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antigone382

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5. When you really see the things that women in this world have to endure, it is vomit-inducing.
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 01:05 AM
Dec 2012

A documentary called "A Walk to Beautiful" highlights the many facets of this oppression through the stories of fistula patients in Ethiopia.

"Fistula" is the medical term for a tear in a woman's vaginal wall which allows the passage of either feces or urine (or both), leading to continual incontinence. It is often a completely preventable result of prolonged childbirth, made all but inevitable for these women from the earliest ages. In situations where there is not enough food for the whole family, it is often (though not always) the women and girls who are underfed; boys are fed first because they are seen as the eventual "social security" of their parents. These girls are also worked incredibly hard hauling water and fuel wood and attending to daily household chores. The combination of extremely hard work and lack of food means that their growth is severely stunted. They are then kidnapped and raped or married off at incredibly young ages (thirteen, fifteen, etc.), resulting of course in pregnancies for which their bodies would not be prepared even if they were healthy and at the right size for their age. Medical care is another thing that globally is more likely to go to men than women, so of course the idea of prenatal care or a birth attended by a professional is laughable. The result is often births that are incredibly prolonged--as much as a week or ten days--and that result in stillborn infants, and severe damage to these young women's bodies. The incontinence that results from these fistulas adds immeasurably to their suffering--they are stigmatized because of the smell, physically debilitated, and prone to frequent, painful infections and other problems.

There are so many ways that women are oppressed, in just this one example, from just this one part of the world. It is staggering.

There is a book called "Sold" which is about a 12yo Indian girl... Odin2005 Dec 2012 #1
When you really see the things that women in this world have to endure, it is vomit-inducing. antigone382 Dec 2012 #5
I saw part of that documentary and cried my eyes out Tsiyu Dec 2012 #13
k and r--thank you so much for posting this niyad Dec 2012 #2
Thanks for your reply. antigone382 Dec 2012 #7
We imagine we are more civilized than those "primitive cultures" Tsiyu Dec 2012 #3
And this is the most scanty and hastily put-together treatment of the issue. antigone382 Dec 2012 #8
You are a wise soul Tsiyu Dec 2012 #12
Let me ask another layer of horror nadinbrzezinski Dec 2012 #4
Certainly...I don't at all mean to diminish the horror of sexual assault against boys or men. antigone382 Dec 2012 #6
I know. I just wanted to add a layer nadinbrzezinski Dec 2012 #9
Thank you, it is an important point to make. antigone382 Dec 2012 #10
I will go ahead and kick this because I think it's an important point. antigone382 Dec 2012 #11
I think it is important to acknowledge rape of men and boys as well. WCLinolVir Dec 2012 #14
That being said, it is important to have a reality check to the posters WCLinolVir Dec 2012 #16
I think that is absolutely right. antigone382 Dec 2012 #19
'Culture' does not 'cause rape'. The Doctor. Dec 2012 #15
Not sure how we correlated anyone stating cultures cause rape- WCLinolVir Dec 2012 #17
Right, because men are never 'objectified'. The Doctor. Dec 2012 #18
Note that all of those men are fully clothed, and their faces are highlighted, not their bodies. antigone382 Dec 2012 #20
How is that not still 'objectification'? The Doctor. Dec 2012 #23
There is probably nothing you can do to change some folks' minds. antigone382 Dec 2012 #21
Kick n/t Tsiyu Dec 2012 #22
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