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trekbiker

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44. I seriously doubt that the vast majority of men

Wed May 28, 2014, 01:42 PM

May 2014

know or even care what the word "mysandry" means. We generally dont even think about it.

what do a LOT of men care about?

the fucked up family court system
no fault divorce
lifetime alimony

I personally know many men that will not be able to retire because of these things. They will work till they drop. They are slaves to the system.

http://judgybitch.com/2013/09/17/what-would-happen-if-no-men-showed-up-for-work-today/

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What is 'misandry'? [View all] redqueen May 2014 OP

See: your posting history. name not needed May 2014 #1

lol quinnox May 2014 #2

I'd rather people check out your posts... here and in the men's group. redqueen May 2014 #3

Post removed Post removed May 2014 #38

I didn't accuse him of anything. redqueen May 2014 #49

So you were just ReallyQuiet about it Major Nikon May 2014 #67

Ugh. Again with the stalker bullshit. redqueen May 2014 #69

It's like deja-vu all over again Major Nikon May 2014 #73

I post links to you defending Warren Farrell here, redqueen May 2014 #85

I could give a shit less about Warren Farrell Major Nikon May 2014 #98

Your posts in that thread, and many others since then, here on DU, speak for themselves. nt redqueen May 2014 #100

As do yours Major Nikon May 2014 #109

As a man, I have to say that is completely untrue. closeupready May 2014 #5

See this passage of the OP ... 1StrongBlackMan May 2014 #37

right on schedule. niyad May 2014 #7

I wonder if you are aware gollygee May 2014 #24

Are you kidding? Warpy May 2014 #32

Thanks for proving redqueen's point, predictably. n/t chervilant May 2014 #25

thanks for proving that accusations of misandry are really not honest geek tragedy May 2014 #45

BOOM CFLDem May 2014 #53

Hey, what was the context of your PM to sea that included the c-word? redqueen May 2014 #64

This message was self-deleted by its author CFLDem May 2014 #70

Did it not dawn on you that feminists who are opposed to the normalization of misogynist slurs redqueen May 2014 #75

This message was self-deleted by its author CFLDem May 2014 #84

Knock off the act. No one's buying it. nt redqueen May 2014 #88

This message was self-deleted by its author CFLDem May 2014 #90

are you aware of how creepy you are acting right now? nt geek tragedy May 2014 #92

Post removed Post removed May 2014 #95

"rabid fempack" geek tragedy May 2014 #97

Oh my Dorian Gray May 2014 #114

It is, isn't it? CFLDem May 2014 #116

I meant your posts. Dorian Gray May 2014 #117

I know you did CFLDem May 2014 #118

This message was self-deleted by its author A-Schwarzenegger May 2014 #124

Too bad it's not permanent. The fear is strong in that one. Squinch May 2014 #125

no...just you noiretextatique May 2014 #187

troll and not a good one CreekDog Jun 2014 #200

It is creepy as hell. JTFrog May 2014 #136

BTW, sending PMs to adversaries is a tactic of intimidation...does not work with me noiretextatique May 2014 #194

I can't stand the poor men crowd. hrmjustin May 2014 #4

it is the same sort of mindset that allows xians to whine about how oppressed and niyad May 2014 #9

Good analogy! Raksha May 2014 #110

Well, yes and no. Warpy May 2014 #36

A swing and a miss ... 1StrongBlackMan May 2014 #39

Partially correct Warpy May 2014 #76

Again ... 1StrongBlackMan May 2014 #93

And importantly, they are not oppressed on the basis of their sex or ethnicity. nt redqueen May 2014 #41

Some can't seem to understand that race-based and class-based oppression are two different things. nomorenomore08 May 2014 #143

some people deny racism exists at all noiretextatique May 2014 #189

No shit. They're unable to see past the end of their own damn nose, as I've said before. n/t nomorenomore08 May 2014 #192

denial is the chief privilege noiretextatique May 2014 #193

White males have lost SOME of their advantages. (Some, not all.) Women and people of color are now Squinch May 2014 #128

Mostly they lost one yardstick to justify social privilege, a much higher paycheck Warpy May 2014 #134

Oh, I'm sure it's a real thing. dawg May 2014 #6

There's also the question of how much power these hypothetical misandrists might have to el_bryanto May 2014 #13

I refer you and Dawg, both ... 1StrongBlackMan May 2014 #42

You are so right on target. nt redqueen May 2014 #51

I realize they think they are ... 1StrongBlackMan May 2014 #55

Why not unbite it and post an OP describing these? spooky3 May 2014 #172

I predict this OP will be filled with examples sufrommich May 2014 #8

without a doubt. niyad May 2014 #10

+2 nomorenomore08 May 2014 #144

there is another thread where this is proved repeatedly noiretextatique May 2014 #188

k and r and watching the usual suspects. niyad May 2014 #11

It's almost to the point now that I'm just embarrassed for them. redqueen May 2014 #16

