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Feeling the Bern

(3,839 posts)
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 12:40 AM Dec 2015

My brother is a fucking gun nut that is dating a Trump supporting teabagger

Both of my parents and I are Bernie supporters. My 27 year old brother is a fucking racist gun nut.

You can't believe the shit he's posting on my facebook. Here are the basics:

I stated that enough is enough. I am tired of these mass shootings. Gun ownership is a massive problem.

His responses (keep in mind, i just copied and pasted):

1: I own 4 and u dont see me on the god damn news. Thats responsible gun ownership. Ur opinion of "if u own a gun ur the problem" is WRONG. i know that 5 letter word that will cause u lose ur mind

2: Tell me to my face that I am the problem because i own guns. Anyone over 21 who owns a car is to blame for drunk driving. Same lunacy

3: strip the guns out of our military's hands. They have guns and r part of the problem. U have to put this logical fallacy to ALL citizens. No exception. Never another gun again to anyone

4: When I said he will change his tune heaven forbid his two kids are victims, he said he will teach his children how to deal with an active shooter. when I asked if they will pack heat, he told me: "Did i say they will have them in schools, NO. Quit putting words in my mouth to make ur opinion sound better to degrade mine. They will be taught how to deal with and active shooter. Thats what was said. Nothing more than that"

5: When I said I am glad I live overseas in a country that has gun control: "since ur"home" is so bad, renounce ur citizenship and never be considered an american again."

6: I mooch, and don't pay taxes living overseas. When i said I make less than 86K overseas and am American tax exempt but not Malaysian tax exempt, I was told: " Then if u fund another country's revenue, become thier citizen and stop tanking mine."


My brother is now an "America, love it or leave it" type who jacks off on his guns.
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My brother is a fucking gun nut that is dating a Trump supporting teabagger (Original Post) Feeling the Bern Dec 2015 OP
Painful, sorry. Good luck, walk away. n/t 7wo7rees Dec 2015 #1
You can't choose your family. The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2015 #2
ugh Skittles Dec 2015 #3
Condolences. Photographer Dec 2015 #4
is that really how he spells??? trueblue2007 Dec 2015 #5
You need to see the hand writing. I earned two MAs in Education and Geography Feeling the Bern Dec 2015 #10
I find his spelling even worse. n/t Throd Dec 2015 #6
He doesn't appear to be the sharpest tack, does he? LOL. Vinca Dec 2015 #31
Tell him that at least with a car you have to pass a driving test Marrah_G Dec 2015 #7
Sorry abelenkpe Dec 2015 #8
Social media is twisting brains KT2000 Dec 2015 #9
Seems this also applies to F*x News BadgerKid Dec 2015 #17
Would you talk to this person if he wasn't your brother? Kalidurga Dec 2015 #11
Isn't it weird how two siblings can turn out so differently? Laffy Kat Dec 2015 #12
sometimes the best way to love someone who has become a turd maggot olddots Dec 2015 #13
"I saved a bundle on Christmas presents this year by discussing politics on Facebook" Fumesucker Dec 2015 #14
I have a dumb ass little sister like that. Elwood P Dowd Dec 2015 #15
You should tell her to give back her Social Security so she's not enabling socialism. Arugula Latte Dec 2015 #33
how much time does he spend on fox news, talk radio, internet ? JI7 Dec 2015 #16
Sucks to have a brother so combative and Dorian Gray Dec 2015 #18
I put in the comment I made, followed by his response. Feeling the Bern Dec 2015 #21
I have a friend Dorian Gray Dec 2015 #22
He is in Arizona. I am in Kuala Lumpur. Little hard for face to face meetings. Feeling the Bern Dec 2015 #23
That's good then Dorian Gray Dec 2015 #30
I would just unfriend him davidpdx Dec 2015 #19
You're not alone. RedCappedBandit Dec 2015 #20
I have un-friended 1 uncle, 2 brothers in law, and 2 nephews for... greendog Dec 2015 #24
I think I lost my brother to religion sorefeet Dec 2015 #25
It's hard to tell when he'll go on a shooting spree. ileus Dec 2015 #26
My first thought too when I read this. n/t RKP5637 Dec 2015 #28
He has a lot of issues flying around in his head, lots of creepy stuff! n/t RKP5637 Dec 2015 #27
I've seen your brother posting here. :) Hoyt Dec 2015 #29
I'll bet you had a fun Thanksgiving! KamaAina Dec 2015 #32
It was. I had a huge buffet of seafood, Thai, Malay, Chinese and Pho at the Majestic Hotel Feeling the Bern Dec 2015 #34
Oh, so you weren't near the teabagger brother. KamaAina Dec 2015 #35
Thanks. I'll try to keep you all abreast about the EVVVVIL Muslims of Malaysia Feeling the Bern Dec 2015 #36
Especially Indonesia KamaAina Dec 2015 #37
I find that racists are not the smartest people ellie Dec 2015 #38
 

Feeling the Bern

(3,839 posts)
10. You need to see the hand writing. I earned two MAs in Education and Geography
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 01:24 AM
Dec 2015

He is barely literate.

