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What Women Really Want (Original Post) libodem Aug 2014 OP
An App Girl powers Aug 2014 #1
That would be nice too. In_The_Wind Aug 2014 #2
A man who tries to figure out what a woman wants, is the same man who thinks a house magically.... TIMETOCHANGE Aug 2014 #3
You said it libodem Aug 2014 #4
It's not that hard a concept. TIMETOCHANGE Aug 2014 #5
I rec all the above posts Demeter Aug 2014 #6
 

TIMETOCHANGE

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3. A man who tries to figure out what a woman wants, is the same man who thinks a house magically....
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 06:14 PM
Aug 2014

cleans itself.

I gave up trying to figure out what women want. I keep my house tidy, cook my own food, clean for four hours a week, clean up after every dinner, take care of the yardwork, make dinner for fiancee five days a week (clean up said dinner), let her veg after twelve hour shift on her feet, and handle my own business.

It doesn't take much to keep a sane civil woman happy. Just handle at least half of the load and everyone can be happy. Being selfish and acting entitled will just make you and her miserable (and then divorce lawyers like me make money).

 

TIMETOCHANGE

(86 posts)
5. It's not that hard a concept.
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 08:02 PM
Aug 2014

Be a partner, not another child. Women don't need their husbands and partners (I have lesbian friends who have complained about partners being selfish and lazy) acting like children, and most don't want to take care of them like they are children.

If a woman's work load is reduced by fifty percent, there's more time for her to feel human, feel healthy, have their own peace of mind and happiness, and be a little more amorous if they are wanting. Shouldn't be that hard to comprehend but so many guys fail to understand it.

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