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In reply to the discussion: Any idea of the arrest numbers for "trafficking and prostitution" in Indianapolis yesterday? [View all]LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)The percentage of my clientele that seemed to be, to use your language, "masturbating in a woman" was maybe one quarter, and at that I'm not controlling for the fact that I had a large number of Hispanic clients and there was a language barrier with some. The ones that were really disconnected from the whole act were pretty rare; most seemed to specifically WANT there to be some appearance of companionship. Which I assume was why they were hiring me and not sitting home with a copy of Playboy. There was maybe a little less conversation and sharing than you'd get from picking a guy up at a bar, but not by much. The important difference being, once again, that we don't jail people for picking each other up in a bar, even if there's no deep loving emotional connection or the woman was molested as a child. We assume, rightly, that they're adults capable of making the decision.
There are no choices made by any adult anywhere that are not the result of some form of baggage- experience is what makes us who we are. That does not give me, or you, the right to interfere with those choices unless they are harming someone else- and by that I mean harming, not someone totally unrelated to them, hundreds of miles away, vaguely complaining that "I feel degraded by the example this sets". I support the human rights of ALL sex workers, not just those that have the right background.