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IrishAyes

(6,151 posts)
143. Well, good for you, then!
Sat Apr 12, 2014, 01:19 PM
Apr 2014

But different situations tend to bring different experiences. If you were a tiny female who generally presents soft, you might've had different reactions from the world at large. But don't presume to judge me because of that. Even if you are/were a tiny female, there still could've been different factors involved. So spare me the pearl clutching. Just because it didn't happen to you doesn't mean it didn't happen to someone else, believe it or not. Or maybe your memory's not what it could be.

And no, I never particularly minded being set upon by bullies because I knew it ultimately proved my ticket out of a place I hated. I didn't mind being expelled for protecting myself. Always from bigger kids, not smaller ones. I merely administered a lesson in manners that their parents and schools had failed to teach. I literally hate being accosted to the point that I felt entitled to enjoy it a bit if forced to defend myself. If you think I should've been ashamed, you don't really have anything to teach me that's worth knowing.

If, on the other hand, you're calling me a liar because nothing really happens unless it happens to YOU, that's another whole can of worms, isn't it? Your problem, not mine.

The fucking Blaze? Jackpine Radical Apr 2014 #1
+1,000,000 abbeyco Apr 2014 #4
The attacker is black, the victim is white Warpy Apr 2014 #42
I updated the OP justiceischeap Apr 2014 #43
Thanks, much appreciated. Jackpine Radical Apr 2014 #46
Sometimes you get exactly what you ask for. PeteSelman Apr 2014 #2
Every person that clicks that link puts money in Glen Beck's pocket. ForgoTheConsequence Apr 2014 #3
How was he to defend himself? No one was helping him. upaloopa Apr 2014 #5
It's unusual for a girl to attack a boy first, or at leas it was in my day.. whathehell Apr 2014 #6
Ha. I was a quite young second or third grade boy who was beaten and abused by geckosfeet Apr 2014 #15
Oh, I'm sure it happens, although I doubt it happens as much as it does in reverse.. whathehell Apr 2014 #50
He seemed very concerned that he may have hurt her. bravenak Apr 2014 #7
obviously overreacting white privilege/nt DustyJoe Apr 2014 #8
Obvious reaction to a Glen Beck site... LanternWaste Apr 2014 #24
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. ManiacJoe Apr 2014 #9
of course the Blaze's motivation for posting this is clear Enrique Apr 2014 #10
Pretty transparent, isn't it? Nine Apr 2014 #17
Here is the video so you don't have to click on the fucking "blaze" POS website snooper2 Apr 2014 #11
thanks Nine Apr 2014 #18
That's what I want to know. Where the hell was the bus driver? n/t pnwmom Apr 2014 #20
What are you expecting the driver to do? ManiacJoe Apr 2014 #22
Intervene. She should have been there, in the bully's face. And if the bully attacked her, pnwmom Apr 2014 #25
Please pause to consider ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #37
That could be true. But that doesn't reduce the bus driver's obligation pnwmom Apr 2014 #44
Absolutely ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #52
Right. We can't know what happened earlier. n/t pnwmom Apr 2014 #60
That is the entire point of ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #83
That's the problem dude AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #86
Please note my supportive post #139. IrishAyes Apr 2014 #140
I think that was the voice in the background saying they were calling 911 Arcanetrance Apr 2014 #23
Maybe. But that's not enough. She should have been in the bully's face, pnwmom Apr 2014 #27
Trouble is, bus drivers are generally under orders not to intervene tkmorris Apr 2014 #28
They can and should stop the bus (which appears to be the case here.) pnwmom Apr 2014 #30
Bus drivers aren't allowed to do much more without losing their jobs Arcanetrance Apr 2014 #29
The bus driver wasn't close enough to be in the video. She wasn't close enough pnwmom Apr 2014 #32
I just know this has been the way it's been going back multiple decades now Arcanetrance Apr 2014 #33
When a child is being put into a headlock by another child? Any bus driver who wouldn't pnwmom Apr 2014 #53
It would be nice if they'd do more Arcanetrance Apr 2014 #74
Did you or your parents report this to the school? pnwmom Apr 2014 #76
Yes and nothing happened a week later I sliced one of the kids with razor blade and was suspended Arcanetrance Apr 2014 #84
Did you escalate the situation or did the other kid wound you, first? pnwmom Apr 2014 #103
