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dlwickham

(3,316 posts)
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 07:20 PM Feb 2013

Duff Goldman, 'Ace Of Cakes' Chef, Offers To Bake Rejected Lesbian Couple's Wedding Cake For Free

Source: Huffington Post

Things might soon be looking up for the lesbian brides-to-be who were denied a wedding cake by an Oregon bakery.

In the wake of the incident, Baltimore-based pastry chef and "Ace of Cakes" star Duff Goldman is sending out an open offer to the couple (whose names have not been released) saying he'll bake and transport their wedding cake completely free of charge.

The executive chef of the Baltimore-based Charm City Cakes told HuffPost Live, "I saw this story and I was like, “Wait -- I can do something, there’s injustice involving a cake!”

Noting that Charm City has been making same-sex wedding cakes for some time, Goldman added, "For a cake decorator to really feel like he really needed to take a stand…it just makes absolutely no sense. It’s petty, it’s small…this man has wrapped up his hatred in the cloak of religion.”

Read more: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/04/duff-goldman-gay-wedding-cake-offer-oregon-lesbians_n_2617583.html?utm_hp_ref=fb&src=sp&comm_ref=false#sb=703907,b=facebook



Lucky LUCKY couple to get one of his cakes
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Duff Goldman, 'Ace Of Cakes' Chef, Offers To Bake Rejected Lesbian Couple's Wedding Cake For Free (Original Post) dlwickham Feb 2013 OP
Duff continues to rock. Hard Assets Feb 2013 #1
Great story from the land of John Waters. ; ) blm Feb 2013 #3
Yes indeed. Maryland a great progressive state. I use to love watching his southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #5
And don't let's forget home of LibertyLover Feb 2013 #40
Well, at least something... awoke_in_2003 Feb 2013 #53
Best story of the day! abelenkpe Feb 2013 #2
I love happy endings! snacker Feb 2013 #4
Great guy who makes awesome cakes. Jennicut Feb 2013 #6
"there’s injustice involving a cake!” Bluenorthwest Feb 2013 #7
That is a *great* line! Hekate Feb 2013 #11
that made me LOL Skittles Feb 2013 #12
Noticed that too, loved it! yardwork Feb 2013 #14
Me, too. Yes, way to take a stand, cake decorator! (n/t) SMC22307 Feb 2013 #22
That sentence instantly made me love that guy. (nt) Posteritatis Feb 2013 #29
Same here. Great thought... Democracyinkind Feb 2013 #35
I imagine him throwing open a closet door Arkana Feb 2013 #46
cake man to the rescue. whistler162 Feb 2013 #50
Me too, it was a wonderful line. DeschutesRiver Feb 2013 #60
Nom nom nom shenmue Feb 2013 #8
A suburb of Portland Oregon!! not in Oklahoma!! what! it can't be OKNancy Feb 2013 #9
I THINK that kind of thing all the time around here, kentauros Feb 2013 #16
I never post what I really think... OKNancy Feb 2013 #17
I won't enjoy your posts so much any more. At least most of them... Democracyinkind Feb 2013 #36
Well, here in Oklahoma I have no doubt Still Sensible Feb 2013 #19
Once You Get Out of Portland Metro or Salem it's a Red State dballance Feb 2013 #25
2004, my partner and I went up to Beaverton to deal with his mom's sudden passing Starry Messenger Feb 2013 #27
Good job making thisn about you! alcibiades_mystery Feb 2013 #30
oops, sorry about that. I didn't really mean to. OKNancy Feb 2013 #38
Outside of Portland and Eugene Oregon goes a frightening shade of red... AmyDeLune Feb 2013 #51
I got to eat one of his cakes at a wedding in Baltimore. Hissyspit Feb 2013 #10
K&R ReRe Feb 2013 #13
Their Cakes are pretty. Lucky couple! glinda Feb 2013 #15
And I just became a fan... liberalmuse Feb 2013 #18
He made my friends' cake! AnnieBW Feb 2013 #20
Cool. Good on Duff. lonestarnot Feb 2013 #21
Way to go Duff! SoapBox Feb 2013 #23
HUGE K & R !!! WillyT Feb 2013 #24
good on him! Lifelong Protester Feb 2013 #26
This so made me smile!! Control-Z Feb 2013 #28
There is a lot of Red in the West Coast Blue States. Mostly rural...not much different from the libdem4life Feb 2013 #31
I make cakes and usually avoid buying his products in the baking aisle of the kas125 Feb 2013 #32
who Duff's products? chillfactor Feb 2013 #33
Yep, Duff. He has a whole line of cake decorating supplies and products. They kas125 Feb 2013 #34
All of them hugely overpriced. Codeine Feb 2013 #55
Yeah, they are, which is why I wouldn't buy them before. I figured he had kas125 Feb 2013 #57
One thing that easily gets overlooked in stories like this rhett o rick Feb 2013 #37
His pastor probably approves. rivegauche Feb 2013 #42
His pastor probably thinks the same thing LibertyLover Feb 2013 #43
I think this happened in Oregon. nm rhett o rick Feb 2013 #48
ok - I love this guy now ZRT2209 Feb 2013 #39
Yay for Duff! Good guy. nt rivegauche Feb 2013 #41
I read "Wait, there's injustice involving cake!" (left out the 'a') Thav Feb 2013 #44
Wow! Hope they take him up on the offer. They seem like a great crew. woodsprite Feb 2013 #45
"this man has wrapped up his hatred in the cloak of religion.” tpsbmam Feb 2013 #47
I raise my glass Helen Reddy Feb 2013 #49
Good on Duff! Going to transport that Cake, too~ Cha Feb 2013 #52
de nada dlwickham Feb 2013 #58
You would think... awoke_in_2003 Feb 2013 #54
Duff is awesome! catbyte Feb 2013 #56
What business refuses business? n/t tooeyeten Feb 2013 #59
 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
5. Yes indeed. Maryland a great progressive state. I use to love watching his
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 07:30 PM
Feb 2013

