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104. Who is the perpetrator of all these rapes against men?

Reply to Exultant Democracy (Reply #101)

Wed Apr 10, 2013, 12:17 PM

Apr 2013

Is it women?

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Teen: I Was Raped by 4 200-Pound Women [View all] Purveyor Apr 2013 OP

I don't quite get the 200 lb part but it's still an unusual story. I know it is.. BlueJazz Apr 2013 #1

Just keep on stimulating that prostate. TheMadMonk Apr 2013 #23

TMI trumad Apr 2013 #75

ding ding ding thread winner ... !!!!! :D nt littlewolf Apr 2013 #85

I rarely actually alcibiades_mystery Apr 2013 #99

Perhaps it made it easier to overpower him? BainsBane Apr 2013 #28

He just wanted to point out that since they were fat Warpy Apr 2013 #42

"it's possible as long as they didn't allow him to climax" TheDebbieDee Apr 2013 #88

Or you know, it's a description of his attackers tammywammy Apr 2013 #97

At that age reaching climax without "deflating" is the norm FreakinDJ Apr 2013 #255

They could have spiked his drink with viagra Turborama Apr 2013 #64

Or the women could have used *ahem* adapter kits, available in almost any reputable sex shop. TheMightyFavog Apr 2013 #173

Probably wickerwoman Apr 2013 #71

Oh..I see...didn't think of that. Boy..sometimes the world gets a little stranger .. BlueJazz Apr 2013 #216

do reporters tell the weight of male rapists in their stories? sheesh. eom ellenfl Apr 2013 #188

Of course they do, if they're asking for the public's help in tracking them down. polly7 Apr 2013 #192

but that headline doesn't say she was raped by a 200 lb man she met online. ellenfl Apr 2013 #200

No, it sure doesn't. polly7 Apr 2013 #202

but not in the headline . . . that was my point. eom ellenfl Apr 2013 #250

It is provided as an answer to the question of his credibility lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #209

Who specifically is blaming the male victim in this instance? LanternWaste Apr 2013 #246

The question was asked why the women's weight was relevant. lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #262

I think the idea -- which still could be silly -- is that they were large/strong DirkGently Apr 2013 #249

Yep..that's what was going on in my mind also. "Mrs Smith was raped by a 214 pound male" BlueJazz Apr 2013 #215

It's a germane answer to the question "why didn't you just leave?" n/t lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #194

That is why "all men are potential.rapists" stance was so wrong. darkangel218 Apr 2013 #2

What is wrong is your understanding. nt ZombieHorde Apr 2013 #7

How so? nt darkangel218 Apr 2013 #15

If a man is changing a tire out in the middle of nowhere, ZombieHorde Apr 2013 #103

Still doesnt validate that All men are potential rapists. darkangel218 Apr 2013 #106

It's not about the men in our lives that we love and charish. ZombieHorde Apr 2013 #122

I agree with you. "Rape can and is committed by both sexes." In_The_Wind Apr 2013 #13

If "all humans are potential rapists but Warren Stupidity Apr 2013 #17

Yes rape can be committed by both. Luminous Animal Apr 2013 #25

Something very important happened to me reading your reply Mira Apr 2013 #27

Thank you, Mira. Thank you so much. Luminous Animal Apr 2013 #33

I can understand what you are saying well. Mira Apr 2013 #38

I sent mine to self-defense training. They really appreciated it. JDPriestly Apr 2013 #54

Me too. Thank you. LiberalLoner Apr 2013 #70

Just because most rapes are committed by men, it doesnt mean ALL men are potential rapists. darkangel218 Apr 2013 #30

Dear darkangel218, I believe that you are not a rapist so... Luminous Animal Apr 2013 #36

Lmao!! you have trust issues then , if you are afraid of and want to avoid the 8 billion people darkangel218 Apr 2013 #39

Why would she trust you? Fawke Em Apr 2013 #46

Living in fear is a choice. darkangel218 Apr 2013 #49

Um, I kicked my first husband's ass. Fawke Em Apr 2013 #52

The sharp defense skill that I posed to you in my questions that you've not answered Luminous Animal Apr 2013 #57

