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cleduc

(653 posts)
19. My mother has dementia as well
Tue Aug 26, 2014, 09:12 AM
Aug 2014

When I was a boy, she was prejudiced against blacks. It's how she was brought up, in poverty with a father who wheezed to death from being gassed in the first world war. She didn't know any better - classic ignorance. MLK, RFK, etc & the civil rights movement gave her kids the support and arguments to work on her and educate her.

In 2008, she was a gigantic fan of candidate Obama. Every day, she'd turn on her TV to see one of her favorite people in the world: Barack. Today, when she gets up, she'll turn on her TV and be back at it, getting snippets of how President Obama is doing. She adores him.

I know when you see things like Michael Brown, 150 years after the civil war and 50 years after MLK, it's disheartening and makes you wonder if things will ever change. But people can change, some do and some have. I've seen it. 60-70 years ago, I have my doubts you'd have ever seen the fuss and front page outcry over the police shooting someone like unarmed Michael Brown as we've seen recently. Not everybody has changed and not enough have changed but a bunch have.

Keep up the good work you do here. Slowly but surely, it is working and changing people.

Wow. leftyladyfrommo Aug 2014 #1
Your mom BlueCaliDem Aug 2014 #2
You the really neat thing about dementia? BrainDrain Aug 2014 #3
Truth! tosh Aug 2014 #5
My mom had dementia, too. tosh Aug 2014 #4
My mom has dementia too! alcina Aug 2014 #7
So this guy goes into a coma in 1958 Omaha Steve Aug 2014 #10
Good one! alcina Aug 2014 #12
Kinda like the great line from... 3catwoman3 Aug 2014 #26
Niether did my mom Omaha Steve Aug 2014 #15
God lover her! ReRe Aug 2014 #6
Remind all the baseball fans The Wizard Aug 2014 #8
Same as me….. safeinOhio Aug 2014 #9
my grandmother: 2 kinds of people griloco Aug 2014 #20
I keep saying, if you "get" Hawaii you will "get" Obama KauaiK Aug 2014 #11
Is America ready for a hula dancing president? yurbud Aug 2014 #13
My Mom's mercuryblues Aug 2014 #14
lol nt griloco Aug 2014 #21
LOL..what an angel! Stellar Aug 2014 #16
Love your mom, Steve. sheshe2 Aug 2014 #17
How sweet! Aloha, Steve.. he sure was born here! Cha Aug 2014 #18
My mother has dementia as well cleduc Aug 2014 #19
Your mom explains you malaise Aug 2014 #22
I'm sorry about your Mom frazzled Aug 2014 #23
My Dad's dementia came and went. Jokerman Aug 2014 #24
He was absolutely right Omaha Steve Aug 2014 #25
A totally lucid moment... 3catwoman3 Aug 2014 #27
I hope this is true, because it's a great story! cbayer Aug 2014 #28
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