show on the Food Channel. I wish they put it back on.

abelenkpe

(9,933 posts)
2. Best story of the day!
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 07:23 PM
Feb 2013

Saw the article about the rejected cake and was so bummed that that kind of petty bigotry is still alive today. And here comes Mr. Goldman to save the day! What a great story.

Democracyinkind

(4,015 posts)
35. Same here. Great thought...
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 08:38 AM
Feb 2013

I see him, standing there, shaking his fist, saying: "I will not take injustice involving a cake"

Great stuff.

Arkana

(24,347 posts)
46. I imagine him throwing open a closet door
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 04:33 PM
Feb 2013

to reveal the Mark VIII Cake Man Suit and a dressup montage like Tony Stark.

 

whistler162

(11,155 posts)
50. cake man to the rescue.
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 06:36 PM
Feb 2013

<to the Batman theme> Na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, Cakeman!
Na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, Cakeman!
Cakeman, Cakeman, Cakeman!

DeschutesRiver

(2,354 posts)
60. Me too, it was a wonderful line.
Wed Feb 6, 2013, 03:40 PM
Feb 2013

There was an article up on my local station over here in Central Oregon, where the bigot owner says that due to his taking a stand, his sales are simply booming, new customers buying things just to show support, blah, blah.

I doubt it, or so, may the uptick be as brief for him as it was for Chick Fil A.

OKNancy

(41,832 posts)
9. A suburb of Portland Oregon!! not in Oklahoma!! what! it can't be
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 07:46 PM
Feb 2013

there aren't people like that in Oregon.

Sorry about the little dig, but it gets real tiresome when people broad-brush the citizens of a whole state with the actions of an individual.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
16. I THINK that kind of thing all the time around here,
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 08:08 PM
Feb 2013

but don't post it because it rarely sinks in.

Just bookmark the thread for countering the broad brushes later

OKNancy

(41,832 posts)
17. I never post what I really think...
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 08:11 PM
Feb 2013

at least most of the time. I've been a little frisky today though.