BTW, the husband who tells me I have trust issues Fawke Em Apr 2013 #50

I'm so sorry to hear these things happened to you n/t deutsey Apr 2013 #182

Where have I once stated most men would consider rape... Luminous Animal Apr 2013 #47

There is no point in dragging this on and on. darkangel218 Apr 2013 #55

I hope you realize... someday Fawke Em Apr 2013 #62

I thought dark angel was female BainsBane Apr 2013 #79

Yea, so did I. SammyWinstonJack Apr 2013 #83

Dragging this on and on? chervilant Apr 2013 #86

You confuse the word potential with probable or future. Luminous Animal Apr 2013 #40

Someone in an elevator could potentially be robbed or even killed by a female. darkangel218 Apr 2013 #43

Not all your life. Fawke Em Apr 2013 #53

Are young men taught to not get in an elevator when the only occupent of that elevator is a female? Luminous Animal Apr 2013 #56

According to DoJ, 99% of all rapists in the US are men. KitSileya Apr 2013 #68

Yes, actually, to an outside observer, we are Scootaloo Apr 2013 #58

Thank you for this post. n/t TDale313 Apr 2013 #60

Potential can be there for both sexes, for pretty much anything. darkangel218 Apr 2013 #61

Only if you ignore Crime statistics BainsBane Apr 2013 #73

less than 1% of rapists are women BainsBane Apr 2013 #72

Agree. It's almost like saying, "All black people are potential muggers." TimberValley Apr 2013 #82

Thank you for this post. TDale313 Apr 2013 #41

That's a pretty grim world you live in. Maybe this will make you feel a bit better: Comrade Grumpy Apr 2013 #51

What I find amazing about some of the replies to your post justiceischeap Apr 2013 #76

Only 1 in 4? It has to be higher than that. I personally have been physically grabbed twice (both Nay Apr 2013 #138

Good post! Starboard Tack Apr 2013 #117

good post. been there, thought that. eom ellenfl Apr 2013 #191

Plus one million. LanternWaste Apr 2013 #248

Substitute woman/female in your post with black/hispanic and gasp with outrage yet the Purveyor Apr 2013 #257

How about you do it using my questions and I'll answer. Luminous Animal Apr 2013 #258

No, that is the truth, and it is not a wrong stance. liberalmuse Apr 2013 #44

I disagree with you. Its a sexist remark and not true. darkangel218 Apr 2013 #59

I disagree with you. You are sexist and don't believe in truth. Fawke Em Apr 2013 #63

I am sexist?? how, by pointing out a sexist stance?? darkangel218 Apr 2013 #65

You need to understand something Warpy Apr 2013 #45

There will always be criminals. darkangel218 Apr 2013 #67

BECAUSE THERE IS NO WAY FOR A WOMAN, OR A MAN, TO 'SEE' WHICH STRANGER IS Nay Apr 2013 #150

You know just as well as me that what statement does is generalizing darkangel218 Apr 2013 #159

You aren't this stupid. jeff47 Apr 2013 #184

Perheps you should learn how to hold a conversation without insulting darkangel218 Apr 2013 #198

Why? jeff47 Apr 2013 #228

You obviously have issues, i feel bad for you. So much anger cant be good. darkangel218 Apr 2013 #234

+1000 smirkymonkey Apr 2013 #238

Appropriate precautions are only insulting to those who fear appropriate precautions... LanternWaste Apr 2013 #247

It is the Man's Responsibility? Macoy51 Apr 2013 #80

It's men's responsibility to change men jeff47 Apr 2013 #183

Only You Can Fix Yourself Macoy51 Apr 2013 #201

+10000000 darkangel218 Apr 2013 #204

people enable rape in all kinds of ways BainsBane Apr 2013 #217

Still can't comprehend the point then? jeff47 Apr 2013 #229

if You Lost the Argument, Throw Insults Macoy51 Apr 2013 #264

That would be "white-knighting". redgreenandblue Apr 2013 #223

No, that would be you deflecting jeff47 Apr 2013 #230

Your words were "men should change men". redgreenandblue Apr 2013 #263

nice hijack salin Apr 2013 #78

Its a discussion board ffs. darkangel218 Apr 2013 #89

I used to think that way when younger. GaYellowDawg Apr 2013 #90

I undersand what youre saying. However, teaching young girls/women darkangel218 Apr 2013 #92

