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DFW

(54,426 posts)
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 10:55 AM Apr 2014

32 years ago today, I got an eagle to grow gills--everything changed, and nothing changed

32 years ago today, a tall, even-tempered, beautiful woman from across the ocean agreed to be my life's companion.

Sometime in the 8 years we had known each other before we found the time to actually get married:
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To April 10, 1982 in Washington:
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To hanging out with some intriguing people along the way,
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Creating a few more intriguing people to be around after we're not
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And letting time take its course with us (as if we have a choice):
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If anyone had told me, that night back in 1974 in Berlin, that the lovely vision I was introduced to would even entertain the notion of spending her life with me, I would have told you you have a better chance of getting an eagle to grow gills. Now I know that "impossible" is a higher hurdle than I used to believe.


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32 years ago today, I got an eagle to grow gills--everything changed, and nothing changed (Original Post) DFW Apr 2014 OP
Well congratulations!! cyberswede Apr 2014 #1
How come you got older and your beautiful bride did not???? dixiegrrrrl Apr 2014 #2
I think they both look good Skittles Apr 2014 #6
You don't know how stubborn Germans can be sometimes DFW Apr 2014 #12
Congratulations! Xyzse Apr 2014 #3
you are blessed irisblue Apr 2014 #4
That's relative DFW Apr 2014 #40
Congratulations to you both, my dear DFW! CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2014 #5
Well, my dear Peggy DFW Apr 2014 #17
Oops, let me amend that DFW Apr 2014 #51
So beautiful and so full of love. Raine1967 Apr 2014 #7
32 more takes us to 94. Well, here's hoping! DFW Apr 2014 #39
Congrats PatrynXX Apr 2014 #8
Hell yeah, I did! DFW Apr 2014 #18
DANG! What a GREAT post!!! Congratulations to you both, DFW! calimary Apr 2014 #9
Thanks! I gave up on traditional ties long ago. DFW Apr 2014 #19
I know how that is! calimary Apr 2014 #29
Happy Anniversary! geardaddy Apr 2014 #10
Well, then Happy Birthday! DFW Apr 2014 #20
haha! geardaddy Apr 2014 #21
Can't do the "day" part DFW Apr 2014 #25
That sounds great! geardaddy Apr 2014 #26
Tikka Massala, here we come! n/t DFW Apr 2014 #27
Happy Birthday to you, too, geardaddy! calimary Apr 2014 #30
Makes my heart sing - bravo to you both! erronis Apr 2014 #11
What a lovely, exciting story in pictures lillypaddle Apr 2014 #13
It's the short version DFW Apr 2014 #28
Wonderful! lillypaddle Apr 2014 #31
The notion didn't escape me. DFW Apr 2014 #38
not up to speed on who is who rafeh1 Apr 2014 #14
Which names? DFW Apr 2014 #22
Welcome to DU, rafeh1! calimary Apr 2014 #33
Lovely, lovely mainer Apr 2014 #15
And we're headed, of all places, to Maine tomorrow. DFW Apr 2014 #24
Luckily the weather here is looking pretty good today. mainer Apr 2014 #32
We won't have much time, but we'll try. DFW Apr 2014 #37
Beautiful! Schema Thing Apr 2014 #46
Wow! bananas Apr 2014 #16
Can't give it all away in the first chapter, can we? DFW Apr 2014 #23
you are extraordinarily fortunate :) steve2470 Apr 2014 #34
Brains, looks, and nearsighted DFW Apr 2014 #35
Congratulations!!! Rhiannon12866 Apr 2014 #36
Thanks! DFW Apr 2014 #41
Sounds like another fun adventure, my friend! Rhiannon12866 Apr 2014 #42
the happiest of anniversaries to you and your beautiful lady, dfw. thank you so much for sharing niyad Apr 2014 #43
I think the kids would say... Wounded Bear Apr 2014 #44
Is that even possible? n/t DFW Apr 2014 #48
Glad to be the 50th to recommend! MrMickeysMom Apr 2014 #45
I don't know if we'll make it that far DFW Apr 2014 #49
Happy Anniversary, DFW & Bride! Schema Thing Apr 2014 #47
Thanks to all of you! DFW Apr 2014 #50
congrats! Kali Apr 2014 #52
Just gotta ask - is one of those photos from a Renaissance Weekend? mainer Apr 2014 #53
Snoop away! DFW Apr 2014 #54
ah hah. I thought I recognized those name tags. mainer Apr 2014 #55
Phil and Linda were here today, too DFW Apr 2014 #56

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
2. How come you got older and your beautiful bride did not????
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 11:23 AM
Apr 2014

gorgeous family. You have every right to be proud.

DFW

(54,426 posts)
12. You don't know how stubborn Germans can be sometimes
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 01:35 PM
Apr 2014

Last edited Thu Apr 10, 2014, 03:21 PM - Edit history (1)

She says she'll age when she's good and ready. She wears her (nearly) 62 years VERY gracefully.

DFW

(54,426 posts)
40. That's relative
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 07:41 PM
Apr 2014

But we have been more fortunate than many, and we are not so blind as to have missed that.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,672 posts)
5. Congratulations to you both, my dear DFW!
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 11:59 AM
Apr 2014

You two are living a fairy tale, complete with kings, diplomats and of course, two princess royals!

May you have many more wonderful years...

DFW

(54,426 posts)
17. Well, my dear Peggy
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 01:44 PM
Apr 2014

The only King I ever met was Albert King, but he was royalty in my eyes, so he counts.

