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KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
3. 16 year olds may not understand how abusive this was… doesn't make it any less ABUSIVE.
Thu Oct 2, 2014, 12:05 AM
Oct 2014

There is so much wrong with your post I just don't know where to start.

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
7. If a 16 year old girl
Thu Oct 2, 2014, 12:16 AM
Oct 2014

enjoyed her sexual encounters immensely with a 32 and a 24 year old male teacher would you have a different point of view?

Ms. Toad

(34,092 posts)
2. How about changing your title to match the title of the article.
Thu Oct 2, 2014, 12:05 AM
Oct 2014

I'm not disputing it was rape - but "brutally raping . . . for hours" has the connotation of physical force and violence, rather than the scenario here which was emotionally coercive because of the age and power differential.

Ms. Toad

(34,092 posts)
10. The first definition of brutal I pulled up is "savagely violent"
Thu Oct 2, 2014, 12:23 AM
Oct 2014

that is not what was described in the article, and that is not how the article was titled.

The title is not accurate - and should be changed.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
4. Please consider changing the thread title "brutally" is a misleading word and will play into
Thu Oct 2, 2014, 12:08 AM
Oct 2014

those who are going to want to minimize this

brewens

(13,622 posts)
5. Wrong yes, but brutal? What did he do, go brag to his buddies about being tortured in their
Thu Oct 2, 2014, 12:10 AM
Oct 2014

dungeon? He held out for as long as he could and finally gave in and had sex with them? I kind of doubt that.

It might have been a lot of things but to a 16 year old, I'd wager he didn't suffer much.

TDale313

(7,820 posts)
11. Please change your title.
Thu Oct 2, 2014, 12:42 AM
Oct 2014

I know you know this, and probably won't do it, but "brutally" and "for hours" clearly imply physical force. This was absolutely wrong, was rape, but it does not sound like physical force or violence were involved. You minimize what happened when you play those kinds of games. What happened was bad enough on its own terms.

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
12. Please change the title
Thu Oct 2, 2014, 12:42 AM
Oct 2014

Especially since you took liberties to change the title from the original source and their is no evidence that he was brutalized especially from his comments to his buddies. If you want to discuss the story and not just the title like so far. Please change the title.

TDale313

(7,820 posts)
18. Take out the "brutally" and "for hours"
Thu Oct 2, 2014, 01:55 AM
Oct 2014

From your title, and you would have found much support. I agree with you taking issue with this being described as a threesome. It *is* rape. But I am sure you know that "brutally" here clearly implies physical force and violence which were not part of this story from the sound of it. You're being misleading in your attempt to make some point (one I am not even 100% sure what it is) Are you trying to claim "no one cares when boys are raped?" (Not true) or that statutory rape is not "really" rape? (Also not true, and seriously offensive)

former9thward

(32,082 posts)
19. A 16 year old teenage boy is not a child.
Thu Oct 2, 2014, 01:57 AM
Oct 2014

Old enough to get married in many states. This was not a "brutal rape".

uppityperson

(115,681 posts)
17. It is rape, but statutory, not Brutally. No need to exagerate as it is bad enough but shame on that
Thu Oct 2, 2014, 01:16 AM
Oct 2014

headline writer as it WAS stat. rape, not a "threesome". And shame on those teachers.

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