 

dballance

(5,756 posts)
25. Once You Get Out of Portland Metro or Salem it's a Red State
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 09:21 PM
Feb 2013

I live in Portland and I would not consider Gresham part of the metro area. If you look at the vote-distribution from the last election you'll see that outside the metro areas Oregon is a red state. Especially eastern Oregon.

Starry Messenger

(32,342 posts)
27. 2004, my partner and I went up to Beaverton to deal with his mom's sudden passing
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 10:04 PM
Feb 2013

Her neighbors for a mile around all had election year signs that said "One Man, One Woman". It was disquieting and sad.

AmyDeLune

(1,846 posts)
51. Outside of Portland and Eugene Oregon goes a frightening shade of red...
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 07:00 PM
Feb 2013

Portland is the largest city in Oregon and counters the FauxNewz imbibing population of the rest of state when it comes to presidential elections, but do remember that Oregon also failed to vote in same-sex marriage when it was on our ballot. I think too many people took it for granted that since Oregon is a liberal state it would pass, allowing the reich-wing voters to gain the upper hand.

When I heard the story initially I was like "WFT?!? This guy baking a cake for someone is commission work, he isn't endorsing anything by baking a cake."

On the other hand, as a private business, he has the right to refuse service...and all the gay customers he claims to serve I suspect will now go elsewhere.

Duff *ROCKS*!!!

ReRe

(10,597 posts)
13. K&R
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 08:05 PM
Feb 2013

The bakery that turned the couple down will probably live to regret what they did. Real justice would be if lesbians create a bakery and run the bigot bakery out of business.
Call the bakery "Love Cakes"!

liberalmuse

(18,672 posts)
18. And I just became a fan...
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 08:15 PM
Feb 2013

What a wonderful way to send love to the couple and publicly berate the assinine bakery. We are very liberal up here in the PNW, but when the conservatives lash out, and they are batshit up in these parts, they manage to look ridiculous.

AnnieBW

(10,491 posts)
20. He made my friends' cake!
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 08:56 PM
Feb 2013

It was gorgeous! And delicious to boot. It was a dragon and a kitty sitting on top of a pile of old books, with their names on the spines.

Another great reason to be a Baltimorean!

SoapBox

(18,791 posts)
23. Way to go Duff!
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 09:12 PM
Feb 2013

...you are the man.

I SURE hope this gets filmed for a TV show.

p.s.....in case everyone does not read the article:

"As KATU first reported, Sweet Cakes Bakery owner Aaron Klein admitted he denied one of the women service after she visited his shop on Jan. 17.

"I believe that marriage is a religious institution ordained by God," Klein, who owns the bakery with his wife Melissa, is quoted as saying. Specifying that he does not consider himself to be anti-gay -- "I'll sell [gay people] stuff...I'll talk to them, it's fine" -- Klein also noted, "I'd rather have my kids see their dad stand up for what he believes in then to see him bow down because one person complained."
(...I have to add my own personal comment here...he's gonna stand up for his beliefs and not "bow down" because of a complaint? WELL, good luck with that and keeping in business, if you are gonna always be standing on your "beliefs"!)

Them:

http://www.sweetcakesweb.com/

Location:

44 NE Division, Gresham OR 97030

Phone number 503-674-5400


...this would be one bakery that I would find their stuff to be pretty darned BITTER.

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
31. There is a lot of Red in the West Coast Blue States. Mostly rural...not much different from the
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 12:19 AM
Feb 2013

Rural Midwest. OK, maybe a little. I think it's predominately if one was raised Rural vs. Urban...Rural often heavily leaning tendencies toward conservative Christian.

kas125

(2,472 posts)
32. I make cakes and usually avoid buying his products in the baking aisle of the
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 12:32 AM
Feb 2013

craft store. But from now on, I will be sure to get anything I need that he sells.

kas125

(2,472 posts)
57. Yeah, they are, which is why I wouldn't buy them before. I figured he had
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 09:24 PM
Feb 2013

enough money from being on tv and charging $1,000 minimum to make a cake, he didn't need my money. I'd never buy ready made fondant, it's expensive and if his is like the 'other' brand, it tastes awful. I was thinking more of buying the small stuff like luster dust or maybe a can of spray coloring stuff for when I don't feel like dragging out the air brush, lol.