What is 'obsession' snooper2 May 2014 #12

OK, this guy is officially a badass and handled it... TreasonousBastard May 2014 #21

Habaneros? We call them Yucatan Killers Warpy Jun 2014 #201

Ask msanthrope. randome May 2014 #14

You rang? nt msanthrope May 2014 #31

True misandry is probably fairly rare tkmorris May 2014 #15

Bingo! tea and oranges May 2014 #27

Taking a possibly expanded understanding of misandry dickthegrouch May 2014 #82

What you're describing is misogyny, in a nutshell. nomorenomore08 May 2014 #145

I think this would be a good addition to the forum rules. bloom May 2014 #17

Hmm. davidthegnome May 2014 #30

Banning the popcorn smiley. Phlem May 2014 #50

Who is advocating for banning the popcorn smiley??? nt msanthrope May 2014 #121

Misandry is... excringency May 2014 #18

"...an immense band-aid used by weak minds to cover their butt-hurt." nomorenomore08 May 2014 #146

misandry geek tragedy May 2014 #19

Fail n/t Gore1FL May 2014 #28

cries of 'misandry'=cries of 'reverse racism' geek tragedy May 2014 #29

Toss in "teh gay mafia iz opressing us", typically by fundamentalist bullwinkle428 May 2014 #40

isn't it amazing how it's conservative Christian, heterosexual, white men geek tragedy May 2014 #43

Don't sell yourself short. Gore1FL May 2014 #59

I'm not pretending to be a victim of anyone's purported bias against me. geek tragedy May 2014 #63

Fail n/t Gore1FL May 2014 #79

Fail n/t Gore1FL May 2014 #58

sorry, I don't belong to the ranks of self-pitying men geek tragedy May 2014 #60

Fail n/t Gore1FL May 2014 #78

One-word posts are not very convincing, by and large. And "fail" isn't really an argument. n/t nomorenomore08 May 2014 #148

The person I responded to failed quite a bit in this thread. That's a fact, not an argument. n/t Gore1FL May 2014 #156

Actually, claiming someone has 'failed' in ia debate is an argument geek tragedy May 2014 #164

Fail n/t Gore1FL May 2014 #174

thank you for your standard level of thoughtfulness and intelligent discourse on gender. geek tragedy May 2014 #175

because I said so noiretextatique May 2014 #196

Not an argument, and observation. Gore1FL May 2014 #197

but... noiretextatique May 2014 #198

"However, dictionary definitions often fall short ..." oldhippie May 2014 #20

Thanks for proving redqueen's point, predictably. chervilant May 2014 #34

You're welcome ...... oldhippie May 2014 #133

Color me not surprised... n/t chervilant May 2014 #140

Why the defensiveness? What exactly do you have to lose? nomorenomore08 May 2014 #149

Time. nt oldhippie May 2014 #170

Oh, my. The very heart of the matter. We're going there. Zorra May 2014 #22

Good thing there is none of that on DU RobertEarl May 2014 #23

I'm Ok Wth This ProfessorGAC May 2014 #26

Why ... 1StrongBlackMan May 2014 #46

Just An Opinion ProfessorGAC May 2014 #52

That's just it ... 1StrongBlackMan May 2014 #74

Then You're Picking Nits, Too ProfessorGAC May 2014 #142

If you consider pointing out status quo supportive statements ... 1StrongBlackMan May 2014 #147

It's not just one person redefining a term. redqueen May 2014 #81

I Agreed With The Concept ProfessorGAC May 2014 #141

Because people (not you) often use supposed small objections to subtly chip away at someone's nomorenomore08 May 2014 #150

I guess I'm just not getting what this means: redqueen May 2014 #160

largely a myth. And definitely not a problem. n/t librechik May 2014 #33

Thank You, redqueen tea and oranges May 2014 #35

And there is a reason for that ... 1StrongBlackMan May 2014 #48

I seriously doubt that the vast majority of men trekbiker May 2014 #44

Hmmm ... 1StrongBlackMan May 2014 #54

Very true Major Nikon May 2014 #62

As courts have done throughout history ... 1StrongBlackMan May 2014 #77

I certainly understand that view. And I don't blame anyone (of any gender) who wishes to eschew nomorenomore08 May 2014 #151

I'm not anti-marriage, I'm just anti-marriage licensing Major Nikon May 2014 #157

I get that. And anything involving excessive bureaucracy tends to be a not-so-good thing. nomorenomore08 May 2014 #162

No fault divorce? Really? redqueen May 2014 #61

"Only 15 percent of cases go to court, and, of those, half involve domestic abuse." nomorenomore08 May 2014 #152

My pleasure. redqueen May 2014 #186

LMAO. Help, help, I'm being oppressed by no-fault divorce. geek tragedy May 2014 #65

