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Lone_Star_Dem

(28,158 posts)
11. Her level of remorse is breaking my heart, and I don't even understand what she's saying.
Thu Jan 31, 2013, 08:23 PM
Jan 2013

Honestly, the poor thing I want to hug her. I hope things work out for her and she's able to regain the respect she lost.


I don't recall the last time I was emotionally touched by a public apology in the US. Let alone the last time I heard one from a public figure I actually believed. Here it's more about saying pretty words which were usually written for you by a public relations specialist, or crying some fake tears hoping you fooled enough people for the press to drop it until another celebrity screws up. In other words, American's don't have the same awareness of societal ethics and the impact their actions have actually had on others. Here it's more about how what you said or did is going to negatively impact you, and what you can do to mitigate the damage to yourself. It's a much more selfish mentality. Many in our society have no real concept of respect anymore, be it for themselves or for others. It's evident in everything we do.

Would they commit seppuku if caught lip syncing? CBGLuthier Jan 2013 #1
Your're missing the whole point... AsahinaKimi Jan 2013 #3
and for that I apologize CBGLuthier Jan 2013 #8
In terms of apologies...I was thinking of the AsahinaKimi Jan 2013 #9
I agree that Culliver was wrong to say what he said davidpdx Feb 2013 #35
Sounds like he did better than most.... Wounded Bear Feb 2013 #36
I don't understand this. Did the guy have to apologize? leftstreet Jan 2013 #2
You're kidding, correct? RC Jan 2013 #5
First thought: Japanese are more self-aware, or maybe self-conscious due to society. freshwest Jan 2013 #4
I agree AsahinaKimi Jan 2013 #6
Putting Cultural Differences Aside......... left on green only Jan 2013 #7
An American would be lauded for getting some, not humiliated Dreamer Tatum Jan 2013 #10
Her level of remorse is breaking my heart, and I don't even understand what she's saying. Lone_Star_Dem Jan 2013 #11
When you see this.. AsahinaKimi Jan 2013 #13
Some things I see that go on here in the states are bothersome to me as well. Lone_Star_Dem Jan 2013 #16
yeah check out my post #9 AsahinaKimi Feb 2013 #17
I see we were on the same page on that. Lone_Star_Dem Feb 2013 #19
I am disgusted, nauseated and angry about this. Bonobo Jan 2013 #12
You may be right Bonobo san AsahinaKimi Jan 2013 #14
I agree Art_from_Ark Jan 2013 #15
honto desu! AsahinaKimi Feb 2013 #18
I actually know what that word means ("baka"); I think. Behind the Aegis Feb 2013 #20
Right about baka and slightly wrong about phrase. Bonobo Feb 2013 #21
I appreciate it. I am embarrassed I got it wrong. Behind the Aegis Feb 2013 #24
"Baka" can, indeed, mean "fool" or "idiot" Art_from_Ark Feb 2013 #22
Thank you! I hate getting things wrong. Behind the Aegis Feb 2013 #23
When I was first learning Japanese, the Japanese exchange students Art_from_Ark Feb 2013 #26
wow.. AsahinaKimi Feb 2013 #27
"-jijii" is a kind of derogatory suffix Art_from_Ark Feb 2013 #28
Thank you Art san.. AsahinaKimi Feb 2013 #29
Come to think of it, "kuso-jijii" is also pretty insulting Art_from_Ark Feb 2013 #30
Again thank you, and... AsahinaKimi Feb 2013 #31
Ganbatte ne! Art_from_Ark Feb 2013 #32
Oyasumi Nasai! AsahinaKimi Feb 2013 #33
Totemo yoi yume wo mita Art_from_Ark Feb 2013 #34
UPDATE: Alan Shirahama's Agency Releases Statement Regarding Scandal With Minami Minegishi AsahinaKimi Feb 2013 #25
You know, this video is *still* on the front page of YouTube Japan Art_from_Ark Feb 2013 #37
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