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struggle4progress

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This message was self-deleted by its author (Original Post) struggle4progress Dec 2011 OP
I think we should try hard to find people who are pretty neutral on the subject EvolveOrConvolve Dec 2011 #1
I tend to agree. Some of the bitter partisans might actually be capable of being fair hosts struggle4progress Dec 2011 #4
Agree Dorian Gray Dec 2011 #31
That why I won't volunteer. backscatter712 Dec 2011 #44
We should have a conclave. rug Dec 2011 #2
Heh. Perfect. nt rrneck Dec 2011 #3
There ya go, but who are the Cardinals? MineralMan Dec 2011 #146
We can get them from here. rug Dec 2011 #147
OK. That'll work. If you like, MineralMan Dec 2011 #148
Are their people neutral edhopper Dec 2011 #5
IMO the issue isn't neutrality but an ability to be civil and fair struggle4progress Dec 2011 #6
Perhaps we should ask that at least one host comes from each "camp" EvolveOrConvolve Dec 2011 #7
No way Dorian Gray Dec 2011 #8
I am interested in being a host of this group. cbayer Dec 2011 #9
I would object. beam me up scottie Dec 2011 #10
No offense taken, and I certainly understand your concern. cbayer Dec 2011 #11
Even if that's true will the militantradicalfundamentalistuppityorganizedatheist faction believe it? beam me up scottie Dec 2011 #13
I am optimistic that the resentment can be addressed and reduced in this new environment. cbayer Dec 2011 #15
I admire your intentions and welcome your participation. beam me up scottie Dec 2011 #16
I would object. darkstar3 Dec 2011 #33
Fair in what way? I recused myself from moderating this forum for the most part, cbayer Dec 2011 #36
So you don't even know why I might say that? darkstar3 Dec 2011 #37
I feel fairly certain that it has something to do with your interactions with my father. cbayer Dec 2011 #39
It has nothing to do with your father, though he certainly didn't help. darkstar3 Dec 2011 #40
Well, I am certain that there is a long line of people who have many pre-conceived ideas about who cbayer Dec 2011 #43
I'll support you as a host EvolveOrConvolve Dec 2011 #45
Honestly, I am willing to work with anyone who wants to make this group cbayer Dec 2011 #46
I believe we moded together Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #64
We may have had a brief overlap when I first started, but I am not sure. cbayer Dec 2011 #73
A better place for whom? A better place than what? cleanhippie Dec 2011 #159
A better place for all who wish to participate. A better place than the war zone that it has been. cbayer Dec 2011 #164
And who gets to decide when "that" place has been created? cleanhippie Dec 2011 #172
I don't see any need for anyone in particular to decide when things are better. cbayer Dec 2011 #173
Fair enough. cleanhippie Dec 2011 #177
Thank you, cleanhippie. Your response means a great deal to me. cbayer Dec 2011 #178
I'd support you as host too. I think you'd be fair struggle4progress Dec 2011 #59
I feel very strongly that you would also be fair and would wholeheartedly support you as a host. cbayer Dec 2011 #60
I have carefully avoided volunteering as a group host here struggle4progress Dec 2011 #74
Excellent choices for you. I am sorry that we did not have more opportunity to work together. cbayer Dec 2011 #75
Oops. Looks like I responded to my own post and not yours. Sorry about that. cbayer Dec 2011 #76
I think you responded to the right post EvolveOrConvolve Dec 2011 #77
I believe you are correct. It was confusing for a moment. cbayer Dec 2011 #78
I think cbayer would make an excellent host. Chemisse Dec 2011 #182
I'd put my name in the hat. Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #12
when were you a mod? struggle4progress Dec 2011 #14
Two summers ago. n/t Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #62
No but the Lounge got pretty fucked up during that term. rug Dec 2011 #20
That was SO not my fault. Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #63
There was a distinct lack of judgment. rug Dec 2011 #68
Well, I don't think this is the place to hash this out Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #70
No it isn't but this group will need both sensitivity and sound judgment. rug Dec 2011 #72
And I believe that was exercised in the Lounge Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #80
I remember that time in the lounge EvolveOrConvolve Dec 2011 #82
And it is that opinion which reflects poor judgment. rug Dec 2011 #84
I ask because I want to know what your objection is. Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #86
Has it been determined this place needs representatives from "camps"? rug Dec 2011 #90
If we are to have hosts, Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #94
What? We can't blame you for the consensus action of several dozen mods? struggle4progress Dec 2011 #79
Sounds like Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #81
Considering that entire model has been scrapped, I'd say the system itself. rug Dec 2011 #85
You'd have my vote. darkstar3 Dec 2011 #34
You also drafted an R/T truce-time pledge and convinced many to sign it. beam me up scottie Dec 2011 #69
I'd support that NMMNG Dec 2011 #83
I'm interested cleanhippie Dec 2011 #17
Frankly, I thinky you'd have a problem with this part of the TOS: rug Dec 2011 #21
If I am guilty of violating that part, then so are you, as well as everyone else that posts here. cleanhippie Dec 2011 #23
We could go the way that Environment & Energy seems to be - no host muriel_volestrangler Dec 2011 #18
EDIT - changed my mind...I was reminded of a recent flurry of incredibly off-topic posts. iris27 Dec 2011 #52
I agree - no host. nt bananas Dec 2011 #123
Who would you like to see as host?? Angry Dragon Dec 2011 #19
There are three ways to go here dmallind Dec 2011 #22
I think the success of this group will depend more on random juries than on hosts. rug Dec 2011 #26
Quite probably so. Wonder if alerts will increase or drop? nt dmallind Dec 2011 #27
Kinda hard to find someone neutral. Odin2005 Dec 2011 #24
I don't come here often enough to really be a host I think.. Fumesucker Dec 2011 #25
It's worked well in Cyprus. rug Dec 2011 #28
Well the 63-74 stint was a bit testy. nt dmallind Dec 2011 #29
Does this mean I can declare part of the Religion group as British sovereign territory? muriel_volestrangler Dec 2011 #30
Wait wait wait! Would we then pay taxes to support the CoE? struggle4progress Dec 2011 #61
Extremists are in? deacon_sephiroth Dec 2011 #150
I don't know that I spend enough time here to host, darkstar3 Dec 2011 #32
I would object. rug Dec 2011 #41
Thank you. I consider your objection high praise. darkstar3 Dec 2011 #42
I think we should have no host lazarus Dec 2011 #35
I'll give it a go. laconicsax Dec 2011 #38
I propose cbayer and goblinmonger EvolveOrConvolve Dec 2011 #47
I agree with the concept of four hosts, darkstar3 Dec 2011 #48
Ideally we'd have new blood that isn't in either camp EvolveOrConvolve Dec 2011 #50
Well, then you need an agnostic to be the tiebreaker. rug Dec 2011 #49
Uh oh, that's a slippery slope EvolveOrConvolve Dec 2011 #51
an agnostic theist or an agnostic atheist? dmallind Dec 2011 #107
I don't know. rug Dec 2011 #118
I think there are better choices than cbayer laconicsax Dec 2011 #53
I'm cool with that. I am only invested in trying to make this group a better place and cbayer Dec 2011 #55
I think that's unfair to cbayer who I saw as a very fair mod during my mod term struggle4progress Dec 2011 #56
I don't think cbayer has the capacity to be objective in this group. laconicsax Dec 2011 #128
I hear there's an opening for an agnostic? westerebus Dec 2011 #54
Speaking as an atheist and a former Marine beam me up scottie Dec 2011 #57
Speaking as an atheist and a Marine Vetern westerebus Dec 2011 #65
Thank you, Devil Dog. beam me up scottie Dec 2011 #66
No problem. westerebus Dec 2011 #67
