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Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
Sat Nov 28, 2015, 01:29 PM Nov 2015

How is your holiday shopping going?

I didn't go out yesterday because I knew it was going to be a madhouse. I had to work ten hours anyway, so I'm sure by the time I would have gotten to the stores all the deals would have already been snatched up.

I'm going out to get a gift card later on today for my wife's folks. After that I'll be done with all of my shopping except for my wife. I posted yesterday about getting a computer for a needy friend of mine. I'm still not sure if I'm going to do it, but I did find where I'm going to buy if I do. I've decided to go with a refurbished deal. Thanks to who suggested that.

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How is your holiday shopping going? (Original Post) Tobin S. Nov 2015 OP
No shopping in our house PasadenaTrudy Nov 2015 #1
I don't find holiday shopping stressful. Tobin S. Nov 2015 #3
It's stressful for me whether or not I have money. The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2015 #5
The thing about crowds for me is Tobin S. Nov 2015 #6
Exactly PasadenaTrudy Nov 2015 #8
I hate shopping period! PasadenaTrudy Nov 2015 #9
I do very little shopping at all The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2015 #2
I shop online when I can. Tobin S. Nov 2015 #4
Finished 0=0. hobbit709 Nov 2015 #7
I'll third the "no shopping" magical thyme Nov 2015 #10
Great idea! cwydro Nov 2015 #14
I'm thinking it would pretty simple... magical thyme Nov 2015 #16
I finished my online shopping for our grandchildren. femmocrat Nov 2015 #11
I don't have much to buy - my big bargain of the day LiberalElite Nov 2015 #12
We're not doing any holiday shopping Wolf Frankula Nov 2015 #13
Today I bought two pretty little partridge birds for my mom. cwydro Nov 2015 #15
Got it all done at the mall on the day after Thanksgiving... Iggo Nov 2015 #17
Not happening. nt 2naSalit Nov 2015 #18
Our families live many miles from us so it's mostly gift cards that we send. DawgHouse Nov 2015 #19
I've been almost done since October. YIPPEE! dmr Nov 2015 #20
It must be tough to keep a positive attitude. Tobin S. Nov 2015 #21
got my bestie some presents yesterday fizzgig Nov 2015 #22
Right now I am in the thinking process, but thank goodness I do not have many Tipperary Nov 2015 #23
Zero so far peacefreak Nov 2015 #24
Miz t. and I have a symbiotic relationship. trof Nov 2015 #25
It hasn't started yet. IrishEyes Nov 2015 #26
I'm done. polly7 Nov 2015 #27

PasadenaTrudy

(3,998 posts)
1. No shopping in our house
Sat Nov 28, 2015, 02:08 PM
Nov 2015

We stopped doing the gift thing decades ago...once we became adults. No kids in the family means no shopping! We don't follow the herd when it comes to holidays. Makes our lives so much better and less stressful

Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
3. I don't find holiday shopping stressful.
Sat Nov 28, 2015, 02:15 PM
Nov 2015

But we don't spend a whole lot of money on it. I could see it as stressful if you were running up credit cards or taking out loans to finance it.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,683 posts)
5. It's stressful for me whether or not I have money.
Sat Nov 28, 2015, 02:23 PM
Nov 2015

It's the crowds. I hate crowds; they make me tense and crabby and I can hardly wait to get away. That's why on-line shopping is so awesome.

Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
6. The thing about crowds for me is
Sat Nov 28, 2015, 02:31 PM
Nov 2015

that I don't want to wait a long time to get something done. My wife works in retail here in our small town, but she said that the lines to check out at her store on Friday were 45 minutes to an hour. That would make me crazy. I don't have the patience for that.

PasadenaTrudy

(3,998 posts)
9. I hate shopping period!
Sat Nov 28, 2015, 04:13 PM
Nov 2015

I only go out for groceries and order everything else online. I'm not a fan of people. Plus, I live in overcrowded Los Angeles, traffic and people 24/7

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,683 posts)
2. I do very little shopping at all
Sat Nov 28, 2015, 02:14 PM
Nov 2015

since there's not much left of my immediate family and we are all old. There's just a baby grand-nephew who's the only child. Otherwise we exchange a few small gifts, have dinner and that's it. I don't go out to shop any more; I do it all on line. You couldn't pay me enough to shop on Black Friday even if I did have significant shopping to do.

Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
4. I shop online when I can.
Sat Nov 28, 2015, 02:20 PM
Nov 2015

It's very convenient. I've gotten a few things this year that I had to go out for, though. Gift cards to local shops and restaurants need to be bought at the store, and I also had a purchase for someone at a liquor store.