Oh, I don't think so. GaYellowDawg Apr 2013 #95

I completely disagree with you. darkangel218 Apr 2013 #100

thank you! renate Apr 2013 #114

To be honest GaYellowDawg Apr 2013 #259

That is a very good explanation of "All (anything) does (anything)". There is nothing wrong with bike man Apr 2013 #210

Thank you for getting it! smirkymonkey Apr 2013 #239

I didn't get it for a long time. GaYellowDawg Apr 2013 #260

It's not a stance. It's a distortion of an explanation. redqueen Apr 2013 #108

How precisely does the one deny the other? LanternWaste Apr 2013 #245

i have a weird feeling about this story...not one, but *four* 200-pound women? who raped him HiPointDem Apr 2013 #3

Nope. Four 200 pound women , once each. Even hmmmmier. pkdu Apr 2013 #5

yes. fixed. brain slower than fingers. HiPointDem Apr 2013 #11

I am going to come clean and admit I first thought the title read dsc Apr 2013 #4

WWII. That thought made you "come clean".... You may need help! pkdu Apr 2013 #6

So did I. Without the pun, lol. nt LWolf Apr 2013 #87

In this thread: Double standards... Comrade_McKenzie Apr 2013 #8

Really? A Little Weird Apr 2013 #35

bullshit. I expressed doubt about the woman in NE cali Apr 2013 #84

This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Apr 2013 #94

Strange how the women were all about the same weight and height. nt ZombieHorde Apr 2013 #9

I find this very hard to believe. MrSlayer Apr 2013 #10

So you're saying temporary311 Apr 2013 #12

Haha! Nice. MrSlayer Apr 2013 #16

Actually, yeah, it can still happen. temporary311 Apr 2013 #20

Some systems work regardless of circumstances. KitSileya Apr 2013 #69

no FightForMichigan Apr 2013 #226

The article itself says 'sexually assaulted', so it could have been anything. polly7 Apr 2013 #14

You're right. MrSlayer Apr 2013 #22

It is in fact highly probable that direct genital stimulation can cause an erection. Gravitycollapse Apr 2013 #19

Not for me. MrSlayer Apr 2013 #34

Use your imagination. darkangel218 Apr 2013 #21

Yeah, I kind of went off half cocked on that one. MrSlayer Apr 2013 #31

He doesn't have to function for it to be rape though... octothorpe Apr 2013 #29

Yep, I was wrong on that. MrSlayer Apr 2013 #32

again, you assume a certain sex act is the only way rape can occur. You lack imagination. CBGLuthier Apr 2013 #81

sex doesn't necessarily require an erect penis datasuspect Apr 2013 #91

Yes, interesting. Not that it is impossible, but it does seem kind of fishy. smirkymonkey Apr 2013 #240

I hope they're caught and prosecuted. Horrible thing for this young man. nt. polly7 Apr 2013 #18

My heart goes out to this young man. TDale313 Apr 2013 #24

I hope they're caught as well. liberalmuse Apr 2013 #48

agreed. salin Apr 2013 #77

Totally agree. jessie04 Apr 2013 #243

I must admit to doing a triple take BainsBane Apr 2013 #26

"Sexual assaults by females on males are not unheard of in Toronto, a detective tells the Post." JI7 Apr 2013 #37

Post removed Post removed Apr 2013 #66

....... cali Apr 2013 #74

But what? EOTE Apr 2013 #109

Would there be so much scrutiny here had a teenage girl been raped by four guys... Poll_Blind Apr 2013 #93

