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upaloopa

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5. I grew up in a poor white family in a poor white neighborhood. African Americans live on the west
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 09:35 PM
Aug 2012

side of town. We didn't mix much at all. My dad took me over to the "west side" when he wanted his car fixed for a low price. He bought food at the street market on the west side.

My dad was a factory worker all his life and acted like a racist. I could not understand why he did business on the "west side" when he hated the residents there so much. Then one time a Black family was going to move to our block. All the neighbors had meeting and tried to buy the house so the Black family couldn't move in. My dad would not go along with it mostly because he didn't have any money to contribute.

We were surrounded by factory workers and I learned that their racism came from sense that they were so low on the totem that they had to have someone lower than they were. My dad did never taught me to be a racist. I think he only acted out of the need to be accepted by others in his group.

After I went with my dad to the "west side" and came home I got on my bicycle and rode to the
"west side" to see what all the separation was about. I saw a lot of people who looked poorer than me. Over time I learned about what so many here call White privilege. I never felt superior to anyone in my life and learned a lot about what life was like in the Black community.

I think I learned that I could not help being born a white male and any privilege I got was given to me. I had nothing to do about that other than how I treated other people.

I'm mid 50s, when I was a teenager I would have sworn we'd be united by now. NYC_SKP Aug 2012 #1
I know I keep hoping these shits will just die out of old age LynneSin Aug 2012 #2
There's a whole generation of Young Republicans to replace them. Hoyt Aug 2012 #3
their kids will be the problem then.. ELI BOY 1950 Aug 2012 #6
Things are improving. Lone_Star_Dem Aug 2012 #7
Same here madokie Aug 2012 #16
"Your life sucks? Blame the someone not white or not American or not Christian or not Straight." pampango Aug 2012 #4
I grew up in a poor white family in a poor white neighborhood. African Americans live on the west upaloopa Aug 2012 #5
wish I could rec a response - well said. rurallib Aug 2012 #9
worthy of its own thread Skittles Aug 2012 #10
Great post, thanks. Scuba Aug 2012 #17
"I had nothing to do about that other than how I treated other people. " Amen!!! uponit7771 Aug 2012 #18
Upbringing is an important contribtion... however, Useless in FL Aug 2012 #8
I must say, you are certainly not useless at all Care Acutely Aug 2012 #11
I can only agree with the first premise. qwlauren35 Aug 2012 #12
Really? LynneSin Aug 2012 #14
The 1% "Look down, not up" ErikJ Aug 2012 #13
My grandparents on both sides were racists. UnrepentantLiberal Aug 2012 #15
Why did they have to correct you deaniac21 Aug 2012 #19
No I repeated some things LynneSin Aug 2012 #22
Excellent post...I was from a wealthy family in Texas...saw a lot 1st hand. Boxerfan Aug 2012 #20
Most of my family is racist Sick of the GOP Aug 2012 #21
Hate can be unlearned LynneSin Aug 2012 #23
Thanks for the welcome Sick of the GOP Aug 2012 #28
I am 73 now and grew up in Miami, FL. RebelOne Aug 2012 #24
The neonazi was easily manipulated Jack Sprat Aug 2012 #25
angry white male.. Historic NY Aug 2012 #26
Congrats, this is one of the BEST threads I've ever ever read. turtlerescue1 Aug 2012 #27
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