I was wrong, my apologies. beam me up scottie Dec 2011 #71
We're good. westerebus Dec 2011 #87
It's funny how much you block out over the years. beam me up scottie Dec 2011 #97
I nominate muriel_volestrangler beam me up scottie Dec 2011 #58
Second. darkstar3 Dec 2011 #88
I find this thread amusing. A bunch lacking religion wanting charge over a religion group. Festivito Dec 2011 #89
You act as though those without religion have no place here. darkstar3 Dec 2011 #91
No, just those who decry not being given charge means they have no place - in a jump too many times. Festivito Dec 2011 #99
Back-pedal if you want, but your play on words was clear. darkstar3 Dec 2011 #101
I guess we disagree there. /nt Festivito Dec 2011 #111
Again, there is NO other place on DU where people of all viewpoints can discuss religion and iris27 Dec 2011 #114
Equal? You live in a dreamworld. We'll all be lucky to get good representation. Festivito Dec 2011 #125
Equal in number. iris27 Dec 2011 #130
Chances are a host will act alone while others are away or in bed. So, there could be one person. Festivito Dec 2011 #142
But by having many hosts, decisions will have to be made by consensus, and rogue actions against iris27 Dec 2011 #144
I agree. The jury system is key. rug Dec 2011 #92
As I understand it, the jury system will be in place with or without a host. Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #93
Yes, it will. As to the no place meme, no. As to calling people out, no. /nt Festivito Dec 2011 #112
So you'd rather Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #117
Consider it par. darkstar3 Dec 2011 #119
Do you think there are no sock puppets on DU? Festivito Dec 2011 #124
I'm sure people have two accounts. Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #126
You just did throw that claim out. Festivito Dec 2011 #133
GM is one of many people who caught your implication. darkstar3 Dec 2011 #134
So it is going to be passive-aggressive doublespeak with you. Got it. Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #137
Perhaps you're just bad and unveiling. Festivito Dec 2011 #140
Feel free to use it. Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #141
Right back at you. /nt Festivito Dec 2011 #143
You're making some pretty big assumptions there EvolveOrConvolve Dec 2011 #95
Calling sock puppets, sock puppets is not broadbrushing anything but sock puppets as sock puppets. Festivito Dec 2011 #108
But accusing others of sock-puppetry has been against the rules for years. darkstar3 Dec 2011 #109
Whom did I accuse? No one. /nt Festivito Dec 2011 #113
Stating that someone posting here right now Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #110
Accusing someone of accusing someone is not cool either. /nt Festivito Dec 2011 #115
So "possible sock puppet" is what? Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #116
Why would the specific name of a sock puppet matter? Festivito Dec 2011 #127
I find it amusing you still haven't figured out that this isn't a "religion group". beam me up scottie Dec 2011 #96
DU Home » Latest Threads » Forums & Groups » Topics » Religion & Spirituality » Religion (Group) Festivito Dec 2011 #100
SOP darkstar3 Dec 2011 #102
If you're going to participate you really should take the time to read the statement of purpose. beam me up scottie Dec 2011 #104
All of which is fine and is in line with what I said. /nt Festivito Dec 2011 #139
This isn't "a religion group". It's the only place on DU where people of all beliefs are allowed to iris27 Dec 2011 #98
So, this DU: » Religion (Group) » is not "a religion group" in response to someone being amused Festivito Dec 2011 #103
No, it's not. iris27 Dec 2011 #105
Yes, it is (a religion group). So there. (We're up to 3rd grade playground level.) Festivito Dec 2011 #120
GD has 20 hosts. I see no reason why Religion should have only one, and almost no one iris27 Dec 2011 #131
"people making obtuse comments that seem so inane that further discussion seems worthless" : beam me up scottie Dec 2011 #106
Good! /nt Festivito Dec 2011 #122
I find you post amusing. Publicly displaying that you have no idea what you are saying.... cleanhippie Dec 2011 #160
I don't think this forum should have a host. nt bananas Dec 2011 #121
I'm inclined to agree. n/t laconicsax Dec 2011 #129
I was, until I was reminded by someone's appearance of their tendency to spam this board iris27 Dec 2011 #132
You make a very good point. n/t laconicsax Dec 2011 #136
I nominate AsahinaKimi laconicsax Dec 2011 #135
I have no problems with that nomination. Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #138
I second that EvolveOrConvolve Dec 2011 #151
I doubt we can pick a host from among the contenders in a contentious group. Jim__ Dec 2011 #145
I have no axe to grind Angry Dragon Dec 2011 #186
It's a tough job for anyone. MineralMan Dec 2011 #149
Maybe I should be the host. Renew Deal Dec 2011 #152
I'd support that. Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #153
I'd support that; I'd be willing to be another host muriel_volestrangler Dec 2011 #154
I'd support that. Now we need two believers Renew Deal Dec 2011 #158
I'm good with those two to represent me. Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #163
Thanks. Renew Deal Dec 2011 #165
Be sure you understand the community standards here! struggle4progress Dec 2011 #157
Job one for host: Lock that damn pie wagon! nt rrneck Dec 2011 #161
I wouldn't come here without the pies deacon_sephiroth Dec 2011 #179
I would definitely support you as host. cbayer Dec 2011 #162
Thanks Renew Deal Dec 2011 #166
I have previously volunteered to do so. cbayer Dec 2011 #167
. Renew Deal Dec 2011 #168
I thought you were looking to add a theist to the mix. cbayer Dec 2011 #169
Oops Renew Deal Dec 2011 #171
Yes, the cross is..... well, confusing. cbayer Dec 2011 #174
This message was self-deleted by its author Renew Deal Dec 2011 #170
I can support that struggle4progress Dec 2011 #175
OK, here is the proposal. Renew Deal Dec 2011 #176
Not bad -- I'd modify the proposal slightly struggle4progress Dec 2011 #180
Great job. I am in support of this proposal. cbayer Dec 2011 #181
OK, this makes sense, as does s4p's suggestion on how to deal with absent hosts muriel_volestrangler Dec 2011 #183
Seems good. ZombieHorde Dec 2011 #184
I disagree and support a "no hosts" group. rug Dec 2011 #187
this may be the only time I ever say this, so everyone listen up lazarus Dec 2011 #188
So what happens when off topic and otherwise unacceptable OPs are posted? darkstar3 Dec 2011 #189
true lazarus Dec 2011 #190
The juries are already routinely deciding those alerts. rug Dec 2011 #191
I don't think the juries are deciding those. struggle4progress Dec 2011 #192
Results of latest jury. rug Dec 2011 #195
which thread is that? and was it alerted as a Statement of Purpose violation for a group w/o host? struggle4progress Dec 2011 #196
It's in GD. I'll pm you the link. I don't know if the poster has been revoked yet. rug Dec 2011 #197
So that is not an off-topic OP muriel_volestrangler Dec 2011 #198
Alerts are sent on SOP posts and are acted on by juries. rug Dec 2011 #199
That is not my understanding muriel_volestrangler Dec 2011 #201
The link you pm'd me concerned a post that was not an OP. The hiding message corresponds struggle4progress Dec 2011 #202
Let's do it. laconicsax Dec 2011 #193
That sounds like a good plan EvolveOrConvolve Dec 2011 #194
Thundercats are go! Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #200
"Thundercats HO!" & "ThunderBIRDS Are Go!" muriel_volestrangler Dec 2011 #203
My apologies Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #204
How many hosts do we get? ZombieHorde Dec 2011 #155
I think the first host is the "capo de tutti capi." - n/t Jim__ Dec 2011 #156
I do not know what the fuss is all about Angry Dragon Dec 2011 #185
I've asked Renew Deal to repost his religion-hosts proposal as an OP for an up-or-down vote struggle4progress Dec 2011 #205