DFW

(54,426 posts)
51. Oops, let me amend that
Sat Apr 12, 2014, 04:08 PM
Apr 2014

Last edited Sat Apr 12, 2014, 11:16 PM - Edit history (1)

At the celebration here in Maine, I just ran into Angus King, the Independent Senator from Maine, whom I met nearly 20 years ago, when he was Maine's governor. The current governor of Maine, Teabagger Paul LePage gave a short speech at the christening of the USS Zumwalt today, and the guy is so dense, he had trouble reading his own speech (probably because it was in English).

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Raine1967

(11,589 posts)
7. So beautiful and so full of love.
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 12:02 PM
Apr 2014

32 years is no small feat, but I suspect love has a part in making time go by.


May you and Ms. DFW have 32 more!

DFW

(54,426 posts)
39. 32 more takes us to 94. Well, here's hoping!
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 07:40 PM
Apr 2014

My grandfather made it to 102, but his wife only made it to 80 and my dad's parents didn't even make it to 70.

Looks like we'll have to press our luck. But hell, the last 32 years have been pure luck, and no one can take that away from us.

DFW

(54,426 posts)
18. Hell yeah, I did!
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 03:03 PM
Apr 2014

I have very sensitive skin, so if I shave, I break out in a red rash like a boiled lobster.

As we take our US vacations mostly on Cape Cod, being mistaken for a boiled lobster can have dire consequences.

So I kept the beard.

calimary

(81,398 posts)
9. DANG! What a GREAT post!!! Congratulations to you both, DFW!
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 01:11 PM
Apr 2014

WUNNNNNNderful photos - you and she have built a remarkable life together! And you're not done yet!

A thing of beauty, for sure! This is TERRIFIC!!!



Btw - LOVE that guitar tie!

DFW

(54,426 posts)
19. Thanks! I gave up on traditional ties long ago.
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 03:05 PM
Apr 2014

Although I'll be making an exception this Saturday, but that is for a once-in-a-lifetime occasion.

And for sure, we're not done yet! As I write this, I'm in Illinois and my wife is in Vermont. We're both meeting up in New York City tonight for dinner with our elder daughter. Typical crazy schedule!

calimary

(81,398 posts)
29. I know how that is!
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 06:37 PM
Apr 2014

Looks like you've done an all-around expert job!

That's just FANTASTIC! Congratulations again!

DFW

(54,426 posts)
25. Can't do the "day" part
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 03:13 PM
Apr 2014

I had some work to do Stateside here in Illinois, and she was visiting a GF in Vermont.

However, we're meeting up in New York City tonight for an anniversary dinner with our elder daughter.

Lost time WILL be made up for!

rafeh1

(385 posts)
14. not up to speed on who is who
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 01:38 PM
Apr 2014

not up to speed on who is who some names would be helpful. Anyway congratulations.

DFW

(54,426 posts)
22. Which names?
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 03:09 PM
Apr 2014

We're not posting ours on an open board.

As for the rest, Helen Thomas and the rest are playing themselves in this particular episode.

calimary

(81,398 posts)
33. Welcome to DU, rafeh1!
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 06:41 PM
Apr 2014

Glad you're here! As you go, you'll get it more and more. Took me awhile to get some of the abbreviations around here - finally had to try to look 'em up. Welcome! This place has kept a lot of us sane since 2001!

DFW

(54,426 posts)
24. And we're headed, of all places, to Maine tomorrow.
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 03:11 PM
Apr 2014

The teeming metropolis of Bath, to be specific.

mainer

(12,022 posts)
32. Luckily the weather here is looking pretty good today.
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 06:40 PM
Apr 2014

In the 40s - 50s, sunny. May you have a good time in Bath, and hope you get a chance to explore a little further.

DFW

(54,426 posts)
37. We won't have much time, but we'll try.
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 07:32 PM
Apr 2014

We are there for a ship christening. The ship is named after the father of a good friend of ours, so that's why Maine is on our list this time. We haven't been there in almost 40 years!

bananas

(27,509 posts)
16. Wow!
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 01:41 PM
Apr 2014

Not what I expected from the subject line!
Pleasantly surprised!
Thanks for sharing those photos and your story!

DFW

(54,426 posts)
35. Brains, looks, and nearsighted
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 07:20 PM
Apr 2014

That last having saved my sorry ass long enough to give me a chance! LOL!!

DFW

(54,426 posts)
41. Thanks!
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 07:43 PM
Apr 2014

In the meantime, we have made it to New York, and are about to go do some serious probing of Indian cuisine.

niyad

(113,498 posts)
43. the happiest of anniversaries to you and your beautiful lady, dfw. thank you so much for sharing
Thu Apr 10, 2014, 10:32 PM
Apr 2014

a part of your life with us. the love just shines for all to see.

DFW

(54,426 posts)
50. Thanks to all of you!
Fri Apr 11, 2014, 07:53 AM
Apr 2014

This was one of those rare days when everything went on time and according to plan.

Nice of the fates to give us a pass this time!

mainer

(12,022 posts)
53. Just gotta ask - is one of those photos from a Renaissance Weekend?
Sat Apr 12, 2014, 04:32 PM
Apr 2014

In particular, the one with Gabby Giffords.

Me being snoopy.

DFW

(54,426 posts)
54. Snoop away!
Sat Apr 12, 2014, 05:36 PM
Apr 2014

The pic with Gabby and Mark was indeed at Renaissance Weekend (the one with Hillary, too).

DFW

(54,426 posts)
56. Phil and Linda were here today, too
Sat Apr 12, 2014, 11:15 PM
Apr 2014

There must have been 25 or so Renaissance people here in Bath

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