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In reply to the discussion: Misogynistic language.... [View all]IdaBriggs
(10,559 posts)about the courage it takes to stand against "cultural norms" that denigrate and insult women.
Unfortunately, it appears that you are a member of a social sub group on DU that behaves in a borderline rude and/or abusive way, with a "ganging up" style that frankly reminds me of some bad high school movies featuring "mean girls". Multiple examples are available in this thread already.
I do not feel defended, supported or even liked by you. I do not appreciate the tone of many of your supporters. I do not want the issues of equality, social justice, or even common courtesy to be confused with the manners frequently displayed by the self-proclaimed "feminists" on this board.
I am a woman. I support equal pay issues, right to choose, freedom from abuse - you name it, and I am there.
Unfortunately, just like "decent Christians" wince when compared to members of the Westboro Baptist Church, I find proclamations of "courage" about misogynistic language usage in this context (we both know this is about the latest discussion with NYC_SKP a catalyst) disingenuous at best.
Swinging the blade of rhetoric at someone who has previously never displayed a penchant for MRA issues, and with interpretation subject to reasonable varying opinion is a waste of time that detracts from fighting against people who actually want to diminish women.
If you think NYC_SKP is someonewho doesn't belong on this board because of his ONE POST, congratulations - EarlG agreed with you. If you think he is a bad person who isn't an ally, well, that shows the level of discernment you bring to the conversation.
If you think *I* am not a supporter of feminist causes, again, that goes to your perceptions.
But please be clear: I really believe many of your public stands do more harm than good to the fight for equality and justice.
And I do not want Hillary Clinton in the White House again for reasons I have already discussed at length. I would love to see her on the Supreme Court where I think she would be an astounding and amazing Justice.