EvolveOrConvolve

(6,452 posts)
1. I think we should try hard to find people who are pretty neutral on the subject
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 02:20 AM
Dec 2011

We definitely need a host in here, but we need someone who doesn't get caught up in the heat of the battle. There are two definite factions that duke it out on a regular basis. As a member of one of those factions, I don't think I'm an appropriate candidate.

I know that neutrality is hard with a divisive subject like religion, but there are a few who would be appropriate. Hopefully they volunteer.

struggle4progress

(118,356 posts)
4. I tend to agree. Some of the bitter partisans might actually be capable of being fair hosts
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 02:36 AM
Dec 2011

but perception of fairness may also matter a whole lot

Dorian Gray

(13,501 posts)
31. Agree
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 05:12 PM
Dec 2011

Most people aren't neutral on this subject, though, so it'll be difficult to find someone.

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
44. That why I won't volunteer.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 06:30 PM
Dec 2011

I'm certainly not neutral, and I lose my cool a lot. Not a good idea to give me that sort of power.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
2. We should have a conclave.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 02:31 AM
Dec 2011

rrneck

(17,671 posts)
3. Heh. Perfect. nt
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 02:33 AM
Dec 2011

MineralMan

(146,333 posts)
146. There ya go, but who are the Cardinals?
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 11:21 AM
Dec 2011

Aside from the team, I don't know who they might be...

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
147. We can get them from here.
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 01:21 PM
Dec 2011

MineralMan

(146,333 posts)
148. OK. That'll work. If you like,
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 02:44 PM
Dec 2011

I can try to catch some cardinals here, too. They'll be back come Spring.

edhopper

(33,625 posts)
5. Are their people neutral
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 09:10 AM
Dec 2011

about religion? Good luck with that

struggle4progress

(118,356 posts)
6. IMO the issue isn't neutrality but an ability to be civil and fair
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 11:15 AM
Dec 2011

EvolveOrConvolve

(6,452 posts)
7. Perhaps we should ask that at least one host comes from each "camp"
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 11:28 AM
Dec 2011

If we can find level-headed members, with at least one from the "religion" camp and one from the "atheist/agnostic" camp, that may be best. And each 90 day term, the "lead" host (the first one chosen) can switch between each camp.

Since we're self-policing now, we have to learn to get along.

Dorian Gray

(13,501 posts)
8. No way
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 01:52 PM
Dec 2011

no how.

No thank you!

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
9. I am interested in being a host of this group.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 01:59 PM
Dec 2011

I know there are some who might object to that, but I think I can be fair and would set a goal of having animated and even loud debate, while maintaining civility.

This is not a "battle" to be won or lost, but a chance to better understand those who may see the world differently than oneself.

For the record, I would consider myself generally agnostic. I lean towards the belief that there just has to be something more evolved than humans and am open to the possibility that this "thing" may have some of the attributes often ascribed to gods.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
10. I would object.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 02:17 PM
Dec 2011

I have a hard time believing that posters whose relatives repeatedly call out atheists and advocate the banning of atheists from this group could be objective.

No offense.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
11. No offense taken, and I certainly understand your concern.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 02:23 PM
Dec 2011

On the other hand, my views differ significantly from my father's, and I think I am less likely to be biased than members from the extreme positions in this group.

I would like to see members with a wide range of perspectives be able to have civil discussions here without it having the "battleground" and "winner-loser" atmosphere that has dominated it for so long. I would not ban any member for what they do or don't believe, only for behavior that violates the TOS.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
13. Even if that's true will the militantradicalfundamentalistuppityorganizedatheist faction believe it?
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 02:34 PM
Dec 2011

The resentment felt by both believers and non-believers is not going to go away just because the scenery is different.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
15. I am optimistic that the resentment can be addressed and reduced in this new environment.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 02:42 PM
Dec 2011

Whether some members feel I can be fair and that my aim is true is a very fair question, and I will certainly not be surprised if my interest in being a host is rejected.

At any rate, I plan to participate here and will maintain the same goal of making this a stimulating and civil environment, whether a host or not.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
16. I admire your intentions and welcome your participation.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 02:52 PM
Dec 2011

I think being a host would make one more likely to censor their own posts.

darkstar3

(8,763 posts)
33. I would object.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 05:22 PM
Dec 2011

I simply don't think you were fair during your term as a mod before, and I have no reason to believe that you would be fair here.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
36. Fair in what way? I recused myself from moderating this forum for the most part,
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 05:28 PM
Dec 2011

so I am not sure what you might base this on.

What do you imagine my position to be and how do you think it might make me behave in an unfair manner?

darkstar3

(8,763 posts)
37. So you don't even know why I might say that?
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 05:46 PM
Dec 2011

There's nothing that even crosses your mind as a reason?

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
39. I feel fairly certain that it has something to do with your interactions with my father.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 05:52 PM
Dec 2011

But I fail to see how you can conclude from that that I was unfair, as I never moderated any alert that was either about him, from him or involved a post in one of his threads.

As I believe you consider yourself a science based thinker, as do I, I remain curious as to what evidence you have used to draw your conclusion about my history of being unfair.

darkstar3

(8,763 posts)
40. It has nothing to do with your father, though he certainly didn't help.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 06:06 PM
Dec 2011

It also doesn't help that you have absolutely no idea how your own behavior during your time as a mod could be taken as biased. I could point you to the locking messages you left in DU2 that I found unquestionably and unacceptably biased, but clearly it would have no effect.

ttfn.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
43. Well, I am certain that there is a long line of people who have many pre-conceived ideas about who
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 06:20 PM
Dec 2011

I am due to my years of moderating. I anticipated that as we made the transition and am prepared to deal with it.

Please feel free to point out anything in particular you want. Your assumption that it would have no effect is again not based on any set of facts, as you and I have never interacted (to the best of my recollection).

EvolveOrConvolve

(6,452 posts)
45. I'll support you as a host
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 06:32 PM
Dec 2011

If you support Goblinmonger.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
46. Honestly, I am willing to work with anyone who wants to make this group
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 06:34 PM
Dec 2011

a better place.

If that is goblinmonger's goal, I would fully support him/her.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
64. I believe we moded together
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:15 PM
Dec 2011

if my memory serves. I don't think we had any problems with each other then.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
73. We may have had a brief overlap when I first started, but I am not sure.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:42 PM
Dec 2011

Whatever the case, I don't recall every having had a problem with you and have no reservations about working with you in this group.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
159. A better place for whom? A better place than what?
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 11:29 AM
Dec 2011

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
164. A better place for all who wish to participate. A better place than the war zone that it has been.
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 12:05 PM
Dec 2011

A place where people can debate and disagree agreeably. A place where people are not bullied and attacked on either side.

A place where there are no longer posts which reflect that one side thinks it has scored points or posts that sound like reports from a sporting event.

A place where the bulk of new threads are not posted just to show how bad the "other" side is.

A place where we have detente for now and allow members a fresh start. A place where we can learn to listen to and respect those with whom we may differ.

That kind of place.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
172. And who gets to decide when "that" place has been created?
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 01:42 PM
Dec 2011

Me? You?

My point is, this is a volitile subject, and we all have strong opinions and feelings about it. Unless you propose to ban everyone who fails to fall in line with what you think will make R&T some kind of utopia, I don't see how this can happen.

You seem to want to ignore anything that offends YOUR sensibilities, and you seem to have lost sight of the fact that there is a wide range of people here, all with different ideas about what religion is. We cannot ONLY talk about the feel-good stuff. We cannot snuff out dissent. We cannot keep people from disagreement.

As long as DU rules are being followed, this group needs to be an open marketplace of ideas, where posts and comments stand or fall on their merits.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
173. I don't see any need for anyone in particular to decide when things are better.
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 05:31 PM
Dec 2011

But I definitely think there is room for improvement.

Even in a group with a volatile subject that has members with very strong feelings and opinions, a level of civility and respect can be achieved. I am not looking for utopia and don't anticipate that will happen.

You make an awful lot of assumptions about me, my sensibilities, what I have lost sight of and what I want people to talk about. One step towards improving communication here might be to listen more and assume less. I know that I have a lot of assumptions about you, but I have gained those from a skewed perspective. I am willing to step back from that and re-assess what is most likely wrong.

I like debate. I like heated debate. I like to engage with people whose experiences and perspectives are entirely different than my own. But I don't like personal attacks or bigotry, and if I express either of those, I fully expect to be called on it.

I completely agree with your last sentence and look forward to engaging with you in this group.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
177. Fair enough.
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 05:57 PM
Dec 2011

You are right about the personal attacks and bigotry, but the current DU rules handle that just fine.

I hope to see more of you here.


Cheers.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
178. Thank you, cleanhippie. Your response means a great deal to me.
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 06:00 PM
Dec 2011

Cheers back at you.

struggle4progress

(118,356 posts)
59. I'd support you as host too. I think you'd be fair
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:00 PM
Dec 2011

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
60. I feel very strongly that you would also be fair and would wholeheartedly support you as a host.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:06 PM
Dec 2011

You most likely would be a better choice than I due to past issues with some members and my father.