Holy fucking shit! redqueen May 2014 #68

that's just from the first month's worth of posts. geek tragedy May 2014 #72

Check this beauty out : geek tragedy May 2014 #80

I call them handmaidens of the patriarchy. nt redqueen May 2014 #91

My copy of "The Handmaid's Tale" just arrived in the mail yesterday. Raksha May 2014 #120

Yikes! I guess I always knew there were female misogynists, but that's a new low. Raksha May 2014 #119

"Does it make her feel more important or what?" nomorenomore08 May 2014 #154

I had no idea that no-fault divorce was an issue, but I did a little googling gollygee May 2014 #71

the misogynists are not doing their apologists any favors geek tragedy May 2014 #86

Republicans have a problem with it too. redqueen May 2014 #94

It's an issue of "A woman can leave me and I can't make her suffer for it". JoeyT May 2014 #104

Outside of DU'niverse many men, and women probably could care less. Puzzledtraveller May 2014 #87

Damn, that's quite a blog. IronLionZion May 2014 #115

Sounds like a page ripped directly from the "MRA Ten Commandments"! bullwinkle428 May 2014 #161

K & R x 1000 KauaiK May 2014 #47

We're In 90% Agreement cer7711 May 2014 #56

It's the name of my boat Capt. Obvious May 2014 #57

The unmarried Andry daughter, but she prefers to be addressed as Ms. Andry ... 11 Bravo May 2014 #66

coffee, spit......... Puzzledtraveller May 2014 #89

This guy. Puzzledtraveller May 2014 #83

Hot Button Time Scott6113 May 2014 #96

MIRT!!!!! geek tragedy May 2014 #99

I can't prove it. Scott6113 May 2014 #111

Ah, and so of course it was believable to you that a woman would sit geek tragedy May 2014 #112

Your Choice Scott6113 May 2014 #131

You said you weren't there, but you're embellishing the details constantly. geek tragedy May 2014 #132

Not embellishing Scott6113 May 2014 #138

here is how I know your story is bullshit. geek tragedy May 2014 #139

I think she did it just enough to turn it red. Scott6113 May 2014 #163

Right... F4lconF16 May 2014 #177

Yes and yes Scott6113 May 2014 #178

funny how you concede that women have it worse than men and then geek tragedy May 2014 #185

I just have to use this. redqueen May 2014 #101

ROFL gollygee May 2014 #102

Oh lord yes. Starry Messenger May 2014 #103

Check yourself Scott6113 May 2014 #123

Ha ha ha ha ha!!! bravenak May 2014 #155

Flowchart. bravenak May 2014 #158

Nother graphic. bravenak May 2014 #159

Make my point, please Scott6113 May 2014 #179

You had a point? bravenak May 2014 #181

No lie, no joke, just showing what people can do Scott6113 May 2014 #182

I am going to tell you something that i hope doesn't offend you. bravenak May 2014 #183

Amen CFLDem May 2014 #105

Does that include PM'ing them gender slurs? Squinch May 2014 #129

"Hot Button" is right trekbiker May 2014 #106

The male perspective is welcome. The misogynists' perspective shouldn't geek tragedy May 2014 #113

Complaining about no-fault divorce would seem to be self-defeating, in his case, wouldn't it? nomorenomore08 May 2014 #166

I'm assuming something quite different about any abuse that would have happened in this chap's geek tragedy May 2014 #167

No way for me to know that. But I wouldn't discount the possibility, to be sure. n/t nomorenomore08 May 2014 #169

Home of the shrill? chervilant May 2014 #180

"Calling feminists "shrill" is an example of misogyny...) " opiate69 May 2014 #190

Serious answer: the gender expectations are part of patriarchy IronLionZion May 2014 #108

+1 nomorenomore08 May 2014 #168

Thanks IronLionZion May 2014 #171

I'm just another dude with an opinion. But I try to be as understanding and compassionate nomorenomore08 May 2014 #173

Firstly MIRT, we've got a live one intaglio May 2014 #127

K & R and thank you, thank you, THANK YOU, redqueen! Raksha May 2014 #107

Re: banning the popcorn smiley. If there is one thing I would take a strong stand for quinnox May 2014 #122

Finally!! bravenak May 2014 #153

Something to talk about instead of gun control. nt valerief May 2014 #126

They are trying to pretend there is equality treestar May 2014 #130

Misandry does exist Prophet 451 May 2014 #135

kind of explains why some are so desperate to believe privilege doesn't exist! bettyellen May 2014 #137

BTW I do agree Scott6113 May 2014 #165

I wish they would answer the question I keep asking. Jamastiene May 2014 #176

I'll try flashbang May 2014 #184

Very good explanation. Jamastiene May 2014 #191

scarcity mentality...privilege...selfish...narcissism...entitlement noiretextatique May 2014 #195

In addition to the answers above, I'd like to mention access to women's bodies. redqueen May 2014 #199

Is misandry a real phenomenon? Sure The Traveler Jun 2014 #202

Nobody's trying to "make you feel" anything. Stop being so narcissistic. nt redqueen Jun 2014 #203