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Kim Kardashian and Kanye West face backlash over cruel and tacky decision to pierce baby North Wests ears
Kim Kardashian and Kanye Wests decision to pierce their daughter Norths ears for her first birthday is drawing criticism on Twitter.
The diamond solitaire studs, which North was first seen wearing on June 15th, have sparked accusations that the couple are treating their daughter as a press ploy and dress-up doll.
Kim Kardashian has pierced her one-year-old's ears? That's cruel AND tacky...[sic] tweeted one enraged onlooker named Katy Brent.
Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2660459/Kim-Kardashian-Kanye-West-face-backlash-cruel-tacky-decision-pierce-baby-North-Wests-ears.html#ixzz34vX74mfV
TexasTowelie
(112,456 posts)It said that the girl had a photo taken about a month ago and her ears weren't pierced. Normally, they put in metal studs that are nickel-free to avoid problems with metal sensitivity. It would be terrible if their daughter developed some type of infection just to look good in a glamor shot.
Myrina
(12,296 posts)They did both ears at the same time with the tiny gold studs. Sure she squealed for a little while but a trip to the mall ice cream shop ended it real quick.
I don't see the problem.
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)Mojorabbit
(16,020 posts)It was pretty common when I was a child back in the stone age
Arkansas Granny
(31,532 posts)NightWatcher
(39,343 posts)I don't understand it, sorry.
Let the Baby Piercing Flamewars Begin
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)NightWatcher
(39,343 posts)and its done without the baby's consent, right?
Why is it needed?
Skittles
(153,202 posts)NOTHING more
Ineeda
(3,626 posts)but so are pretty little bows and frilly dresses.
Piercing baby girls' ears is very much a cultural thing, (as mentioned by others.)
Skittles
(153,202 posts)oh dear; times must have changed
Ineeda
(3,626 posts)How elitist of you. EOM
IrishAyes
(6,151 posts)Would you say it's cruel to dress them against their wishes?
DamnYankeeInHouston
(1,365 posts)hunter
(38,328 posts)Not nearly so weird as circumcision.
I'm a circumcised white guy. (TMI, I know...)
I've also got a pierced ear, but that was voluntary, as a young adult.
Tell me now, which was worse?
IrishAyes
(6,151 posts)Though at least in general, the pierced ear is for decoration and cultural identity; I don't know that the circumcision necessarily enjoys both purposes.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)I don't think it's a huge deal. The earlobes don't have many nerve endings. (I have pierced ears.)
FSogol
(45,529 posts)MrMickeysMom
(20,453 posts)progressoid
(49,999 posts)CBGLuthier
(12,723 posts)Not my kid, not that unusual. Not my business.
a la izquierda
(11,797 posts)I've had my ears pierced since I was a tiny baby. It's very common in my huge, extended family.
I don't understand why anyone feels the need to be so involved in others' decisions that do not concern them.
Wait Wut
(8,492 posts)...I don't care if someone else does. There are much worse parenting fails than ear piercing. If the kid doesn't like them when she's older, she can let them close. When they get her a tattoo, let me know.
Skittles
(153,202 posts)I've chosen to NEVER have my ears pierced and it would suck having your parents essentially MAKE you do it
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)blueamy66
(6,795 posts)no biggie...
the child can elect to have them pierced when they're old enough to want it for themselves - gee, what novel concept
blueamy66
(6,795 posts)I had my foot caught in the spokes of a bike when I was 3. My Dad was riding me on the handle bars, without shoes, on his bike. I still have the scar. Don't remember the day at all.
A 1 yr old kid isn't gonna remember having get ears pierced.
Pick a more important issue to rally for.
Skittles
(153,202 posts)some people think it's fine to stick needles into babies (PRIMARILY INTO GIRLS - why is that?) to decorate them like Christmas tress and while some find it distasteful
Callmecrazy
(3,065 posts)Is she hanging bowling balls from the kids ears? no.
She looks pretty with them.