I believe that your goals and mine for this group are very much in line.

struggle4progress

(118,356 posts)
74. I have carefully avoided volunteering as a group host here
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:42 PM
Dec 2011

I think the Lounge and Good Reads and the Barack Obama group may generate enough alerts to keep me busy

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
75. Excellent choices for you. I am sorry that we did not have more opportunity to work together.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:46 PM
Dec 2011

I mean that sincerely.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
76. Oops. Looks like I responded to my own post and not yours. Sorry about that.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:51 PM
Dec 2011

EvolveOrConvolve

(6,452 posts)
77. I think you responded to the right post
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:54 PM
Dec 2011

I just think the indention in the post list stops once it reaches a certain depth.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
78. I believe you are correct. It was confusing for a moment.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:55 PM
Dec 2011

Chemisse

(30,817 posts)
182. I think cbayer would make an excellent host.
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 06:28 PM
Dec 2011
 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
12. I'd put my name in the hat.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 02:29 PM
Dec 2011

Let me know if you don't know which "camp" I belong to

I did a stretch as a mod and the icy hammer of atheism didn't slam down on this forum.

struggle4progress

(118,356 posts)
14. when were you a mod?
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 02:38 PM
Dec 2011
 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
62. Two summers ago. n/t
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:13 PM
Dec 2011
 

rug

(82,333 posts)
20. No but the Lounge got pretty fucked up during that term.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 03:19 PM
Dec 2011
 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
63. That was SO not my fault.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:14 PM
Dec 2011

And it was a nightmare keeping all the players straight.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
68. There was a distinct lack of judgment.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:26 PM
Dec 2011

It resulted in a couple of dozen mutual forced ignores, half of whom didn't know the people they were ignoring.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
70. Well, I don't think this is the place to hash this out
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:28 PM
Dec 2011

And I'm pretty sure there is NO place to hash this out. But unless you were there trying to make sense of all of it, you have no idea about the judgments that went into it. I have no regrets about decisions made in that regard.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
72. No it isn't but this group will need both sensitivity and sound judgment.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:38 PM
Dec 2011
 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
80. And I believe that was exercised in the Lounge
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 09:01 PM
Dec 2011

and I'm sure it will be here, too. Do you have a specific problem with me sharing host duties or just atheists in general. Is there a better person from my "side" you would like to offer up?

EvolveOrConvolve

(6,452 posts)
82. I remember that time in the lounge
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 09:02 PM
Dec 2011

It was brutal, and I think the mod crew did a pretty good job considering the mess they had to deal with.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
84. And it is that opinion which reflects poor judgment.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 09:30 PM
Dec 2011

As is this: "Do you have a specific problem with me sharing host duties or just atheists in general."

I do in fact think you specifically are inappropriste to be a host in this group but you conflate that objection to "atheists in general". Why? It's a presupposition absent from the post that for some reason you found necessary to insert. Poor judgment.

And it's poor judgment that easily derails these discussions into personal exchanges and bullshit.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
86. I ask because I want to know what your objection is.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 09:36 PM
Dec 2011

Seems like a reasonable thing to do rather than just go with a supposition on my part. Pardon me for asking you what you are thinking. I guess you wish that I refrain from that in the future. I haven't conflated anything. You have not offered any names of any atheists that you think would be good in the host room, but only stated your objections to those atheists that have volunteered their names for consideration. Doesn't it seem like a legitimate question about whether you have an objection to an atheist host?

I notice you still haven't offered a name from the atheist "camp."

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
90. Has it been determined this place needs representatives from "camps"?
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 09:49 PM
Dec 2011

Shall the server be moved to Panmunjom?

What the group needs, if it needs hosts at all, are individuals who do not see these discussions as hockey games, ithrowing in a few body checks on the way to score goals for their respective teams.

There are quite a few posters here that I feel would be outstanding. And quite a few who wouldn't. There are theists and atheists in both categories. They can speak for themselves.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
94. If we are to have hosts,
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 10:07 PM
Dec 2011

I believe representatives from both theists and atheists to be vital. And each "side" needs to agree on their representative. If we don't have that, then there will be ill feelings toward all decisions by the host(s).

I would like to hear your nominations. From your decision to put the Lounge wars on me, I would like to see you happy with the hosts of this group so we don't have to hear you complain about them.

struggle4progress

(118,356 posts)
79. What? We can't blame you for the consensus action of several dozen mods?
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:58 PM
Dec 2011

Who can we blame then?

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
81. Sounds like
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 09:02 PM
Dec 2011

several still want to blame me, I guess.

It's a much harder job than those that who haven't done it understand.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
85. Considering that entire model has been scrapped, I'd say the system itself.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 09:34 PM
Dec 2011

I wouldn't tout it as an asset.

darkstar3

(8,763 posts)
34. You'd have my vote.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 05:23 PM
Dec 2011

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
69. You also drafted an R/T truce-time pledge and convinced many to sign it.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:26 PM
Dec 2011

I don't have the link anymore but it was a noble gesture.


NMMNG

(28,405 posts)
83. I'd support that
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 09:14 PM
Dec 2011

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
17. I'm interested
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 02:56 PM
Dec 2011

While I have strong opinions and convictions on the subject, Im quite fair and reasonable.

Respectfully, I was quite concerned about s4p becoming a mod, but he seemed to manage it just fine.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
21. Frankly, I thinky you'd have a problem with this part of the TOS:
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 03:28 PM
Dec 2011

"Do not post bigotry based on someone's race or ethnic origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity, religion or lack thereof, disability, or other comparable personal characteristic."

Based on past postings, I'm not sure you'd recognize bigotry based on someone's rekigion.

Other than that, I'd say you're more than fair. But the topic of this group is religion and I think there'd be problems.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
23. If I am guilty of violating that part, then so are you, as well as everyone else that posts here.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 03:41 PM
Dec 2011

Good luck finding anyone here who doesn't have others that think they are bigots.

And I think being a host is much different than being a mod, right?

Perhaps a good rule would be that hosts cannot use host powers on replies to their own OP's?

muriel_volestrangler

(101,368 posts)
18. We could go the way that Environment & Energy seems to be - no host
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 03:04 PM
Dec 2011

The basic job of the hosts is to lock off-topic threads, and block people who are consistently disrupting the group through being against the purpose of the group. But the group's purpose is for all-comers; and I don't think we got a lot of off-topic threads in the old R&T forum. If we're not sure who should be the first host, perhaps it's better to hold off appointing one.

iris27

(1,951 posts)
52. EDIT - changed my mind...I was reminded of a recent flurry of incredibly off-topic posts.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 07:20 PM
Dec 2011

I think it would be helpful to have hosts, if only for that reason.

bananas

(27,509 posts)
123. I agree - no host. nt
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:11 AM
Dec 2011

Angry Dragon

(36,693 posts)
19. Who would you like to see as host??
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 03:04 PM
Dec 2011

dmallind

(10,437 posts)
22. There are three ways to go here
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 03:40 PM
Dec 2011

a) An at least vaguely low-bias representative from theistic and nontheistic groups. Problem - there are few candidates - I can't think of a single example who has not been at best dismissive of the other "side". Extra problem - their can be only one senior host who can override, remove and anoint others.

b) Elect a single host from those who wish to serve. Problem - likely to cause animosity and resentment

c) Have multiple hosts with revolving "senior host" role. Problem - complicated to maintain

Is there even a consensus on how to achieve consensus?

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
26. I think the success of this group will depend more on random juries than on hosts.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 03:49 PM
Dec 2011

dmallind

(10,437 posts)
27. Quite probably so. Wonder if alerts will increase or drop? nt
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 03:57 PM
Dec 2011

Odin2005

(53,521 posts)
24. Kinda hard to find someone neutral.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 03:42 PM
Dec 2011

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
25. I don't come here often enough to really be a host I think..
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 03:48 PM
Dec 2011

But let me propose having an extremist on each side as hosts, that could be an interesting dynamic and we might all even learn something.

Just throwing my two cents worth of plastique into the conversation you understand..

