2016 Postmortem
Related: About this forumWhy are people proud to be "nasty women"?
I don't get it. It's like when Trump supporters are happy to be called "deplorables". I would not want to be owning a negative perception of myself, I'd rather blast the person for name calling and refer to myself in positive terms like "strong woman" etc.
I do not understand this phenom.
ScienceIsGood
(314 posts)metroins
(2,550 posts)I guess.
It's just confusing to me, I prefer nicer words.
boston bean
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DemonGoddess
(4,640 posts)Me too!
yuiyoshida
(41,831 posts)AND to Donald Trump...
jcgoldie
(11,631 posts)Seems to imply that you are intelligent and strong. I'm not a nasty woman, but I'm proud my wife is.
Cracklin Charlie
(12,904 posts)Assface thinks that women who stand against his bullying are "nasty".
I'll be that woman.
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Pachamama
(16,887 posts)For some reason, just like that quote, the comment from Trump feels similar...
Hillary is not being a good little girl letting him do anything he wants...
ColemanMaskell
(783 posts)ncgrits
(916 posts)Hell, yeah I'm a BITCH! . . . getting "stuff" done!
Pachamama
(16,887 posts)Trump and his supporters are the same type of people who burned women as witches at the stake...
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ColemanMaskell
(783 posts)Nasty, in common contemporary American slang, also means sexy.
Consider the line from the Bob Dylan song:
"You're so nasty and you're so bad, you know I love you, yes I do"
(Also an example of "bad" meaning "good", also common usage)
Urban dictionary online gives its number 2 definition:
2. to act dirty in a sexual way.
This is funny and ironic for Trump to cast this at Hillary. In so many ways funny and ironic.
Pachamama
(16,887 posts)Yes, the irony is not lost on me that when Trump said that....
Coventina
(27,115 posts)Daemonaquila
(1,712 posts)"Nasty woman" is the Trump/Deplorables buzzword for a woman who will take absolutely no shit from them. I'll happy take that term, especially because it will piss them off again because of all the women embracing it rather than getting upset about being called names.
Wounded Bear
(58,648 posts)there is this:
Pachamama
(16,887 posts)Same thing
Wounded Bear
(58,648 posts)Brickbat
(19,339 posts)TuxedoKat
(3,818 posts)Women are taking control of the narrative to change the meaning of the words in the sense Trump meant them and powerful and positive.
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meow2u3
(24,761 posts)in solidarity with HRC by reclaiming it, turning an insult into a compliment, thus taking the sting out of the epithet.
Maeve
(42,282 posts)She stood up to him...she didn't back down, she called him on his lies. That makes her "nasty" in his eyes. Like Elizabeth Warren. Like all those "horrible, horrible" women who are coming forward to say he's just exactly the person he bragged about being to Billy Bush.
An insult from him is a badge of honor; it means someone has gotten under that thin skin of his. I bet Warren laughs to herself every time he calls her "Pocahontas". We're just more open about it.
I've been thinking this since I heard him utter "What a nasty woman!" at the debate. It's exactly because she isn't submissive to him that he called her nasty. All the women in his family look so submissive around him. As someone who had a narcissistic mother, I am familiar with how narcissists beat everyone around them into submission. This guy has never had to deal with someone he can't beat up either literally or figuratively.
Also, some of us women who have worked in male-dominated corporate environments know that any situation where we reveal that we're smarter than an insecure male colleague -- indeed, any situation where we dare to disagree unapologetically with a male colleague -- will get us reprimanded or criticized for being "unprofessional" or having a "strong personality" (which is apparently a bad thing when you're a woman). Seeing Trump do this to Clinton on the debate stage was extremely disturbing, and stating that one is proud to be a "nasty woman" is a way of trying to fight back against this sexism. The point, I think, is that we're not afraid to be called "nasty" any more. They will no longer manipulate us into submission by calling us "nasty".
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)Very simple.
okaawhatever
(9,461 posts)shift, starting with Madonna and her (at the time) very controversial sexuality and "suggestive" dancing, moving through Janet and on to other female pop icons. Plus the line, No my first name ain't baby, It's Janet, Miss Jackson if you're nasty was played out so many times in pop culture. Even the debate headlines reference this:
Janet Jackson Wins the Debate! "Nasty Woman" trends as Donald interrupts Hillary, again.
Her Name Is Hillary Clinton. Madame President If Youre Nasty
Portion of the lyrics:
I'm not a prude (No)
I just want some respect (That's right)
So close the door if you want me to respond (Oh oh yeah)
'Cause privacy is my middle name
My last name is Control
No my first name ain't baby
It's Janet
Miss Jackson if you're nasty
Nasty Nasty boys, don't mean a thing
Oh you nasty boys
Nasty Nasty boys, don't ever change, huh
Oh you nasty boys
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)I kept thinking of "Bad Girls", but I knew that was the wrong song.
Some great alternative lyrics have been posted on Twitter, but I could not remember the title and artist.
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LexVegas
(6,060 posts)okaawhatever
(9,461 posts)DFW
(54,370 posts)Don't think all those women with posters like "This pussy grabs back" were seriously inviting any men to find out.
displacedtexan
(15,696 posts)Your post rocks, BTW!
DFW
(54,370 posts)Dallas yesterday, Düsseldorf today (minus my luggage--the baggage handlers at JFK must have thought DUS meant "Dushanbe" instead of "Düsseldorf" .
displacedtexan
(15,696 posts)I'm baking apple galettes here at home in San Francisco. Hope you get your luggage back!
DFW
(54,370 posts)I haven't been in San Francisco since August. If I were closer than 8000 miles away, I'd say keep some samples. Not that Germany is deficient in the bakery department, mind you........
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)"nasty", then I will be nasty all day every day.
Proudly. With her.
athena
(4,187 posts)We've been manipulated by this sort of sexist attack for too long. Every time we dare to be smarter than a man, or to disagree with a man, or to stand up against a male bully, we get called all kinds of things that suggest that we're not ladylike enough, that there is something wrong with us, and that we should be ashamed of ourselves. It was pivotal to see this happen to Hillary Clinton in such a direct way on national television. Enough is enough. They can call us nasty if they want to; we will wear the label proudly.
nolabear
(41,960 posts)In Stumpy's case, "nasty" means you don't defer to the man. You don't let him do whatever he wants, even though he's a STAR. You're strong and you are taking him down.
And you will be president, and you will VOTE.
athena
(4,187 posts)nolabear
(41,960 posts)workinclasszero
(28,270 posts)calls you a name, any name....
It becomes a badge of honor so Bad Hombres and Nasty Woman is a complement coming from the piehole of drumpf!
VulgarPoet
(2,872 posts)CTyankee
(63,912 posts)I mean, I'm in my 70s and wearing pretty nail polish makes me feel good. I love that my husband still has a gleam in his eye for me!
Orsino
(37,428 posts)Perhaps also highlighting the meaninglessness of the term, given Trump's, well...given his entire adult life.
erinlough
(2,176 posts)When you want to discredit any disliked group you name them and then use that name in a harmful way. The way to dampen the impact is to own the name and embrace it, therefore it loses its power. Women have been given names throughout history; witch, bitch, weaker sex, Harpys, crones, you get the picture. I am choosing to embrace all of these, including nasty.
vlyons
(10,252 posts)SMC22307
(8,090 posts)Own it. Turn it around. And get Bronski Beat to play.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)Look up 'Juvenalin Satire', a form of social criticism used to great effect by writers such as Jonathan Swift, Voltaire and Joseph Heller. It accepts, deconstructs, and refines a social or cultural more to its own use.