He trapped me in a corner outside the lunchroom and I decided to do that Arcanetrance Apr 2014 #105
Good for him B2G Apr 2014 #12
Absolutely. Jgarrick Apr 2014 #31
Or maybe ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #39
There is far less evidence of that AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #48
The "evidence" starts ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #68
I feel very comfortable AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #71
Can you tell us ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #87
That was a precautionary AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #90
I don't have incomplete information AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #100
NO! You have a video, NOT a video of the entire occasion illustrating the complete proof/truth. IrishAyes Apr 2014 #138
Interesting AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #146
So I can only hang out here if I meet your approval? Otherwise you want to throw me out? IrishAyes Apr 2014 #151
You can hang out wherever AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #159
Of course I can. I was beginning to wonder if there was a new sheriff in town, IrishAyes Apr 2014 #162
Wow you really don't know when to stop AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #164
Nah, you've already wasted too much of my time as it is. I'm putting you on oxygen starvation. IrishAyes Apr 2014 #165
Did you seriously just imply that poster is a racist? Union Scribe Apr 2014 #155
No, I object to wild speculation - yours and the others on your indefensible side. IrishAyes Apr 2014 #156
You are way over the top Union Scribe Apr 2014 #157
tsk tsk tsk - pots calling kettles black. Where will it end, if ever? IrishAyes Apr 2014 #161
Can't tell you what happened immediately prior in this instance.... Fastcars Apr 2014 #107
True ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #108
If we are going to play this AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #75
Okay ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #89
Yes AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #92
Except he's sitting down, covering his face, and she's standing over him. pnwmom Apr 2014 #65
Come on, man. delta17 Apr 2014 #82
Okay ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #91
Do you have EVIDENCE AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #94
Do YOU have any evidence that it didn't? eom 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #97
Yeah I have a video AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #98
I have a video showing AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #101
You keep demanding evidence IrishAyes Apr 2014 #141
Actually AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #147
Keep on saying that long enough, and maybe even you'll start to believe it. That won't make it true IrishAyes Apr 2014 #152
No, I would definitely react. delta17 Apr 2014 #104
That's what an emotionally mature adult does ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #109
Then I decided wrong. delta17 Apr 2014 #112
Agreed ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #114
Not sure. delta17 Apr 2014 #115
And I yours ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #117
Sounds good. delta17 Apr 2014 #118
Our entire social reality is shadowing this conversation eridani Apr 2014 #132
"Please stop, I want to go home. Please stop." Downtown Hound Apr 2014 #137
One more thought. delta17 Apr 2014 #113
Absolutely agreed. eom. 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #116
Weak. Union Scribe Apr 2014 #102
Or maybe...just maybe, you are totally full of shit? Downtown Hound Apr 2014 #128
LOL...now that's funny. U4ikLefty Apr 2014 #131
It could have gone much worse for her. Lizzie Poppet Apr 2014 #13
Looks like we answered the question... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2014 #14
As I said upthread... misogyny. (nt) Nine Apr 2014 #19
Oh goodness sakes! I got pwnd! WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2014 #21
The comments are this are appalling - Please don't post things from the blaze. kimbutgar Apr 2014 #16
WHY are links from the Blaze allowed on DU???? arcane1 Apr 2014 #26
+1 Skidmore Apr 2014 #34
Message auto-removed Name removed Apr 2014 #35
The problem with video clips ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #36
The shitty source not withstanding. .. pipoman Apr 2014 #38
Could it be possible that ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #40
No Egnever Apr 2014 #49