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
28. It's worked well in Cyprus.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 04:04 PM
Dec 2011

dmallind

(10,437 posts)
29. Well the 63-74 stint was a bit testy. nt
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 04:12 PM
Dec 2011

muriel_volestrangler

(101,368 posts)
30. Does this mean I can declare part of the Religion group as British sovereign territory?
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 05:06 PM
Dec 2011

Jolly good. Top-hole.

struggle4progress

(118,356 posts)
61. Wait wait wait! Would we then pay taxes to support the CoE?
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:06 PM
Dec 2011

We're all pretty much disestablishmentarians in this forum, y'know

deacon_sephiroth

(731 posts)
150. Extremists are in?
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 03:02 PM
Dec 2011

Hot damn, I assumed rabble like me would be out of the question, but if we're letting extremists in the door, I'll throw in. I've got like what, 12 posts here? I'm the next big thing, and ready to host (whatever that means)

(I'm kidding of course, don't take me seriously)

I'd support Goblin, I saw Dark throw in, I'll second that, and laconicsax, Cleanhippy seems like a relly level headed, well spoken person, Struggle did OK by me really, kinda talked AT you not to you, and seemed to have trouble focusing on the topic at hand, but otherwise OK. I haven't seen anyone nominate Humblebum yet, if he's not on to throw his hat in, I'll toss it for him!

HUMBLEBUM IN 2012!

darkstar3

(8,763 posts)
32. I don't know that I spend enough time here to host,
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 05:19 PM
Dec 2011

but if asked to do so I would most certainly be fair.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
41. I would object.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 06:13 PM
Dec 2011

I don't think you could do it, despite your best intentions.

darkstar3

(8,763 posts)
42. Thank you. I consider your objection high praise.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 06:15 PM
Dec 2011

lazarus

(27,383 posts)
35. I think we should have no host
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 05:23 PM
Dec 2011

Honestly, a host only keeps things on topic, and how off topic do we anticipate things getting?

The believers won't accept an atheist as host, and the atheists won't accept a believer as host, and nobody like agnostics.

 

laconicsax

(14,860 posts)
38. I'll give it a go.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 05:48 PM
Dec 2011

Even if I'm not the lead host.

ETA: We should really have more than one host.

EvolveOrConvolve

(6,452 posts)
47. I propose cbayer and goblinmonger
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 06:41 PM
Dec 2011

cbayer and goblinmonger are from different "camps", and both seem fair to me. I have no illusions about the bias in posters in this forum, but I think someone can be biased and still act in a fair manner.

So I propose those two posters as our first hosts. I also propose that they each get to choose one other host, since I don't think that two is enough. Four sounds just about right.

Thoughts?

Edit to add: if the hosts system doesn't work for this forum, we can always take a vote and have the admin remove all of our hosts and go to an unhosted forum.

darkstar3

(8,763 posts)
48. I agree with the concept of four hosts,
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 06:45 PM
Dec 2011

but I think we need some new blood.

EvolveOrConvolve

(6,452 posts)
50. Ideally we'd have new blood that isn't in either camp
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 06:49 PM
Dec 2011

But let's admit it: this is one of the wilder corners of DU, and I don't know how much an outsider would put up with the abuse they'd have to take as a host. It's going to be hard to find someone willing to go through that.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
49. Well, then you need an agnostic to be the tiebreaker.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 06:48 PM
Dec 2011

This group needs decisiveness dammit!

EvolveOrConvolve

(6,452 posts)
51. Uh oh, that's a slippery slope
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 06:50 PM
Dec 2011

We don't want to let just ANYONE in.

dmallind

(10,437 posts)
107. an agnostic theist or an agnostic atheist?
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 11:13 PM
Dec 2011

Belief is a binary condition - there is no and can be no tiebreaker, any more than there is between symmetrical and asymmetrical.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
118. I don't know.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 11:53 PM
Dec 2011
 

laconicsax

(14,860 posts)
53. I think there are better choices than cbayer
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 07:23 PM
Dec 2011

Struggle4progress is much more likely to put aside his private beliefs and do the job in an objective manner.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
55. I'm cool with that. I am only invested in trying to make this group a better place and
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 07:47 PM
Dec 2011

not so much in having a specific role in it.

However, I am not clear on how you have reached such rapid conclusions about my private beliefs, my objectivity or my ability to be fair. I hope you will allow us the opportunity to get to know each other better before making assumptions about who I am or how I might behave.

struggle4progress

(118,356 posts)
56. I think that's unfair to cbayer who I saw as a very fair mod during my mod term
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 07:49 PM
Dec 2011
 

laconicsax

(14,860 posts)
128. I don't think cbayer has the capacity to be objective in this group.
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:30 AM
Dec 2011

Other groups/forums, probably. This one, nope.

westerebus

(2,976 posts)
54. I hear there's an opening for an agnostic?
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 07:44 PM
Dec 2011

Would I do?

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
57. Speaking as an atheist and a former Marine
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 07:51 PM
Dec 2011

Last edited Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:28 PM - Edit history (1)

*edit: I changed my mind, yes, you'd have my vote.

westerebus

(2,976 posts)
65. Speaking as an atheist and a Marine Vetern
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:17 PM
Dec 2011

No.

There I fixed it for you. You are a Marine Vetern until you die then you are a former Marine.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
66. Thank you, Devil Dog.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:21 PM
Dec 2011

westerebus

(2,976 posts)
67. No problem.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:26 PM
Dec 2011

I'd put a smiley thing here if I could figure out where they are.

So let's say its in stealth mode. lulz

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
71. I was wrong, my apologies.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 08:30 PM
Dec 2011

I think I had you confused with another DUer, I am sorry.

Oh, here's the link to the smilies: http://www.democraticunderground.com/du3/emoticons/index.html

westerebus

(2,976 posts)
87. We're good.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 09:36 PM
Dec 2011

You know what they say about us Marines.

You can tell a Marine. You just can't tell them much.

Thanks for link.

For a minute there I thought I'd need Marine Corps instructions on how to pin it to this post.

As in, raise your left hand... no... your other left hand and extend your index finger... no... your trigger finger...The one you clen your nose with... now place that finger on the shift key... S H I F T... god dam it... S H I F T...Key... DAM IT!! Get with the program...now locate the colon... aw shit.. no.. the two dots you...

being green ain't easy..

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
97. It's funny how much you block out over the years.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 10:18 PM
Dec 2011

Mostly the bad stuff, I'll always remember the characters, individuals desperately trying to not be assimilated.



beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
58. I nominate muriel_volestrangler
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 07:53 PM
Dec 2011

If he's willing to do the job again, that is.

What say you, mv?

darkstar3

(8,763 posts)
88. Second.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 09:38 PM
Dec 2011

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
89. I find this thread amusing. A bunch lacking religion wanting charge over a religion group.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 09:47 PM
Dec 2011

Rather than putting in some fast-typing ideologue win-at-any-cost possible-sock-puppet safely in charge of the gang war that raged before in the religion forum, the randomness of the jury system might just be what this group needed all along.

darkstar3

(8,763 posts)
91. You act as though those without religion have no place here.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 09:51 PM
Dec 2011

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
99. No, just those who decry not being given charge means they have no place - in a jump too many times.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 10:32 PM
Dec 2011

All people have a place here, there and everywhere, as long as they are respectful.

For example, a straight person could be in charge of the LGBT forum, but a straight person that wishes to antagonize gay people being set in charge there would not be good.

I think: "You act as though those without gay feelings has no place in a LGBT forum." Would fall flat there, as it should here.

It's a rhetorical trick to characterize what I say as being an act, and adding a red herring of giving you "no place" here as a jump to a non-logic driven conclusion. I find this close to typical of our prior interactions.

darkstar3

(8,763 posts)
101. Back-pedal if you want, but your play on words was clear.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 10:37 PM
Dec 2011

As for your "respectful" statement, I believe there has been quite a lot of discussion between the old hands here on what actually constitutes "respect", and it is not deference to any particular idea simply because it's religious.

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
111. I guess we disagree there. /nt
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 11:32 PM
Dec 2011

iris27

(1,951 posts)
114. Again, there is NO other place on DU where people of all viewpoints can discuss religion and
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 11:41 PM
Dec 2011

its influence. Why should those without religion not expect equal representation among those chosen as hosts here?

As someone who is queer, I would have no problem with a straight person who had actively contributed to the LGBT forum being made one of the hosts.

