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Catlover827

(191 posts)
Fri Oct 12, 2012, 11:21 PM Oct 2012

I am the former DeposeTheBoyKing. We lost our Monty tonight.

We had him put to sleep at about 5:45 this evening. I am too devastated to write more. There were some here who cared about him, and I wanted to say he is gone. Oh, GOD, it is killing me.

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I am the former DeposeTheBoyKing. We lost our Monty tonight. (Original Post) Catlover827 Oct 2012 OP
My sympathy and hugs go out to you and yours, Catlover827. NYC_SKP Oct 2012 #1
So sorry. kanda Oct 2012 #2
I'm so sorry - we went through that this summer, and it was one of the worst days petronius Oct 2012 #3
I am so sorry. schmice Oct 2012 #4
There are many of us who understand the pain. dixiegrrrrl Oct 2012 #5
So sorry for your loss DTBK - aka Catlover827 Tsiyu Oct 2012 #6
I'm so sorry. Chellee Oct 2012 #7
Those who don't have animals will never understand the pain spiderpig Oct 2012 #8
I went through this in August Kennah Oct 2012 #9
... HopeHoops Oct 2012 #10
Know how you feel. Lost our Ed of 16 years on Tuesday. kaiden Oct 2012 #11
Farewell, Monty, you know you were loved siligut Oct 2012 #12
My thoughts and hugs are with you!! n/t onecent Oct 2012 #13
I'm so sorry moobu2 Oct 2012 #14
So sorry. applegrove Oct 2012 #15
. graywarrior Oct 2012 #16

petronius

(26,602 posts)
3. I'm so sorry - we went through that this summer, and it was one of the worst days
Fri Oct 12, 2012, 11:41 PM
Oct 2012

I ever had. Even knowing that that it was the right thing and the right time, it's so hard.

Something I read that really helped me, is that for cats there really isn't a sense of time - all the sadness and loss and desire for more days comes from us. For Monty, like for my big guy, every moment with you was 'now/always', and it was happy. As I sit here and remember, I can still feel and hear and almost see our guy - and since time didn't matter to him why should it for us? Set aside that linear thinking, and they're still here in us and always will be.

I don't know, maybe that doesn't make sense, but anyway:

 

schmice

(248 posts)
4. I am so sorry.
Fri Oct 12, 2012, 11:51 PM
Oct 2012

I don't know you but can relate to your pain nevertheless. It is like losing a member of the family. He is beyond pain and sickness now. Take care of yourself and your family. Again, I'm so sorry.

spiderpig

(10,419 posts)
8. Those who don't have animals will never understand the pain
Sat Oct 13, 2012, 01:17 AM
Oct 2012

They are totally dependent on us, and give us unqualified loyalty and affection in return for a few bowls of food and some cuddling.

Sympathy to you and your family - pet and non-pet.

Kennah

(14,261 posts)
9. I went through this in August
Sat Oct 13, 2012, 01:20 AM
Oct 2012

I know your pain from losing a cat I had for 18 years.

Friend of mine lost his cat to cancer a few days ago. Reading his FB post and seeing the pic stirred up emotions.

So sorry for your loss.

siligut

(12,272 posts)
12. Farewell, Monty, you know you were loved
Sat Oct 13, 2012, 08:37 PM
Oct 2012

So sorry, it never gets easier. If you are like me, you will see, hear and feel him around for a few days.

moobu2

(4,822 posts)
14. I'm so sorry
Sun Oct 14, 2012, 12:13 PM
Oct 2012

There's nothing worse that losing a close friend. Time heal the hurt though, it's true. I've been through it several times unfortunately.

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