No defense?... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #55
Nope AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #58
Can you not acknowledge that the ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #73
No AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #78
In my opinion, violence is only justified for self-defense Downtown Hound Apr 2014 #127
What are you talking about ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #130
Here's a list of things that would set me off to the point where I would lay Downtown Hound Apr 2014 #133
wow is right Egnever Apr 2014 #62
So tell us ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #77
We don't know AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #81
Does it matter? Egnever Apr 2014 #88
Yes ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #93
Why? AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #96
No AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #51
That would explain one kick or punch Warpy Apr 2014 #54
In my youth ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #61
Ok so you were a bully? AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #64
Yes ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #79
I was bullied and that chick was the textbook bully joeglow3 Apr 2014 #124
I was a quiet bookworm who never started anything Warpy Apr 2014 #66
Could it be if the sister was not the aggressor the brother would have stepped in earlier? dilby Apr 2014 #57
My point exactly AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #59
Very good point and that pretty much sums it up right there oneofthe99 Apr 2014 #120
In general, absolutely pipoman Apr 2014 #63
No, there isn't LittleBlue Apr 2014 #106
This should be obvious. delta17 Apr 2014 #111
so u think what she was doing was ok? nice nt msongs Apr 2014 #41
No ... Maybe ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #47
If he had done that to the girl AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #56
Body language is not suggestive of such at all, pretty much creative speculation. TheKentuckian Apr 2014 #134
not going to defend the blaze Egnever Apr 2014 #45
Sometimes things really are as bad as they look. badtoworse Apr 2014 #67
Is there a scenario where what we saw at the beginning is acceptable? Hip_Flask Apr 2014 #80
What the hell? MO_Moderate Apr 2014 #69
Ironically everyone AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #70
to some it's "bullying" others "racism" and others "misogyny" WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2014 #72
It's a goddamn shame no adult can wade in and break this up. Inkfreak Apr 2014 #85
Good. Screw the bullies LittleBlue Apr 2014 #95
if this story gets picked up by Fox, I suspect Rev. Al might investigate... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2014 #99
It's actually a World Star Hip Hop video VScott Apr 2014 #110
She needs to be locked up for the MAXIMUM amount of time possible (nt) JJChambers Apr 2014 #119
I once had a thread locked for using a much less offensive pipoman Apr 2014 #121
HOW CAN ANYONE PUBLISH ANYTHING ON DU THAT BECK EVER TOUCHED? YOU KNOW IT'S SKEWED! IrishAyes Apr 2014 #122
Well to be fair AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #149
So THAT's why you liked it so much! IrishAyes Apr 2014 #153
Cognitive Dissonance AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #160
CD - you do seem to have some expertise in that area. (meow) IrishAyes Apr 2014 #163
I just want to know . . . Brigid Apr 2014 #123
You must have went to much nicer schools than I did Scootaloo Apr 2014 #126
is there any article or other info related to this anywhere ? JI7 Apr 2014 #125
You don't condone what this kid did to fight back? Really? What is your solution then? Downtown Hound Apr 2014 #129
What is always with the namby pamby ass not "condoning" such reaction? TheKentuckian Apr 2014 #135
That is just horrible. Wish Bus Drivers could do something in a situation like this. Mrdrboi Apr 2014 #136
Let me tell you folks what I know from PERSONAL EXPERIENCE: IrishAyes Apr 2014 #139
I too, grew up as a military brat, and nothing even remotely like that happened. Throd Apr 2014 #142
Well, good for you, then! IrishAyes Apr 2014 #143
That explains much. Throd Apr 2014 #144
This nails it JustAnotherGen Apr 2014 #145
Amen to you! IrishAyes Apr 2014 #150
Thank God AnalystInParadise Apr 2014 #148
You know the old joke about jurors Union Scribe Apr 2014 #158
This message was self-deleted by its author Mojo Electro Apr 2014 #154
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