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
10. I'll third the "no shopping"
Sat Nov 28, 2015, 06:39 PM
Nov 2015

Actually, I *may* get myself a pre-WWII singer sewing machine. We'll see. I want to be able to turn dog and cat food bags into totes.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
14. Great idea!
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 05:17 AM
Nov 2015

If it works out for you, let me know.

I've got tons of chicken feed bags that would be very pretty totes, but I'm not creative that way.

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
16. I'm thinking it would pretty simple...
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 08:23 AM
Nov 2015

cut off the top 3-4" or so. cut that strip in half. fold each half-strip along the long sides to make neat hems and sew them flat. that gives 2 short handles. Make a hem at the top of the remaining bag. sew the handles on the bag.

that way, I'm out thread and time. if I'm not able to sell them myself, I'll donate them to the shelter to sell.

It will need a sewing machine strong enough to sew through a few layers of plastic bag, though. I don't know if a non-commercial machine will be strong enough. I'm thinking the antique may be. The ad says it sews denim. I think a few layers of denim takes a lot of power.

I wish it was my idea, but some other enterprising Mainer or Masshole came up with it years ago. I haven't seen any around these parts, so maybe I can corner the market now

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
11. I finished my online shopping for our grandchildren.
Sat Nov 28, 2015, 06:55 PM
Nov 2015

I just need to go to B & N for a couple of baby toys and a book or two for the older one.

If only the adults in the family were that easy!

LiberalElite

(14,691 posts)
12. I don't have much to buy - my big bargain of the day
Sat Nov 28, 2015, 07:01 PM
Nov 2015

that I came across by accident - a name brand selfie stick for $2.99.

Wolf Frankula

(3,600 posts)
13. We're not doing any holiday shopping
Sat Nov 28, 2015, 07:05 PM
Nov 2015

The nieces say they're adults and don't want any kid presents. My sister and wife may have to work on Christmas. My foster son, in the Coast Guard, asked for a bottle of spiced rum. I sent one to him. The cats want snuggles and scratchies for Christmas. They'll get them.

I had to work on Black Friday.

Wolf

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
15. Today I bought two pretty little partridge birds for my mom.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 05:20 AM
Nov 2015

Sparkly and Christmasy - she loves bird figurines, and I just couldn't resist them. She loved them.

I only have family to buy for really - and a close friend.

It gets harder to figure out what to buy every year. Especially for an 89 year old mother.

Iggo

(47,552 posts)
17. Got it all done at the mall on the day after Thanksgiving...
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 12:04 PM
Nov 2015

...same way I've been doing it since 1975.

I love the noise. I love the "stress" (which I like to call "excitement&quot . And I love love LOVE being alone in a crowd! (And anyway, Xmas shopping at the mall ain't got shit on a Slayer mosh pit.)

DawgHouse

(4,019 posts)
19. Our families live many miles from us so it's mostly gift cards that we send.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 05:41 PM
Nov 2015

It's very nice if you are able to help your needy friend. That's what the holidays are all about.

dmr

(28,347 posts)
20. I've been almost done since October. YIPPEE!
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 06:27 PM
Nov 2015

And they're wrapped too! This is the first time I've ever been so good at it.

Just have to buy a couple of liquor bottles & some wine for family. I'm looking forward to Christmas this year. I recently got some bad news on my cancer, so I don't know what will be for Christmas 2016. I just want everyone to be happy.

Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
21. It must be tough to keep a positive attitude.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 06:41 PM
Nov 2015

I hope you are able to show that cancer the door. Here's to you and your family.

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
22. got my bestie some presents yesterday
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 06:47 PM
Nov 2015

just because. she's not jewish, but i identify as such, so i'm going to send it to her for chanukah.

haven't done shopping for anyone else yet, but i also have no idea what anyone wants.

peacefreak

(2,939 posts)
24. Zero so far
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 07:31 PM
Nov 2015

I've been on the other side of the counter. Friendly reminder---we are people, too. We have friends & loved ones that we wish we could spend time with.
Yeah, it's been a tough weekend with more to come.

trof

(54,256 posts)
25. Miz t. and I have a symbiotic relationship.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 07:58 PM
Nov 2015

She loves to shop.
I don't.
She does the Christmas shopping.
I pay the bills.
Win-Win.

IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
26. It hasn't started yet.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 10:05 PM
Nov 2015

I'm trying to figure out how much I can afford to budget for Christmas which isn't a lot. I have around ten people to shop for.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
27. I'm done.
Sun Nov 29, 2015, 11:44 PM
Nov 2015

I hate shopping with a gazillion people to get around. I look for just the right thing all year and buy it (a lot of it online) when I see it at a good price. That was I don't get stressed out right before and can concentrate on the fun stuff like the parties, visiting and trying out new recipes and my mad cooking skills.

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