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
125. Equal? You live in a dreamworld. We'll all be lucky to get good representation.
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:21 AM
Dec 2011

And, that's what I said about the LGBT forum, only I'd word your statement differently.

iris27

(1,951 posts)
130. Equal in number.
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:39 AM
Dec 2011

And it is against the DU rules to stand against gay rights. It is not against DU rules to not believe in a deity. So your example of an antagonistic straight person wanting to host GLBT fails on that count.

There are plenty of places on DU that are for religious folks ONLY. This is the one place where everyone is welcome to the discussion, and it's only reasonable to have both believers and non-believers as hosts.

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
142. Chances are a host will act alone while others are away or in bed. So, there could be one person.
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 01:22 AM
Dec 2011

A person can tolerate gay rights and still antagonize gay people by making fun of their sex, using derogatory names, etc. So, my point does not fail there. They would not make a good host.

iris27

(1,951 posts)
144. But by having many hosts, decisions will have to be made by consensus, and rogue actions against
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 01:39 AM
Dec 2011

that consensus (say, in the wee hours of the morning) will lead to their removal as a host. If you notice, most of the constructive discussion on this board is over how many hosts to have, and trying to stay away from choosing members with shorter fuses.

Do you believe that EVERY non-believer on this board has made fun of the sex of, or used derogatory names toward, others on the board? If not, then your comparison still fails.

I'd say the percentage of believers and non-believers who get personally insulting is roughly the same, and that none of them should be chosen as hosts.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
92. I agree. The jury system is key.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 09:53 PM
Dec 2011
 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
93. As I understand it, the jury system will be in place with or without a host.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 10:05 PM
Dec 2011

So, from your post, is it safe to assume that you think that atheists have no place in this forum?
And who, exactly, do you believe the sock puppets to be?

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
112. Yes, it will. As to the no place meme, no. As to calling people out, no. /nt
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 11:39 PM
Dec 2011
 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
117. So you'd rather
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 11:51 PM
Dec 2011

make passive aggressive comments about people possibly being sock puppets and leave it at that? How wonderfully back-handed of you.

darkstar3

(8,763 posts)
119. Consider it par.
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:03 AM
Dec 2011

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
124. Do you think there are no sock puppets on DU?
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:16 AM
Dec 2011

Such passive aggressive wonderfully back-handed cynicism!

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
126. I'm sure people have two accounts.
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:26 AM
Dec 2011

I don't go around throwing that claim out and if I did, I would back it up. Of course, I would never make that claim and would, instead, handle it like an adult and alert on it so that it can be checked out. There are ways for that to be found out with ISP #s and such.

Perhaps you want to look up passive aggressive and back-handed before you go around making that claim. I'm not the one doing it. I'm the one handling conflict like an adult.

Is this attitude of yours in this thread what we can expect you to bring to DU3?

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
133. You just did throw that claim out.
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:43 AM
Dec 2011

Saying you're sure, no less.

And, thanks for telling me that you're handling it like an adult.

You don't think you have an attitude? I think you do, and that you've mischaracterized what I've said because of it. I did not say that atheists had no place in this group, you wrote that that was what I meant.

darkstar3

(8,763 posts)
134. GM is one of many people who caught your implication.
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:45 AM
Dec 2011

Run away from it if you like, but don't tream GM like he's some lunatic coming out of left field.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
137. So it is going to be passive-aggressive doublespeak with you. Got it.
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:54 AM
Dec 2011

You are going to make these veiled claims and comments and when someone questions you on it, you are going to shrug your shoulders, give your best "aw shucks me" look, and then call the person who is calling you on your crap the crazy one.

I think anyone reading this will know which attitude they like more--yours or mine. At least you know what you get with me and not word games.

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
140. Perhaps you're just bad and unveiling.
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 01:09 AM
Dec 2011

Or, perhaps you're bad at unveiling because you don't have a good point.

BTW, I love the "passive-aggressive doublespeak" phrase.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
141. Feel free to use it.
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 01:11 AM
Dec 2011

The Orwellian nature of it fits you well.

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
143. Right back at you. /nt
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 01:25 AM
Dec 2011

EvolveOrConvolve

(6,452 posts)
95. You're making some pretty big assumptions there
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 10:09 PM
Dec 2011

And I'm sure it's against the rules to call out a group with your accusations about sock puppets.

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
108. Calling sock puppets, sock puppets is not broadbrushing anything but sock puppets as sock puppets.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 11:15 PM
Dec 2011

Funny as it is.

darkstar3

(8,763 posts)
109. But accusing others of sock-puppetry has been against the rules for years.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 11:18 PM
Dec 2011

Good thing, too, because otherwise this forum would devolve into nothing but such accusations.

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
113. Whom did I accuse? No one. /nt
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 11:41 PM
Dec 2011
 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
110. Stating that someone posting here right now
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 11:19 PM
Dec 2011

is a sock puppet, is, actually, not a cool thing.

So, again I ask...who do you think the sock puppets are since you don't think it is a problem? I'm interested to know.

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
115. Accusing someone of accusing someone is not cool either. /nt
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 11:42 PM
Dec 2011
 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
116. So "possible sock puppet" is what?
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 11:49 PM
Dec 2011

Please don't tell me you are going to use some political double-speak to say you weren't having a discussion about sock puppets.

So, let me reword...who do you think is the "possible sock puppet"?

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
127. Why would the specific name of a sock puppet matter?
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:28 AM
Dec 2011

If a sock puppet were in charge, it would help its owner in using the powers given the host. I do not see that any specific name would matter in that case.

Call one DUX2X and the other Jubilatory, provided those names do not exist already.

So, there are two names, what does it matter to this discussion?

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
96. I find it amusing you still haven't figured out that this isn't a "religion group".
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 10:14 PM
Dec 2011

And by amusing I mean typical.



Festivito

(13,452 posts)
100. DU Home » Latest Threads » Forums & Groups » Topics » Religion & Spirituality » Religion (Group)
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 10:37 PM
Dec 2011

DU: Religion (Group)
YOU: .... I find it amusing you still haven't figured out that this isn't a "religion group". ....

Hmmmmm.

darkstar3

(8,763 posts)
102. SOP
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 10:40 PM
Dec 2011
Discuss religious and theological issues. All relevant topics are permitted. Believers, non-believers, and everyone in-between are welcome.


This is in stark contrast to other groups on DU, which are considered "safe havens" and are even referred to as such in their SOPs. Group in DU3 terms is far more inclusive than it used to be.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
104. If you're going to participate you really should take the time to read the statement of purpose.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 10:54 PM
Dec 2011
Statement of Purpose

Discuss religious and theological issues. All relevant topics are permitted. Believers, non-believers, and everyone in-between are welcome.


You may feel less threatened here: http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=forum&id=1222

Christian Liberals & Progressive People of Faith (Group): About This Group

Statement of Purpose

A group for Christians and Christian-friendly persons who would like to have an open discussion about our faith and its role in the world around us. Our group will provide a safe haven for discussion and support, and find ways to express our beliefs in positive, non-threatening ways.

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
139. All of which is fine and is in line with what I said. /nt
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:57 AM
Dec 2011

iris27

(1,951 posts)
98. This isn't "a religion group". It's the only place on DU where people of all beliefs are allowed to
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 10:24 PM
Dec 2011

discuss the influence of religion on politics and public life.

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
103. So, this DU: » Religion (Group) » is not "a religion group" in response to someone being amused
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 10:52 PM
Dec 2011

over who wants to be in charge.

I, also, like to discuss the influence of religion on politics and public life. Unfortuanately, in the past such discussions are cut short by people making obtuse comments that seem so inane that further discussion seems worthless to continue.

iris27

(1,951 posts)
105. No, it's not.
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 10:55 PM
Dec 2011

If posts discussing religion were allowed in GD, your amusement might be warranted. But as this is the only such discussion space where all viewpoints are welcome, it is entirely reasonable to suggest that all viewpoints be represented among those who are chosen to host.