No. GaYellowDawg Apr 2013 #96

Thanks for your posts on this thread. nt redqueen Apr 2013 #112

No problem. GaYellowDawg Apr 2013 #261

This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Apr 2013 #98

All wearing theKed Apr 2013 #221

This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Apr 2013 #232

Is it outside the realm of possibility? theKed Apr 2013 #237

This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Apr 2013 #252

More men are raped in Amerca then women. Men almost never report on female rapists. Exultant Democracy Apr 2013 #101

"More men are raped in Amerca then women" LancetChick Apr 2013 #102

I have seen an article that claimed man-on-man prison rape happened more frequently ZombieHorde Apr 2013 #105

Who is the perpetrator of all these rapes against men? boston bean Apr 2013 #104

men rape men too datasuspect Apr 2013 #129

no kidding, that is why I asked the question. boston bean Apr 2013 #132

when you consider that institutionalized rape datasuspect Apr 2013 #134

you are preaching to the choir, boston bean Apr 2013 #136

i honestly don't care datasuspect Apr 2013 #140

That's nice.. boston bean Apr 2013 #145

yeah datasuspect Apr 2013 #156

No, you are not the choir at all. You are singing something else. lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #187

No, you are making things up Jeff, that I never said. boston bean Apr 2013 #190

Then what did you mean by "who is perpetrating all those rapes?" lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #193

Uh, he was saying it was women. boston bean Apr 2013 #195

Yet, you refuse to answer my question. lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #196

There was no question, just a bunch of bullshit accusations. boston bean Apr 2013 #197

No. "?" is known as a question mark. lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #199

No it is not. boston bean Apr 2013 #205

Then you misunderstood what he wrote lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #207

No, you made up stupid crap. boston bean Apr 2013 #208

What you say can't be reconciled with other things you say. lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #212

in your inflated ego. boston bean Apr 2013 #222

Crickets? lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #203

I see this a lot. lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #181

Of course it is. boston bean Apr 2013 #233

You'll need to post a link for this preposterous claim. Sheldon Cooper Apr 2013 #107

Does prison rape not count or something? EOTE Apr 2013 #111

It's because of the way he said it. redqueen Apr 2013 #113

Why is it disingenuous to point out that men are being raped in far larger numbers than most people EOTE Apr 2013 #115

That's not what he said. boston bean Apr 2013 #119

Here's what he said: EOTE Apr 2013 #120

He was responding to the claim boston bean Apr 2013 #123

But he was suggesting that not including them would be the default. EOTE Apr 2013 #125

He doesn't believe the bullshit claim boston bean Apr 2013 #128

My numbers? Not very good at following a conversation, are you? EOTE Apr 2013 #130

He was including them for you, and you took offense. boston bean Apr 2013 #133

I took offense at the suggestion that prison rape shouldn't be included by default. EOTE Apr 2013 #146

Well, I would like to suggest that boston bean Apr 2013 #147

He DIDN'T KNOW that it should be included. EOTE Apr 2013 #152

Because the poster didn't include it by saying that boston bean Apr 2013 #155

Christ, I have no intention of defending things I haven't said. You should really get off that. EOTE Apr 2013 #164

I'm not asking you to explain anything. boston bean Apr 2013 #166

Read my post 167. EOTE Apr 2013 #170

You said "More men are raped in America then women" Marrah_G Apr 2013 #137

No, I did not. EOTE Apr 2013 #144

I'm sorry, I mixed you up with the one who started this sub-thread Marrah_G Apr 2013 #160

No problem. nt EOTE Apr 2013 #171

Nope that is exacly what I was saying. Exultant Democracy Apr 2013 #124

It's not. redqueen Apr 2013 #131

I don't know if that's true or not. EOTE Apr 2013 #141

There is indeed less recourse in prison. redqueen Apr 2013 #158

I have less issue with broadbrushing now. EOTE Apr 2013 #175

I doubt if you're really curious, but I'll explain anyway: Sheldon Cooper Apr 2013 #116

I doubt you're much one for thinking, but I'll explain anyway: EOTE Apr 2013 #118

The reply SC was responding wasn't talking about that. Are their co-ed prisons? boston bean Apr 2013 #142

