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In reply to the discussion: I am a BDSMer. I have run workshops on how to practice it safely. I've been doing it for 20 years. [View all]whathehell
(29,096 posts)144. Yeah..sure..uh huh..
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I am a BDSMer. I have run workshops on how to practice it safely. I've been doing it for 20 years. [View all]
sibelian
Jul 2014
OP
Thank You for what? Telling us to only get info from one source with a biased view?
KittyWampus
Jul 2014
#68
I never really could do it because it reminded me too much of an abusive relationship and what came
hrmjustin
Jul 2014
#53
But it's an interesting phenomenon that abused people often seek out abusive relationships,
Voice for Peace
Jul 2014
#61
And again, I'm sure you support their older, non "politically correct" opinions about homosexuality.
moriah
Jul 2014
#92
You're preaching about what is and what is not "natural" about sex, on a liberal discussion forum.
moriah
Jul 2014
#111
Explain tattoos, then. Or are people who like getting them "unnatural", too? n/t
moriah
Jul 2014
#135
You said liking pain wasn't natural, and that your judgement was not one about sex.
moriah
Jul 2014
#202
One thing that's hard to understand -- the dominant can't be dominant without the submissive's ....
moriah
Jul 2014
#243
It's less that you think it's bad for yourself. It's that you're passing a value judgement on others
moriah
Jul 2014
#260
You know, it used to be against the rules to say you were going to put someone on ignore...
moriah
Jul 2014
#269
People I know who do BDSM tell me that regardless of gender or orientations, subs far outnumber
eridani
Jul 2014
#271
Many women use drugs to alleviate the pain of childbirth, those who choose not to use drugs
seaglass
Jul 2014
#147
"Brilliance" indeed..You failed to get even 4 posts here before getting one hid!
whathehell
Aug 2014
#298
So you post judgmental crap, and when people call you on it, you put them on ignore?
moriah
Jul 2014
#239
The APA at one point thought homosexuality was unhealthy, too. Guess you support that as well.
moriah
Jul 2014
#84
I imagine it's ethically convenient to disagree with the academics when it suits your own biases
LanternWaste
Jul 2014
#169
Please cite your evidence that the decision was based on political correctness...
Hippo_Tron
Jul 2014
#216
As long as it's consenting adults, I prefer to leave it to them to set the boundaries. n/t
Gore1FL
Jul 2014
#42
Some people get an adrenaline rush from certain levels of pain or anticipation
Marrah_G
Jul 2014
#244
Thank you. I've and others have been trying to help people to understand that
Luminous Animal
Jul 2014
#86
Thanks. We're 99 days out, and talking about everything under the sun except what we need to be
genwah
Jul 2014
#8
You appear to be under the impression that people can focus on one, and only one concern at any give
LanternWaste
Jul 2014
#170
I like Frank Herbert's update on the word ghaflah. It's the small distraction that kills. Others
genwah
Jul 2014
#199
just type 50 shades of grey into the DU search box in the upper right hand corner up there
steve2470
Jul 2014
#17
"The view that it's weird or creepy seems to come from a small handful of people.."
whathehell
Jul 2014
#188
In years past, sex threads were not allowed anywhere on DU not even in the Lounge.
Tuesday Afternoon
Jul 2014
#79
Yes, another good one from the eighties but, then I love The Stones. Seen them twice.
Tuesday Afternoon
Jul 2014
#161
Safe.Sane.Consentual are essential Collarchat & Fet Life are good ref sites
stuffmatters
Jul 2014
#37
I could kiss you for that pun, but the law and this thread require that I smack you around.
DRoseDARs
Jul 2014
#182
Recent discussions have focussed on an allegedly irresponsible portrayal of BDSM.
sibelian
Jul 2014
#178
It's in response to a popular book being made into a movie being discussed here
Marrah_G
Aug 2014
#300
LOL! ONLY absorb information that is positive from BDSM practitioners. LOL!
KittyWampus
Jul 2014
#67
Not into heavy play, but I have taught at a good number of events across the US.
riqster
Jul 2014
#191
OK, outside of some light spanking and mild dominance play, not really into BDSM...
Humanist_Activist
Jul 2014
#241