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metroins

(2,550 posts)
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 10:54 AM Oct 2016

Why are people proud to be "nasty women"?

I don't get it. It's like when Trump supporters are happy to be called "deplorables". I would not want to be owning a negative perception of myself, I'd rather blast the person for name calling and refer to myself in positive terms like "strong woman" etc.

I do not understand this phenom.

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Why are people proud to be "nasty women"? (Original Post) metroins Oct 2016 OP
Maybe the point is that hillary is a nasty woman then they are proud to be like her. N/t ScienceIsGood Oct 2016 #1
This makes some sense metroins Oct 2016 #21
Trump called Hillary a nasty woman. If she is a nasty woman, then I am one too. boston bean Oct 2016 #2
This message was self-deleted by its author kestrel91316 Oct 2016 #24
Exactly right! DemonGoddess Oct 2016 #32
Count me in ... yuiyoshida Oct 2016 #36
To be a "nasty woman" in Trump's eyes jcgoldie Oct 2016 #3
Solidarity! Cracklin Charlie Oct 2016 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author kestrel91316 Oct 2016 #25
"Well behaved women seldom make history" Pachamama Oct 2016 #5
also a good interpretation, and a good quote. ColemanMaskell Oct 2016 #7
There you go! I'm also embracing and reclaiming the word "Bitch." ncgrits Oct 2016 #12
Even "witch" Pachamama Oct 2016 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author kestrel91316 Oct 2016 #26
Ditto the first two comments. Also here is another interpretation as icing on the cake: ColemanMaskell Oct 2016 #6
Love that line from Bob Dylan Pachamama Oct 2016 #10
Nasty Girl Coventina Oct 2016 #17
Because it's anything but negative. Daemonaquila Oct 2016 #8
From a cinematic perspective... Wounded Bear Oct 2016 #9
Substitute the words "nasty woman" for "high riding bitch" Pachamama Oct 2016 #13
Exactly....nt Wounded Bear Oct 2016 #16
Oppressed populations often embrace pejorative terms to take away their power. Brickbat Oct 2016 #11
Yes, this. TuxedoKat Oct 2016 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author kestrel91316 Oct 2016 #27
Message auto-removed Name removed Oct 2016 #48
We're turning "nasty women" into a badge of honor meow2u3 Oct 2016 #14
He called her that because she wasn't submissive to him Maeve Oct 2016 #18
Exactly! athena Oct 2016 #33
It's how he addressed Clinton. We are standing with Clinton. NCTraveler Oct 2016 #19
+1 narnian60 Oct 2016 #29
It's due to Janet Jackson's song Nasty a huge hit in the 1980's. It was part of a larger cultural okaawhatever Oct 2016 #22
Ah, thank you, I was trying to remember what song that was jberryhill Oct 2016 #34
Heh. Some of the better lyrics in the modern pop era. Eleanors38 Oct 2016 #52
This message was self-deleted by its author kestrel91316 Oct 2016 #23
Same reason I am proud to be an "anchor baby". nt LexVegas Oct 2016 #28
LOL. It was pretty rich of Trump to say that considering he's America's #1 Anchor Husband. nt okaawhatever Oct 2016 #43
It's using irony, not meant to be taken literally DFW Oct 2016 #30
Irony impairment seems to be on the rise lately. displacedtexan Oct 2016 #42
From one displaced Texan to another..... DFW Oct 2016 #45
Yikes! Das ist aber schade! displacedtexan Oct 2016 #46
Ich weiss es nur zu gut DFW Oct 2016 #47
He called her a nasty woman for biting back at his bullying and attacks. If that makes a woman PeaceNikki Oct 2016 #31
Because we are not afraid to be called "nasty" any more. athena Oct 2016 #35
www.NastyWomenGetShitDone nolabear Oct 2016 #37
That's great! athena Oct 2016 #44
They're fast! nolabear Oct 2016 #50
When a would be fascist dictator and the wannabe destroyer of democracy workinclasszero Oct 2016 #38
Same reason I'm proud to be a "faggot." nt. VulgarPoet Oct 2016 #39
when my husband commented on my bright red fingernail polish as being "kind of slutty) I laughed. CTyankee Oct 2016 #40
It's a fuck-you to anyone who would use such an infantile insult. Orsino Oct 2016 #41
I believe words especially naming of a group has an intended purpose. erinlough Oct 2016 #49
It's called satire vlyons Oct 2016 #51
"PERVERTS SUPPORT THE PITS!," compliments of Rupert Murdoch. SMC22307 Oct 2016 #54
Juvenalin Satire is not a "phenom", it is social criticism LanternWaste Oct 2016 #55

Response to boston bean (Reply #2)

jcgoldie

(11,631 posts)
3. To be a "nasty woman" in Trump's eyes
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 10:59 AM
Oct 2016

Seems to imply that you are intelligent and strong. I'm not a nasty woman, but I'm proud my wife is.

