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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsI am the former DeposeTheBoyKing. We lost our Monty tonight.
We had him put to sleep at about 5:45 this evening. I am too devastated to write more. There were some here who cared about him, and I wanted to say he is gone. Oh, GOD, it is killing me.
NYC_SKP
(68,644 posts)kanda
(175 posts)My deepest sympathy to you, Catlover827. May Monty RIP knowing he was deeply loved.
petronius
(26,602 posts)I ever had. Even knowing that that it was the right thing and the right time, it's so hard.
Something I read that really helped me, is that for cats there really isn't a sense of time - all the sadness and loss and desire for more days comes from us. For Monty, like for my big guy, every moment with you was 'now/always', and it was happy. As I sit here and remember, I can still feel and hear and almost see our guy - and since time didn't matter to him why should it for us? Set aside that linear thinking, and they're still here in us and always will be.
I don't know, maybe that doesn't make sense, but anyway:
schmice
(248 posts)I don't know you but can relate to your pain nevertheless. It is like losing a member of the family. He is beyond pain and sickness now. Take care of yourself and your family. Again, I'm so sorry.
dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)I am so sorry for your loss and hurt this day.
Tsiyu
(18,186 posts)Chellee
(2,096 posts)spiderpig
(10,419 posts)They are totally dependent on us, and give us unqualified loyalty and affection in return for a few bowls of food and some cuddling.
Sympathy to you and your family - pet and non-pet.
Kennah
(14,261 posts)I know your pain from losing a cat I had for 18 years.
Friend of mine lost his cat to cancer a few days ago. Reading his FB post and seeing the pic stirred up emotions.
So sorry for your loss.
HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)kaiden
(1,314 posts)It never gets any easier. Hugs to you.
siligut
(12,272 posts)So sorry, it never gets easier. If you are like me, you will see, hear and feel him around for a few days.
onecent
(6,096 posts)moobu2
(4,822 posts)There's nothing worse that losing a close friend. Time heal the hurt though, it's true. I've been through it several times unfortunately.