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
120. Yes, it is (a religion group). So there. (We're up to 3rd grade playground level.)
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:08 AM
Dec 2011

If only one person is chosen as host would the name have to be Sybil in order for all the viewpoints to be represented?

iris27

(1,951 posts)
131. GD has 20 hosts. I see no reason why Religion should have only one, and almost no one
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:40 AM
Dec 2011

here is suggesting that it have only one.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
106. "people making obtuse comments that seem so inane that further discussion seems worthless" :
Sun Dec 11, 2011, 10:56 PM
Dec 2011
I find this thread amusing. A bunch lacking religion wanting charge over a religion group.

Rather than putting in some fast-typing ideologue win-at-any-cost possible-sock-puppet safely in charge of the gang war that raged before in the religion forum, the randomness of the jury system might just be what this group needed all along.


Yeah, I know just what you mean.

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
122. Good! /nt
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:11 AM
Dec 2011

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
160. I find you post amusing. Publicly displaying that you have no idea what you are saying....
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 11:32 AM
Dec 2011

bananas

(27,509 posts)
121. I don't think this forum should have a host. nt
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:10 AM
Dec 2011
 

laconicsax

(14,860 posts)
129. I'm inclined to agree. n/t
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:33 AM
Dec 2011

iris27

(1,951 posts)
132. I was, until I was reminded by someone's appearance of their tendency to spam this board
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:43 AM
Dec 2011

with unrelated, nonsensical polls.

It's up to the host to determine if an OP if off-topic, and Skinner says the admins will not play host duty when a group hasn't chosen a host. I'd rather not have half a dozen useless polls on the front page.

 

laconicsax

(14,860 posts)
136. You make a very good point. n/t
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:47 AM
Dec 2011
 

laconicsax

(14,860 posts)
135. I nominate AsahinaKimi
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:46 AM
Dec 2011
 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
138. I have no problems with that nomination.
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 12:55 AM
Dec 2011

Always like what she posts.

EvolveOrConvolve

(6,452 posts)
151. I second that
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 09:11 PM
Dec 2011

Jim__

(14,083 posts)
145. I doubt we can pick a host from among the contenders in a contentious group.
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 09:26 AM
Dec 2011

From [a href="http://www.democraticunderground.com/1013434"]Does your group need a host[/a]:

If your group plays host to open debate on a particular topic, and welcomes a wide range of viewpoints, then the choice might not be so simple. If you select a Host, it needs to be someone who is trusted to be fair by people holding a wide range of viewpoints. You may decide that it is better not to assign anyone as the Host of your group, to avoid the risk that that person might use their power to benefit a particular viewpoint.


I think the religion forum plays host to open debate.

Angry Dragon

(36,693 posts)
186. I have no axe to grind
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 09:35 PM
Dec 2011

MineralMan

(146,333 posts)
149. It's a tough job for anyone.
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 02:52 PM
Dec 2011

I'm not interested in the hosting job at all, but choosing a lead Host for this forum should be done, I think, by looking for someone who can separate his or her own beliefs from the duties of moderating a sometimes contentious forum. That's a tough thing to find, but I know there are people who are regulars in this forum who could do the job without favoring one particular viewpoint. Someone who respects the rights of everyone to hold whatever beliefs they find that suit themselves. Someone who can look at posts in the forum for their tone, rather than for the belief system they espouse or don't hold.

I suggest that everyone look for someone in the forum who routinely tries to listen to both sides of an issue, regardless of personal beliefs. Someone who doesn't respond to others with snark, but with honest questions. Someone who you may not have noticed in the forum because he or she isn't abrasive or insistent on having his or her own way or the last word on every issue.

I'm not a regular in the Religion forum, but I've seen just such people posting in it back on DU2. There are several. I suggest you choose one of those to be the lead host, not one of the most vocal and frequent posters here. You'll find someone.

Renew Deal

(81,877 posts)
152. Maybe I should be the host.
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 12:38 AM
Dec 2011

What are you all trying to accomplish with a host? Can 4 of you come together to agree on how you want this forum to operate? Then the 4 of you can share responsibility for this place. Do you want it to be a wide open discussion or non-offensive?

If you want you can make me the lead host. My promise would be to make sure none of you throw any one of the other ones out of a host position and I promise to not throw any of you out. I am a former mod, long time member, and infrequent poster, but frequent lurker. The other former mods can attest to my fairness in R\T.

Let me know.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
153. I'd support that.
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 12:59 AM
Dec 2011

Perhaps a lead host that is not part of the normal mix. Then a couple from each "side."

I think this needs to be a wide open discussion as per the SOP.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,368 posts)
154. I'd support that; I'd be willing to be another host
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 09:59 AM
Dec 2011

I'm obviously on the 'atheist' side of the discussions and arguments, but I was also a mod for a few terms, and I think I was fair in any voting on R&T issues in that time. As I said above, I don't think the need for a host for this group is vital, which at least means it's worth taking time to get a line up that we have true consensus on (unlike Environment & Energy, where they've appointed some, and it looks like it could be Tears Before Bedtime).

Renew Deal

(81,877 posts)
158. I'd support that. Now we need two believers
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 11:08 AM
Dec 2011

I'll be the lead with the promise to not interfere other than way off topic material and preventing you all from throwing each other off.

muriel_volestrangler and ZombieHorde represent "the 'atheist' side"

Now we need two believers to come along. People that are in favor of open discussion and are not easily offended by having their faith questioned.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
163. I'm good with those two to represent me.
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 12:04 PM
Dec 2011

I'll do a stint when and if needed.

Renew Deal

(81,877 posts)
165. Thanks.
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 12:06 PM
Dec 2011

Hopefully we can get two more people and make this a ticket.

struggle4progress

(118,356 posts)
157. Be sure you understand the community standards here!
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 11:02 AM
Dec 2011

rrneck

(17,671 posts)
161. Job one for host: Lock that damn pie wagon! nt
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 11:49 AM
Dec 2011

deacon_sephiroth

(731 posts)
179. I wouldn't come here without the pies
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 06:03 PM
Dec 2011

We......are keeping the pies right?

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
162. I would definitely support you as host.
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 11:57 AM
Dec 2011

Renew Deal

(81,877 posts)
166. Thanks
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 12:07 PM
Dec 2011

I'd support you too. I wonder if we can get you on board under this scenario. Do you think you can fill one of the two open spots?

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
167. I have previously volunteered to do so.
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 12:14 PM
Dec 2011

I wouldn't label myself as a theist, but I am have a very strong convictions about broad tolerance of all kinds of belief systems and for those that do not hold a belief system. I see the issues as completely individually defined and value the insights of others as to how they arrived there and what it means to them.

I would really like to see this group move from an atmosphere of intolerance to one of mutual support and understanding.

Renew Deal

(81,877 posts)
168. .
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 12:16 PM
Dec 2011

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
169. I thought you were looking to add a theist to the mix.
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 12:17 PM
Dec 2011

Laconicsax is a self-defined atheist and a pretty vocal one at that.

Renew Deal

(81,877 posts)
171. Oops
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 12:24 PM
Dec 2011

I saw the cross and mixed it up.

I guess we still need one more.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
174. Yes, the cross is..... well, confusing.
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 05:32 PM
Dec 2011

Response to Renew Deal (Reply #152)

struggle4progress

(118,356 posts)
175. I can support that
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 05:37 PM
Dec 2011

Renew Deal

(81,877 posts)
176. OK, here is the proposal.
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 05:57 PM
Dec 2011

I will be the lead host. Like I said, I will be hands off except to deal with off topic issues and problems between the hosts which I do not anticipate.

The other hosts are:

muriel_volestrangler
ZombieHorde
cbayer
struggle4progress

We need to come to an agreement on how to deal with this place, but it has to be a principle of openness. Dismissing a host would require a unanimous vote. Locking an on-topic thread would also require a unanimous vote of the four other hosts or three of them and myself. If you think that we're not going to get anything accomplished, that's the point. It's to keep this place open as much as possible.

This does not safeguard this group from the juries, but at least it sets some ground rules for OP's.