Are THERE co-ed prisons? Not that I know of. EOTE Apr 2013 #148

Yes, but it still doesn't make the claim that more men are raped than women. boston bean Apr 2013 #153

I never made that claim. EOTE Apr 2013 #154

I didn't say you did. boston bean Apr 2013 #157

You're asking me to defend something I didn't say, that's stupid. EOTE Apr 2013 #162

No I am not. boston bean Apr 2013 #163

Responding to ridiculous claims with more ridiculousness is not helpful. EOTE Apr 2013 #167

I could see if your ire were focused on the person the poster was responding to. boston bean Apr 2013 #172

Then I'm over the top. EOTE Apr 2013 #176

That isn't what the poster said at all. boston bean Apr 2013 #178

I've posted it almost a dozen times now. EOTE Apr 2013 #179

yeah, but what your quoting isn't equalling what you are boston bean Apr 2013 #180

I would respond to that if I were capable of deciphering it. nt EOTE Apr 2013 #186

I never "added that women are doing most of it to men." Keep your words out of my mouth. Exultant Democracy Apr 2013 #149

You framed it that way. Perhaps you should edit. nt redqueen Apr 2013 #151

Your resposnible for your own close reading. I most definitly do not want to reframe, Exultant Democracy Apr 2013 #161

Back up the claim that more men are raped than women. boston bean Apr 2013 #165

post 143 Exultant Democracy Apr 2013 #168

You're using the "all men are potential rapists" canard as if it had any validity. redqueen Apr 2013 #169

You can't be serious, Sheldon Cooper Apr 2013 #189

I don't play rugby either, but then I'm not very good at it. EOTE Apr 2013 #206

fucking disgusting lying bullshit. cali Apr 2013 #121

DOJ, the Bureau of justice statistics and the National Prison Rape Elimination Commission. Exultant Democracy Apr 2013 #143

Those links tell us more men are raped than women? boston bean Apr 2013 #174

If you add up the numbers they do. Which led to a series of articles like this last year Exultant Democracy Apr 2013 #177

In prisons, not the general population BainsBane Apr 2013 #214

You must have only looked at the first tow, because you are incorrect. Exultant Democracy Apr 2013 #219

statistics BainsBane Apr 2013 #256

The numbers they give for male rape is about 10 times lower then what the DOJ and BOJ have Exultant Democracy Apr 2013 #265

Rape in prison somehow doesn't count? theKed Apr 2013 #225

Thanks -- that article was very interesting. CokeMachine Apr 2013 #224

There are some problems with the comparisons boston bean Apr 2013 #236

it's prison rape only BainsBane Apr 2013 #213

Rape is rape if you add up the numbers my premise holds. Exultant Democracy Apr 2013 #220

The reports you provided are about prisons BainsBane Apr 2013 #251

Your post is the disgusting post. I didn't realize a very pubic news story from last year Exultant Democracy Apr 2013 #266

I think you forgot your sarcasm emote Marrah_G Apr 2013 #126

rape is part of the institutional process datasuspect Apr 2013 #127

What evidence do you have that is the case? BainsBane Apr 2013 #211

Really? Do you have the stats for that? smirkymonkey Apr 2013 #241

What a horrible ordeal. I'm glad he came forward. redqueen Apr 2013 #110

+1 nt Zorra Apr 2013 #135

+1 La Lioness Priyanka Apr 2013 #254

Rape is Rape and this is a terrible thing. Marrah_G Apr 2013 #139

Suppose that the assault started off as non-sexual Mopar151 Apr 2013 #185

Men rape women, women rape men. haele Apr 2013 #218

Fascinating FightForMichigan Apr 2013 #227

I always hated word problems in math. Warren DeMontague Apr 2013 #231

Rape is horrible no matter who the perpetrator is. Jamastiene Apr 2013 #235

But what was the guy wearing? nt Courtesy Flush Apr 2013 #242

Another MRA-style response, if the sexes were reversed: redqueen Apr 2013 #244

ugh. hope he finds justice. La Lioness Priyanka Apr 2013 #253