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Atticus

(15,124 posts)
Sat May 29, 2021, 04:04 PM May 2021

Apparently, I am a very poor communicator. I recently posted an OP that I thought was pretty [View all]

clear and straightforward. SEE: https://www.democraticunderground.com/100215473923#post67

My entire intent was to express my genuine puzzlement about the few DUers who only seem to make negative responses to posts and seem to never have a positive comment.

Somehow, this nothing-burger of a post led some to assume that 1.) I was fishing for recs; 2.) I had somehow checked up on some DUers' rec frequency; and, 3.) that I was of the opinion that anyone has an obligation to rec posts they like or appreciate.

Recs are NOT, IMHO, an accurate assessment of whether a post is worthwhile or well-said. No one should feel any obligation to rec anyone's post. My point was not that there is anything wrong or remarkable about people who never or seldom rec. My point was that people who make ONLY negative remarks are people who puzzle me. Why bother to tear someone down when you won't take the time to give a thumbs up to someone whose post inspires you?

Finally, if there is a way to check up on someone's rec numbers, I am not aware of it and don't care to find out about it.

I apologize for the confusion my OP apparently spawned.







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You're good in my book, my dear Atticus! ♥ CaliforniaPeggy May 2021 #1
What she said. Turbineguy May 2021 #5
Thanks. nt Atticus May 2021 #22
Thank you. nt Atticus May 2021 #21
I'll agree with that. Ellipsis May 2021 #40
I rarely rec anything. Almost never. jimfields33 May 2021 #2
Me, too birdographer May 2021 #36
I restrained myself about making a snarky remark about counting recs. Ms. Toad May 2021 #3
That was my take as well. SharonClark May 2021 #8
Whoa! "Rec-stalking" is the "only reasonable basis" for my statement? How about there are a Atticus May 2021 #10
You expressly targeted people who never rec. Ms. Toad May 2021 #30
I concur that this was a totally reasonable interpretation and thought the same at the time Hugh_Lebowski May 2021 #35
It didn't disturb me - Ms. Toad May 2021 #41
I thought I'd take this opportunity to agree :) nt Hugh_Lebowski May 2021 #48
:) n/t Ms. Toad May 2021 #56
I got you. pwb May 2021 #4
I had to rec this, just because I can. Don't apologize for confusion, ... JustABozoOnThisBus May 2021 #6
Mostly when I agree with a post a lot of others do too so I don't feel the need to chime in. Srkdqltr May 2021 #7
Seems early respondents (myself, included) took your post at face value.... hlthe2b May 2021 #9
I thought your other thread was good Leith May 2021 #11
Is there a prize for the most recs? I just assumed it was a way to tell others Biophilic May 2021 #12
Thanks. nt Atticus May 2021 #13
This is the post that most closely mirrors my own approach, so I'm going to Reply to it, BobTheSubgenius May 2021 #43
This message was self-deleted by its author Biophilic May 2021 #46
Thanks, Bob. Where the heck are you. If you were in SE Michigan you would be Biophilic May 2021 #47
I'm in Victoria BC. BobTheSubgenius May 2021 #57
Me at midnight on Friday.... pbmus May 2021 #14
I admit that when I get a lot of recs on an OP, Mr.Bill May 2021 #15
I didn't see the thread mentioned in the OP. wnylib May 2021 #16
For what it's worth, I totally agree. nt Atticus May 2021 #20
K&R multigraincracker May 2021 #34
I missed the post in question... Trueblue Texan May 2021 #17
Adding my agreement to this. ShazzieB May 2021 #54
To look at things that someone has recced, click on their profile. Crunchy Frog May 2021 #18
Which I did, and I have to say I strongly disapprove of your rec'ing patterns, Crunchy! Hugh_Lebowski May 2021 #37
. Crunchy Frog May 2021 #51
I tend to be tolerant of posts by people I've somehow put in the "good guy" Croney May 2021 #19
Your post was a good one. ☺️ secondwind May 2021 #23
I got it... and I agree PortTack May 2021 #24
Recs are largely irrelevant. As you noted, they have no correlation with the quality of the post. TwilightZone May 2021 #25
It's all good. MarineCombatEngineer May 2021 #26
I rec'd your other post because I agreed with you lunatica May 2021 #27
Been here since 2002, you're doing great. I've had the same reaction to posts over the years. spanone May 2021 #28
K&R Retired Engineer Bob May 2021 #29
You're fine. Corgigal May 2021 #31
As someone whose posts I enjoy reading CrackityJones75 May 2021 #32
Like a lot of folks here, I enjoy your posts. Don't worry about it. paleotn May 2021 #33
No worries, Atticus! ShazzieB May 2021 #38
I get that. JohnnyRingo May 2021 #39
I think your last post kinda proved itself through. Ha. Ellipsis May 2021 #42
At some point you need to let it go left-of-center2012 May 2021 #44
No shit. Treefrog May 2021 #60
Some members think of DU as their online "family," Pinback May 2021 #45
You got a discussion going on a discussion board - WIN! Generic Brad May 2021 #49
I got your meaning, and yes there are passive DUers FakeNoose May 2021 #50
Personally I think those folks just like to buzz kill. LakeArenal May 2021 #52
I'll never forget my worst negative comment experience. betsuni May 2021 #53
Here's a rec from me. It doesn't count for much. I'm a big time recker or wrecker or something. NNadir May 2021 #55
This message was self-deleted by its author DiamondShark May 2021 #58
Again posting in General and not the Lounge? DiamondShark May 2021 #59
Gee, I am terribly sorry I did not place my OP in the forum where you thought it should be! Atticus May 2021 #64
This message was self-deleted by its author DiamondShark May 2021 #71
Wow, not the respone I was expecting. DiamondShark May 2021 #72
Anyone who reads your posts knows you don't give a malaise May 2021 #61
Thanks, malaise. nt Atticus May 2021 #66
If you didn't know how to find out if people rec'ed a thread or not, why did you say you did know? Treefrog May 2021 #62
Uh, I never said I "knew" for a scientific fact that the several people I had in mind had never-ever Atticus May 2021 #63
Well, I made my assumption based on the claim you made in your op. Treefrog May 2021 #67
I rec'd this so that you can't say I never rec anything! senseandsensibility May 2021 #65
Rec Hekate May 2021 #68
So I can put this one where I put the other one then, eh? Iggo May 2021 #69
I generally like your posts and think you are a valuable member. GulfCoast66 May 2021 #70
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