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In reply to the discussion: Sad times at Mickey D's [View all]Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)63. I hear ya, fem. I have a relative in a nursing home.
Incapacitating stroke, then broken upper leg by hip. She will never leave there. Medicaid, too. So you can imagine.
Relatives cannot care for them. They have to be attendants 24/7, and they have to be lifted and taken anywhere they need to go. It's not possible. I guess in the old days, the whole family would gather 'round and lift her. But these days, we don't live an entire multi-generational family in one location.
I've been thinking about what to do to avoid going into one. There will be no one to watch after me (no kids). With any luck, I'll just drop dead from a heart attack.
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Next lifetime, she should choose to be born in a non-budding third world country. nt
onehandle
Dec 2012
#1
Perhaps that person wanted to work? I am not saying it is, but I can tell you that I have seen
still_one
Dec 2012
#2
Actually I didn't say I believed that person wanted to work. I suggested "perhaps"
still_one
Dec 2012
#30
Assuming that she has to do that is not really the same as knowing that she has to.
Bluenorthwest
Dec 2012
#3
I think it is a fair assumption that no senior would work at Mcdonald's unless they had to. .
robinlynne
Dec 2012
#12
A guy in his 80's with arthritis once installed carpeting in my house. He came to the door with part
RKP5637
Dec 2012
#29
My dad kept working 'till he was about 83. I think he only stopped because his memory was
RKP5637
Dec 2012
#40
Yeah, much the same. It seems to be that and also maybe recognition, probably unconsciously,
RKP5637
Dec 2012
#51
In USA, Inc., all that counts is $$$$$ feeding the cornered wealth. We need a society that
RKP5637
Dec 2012
#42
Same here. At one time this country was about people, no, it was not perfect, but
RKP5637
Dec 2012
#44
I'm 33 years old. I'm really worried by the time I turn 65 retirement will not be possible.
Initech
Dec 2012
#35
As long as many in this country keep making the choice to be STUPID and vote for the same
RKP5637
Dec 2012
#46
And in 'la la land America' it is glossed over in "ain't we the most wonderful country in
RKP5637
Dec 2012
#59
That's seriously insulting to our seniors. It's stereotypical, degrading, insulting, & disrespectful
Honeycombe8
Dec 2012
#33
Some seniors work to stay connected, feel needed, get some spending money....
Honeycombe8
Dec 2012
#34
You're blaming the country for necessitating her working there? As many earlier posts said,
virgogal
Dec 2012
#52
The ridiculous thing is that these types of jobs have always been with us, BUT
SoCalDem
Dec 2012
#48
K&R The desperation to deny how fucked we are in this thread is just sad.
Egalitarian Thug
Dec 2012
#49