Response to Cracklin Charlie (Reply #4)

Pachamama

(16,887 posts)
5. "Well behaved women seldom make history"
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 11:01 AM
Oct 2016

For some reason, just like that quote, the comment from Trump feels similar...

Hillary is not being a good little girl letting him do anything he wants...

ncgrits

(916 posts)
12. There you go! I'm also embracing and reclaiming the word "Bitch."
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 11:10 AM
Oct 2016

Hell, yeah I'm a BITCH! . . . getting "stuff" done!

Pachamama

(16,887 posts)
15. Even "witch"
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 11:11 AM
Oct 2016

Trump and his supporters are the same type of people who burned women as witches at the stake...

Response to Pachamama (Reply #5)

ColemanMaskell

(783 posts)
6. Ditto the first two comments. Also here is another interpretation as icing on the cake:
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 11:02 AM
Oct 2016

Nasty, in common contemporary American slang, also means sexy.
Consider the line from the Bob Dylan song:
"You're so nasty and you're so bad, you know I love you, yes I do"
(Also an example of "bad" meaning "good", also common usage)

Urban dictionary online gives its number 2 definition:
2. to act dirty in a sexual way.

This is funny and ironic for Trump to cast this at Hillary. In so many ways funny and ironic.

 

Daemonaquila

(1,712 posts)
8. Because it's anything but negative.
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 11:07 AM
Oct 2016

"Nasty woman" is the Trump/Deplorables buzzword for a woman who will take absolutely no shit from them. I'll happy take that term, especially because it will piss them off again because of all the women embracing it rather than getting upset about being called names.

TuxedoKat

(3,818 posts)
20. Yes, this.
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 11:24 AM
Oct 2016

Women are taking control of the narrative to change the meaning of the words in the sense Trump meant them and powerful and positive.

Response to Brickbat (Reply #11)

Response to Brickbat (Reply #11)

meow2u3

(24,761 posts)
14. We're turning "nasty women" into a badge of honor
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 11:11 AM
Oct 2016

in solidarity with HRC by reclaiming it, turning an insult into a compliment, thus taking the sting out of the epithet.

Maeve

(42,282 posts)
18. He called her that because she wasn't submissive to him
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 11:19 AM
Oct 2016

She stood up to him...she didn't back down, she called him on his lies. That makes her "nasty" in his eyes. Like Elizabeth Warren. Like all those "horrible, horrible" women who are coming forward to say he's just exactly the person he bragged about being to Billy Bush.

An insult from him is a badge of honor; it means someone has gotten under that thin skin of his. I bet Warren laughs to herself every time he calls her "Pocahontas". We're just more open about it.

athena

(4,187 posts)
33. Exactly!
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 12:32 PM
Oct 2016

I've been thinking this since I heard him utter "What a nasty woman!" at the debate. It's exactly because she isn't submissive to him that he called her nasty. All the women in his family look so submissive around him. As someone who had a narcissistic mother, I am familiar with how narcissists beat everyone around them into submission. This guy has never had to deal with someone he can't beat up either literally or figuratively.

Also, some of us women who have worked in male-dominated corporate environments know that any situation where we reveal that we're smarter than an insecure male colleague -- indeed, any situation where we dare to disagree unapologetically with a male colleague -- will get us reprimanded or criticized for being "unprofessional" or having a "strong personality" (which is apparently a bad thing when you're a woman). Seeing Trump do this to Clinton on the debate stage was extremely disturbing, and stating that one is proud to be a "nasty woman" is a way of trying to fight back against this sexism. The point, I think, is that we're not afraid to be called "nasty" any more. They will no longer manipulate us into submission by calling us "nasty".

okaawhatever

(9,461 posts)
22. It's due to Janet Jackson's song Nasty a huge hit in the 1980's. It was part of a larger cultural
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 12:07 PM
Oct 2016

shift, starting with Madonna and her (at the time) very controversial sexuality and "suggestive" dancing, moving through Janet and on to other female pop icons. Plus the line, No my first name ain't baby, It's Janet, Miss Jackson if you're nasty was played out so many times in pop culture. Even the debate headlines reference this:


Janet Jackson Wins the Debate! "Nasty Woman" trends as Donald interrupts Hillary, again.