A vaccination hurts a lot more but we give them to kids too.
SOME PEOPLE!
LynneSin
(95,337 posts)mind you it's not what I would do if I had kids but I think there are bigger things for us to outrage over than this.
hamsterjill
(15,224 posts)That said - I think it's an unnecessary thing for a baby. I've known of at least two babies that had infections from having this done "down at the mall".
Yes, as stated above, it's just a little needle prick. But that needle prick can just as easily be done to a 13 year old, who is old enough to consent to it, than it be done to a baby who only knows that something is hurting.
IrishAyes
(6,151 posts)that. People are reacting as if this was genital mutilation.
No Vested Interest
(5,167 posts)My sister attended a religious school that had a number of Mexican girls as boarders. This would have been in the early 50's. These girls had pierced ears, and from that time on I always associated pierced ears with Hispanic people.
A dear friend of mine, a Canadian, was living in Venezuela in 1963, when she gave birth to a girl. The staff at the hospital wanted to pierce the infant's ears before she left the hospital, which procedure my friend succeeded in denying.
Therefore, I've always considered pierced ears a cultural thing, which didn't interest me, but was okay for those to whom it was part of the culture. No harm for those who wish it for their girls. I wouldn't want to see earrings in boys' ears as infants, though, or piercings in other places, and no way tattoos.
IrishAyes
(6,151 posts)it in their cultures would feel awkward if not devastated. And ear piercing will 'cure' itself easily enough if desired later. Whereas in certain places, at least in the past (think Deep South), piercing anything was considered a mark of satan! My mother was a southern belle, ultra liberal for her time and disowned by her relatives for running off to marry a damnYankee Catholic, but even she couldn't bring herself to pierce her ears until a few years later. Finally she got tired of losing clip-ons and suffering the pressure they inflict, so she said to hell with that and came home one day with those pagan holes in her ear lobes. After all, she was straight line Irish American too, although her ancestors beat Dad's here by a generation; and much of Ireland clings stubbornly to parts of its pagan past - which I consider wonderful. My ears were pierced as a 13th birthday present. As we naturally blend into the American melting pot, later generations don't seem to care about old traditions at all. So they do what they want, which is only right because it is their life after all. Fortunately they still seem to want (at least) pierced ears!
hamsterjill
(15,224 posts)Cultural identity purposes?
IrishAyes
(6,151 posts)contraindications healthwise, unless you can say fingernail clippers for instance are able to cut off chunks of flesh and therefore should be banned. Combing hair could be dangerous too, as the teeth might puncture the skin if one presses down too hard. Etc etc etc. I'd personally rather have a baby's ears pierced in the hospital, not the mall or at home. But otherwise, I personally shall remain an enthusiastic supporter of the custom.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)bluesbassman
(19,379 posts)KamaAina
(78,249 posts)edbermac
(15,947 posts)Some shrink is going to make a boatload of money off of that kid one day.
Piercing the kid's ears doesn't even begin to rank on the list of tacky things Kim and Kanye have done.
kwassa
(23,340 posts)If so, I am outraged.
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)EX500rider
(10,872 posts)lunamagica
(9,967 posts)My mom didn't pierce mine. I was mad at her for that. I wanted to wear cute little earrings like they did but could not.
I tried three (painful) times to have them pierced, and the third time was the charm, when I was sever years old.
I wish I had then pierced as a baby, and had avoided so much hassle
mackerel
(4,412 posts)It's a tradition in Latin America.
Jenoch
(7,720 posts)okieinpain
(9,397 posts)jmowreader
(50,566 posts)lumpy
(13,704 posts)for anything that might be distasteful to some.
Callmecrazy
(3,065 posts)There'll be a scandal about painting the baby's toenails.
These stupid first world issues are the reason we haven't been visited by aliens. They think we're all crazy.
Bombero1956
(3,539 posts)baby girls ears are pierced at birth or shortly after birth. To me it's a matter of culture.