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
37. One thing that easily gets overlooked in stories like this
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 09:35 AM
Feb 2013

is that there are a lot of assholes out there, but this asshole, the baker that thinks God wants him to be mean to gays, must go to a church somewhere. I would love to find out what his pastor or minister thinks about his un-Christian attitude.

rivegauche

(601 posts)
42. His pastor probably approves.
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 01:59 PM
Feb 2013

Probably tells him he's righteous in God's eyes, or some other total steaming bullshit.

LibertyLover

(4,788 posts)
43. His pastor probably thinks the same thing
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 02:02 PM
Feb 2013

about gays and lesbians and marriage equality as this idiot. From the little I read about this incident last night, the "complaint" was a letter from the state about his refusing to provide these ladies with a cake. Washington's anti-discrimination law includes sexual orientation and provides that the law covers companies offering public accomodation, so the old "but he runs a private company and can do what he likes" may not cover him since his bakery sells goods and services to the general public. It will be interesting to see how it turns out.

Thav

(946 posts)
44. I read "Wait, there's injustice involving cake!" (left out the 'a')
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 03:33 PM
Feb 2013

Injustice involving cake! That makes the injustice WORSE!

Awesome on Duff's part.

woodsprite

(11,949 posts)
45. Wow! Hope they take him up on the offer. They seem like a great crew.
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 04:19 PM
Feb 2013

We priced out my daughter's 16th birthday cake there - minimum cost of a custom cake was $1000, plus delivery.

We should have scheduled a tasting though! They actually charge for them (saying it will be put toward your order if you go with them). It would have been memorable. I didn't think of that until my friend actually ordered her daughter's cake from there. She wouldn't say how much she paid for it, but I bet it was closer to $2K. She didn't pick anything pretty but it was meaningful for her - a copy of the Blarney Stone. It looked like a big gray rock sitting on icing grass, but they even rolled sugar sparkles into the icing layer so it glittered like rock w/ mica in it. I guess the special part was that it was 5 layers with each one being a different flavor.

BTW, we ended up getting a cake with black/white cow spots on it from our favorite townie bakery. Daughter wanted raspberry filling because it's her favorite flavor. But, when you cut into it ---- yeah.... Her party was at a rodeo and a family owned eatery near Cowtown Rodeo, NJ. Cost of awesome custom cake was $37.00.

tpsbmam

(3,927 posts)
47. "this man has wrapped up his hatred in the cloak of religion.”
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 05:04 PM
Feb 2013

Best line of all -- stealing that one!

K&R

Cha

(298,333 posts)
52. Good on Duff! Going to transport that Cake, too~
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 07:24 PM
Feb 2013
Goldman was also recently tapped to prep the cake for Barack Obama's second inauguration Jan. 21, according to ABC.


Interesting.. I didn't know this..


Did a baker break the law when he denied service to same-sex couple?"

We asked Portland attorney Paula Barran whether this case falls under the 2007 statute. She said it did, but added that she did not know how the owner’s religious beliefs would factor in.

“Statutes don’t get to overcome constitutional protections, so if somebody had a religious-based reason for wanting not to trade with somebody, I think you have a really interesting test case for whether or not a statute like this can apply,” Barran said.

There is no exception under the state's anti-discrimination law for religious beliefs. Ultimately, the case would be up for a judge to decide.
http://www.katu.com/news/business/Did-a-baker-break-the-law-when-denying-service-to-same-sex-couple-189450071.html

Thanks dwickham

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
54. You would think...
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 07:40 PM
Feb 2013

people in the wedding industry would support marriage equality due to more possible customers. I guess the babble does trump money sometimes.

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