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LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
38. Drawing strictly on personal experience here
Mon Feb 6, 2012, 05:19 PM
Feb 2012

The percentage of my clientele that seemed to be, to use your language, "masturbating in a woman" was maybe one quarter, and at that I'm not controlling for the fact that I had a large number of Hispanic clients and there was a language barrier with some. The ones that were really disconnected from the whole act were pretty rare; most seemed to specifically WANT there to be some appearance of companionship. Which I assume was why they were hiring me and not sitting home with a copy of Playboy. There was maybe a little less conversation and sharing than you'd get from picking a guy up at a bar, but not by much. The important difference being, once again, that we don't jail people for picking each other up in a bar, even if there's no deep loving emotional connection or the woman was molested as a child. We assume, rightly, that they're adults capable of making the decision.

There are no choices made by any adult anywhere that are not the result of some form of baggage- experience is what makes us who we are. That does not give me, or you, the right to interfere with those choices unless they are harming someone else- and by that I mean harming, not someone totally unrelated to them, hundreds of miles away, vaguely complaining that "I feel degraded by the example this sets". I support the human rights of ALL sex workers, not just those that have the right background.




i have never bought into this. but, i also dont know that it is the anti sex people seabeyond Feb 2012 #1
Moral panic stories are a staple of every form of media. TheWraith Feb 2012 #13
i never saw them come from the moral panic side. i saw it come more from titillate.... seabeyond Feb 2012 #14
It's always moral panic. TheWraith Feb 2012 #18
i dont agree. nt seabeyond Feb 2012 #24
You're free to do that. TheWraith Feb 2012 #29
Most prostitutes... CoffeeCat Feb 2012 #2
+1000000000 thank you. Whisp Feb 2012 #4
well said. thank you. nt seabeyond Feb 2012 #5
good post - thanks n/t dana_b Feb 2012 #35
I agree for the most part, except RZM Feb 2012 #44
Ahh, you might want ot get yourself one of these: RC Feb 2012 #3
Duck and cover... LadyHawkAZ Feb 2012 #6
some of these women have been abused and have an altered view of life Whisp Feb 2012 #7
Like I said... LadyHawkAZ Feb 2012 #8
I'm not referring to anything legal or taking the 'choice' away Whisp Feb 2012 #11
Not even if you marry a skeevy fat bad breathed creep? LadyHawkAZ Feb 2012 #15
I don't understand the comparison to marriage and prostitution. Whisp Feb 2012 #21
If a person is incompetent to choose one LadyHawkAZ Feb 2012 #23
I can't see the comparison Whisp Feb 2012 #27
Most people can't see the comparison. LadyHawkAZ Feb 2012 #31
before I read your whole post I have to say this: Whisp Feb 2012 #33
Drawing strictly on personal experience here LadyHawkAZ Feb 2012 #38
Alright, I read your whole post now. Whisp Feb 2012 #34
Not just because you talk about it LadyHawkAZ Feb 2012 #36
well you talk like one that is full of crap. Whisp Feb 2012 #37
I'm not going to play kiddie insults with you. n/t LadyHawkAZ Feb 2012 #39
I was not making any of this conversation personal. Whisp Feb 2012 #40
Do you actually read any of what I write? LadyHawkAZ Feb 2012 #42
Thank you. GoneOffShore Feb 2012 #43
Thanks. To answer your question: LadyHawkAZ Feb 2012 #45
Must read: 'GIRLS LIKE US' by Rachel LLoyd proverbialwisdom Feb 2012 #9
Have read. LadyHawkAZ Feb 2012 #10
I might be reading you wrong here. but Whisp Feb 2012 #12
Yep, you're reading it wrong. LadyHawkAZ Feb 2012 #17
ok then, I misunderstood. Whisp Feb 2012 #22
Post removed Post removed Feb 2012 #16
"To the "bathhouses" where homosexuals exchange favors."? Maybe you'd like to rephrase? nt TheWraith Feb 2012 #19
wtf? stevenleser Feb 2012 #32
Judging from that blog's advertising, I'm thinking MineralMan Feb 2012 #20
Violet Blue is a very sex positive columnist. GoneOffShore Feb 2012 #26
I visited the link, thanks. MineralMan Feb 2012 #28
Interesting comment. GoneOffShore Feb 2012 #41
By the way - I didn't mean this to be a drive by. GoneOffShore Feb 2012 #25
Sex libodem Feb 2012 #30
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