So, yes, that is how he spells. Good, standards based, high stakes testing education at its best result.

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
7. Tell him that at least with a car you have to pass a driving test
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 01:13 AM
Dec 2015

and register and insure it. Any moron can purchase something made solely to kill people.

KT2000

(20,619 posts)
9. Social media is twisting brains
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 01:15 AM
Dec 2015

It's like all of a sudden people fall for all the memes and talking points all at once. It is happening in my family too. It is hate Feeling the Bern, and there are no limits once someone falls into it. They become more and more isolated in their web of hate and continue to feed on it from others who have fallen into it too.
I don't know what can be done but it is obvious that there are many followers.

BadgerKid

(4,567 posts)
17. Seems this also applies to F*x News
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 06:54 AM
Dec 2015

And any single information source.

Nice wording that captures the effect. +1.

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
11. Would you talk to this person if he wasn't your brother?
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 01:59 AM
Dec 2015

I have the same rules for both my friends and family. If my family doesn't like it tough, they can either not be J.A.s or I can keep my distance.

Laffy Kat

(16,402 posts)
12. Isn't it weird how two siblings can turn out so differently?
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 02:03 AM
Dec 2015

Same parents, same basic upbringing. Go figure. All you can do is disagree and continue to love him. He's still your brother.


 

olddots

(10,237 posts)
13. sometimes the best way to love someone who has become a turd maggot
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 03:09 AM
Dec 2015

is to have nothing to do with them .

Elwood P Dowd

(11,443 posts)
15. I have a dumb ass little sister like that.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 03:28 AM
Dec 2015

The little spoiled witch flunked out of college in one quarter. Now thinks she is a political/economic expert by watching Fox Fake News and listening to her dumb ass preacher. Hates FDR for what she calls "the beginning of socialism and communism" in America even though it was an FDR created New Deal job where our then unemployed parents met and married. Hell, without what she calls "socialism", the little twit would have never existed. Oh, and she wouldn't have that Social Security check that allowed her to retire at age 62.

Dorian Gray

(13,548 posts)
18. Sucks to have a brother so combative and
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:18 AM
Dec 2015

morally opposed to all that you and your family hold dear.

How did the copy and pasted perspective change from his to yours????

Dorian Gray

(13,548 posts)
22. I have a friend
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 08:18 AM
Dec 2015

on FB who took to posting obnoxiously racist posts. Hiding him has done wonders for my sanity and my blood pressure. He's a family member, so unfriending him would seem combative. Hiding him will make you not see his remarks and commentary. It's a good tool.

Good luck.

(That advice doesn't work for in person meet ups, but often those are less contentious than online things where you aren't face to face!)

Dorian Gray

(13,548 posts)
30. That's good then
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 01:36 PM
Dec 2015

Just ignore what he writes on facebook. Will keep you much calmer.

KL is a really awesome city. Fun and great food. I'm jealous!

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
19. I would just unfriend him
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:24 AM
Dec 2015

I have no patience for those types of people. Number six is really offensive to those who chose to live overseas. On occasions, I've seen people on DU spew similar crap.

RedCappedBandit

(5,514 posts)
20. You're not alone.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:53 AM
Dec 2015

My 20's something brother grew up with Oppositional Defiance Disorder and is now a self-identified sociopath. He'll argue with you about every single thing, NO MATTER what you say, to the point of screaming and threatening. It does not even register with him that his words and actions may be received poorly by others.

I've deaded him and my life is much better off.

sorefeet

(1,241 posts)
25. I think I lost my brother to religion
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 11:32 AM
Dec 2015

He moved to Florida about 15 years ago and now he is off the deep end with bible thumping and rapture talk. Giving money that he doesn't have to the church in hopes of a home in Heaven. I told him I finally grew up and didn't believe in religion. It was violent, dangerous, hypocrisy that I refused to participate in.. I haven't heard from him since.

 

Feeling the Bern

(3,839 posts)
34. It was. I had a huge buffet of seafood, Thai, Malay, Chinese and Pho at the Majestic Hotel
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 10:28 PM
Dec 2015

near KLCC. 90 Ringgits and 70 extra if you wanted open beer/wine bar.

Thais and Malays are some of the nicest people on the planet.

 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
35. Oh, so you weren't near the teabagger brother.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 10:46 PM
Dec 2015

I forgot that you were now our Senior Malaysia Correspondent.

 

Feeling the Bern

(3,839 posts)
36. Thanks. I'll try to keep you all abreast about the EVVVVIL Muslims of Malaysia
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 10:54 PM
Dec 2015

They do a lot of evil things.

You know a lot flirt with me and that evil call to prayer is beyond evil! Maybe they are trying to suicide bomb me with kindness.

I'm sure I will see a lot more evil when I got back to Indonesia and my first time in Brunei.

In fact, I am have a hard time seeing evil here. They must. . .oh shit, the shisha in my hookah! They tainted it with Muslim loving hormones! FOX NEWS!!! I NEED FOX NEWS!!!!

 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
37. Especially Indonesia
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 12:15 AM
Dec 2015

You do know that's where our Kenyan-born President went to a evul Mooslim madrasa, right?

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