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Jilly_in_VA

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Wed Apr 24, 2024, 11:01 AM Apr 24

The "feminist" case against having sex for fun [View all]

In February, America’s most prominent conservative activist declared his opposition to having sex for fun.

In a post on X, the “anti-woke” crusader Christopher Rufo wrote, “‘Recreational sex’ is a large part of the reason we have so many single-mother households, which drives poverty, crime, and dysfunction. The point of sex is to create children—this is natural, normal, and good.”

Much gawking at Rufo’s grimly utilitarian take on sex ensued. Yet the firestorm largely ignored the woman whose anti-birth-control tirade had ignited it.

Rufo’s remarks were sparked by a video of a 2023 Heritage Foundation panel. In that clip, a bespectacled British woman details the supposed ravages of both oral contraception and the sexual culture that it birthed. She claims that the normalization of birth control has condemned women to higher rates of mental illness while offering them little in recompense beyond the freedom to endure “loveless and sometimes extremely degrading” sex. Therefore, she continues, the world needs “a feminist movement” that is “against the Pill” and for “returning the consequentiality to sex.”

That woman, the writer Mary Harrington, is an unlikely spokesperson for fundamentalist Christian morality. A onetime leftist, Harrington remains a fierce critic of free-market economics and an opponent of abortion bans. Yet her 2023 book, Feminism Against Progress, won her an avid following among American social conservatives, receiving adulatory notices in the Federalist and the National Review and earning her bylines at the conservative Catholic journal First Things.

https://www.vox.com/politics/24134852/feminist-case-against-birth-control-casual-sex

Whatever Rufo says is wrong, to start with. And the rest of them, well, consider the sources.

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Well, she can have her opinion Bettie Apr 24 #1
She has a right to her opinion but claiming to be feminist with her clearly fundy Demsrule86 Apr 24 #13
Yeah, it disgusts me too Bettie Apr 24 #14
Why is is always women who should have stop having sex? Fuck this woman who Demsrule86 Apr 24 #2
What if you're sterile? 50 Shades Of Blue Apr 24 #3
"returning the consequentiality to sex." - repubes BoRaGard Apr 24 #4
Reminiscent of Pat Buchanan PCIntern Apr 24 #5
(Hetero)-sex positive and (hetero)-sex negative is a split as old as the feminist movement itself Prairie Gates Apr 24 #6
The point of sex is to create children patphil Apr 24 #7
Prehistoric people did not connect sex with pregnancy and procreation. scarletlib Apr 24 #10
If it was to JUST create children CANADIANBEAVER69 Apr 24 #11
Why are we still fighting this? SARose Apr 24 #8
So a baby is punishment for the consequences of sex? Freddie Apr 24 #9
Nope, it's childbirth that is punishment for the sin of Eve. Pain & the threat of death. Hekate Apr 24 #20
I go with Groucho on this topic. no_hypocrisy Apr 24 #12
Genital mutilation Johnny2X2X Apr 24 #15
While humans are still animals...we have largely moved beyond the limitations of simple biology. Caliman73 Apr 24 #16
There is only one part of the human body that is exclusively for sexual pleasure. Only females have it. retread Apr 24 #17
If sex didn't produce children who grow up to have sex, sex wouldn't happen much. SYFROYH Apr 24 #18
I think It just boils town to Jilly_in_VA Apr 24 #19
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