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bettyellen

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42. U followed me. And repeatedly engaged in direct personal insults, which are a TOS violation.

Sat Dec 1, 2012, 04:31 PM

Dec 2012

Sorry if you are confused and think you're the only man I ever conversed with on DU. Or that everything is about you.
Seems to be a theme of yours?

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That feminist poster and mixed messages [View all] noamnety Dec 2012 OP

most of all, don't try to discuss any of this with some men, because their egos are MORE IMPORTANT bettyellen Dec 2012 #1

I understand about the blow to their egos noamnety Dec 2012 #2

I've learned on DU that *some* men need to give their blessing to what and how us women discuss bettyellen Dec 2012 #4

well, i am hearing from some women that if we talk about it out loud, we are being delicate flowers. seabeyond Dec 2012 #7

Link? polly7 Dec 2012 #36

Which male poster here said they had to give their blessing before polly7 Dec 2012 #37

yes yes yes. lol, then go to a siminar how to prevent rape and ignore it all to not hurt mens feeler seabeyond Dec 2012 #6

It is *never* okay to be drunk and alone, anywhere lapislzi Dec 2012 #8

I work with a lot of women ismnotwasm Dec 2012 #3

Teaching kids about what constitutes voluntary sex is a fairly simple thing to do TeamsterDem Dec 2012 #5

How would you go about identifying those groups? Confusious Dec 2012 #9

I think I was fairly clear about the groups I would individually target TeamsterDem Dec 2012 #15

That's not what I got Confusious Dec 2012 #24

You got the wrong impression. That's who I was talking about. nt TeamsterDem Dec 2012 #26

Would you recommend lessons for university women noamnety Dec 2012 #11

anyone who gets angry when some are trying to spread important information is suspect, IMHO bettyellen Dec 2012 #13

Well, there's a large difference between telling people how to act in accordance with law TeamsterDem Dec 2012 #16

you're okay with leaving out education for men, solely because some feel they've already heard it. bettyellen Dec 2012 #18

I see the hour delay didn't help your reading comprehension TeamsterDem Dec 2012 #25

you just said there was a vast difference, now.... there isn't? bettyellen Dec 2012 #31

You're harassing me by continuing our disagreement ALL OVER DU TeamsterDem Dec 2012 #34

U followed me. And repeatedly engaged in direct personal insults, which are a TOS violation. bettyellen Dec 2012 #42

"Who and what are we to teach?" Zorra Dec 2012 #10

It's not all men, but almost all women know the fear... boston bean Dec 2012 #12

I remember one man here very angry that woman might ever be afraid of men. So angry that I thought bettyellen Dec 2012 #14

Unfortunately sexism and gender issues often force some to pick a side without respect to facts TeamsterDem Dec 2012 #17

link? nt seabeyond Dec 2012 #19

He's calling me out, because he misread an OP- believed it to be a slur calling all men rapists... bettyellen Dec 2012 #23

oh betty, i have read enough of the posters posts in the last day to KNOW the bullshit and seabeyond Dec 2012 #27

No, I only dismiss YOU out of hand because you repeatedly lie about what I said TeamsterDem Dec 2012 #30

As in the last thread, it wasn't about YOU. We never discussed women fearing men, you're imagining bettyellen Dec 2012 #38

stop the lies and I'll stop telling you that you're a liar TeamsterDem Dec 2012 #39

No, you're going around in unrelated threads referencing our disagreement TeamsterDem Dec 2012 #28

How in the heck does ANYONE make it to adulthood noamnety Dec 2012 #29

That would be a feat, of course I never claimed that which you're now putting in my mouth TeamsterDem Dec 2012 #32

Did you mean to reply to someone else here? noamnety Dec 2012 #44

after being in the marines and a fraternity no less, LOL. Can you BELIEVE that shite? bettyellen Dec 2012 #33

More harassment. LET IT GO. TeamsterDem Dec 2012 #35

and some make up crazy stories about their lives that no one believes! bettyellen Dec 2012 #20

Yes, like yours inventing out of whole cloth what I said and didn't say TeamsterDem Dec 2012 #22

Similarly to the way racism and racial prejudice forces one to take a side? etherealtruth Dec 2012 #41

Men need to be taught that no means no and drunkeness is not consent. Nye Bevan Dec 2012 #21

Agreed on both counts TeamsterDem Dec 2012 #40

a good lesson for both young men and women: If you fail to respect what women say..... bettyellen Dec 2012 #43

Schrödinger’s Rapist !! Sheldon Cooper Dec 2012 #46

there are some great links posted within this "controversial" post : bettyellen Dec 2012 #50

From what I gather on all this is that I should suffer from male gender guilt Earth_First Dec 2012 #45

I'm asking what you would teach your daughter, if you have one, noamnety Dec 2012 #47

link? because NO ONE HERE SAID THAT bettyellen Dec 2012 #49

How on earth do you "gather" thucythucy Dec 2012 #52

a lesson for both men and women: If you fail to respect what women say,.... bettyellen Dec 2012 #48

I am a rape survivor & I feel like some women here are way over the top about what constitutes abuse peacebird Dec 2012 #51