banned Dragonfli Jun 2015 #145

Are you aware that there were two groups of party goers who were crowding the pool, pnwmom Jun 2015 #129

Here's some info TexasMommaWithAHat Jun 2015 #138

I haven't seen a single photo of anywhere near that many kids gollygee Jun 2015 #146

There's no video there JustAnotherGen Jun 2015 #154

That's a bullshit ass'd account of what happened, most of the kids belonged to the community pool uponit7771 Jun 2015 #105

not at all suprising noiretextatique Jun 2015 #120

Did anybody in this video besides the 1 cop look belligerent? pnwmom Jun 2015 #109

Megyn Kelley called her "no saint". MohRokTah Jun 2015 #16

I can safely say that Megyn Kelley's "no saint." pnwmom Jun 2015 #17

It's probably a made up name for a made up person. Enthusiast Jun 2015 #124

unlike josh duggar i guess JI7 Jun 2015 #18

FUCKIN WOW!!!!! uponit7771 Jun 2015 #19

...before welcoming Dinesh D'Souza back from "the joint" for his felony conviction jberryhill Jun 2015 #22

Dinesh D'Souza hates all the right people. That's how FOX and the GOP define morality. (eom) StevieM Jun 2015 #144

That's the FOX "standard"; Trayvon was "no saint," either. WinkyDink Jun 2015 #24

That's the standard if you're black gollygee Jun 2015 #27

The girl had every right to be angry, considering... Oilwellian Jun 2015 #32

She should have phil89 Jun 2015 #37

She didn't resist. What the fuck are you talking about?!? onecaliberal Jun 2015 #49

Did you miss the part where he told her to sit down, and she was already sitting down? Oilwellian Jun 2015 #50

She did comply. NOLALady Jun 2015 #54

Yes. It's like he couldn't decide what he wanted her to do! TexasMommaWithAHat Jun 2015 #62

I think when he ran up and did that dive-and-flip thing, his adrenaline surged pnwmom Jun 2015 #94

Chief: Actions 'indefensible' Omaha Steve Jun 2015 #58

She couldn't. He was ordering her to walk home -- and she was waiting for her momma pnwmom Jun 2015 #60

It looked like he pulled a gun for the video I saw. nt Ilsa Jun 2015 #78

She was complying, she was walking away & RamboCop grabbed her because she said she was going uponit7771 Jun 2015 #81

how well did it end for the cop? noiretextatique Jun 2015 #121

It isn't awoke_in_2003 Jun 2015 #42

Huge K & R !!! - Thank You !!! WillyT Jun 2015 #46

If he had killed her, that line would have been as remembered as "I can't breathe" bluestateguy Jun 2015 #53

That's what I was thinking. She could have died under his weight. pnwmom Jun 2015 #59

Camera is greatest invention Clayguy61 Jun 2015 #55

who is dealing with the pos that called the police because black kids? arresting and fining idiots locdlib Jun 2015 #66

That is an excellent point. byronius Jun 2015 #67

The police were called appropriately. TexasMommaWithAHat Jun 2015 #95

None of this shit is true, there was a parent who was there and in charge of the party and never uponit7771 Jun 2015 #104

I agree - pool rules very well may have been ignored or broken. Maedhros Jun 2015 #128

sure....that explains the ugly actions of the adults noiretextatique Jun 2015 #150

You are going to have fun with this one JustAnotherGen Jun 2015 #155

been there...done that eom noiretextatique Jun 2015 #164

Mentioned in other posts. TexasMommaWithAHat Jun 2015 #160

Do you have c/p's of those tweets? JustAnotherGen Jun 2015 #157

Here are pictures of the ads TexasMommaWithAHat Jun 2015 #161

Proxy server isn't responding? n/t JustAnotherGen Jun 2015 #162

I can get through. nt TexasMommaWithAHat Jun 2015 #163

Sorry but, cilla4progress Jun 2015 #68

Amen!!! Champ50 Jun 2015 #79

Her cries ripped my heart out. Hekate Jun 2015 #96

I'm shellshocked now by the story of the other young teen -- pnwmom Jun 2015 #100

The kids showed remarkable self control gwheezie Jun 2015 #101

They did. Everyone behaved well except for the "rogue cop" pnwmom Jun 2015 #106

The way the girl was treated and thrown around leaves no doubt in my mind the cop has a racist still_one Jun 2015 #107

My theory is that he was more of a bully than a racist. ladjf Jun 2015 #117

The white kid who filmed the video disagrees with you. He said that the cop pnwmom Jun 2015 #122

As I said in my post, bullies attack those who are less likely to be ladjf Jun 2015 #125

how about a racist bully? noiretextatique Jun 2015 #123

Racist bully would describe the policeman on the video. nt ladjf Jun 2015 #126

Or the media JustAnotherGen Jun 2015 #156

Kicked and recommended! This cop's actions are inappropriate! Enthusiast Jun 2015 #119

Did she have sharp fingernails or something? Helen Borg Jun 2015 #131

I would not treat a dog like he treated that girl... Ino Jun 2015 #132

People die from these type of head traumas grahamhgreen Jun 2015 #137

You posed an interesting question. Baitball Blogger Jun 2015 #136

we all know it would be a different story: no one would defend the cop noiretextatique Jun 2015 #152