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Brickbat
(19,339 posts)bunnies
(15,859 posts)Brickbat
(19,339 posts)bunnies
(15,859 posts)cwydro
(51,308 posts)Me too.
bunnies
(15,859 posts)cwydro
(51,308 posts)Smh.
bunnies
(15,859 posts)I know thats the excuse I'd go with.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Seems to be a hit and run at this point
bunnies
(15,859 posts)Not that he was coming back anyway. Perhaps he'll pen a follow up?
cwydro
(51,308 posts)If he has any sense, he'll self delete.
However, um, sense ?
Happyhippychick
(8,379 posts)melman
(7,681 posts)Response to closeupready (Original post)
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Aerows
(39,961 posts)bunnies
(15,859 posts)Wow.
closeupready
7. I see reading comprehension is a struggle for DU members.
Or the women here are ugly...? Or what?
melman
(7,681 posts)demmiblue
(36,920 posts)I am sorry for your pain, but you are being very hurtful.
uppityperson
(115,681 posts)for being gay? WTF?
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Not to mention the fact that boiling down sexual orientation to our private parts is just stupid.
It's way more than that.
Brickbat
(19,339 posts)snooper2
(30,151 posts)cwydro
(51,308 posts)Referring to women as "vagina?"
MissB
(15,813 posts)Even as a mother to a gay son, I can't unwind your second paragraph enough to answer it.
Sylvarose
(210 posts)...I uh apologize. Ask if he has a boyfriend. If so, ask how long they been together. If not, he'll find someone. Maybe ask him if he knows my friend so and so whose single?
Sorry...cis, straight female here. Never once giggled or snickered because I found out a guy was gay. I've been all to happy to hear about who they are dating, checking out on tinder, listening to the ups and downs of their relationships, etc... Gone dancing...road tripped..dinner..played video games...ate way too many donuts...but never laughed or snickered because they were gay.
I've never insisted anyone like vagina.
SR
TipTok
(2,474 posts)demmiblue
(36,920 posts)I don't get where this is coming from.
1) Why would I giggle? And, huh?
2) I wouldn't.
3) Absolutely not.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)rjsquirrel
(4,762 posts)A little casual homophobia on DU huh?
PJMcK
(22,074 posts)Sorry but I'm completely at a loss to understand what you're writing about. Please clarify.
cagefreesoylentgreen
(838 posts)I've actually seen some women call gay men misogynist and sexist for not wanting to date or have sex with women. Go figure.
Is that what the OP is getting at here? That women are entitled to sex with any man regardless of that man's sexual orientation?
milestogo
(16,829 posts)even when he does not.
He really prefers vanilla.
cali
(114,904 posts)You want honesty? Here it is. Your op is utter bullshit with nothing in the way of evidence.
It is disgusting.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)when they learned they were barking up the wrong tree.
But otherwise, I have no idea what your question is.
PJMcK
(22,074 posts)I've actually been surprised by the directness of some women when I've missed what should have been obvious! Although I'm sometimes oblivious, I'm always polite and a gentleman.
Like you, cwydro, I can't fathom what the OP was about, (see my post #18 above).
Maeve
(42,312 posts)Like I would if he were married...
auntpurl
(4,311 posts)Let's see how this goes.
artyteacher
(598 posts)I'm lesbian. Well, slightly bi. I respect everyone's orientation and gender. So bite me.
auntpurl
(4,311 posts)I suspect chemical intervention.
Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)they just keep it slightly lower key than the obvious ones.
auntpurl
(4,311 posts)But his favourite group is LGBT?
Just...weird.
arcane1
(38,613 posts)Though I won't bet on it.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Before he is further embarrassed.
One Black Sheep
(458 posts)Not a woman, but just had to comment. Bizarre OP!
etherealtruth
(22,165 posts)No .... just NO
auntpurl
(4,311 posts)WTF he's on about.
Fla Dem
(23,887 posts)Seriously, are you having some type of incident?
procon
(15,805 posts)Proceeding as if I read between the lines to sorta see your intended question, I'll tell you that in my wicked youth. it actually did happen to me. And, yes, I did laugh -- as in belly laugh with tears -- and so did he... great smile on that man, BTW. We had a few drinks, talked for hours, walked back to campus and remained good friends for several years. I'd probably react with somewhat more circumspection if it was my son, but that wouldn't change my love or concern for his wellbeing and happiness.
Seriously, why did you choose to focus on vaginas? Women are more than just a set of genitals, just as LGBT folks are more than sex objects, so try to respect the person as a unique individual, as a genuine human being, instead of a collection of unworthy anatomical parts.
BooScout
(10,406 posts)I have no earthly idea what the hell you are talking about. May I suggest a self delete?
gwheezie
(3,580 posts)I hope to have a new friend
seaglass
(8,173 posts)surprised by this. Maybe a little surprised that you are being so blatant.
I'm sorry if this happened to you.
Throd
(7,208 posts)Solly Mack
(90,803 posts)cali
(114,904 posts)That explains a lot.