Her Name Is Hillary Clinton. Madame President If You’re Nasty

Portion of the lyrics:


I'm not a prude (No)
I just want some respect (That's right)
So close the door if you want me to respond (Oh oh yeah)
'Cause privacy is my middle name
My last name is Control
No my first name ain't baby
It's Janet
Miss Jackson if you're nasty

Nasty Nasty boys, don't mean a thing
Oh you nasty boys
Nasty Nasty boys, don't ever change, huh
Oh you nasty boys




 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
34. Ah, thank you, I was trying to remember what song that was
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 12:37 PM
Oct 2016

I kept thinking of "Bad Girls", but I knew that was the wrong song.

Some great alternative lyrics have been posted on Twitter, but I could not remember the title and artist.

Response to metroins (Original post)

DFW

(54,370 posts)
30. It's using irony, not meant to be taken literally
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 12:17 PM
Oct 2016

Don't think all those women with posters like "This pussy grabs back" were seriously inviting any men to find out.

DFW

(54,370 posts)
45. From one displaced Texan to another.....
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 01:07 PM
Oct 2016

Dallas yesterday, Düsseldorf today (minus my luggage--the baggage handlers at JFK must have thought DUS meant "Dushanbe" instead of "Düsseldorf&quot .

displacedtexan

(15,696 posts)
46. Yikes! Das ist aber schade!
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 01:11 PM
Oct 2016

I'm baking apple galettes here at home in San Francisco. Hope you get your luggage back!

DFW

(54,370 posts)
47. Ich weiss es nur zu gut
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 01:30 PM
Oct 2016

I haven't been in San Francisco since August. If I were closer than 8000 miles away, I'd say keep some samples. Not that Germany is deficient in the bakery department, mind you........

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
31. He called her a nasty woman for biting back at his bullying and attacks. If that makes a woman
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 12:27 PM
Oct 2016

"nasty", then I will be nasty all day every day.

Proudly. With her.

athena

(4,187 posts)
35. Because we are not afraid to be called "nasty" any more.
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 12:45 PM
Oct 2016

We've been manipulated by this sort of sexist attack for too long. Every time we dare to be smarter than a man, or to disagree with a man, or to stand up against a male bully, we get called all kinds of things that suggest that we're not ladylike enough, that there is something wrong with us, and that we should be ashamed of ourselves. It was pivotal to see this happen to Hillary Clinton in such a direct way on national television. Enough is enough. They can call us nasty if they want to; we will wear the label proudly.

nolabear

(41,960 posts)
37. www.NastyWomenGetShitDone
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 12:47 PM
Oct 2016

In Stumpy's case, "nasty" means you don't defer to the man. You don't let him do whatever he wants, even though he's a STAR. You're strong and you are taking him down.

And you will be president, and you will VOTE.

 

workinclasszero

(28,270 posts)
38. When a would be fascist dictator and the wannabe destroyer of democracy
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 12:51 PM
Oct 2016

calls you a name, any name....

It becomes a badge of honor so Bad Hombres and Nasty Woman is a complement coming from the piehole of drumpf!

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
40. when my husband commented on my bright red fingernail polish as being "kind of slutty) I laughed.
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 12:52 PM
Oct 2016

I mean, I'm in my 70s and wearing pretty nail polish makes me feel good. I love that my husband still has a gleam in his eye for me!

Orsino

(37,428 posts)
41. It's a fuck-you to anyone who would use such an infantile insult.
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 12:55 PM
Oct 2016

Perhaps also highlighting the meaninglessness of the term, given Trump's, well...given his entire adult life.

erinlough

(2,176 posts)
49. I believe words especially naming of a group has an intended purpose.
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 01:47 PM
Oct 2016

When you want to discredit any disliked group you name them and then use that name in a harmful way. The way to dampen the impact is to own the name and embrace it, therefore it loses its power. Women have been given names throughout history; witch, bitch, weaker sex, Harpys, crones, you get the picture. I am choosing to embrace all of these, including nasty.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
54. "PERVERTS SUPPORT THE PITS!," compliments of Rupert Murdoch.
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 04:32 PM
Oct 2016


Own it. Turn it around. And get Bronski Beat to play.



 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
55. Juvenalin Satire is not a "phenom", it is social criticism
Thu Oct 20, 2016, 04:48 PM
Oct 2016

Look up 'Juvenalin Satire', a form of social criticism used to great effect by writers such as Jonathan Swift, Voltaire and Joseph Heller. It accepts, deconstructs, and refines a social or cultural more to its own use.

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