If there is support for this, we'll put it up for a yes, no vote.

struggle4progress

(118,356 posts)
180. Not bad -- I'd modify the proposal slightly
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 06:20 PM
Dec 2011

I'd suggest that the hosts may not all be simultaneously on duty and so unanimity for a lock may be impossible to obtain quickly

So I'd propose the following modification:

a host who wants to lock an ON TOPIC thread should alert on it as if it were a violation of the Statement of Purpose -- but should explain in the comment box that thread is on-topic and should explain the reasons for wanting to lock. all hosts would then automatically get the alert. the other hosts can then alert on the same thread as if it were a violation of the Statement of Purpose and can explain their vote on the lock in the comment box. in a short period of time, the hosts on duty will have voted on the lock, and in a few minutes we'd know who was around and who wasn't: if there was unanimous agreement of the folk around to lock, we'd lock. but the missing hosts will have the alerts in their inboxes -- and when they return to duty then could also vote on the thread. this gives a mechanism for possibly temporary locking: if the thread has been locked and there's only one later host objection to the lock, not overridden by Renew Deal, the locker would unlock; if the thread has been locked and there's only one later host objection to the lock, Renew Deal could override that one objection, and the thread would remain locked; if the thread has been locked and there are two or more later host objections to the lock, the locker would unlock. Renew Deal, as lead host, would be able to remove any locking host who (after reasonable notice) failed to unlock pursuant to this agreement. This also gives a mechanism for chilling a thread temporarily and reopening it later

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
181. Great job. I am in support of this proposal.
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 06:22 PM
Dec 2011

muriel_volestrangler

(101,368 posts)
183. OK, this makes sense, as does s4p's suggestion on how to deal with absent hosts
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 06:37 PM
Dec 2011

I was going to suggest s4p as the other host, but wasn't sure if he wanted a break after modding the final DU2 season.

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
184. Seems good.
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 07:06 PM
Dec 2011

S4P suggestion also seems good, since hosts may be away for a day, or too sick to log in.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
187. I disagree and support a "no hosts" group.
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 10:07 PM
Dec 2011

To "safeguard this group from the juries" is not the goal. The jury system, not hosts, is the safeguard of this group.

lazarus

(27,383 posts)
188. this may be the only time I ever say this, so everyone listen up
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 10:18 PM
Dec 2011

I agree with rug. No hosts.

darkstar3

(8,763 posts)
189. So what happens when off topic and otherwise unacceptable OPs are posted?
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 10:22 PM
Dec 2011

It seems the alerts on the off-topic test post didn't exactly work.

ETA: Also, what about barring serial disruptors? The admins won't perform host duties for groups with no hosts, and we all know that Guns and Religion are magnets for trolls from the-site-that-must-not-be-named.

lazarus

(27,383 posts)
190. true
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 10:34 PM
Dec 2011

I think rotating hosts would be a good idea, then. Let everybody have a turn in the barrel.

I know from my days as a moderator I often thought that posters would behave better if they had to be a mod for a time, just to see things from a different perspective.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
191. The juries are already routinely deciding those alerts.
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 10:44 PM
Dec 2011

struggle4progress

(118,356 posts)
192. I don't think the juries are deciding those.
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 11:09 PM
Dec 2011
 

rug

(82,333 posts)
195. Results of latest jury.
Wed Dec 14, 2011, 12:15 AM
Dec 2011

JURY RESULTS

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Tue Dec 13, 2011, 10:12 PM, and the Jury voted 6-0 to HIDE IT.

Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT and said: Posters over the top comments and angling for a 3rd party are inappropriate.
Juror #2 voted to HIDE IT and said: pretty much advocating a repuke candidate plus lecturing members, bet it is a troll anyway
Juror #3 voted to HIDE IT and said: The screen name is homophobic. The conent is troll bait. The poster appears to be deranged.
Juror #4 voted to HIDE IT and said: Seems to me like a basic right-wing troll. Buh-bye!
Juror #5 voted to HIDE IT and said: I found it rude and not constructive.
Juror #6 voted to HIDE IT and said: Thinly veiled freeper, tombstone his sorry ass

struggle4progress

(118,356 posts)
196. which thread is that? and was it alerted as a Statement of Purpose violation for a group w/o host?
Wed Dec 14, 2011, 12:19 AM
Dec 2011
 

rug

(82,333 posts)
197. It's in GD. I'll pm you the link. I don't know if the poster has been revoked yet.
Wed Dec 14, 2011, 12:26 AM
Dec 2011

muriel_volestrangler

(101,368 posts)
198. So that is not an off-topic OP
Wed Dec 14, 2011, 08:42 AM
Dec 2011

which would be the primary duty of hosts. Serial disruptors of the Religion Group will probably get caught as breaking Community Standards and Terms of Service (because, as long as it's related to religion, there aren't protected, or disallowed, stances here apart from 'bigoted', which breaks Terms of Service), and that would be similar to the GD alert you posted; but I do now think that there will be off-topic OPs in Religion, and it would be better for them to be caught early, rather than become another point of argument.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
199. Alerts are sent on SOP posts and are acted on by juries.
Wed Dec 14, 2011, 09:41 AM
Dec 2011

There is no need for a host in this group.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,368 posts)
201. That is not my understanding
Wed Dec 14, 2011, 10:18 AM
Dec 2011

If hosts exist for a group, then SOP alerts will go to those hosts, and not to any jury. I haven't seen anything saying that, in the absence of hosts, then they go to a jury.

On edit: that comes from:

What happens when I alert? I see there are a few options to select when I alert.

For reference:

This discussion thread violates the Statement of Purpose for this forum. (See this group's Statement of Purpose.)
-- Goes to the Hosts of that forum or group.

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate. (See Community Standards.)
-- Goes to Jury.

This post includes a copyright violation. (See Copyright Policy.)
-- Goes to Admin

This person's avatar image or signature line is inappropriate.
-- Goes to Admin

If "Does this post include a Terms of Service violation?" is checked:
-- Goes to Malicious Intruder Removal Team and Admin if the Jury voted to hide the post.
-- Goes to Admin only if the Jury voted to leave the post alone.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/12401893


The intention is certainly that hosts should be the ones dealing with SOP violations, whether they see them themselves, or if a DUer alerts one.

struggle4progress

(118,356 posts)
202. The link you pm'd me concerned a post that was not an OP. The hiding message corresponds
Wed Dec 14, 2011, 10:33 AM
Dec 2011

to a community standards alert, not a group Statement of Purpose alert. It looks like the Malicious Intruder Team snagged the poster. But these are three separate sorts of action

A group Statement of Purpose alert would go to the group hosts. The community standards alerts go to juries. I don't yet know how the Malicious Intruder Team works

 

laconicsax

(14,860 posts)
193. Let's do it.
Wed Dec 14, 2011, 12:00 AM
Dec 2011

While I'm not confident that cbayer can be impartial, I'll set aside those concerns and support this.

EvolveOrConvolve

(6,452 posts)
194. That sounds like a good plan
Wed Dec 14, 2011, 12:04 AM
Dec 2011

It might help to it in its own OP - it's pretty hard to find buried in this post.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
200. Thundercats are go!
Wed Dec 14, 2011, 09:59 AM
Dec 2011

I like it.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,368 posts)
203. "Thundercats HO!" & "ThunderBIRDS Are Go!"
Wed Dec 14, 2011, 10:36 AM
Dec 2011




Please get your your children's adventure memes correct. They could be like a religion to someone ...
 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
204. My apologies
Wed Dec 14, 2011, 10:44 AM
Dec 2011

I shall walk the day in shame and disgrace.

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
155. How many hosts do we get?
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 10:52 AM
Dec 2011

Maybe we should have two hosts: one atheist and one theist.

I would be willing to host, or co-host R/T.

Jim__

(14,083 posts)
156. I think the first host is the "capo de tutti capi." - n/t
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 10:58 AM
Dec 2011

Angry Dragon

(36,693 posts)
185. I do not know what the fuss is all about
Tue Dec 13, 2011, 07:28 PM
Dec 2011

This forum needs people that can see both sides at the same time.

struggle4progress

(118,356 posts)
205. I've asked Renew Deal to repost his religion-hosts proposal as an OP for an up-or-down vote
Wed Dec 14, 2011, 11:42 AM
Dec 2011

I think this thread "Why don't folk interested in hosting or cohosting this contentious group post in this thread so we can decide who would be a good lead host?" has run its course, so I'm going to lock it by self-deleting the OP

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