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I don't think that you can get help at DU like this otherone Mar 2014 #1
Question, hasn't this poster asked for money before? I agree with you. It is the internet anneboleyn Mar 2014 #48
Mercy shenmue Mar 2014 #2
Have you tried using Crowd Sourcing at Amazon.com to make some money? JJChambers Mar 2014 #3
do you have a case worker? grasswire Mar 2014 #4
K&R for visibility. n/t winter is coming Mar 2014 #5
Is your father living? treestar Mar 2014 #6
Send your brother this letter, I am assuming "Butch" isn't the sole owner of the joint. MADem Mar 2014 #7
That's great advice. In_The_Wind Mar 2014 #8
You don't need DU - TBF Mar 2014 #9
That's good advice. You only need to hang on till your SSI cames through by Dec. Auntie Bush Mar 2014 #13
I don't think you are presenting the full picture dem in texas Mar 2014 #10
Legal Aid is needed here..... Swede Atlanta Mar 2014 #14
Post removed Post removed Mar 2014 #11
Why say anything at all then? penultimate Mar 2014 #16
You stay classy, TJ! Sheldon Cooper Mar 2014 #19
DUers are known to help one another Generic Other Mar 2014 #21
This message was self-deleted by its author cali Mar 2014 #32
A truly disgusting respose malaise Mar 2014 #36
If you don't have a legal aid clinic OldHippieChick Mar 2014 #12
OldHippieChick.......... stewert Mar 2014 #18
Who holds the fee-simple title to the property in question? flvegan Mar 2014 #15
More Info............. stewert Mar 2014 #17
Calling the hotline should have been done first before asking for money here. Warpy Mar 2014 #20
Warpy............ stewert Mar 2014 #23
You will still get a third of the take if he does force a sale Warpy Mar 2014 #24
He doesn't have a lien, he owns the property outright Yo_Mama Mar 2014 #41
the letter sweetapogee Mar 2014 #45
flvegan........ stewert Mar 2014 #22
I'm really sorry but you have no property rights at all in the house. The title has reverted to him Yo_Mama Mar 2014 #34
You certainly ask for money quite a bit. zappaman Mar 2014 #25
I thought something was up. But I got called out upthread. TransitJohn Mar 2014 #28
I apologize. There is something wrong with using DU as a place to raise money cali Mar 2014 #33
i believe his problem is real, if you look the main problem is making the payments JI7 Mar 2014 #39
He repeatedly asks for help here -- an internet message board. Not appropriate. anneboleyn Mar 2014 #51
it might not be appropriate but i think his problem is real JI7 Mar 2014 #54
Sent an alert on this guy jehop61 Mar 2014 #35
You mean the Nigerian Prince I just sent my bank routing info to? rdharma Mar 2014 #43
Thank you. People actually gave him money last time around. This should be stopped. anneboleyn Mar 2014 #49
Damn malaise Mar 2014 #40
Good catch! nt rdharma Mar 2014 #42
thank you...nt Jesus Malverde Mar 2014 #44
NINE TIMES IN THE LAST YEAR? Why is this being permitted? Thank you for posting all of these anneboleyn Mar 2014 #52
That's not an eviction notice. LeftyMom Mar 2014 #26
Is Butch his full legal name? GeorgeGist Mar 2014 #27
The quit claim likely Crepuscular Mar 2014 #29
Crepuscular.............. stewert Mar 2014 #38
There is no such law. nobodyspecial Mar 2014 #53
some mentioned this before, but how about renting out a room in the house JI7 Mar 2014 #30
that letter doesn't even have his legal name , i think your brother may have been scamming you JI7 Mar 2014 #31
In some states you can't be evicted on 30 days notice. Voice for Peace Mar 2014 #37
Who in this day and age does not have access to a computer and a printer. Jesus Malverde Mar 2014 #46
kick Legal Aid. 840high Mar 2014 #47
You need an attorney. MineralMan Mar 2014 #50

anneboleyn

(5,611 posts)
48. Question, hasn't this poster asked for money before? I agree with you. It is the internet
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 08:01 PM
Mar 2014

after all and asking other DU posters for money, to be given to an online account, seems problematic to me.

 

JJChambers

(1,115 posts)
3. Have you tried using Crowd Sourcing at Amazon.com to make some money?
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 05:28 PM
Mar 2014
http://aws.amazon.com/mturk/

This is a great way for disabled folks to make some supplemental income.

grasswire

(50,130 posts)
4. do you have a case worker?
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 05:32 PM
Mar 2014

Is there a low-income law clinic in your location?

You really need someone in your town to help you figure this out.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
6. Is your father living?
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 05:46 PM
Mar 2014

It's his house. Butch can't sell it unless title is in his name. He may have a lien for 30K but he'd have to establish that in court first.

Can't help but snigger a bit at Butch getting his signature just "Butch" notarized.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
7. Send your brother this letter, I am assuming "Butch" isn't the sole owner of the joint.
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 05:50 PM
Mar 2014

If it was left to both of you, Butch can't shift you with the snap of his fingers.

Dear Butch,

You want your money that you loaned to our father? Sue Dad's estate. You'd better have receipts. See you in court.

I don't have anywhere else to live. You can move in with me if you want; that'll solve both our problems. Or you can be a jerk and toss your relative out on the street--your choice.

Sincerely,

Steven

PS--You know I'm going to tell any realtor that comes around here that you don't have clear title to this house, don't you? So don't do me like this. Blood is thicker than water.


Go get it notarized at the same joint where Butch had his little letter done.

That'll give you six months, at least.

Don't move out. Go get some help at legal aid. Throw a yard sale to get some cash, if you're both inheriting, make sure you put half aside for Butch. He sounds like a cold hearted jerk.

Good luck!

TBF

(32,062 posts)
9. You don't need DU -
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 05:55 PM
Mar 2014

you need a legal aid clinic.

Does Butch have clear title to the house? That is the only way he can legally sell it.

All you have shown us is a letter he wrote & the notarization just means a notary watched him sign it.

Take this to legal aid and find out what your options are.

Auntie Bush

(17,528 posts)
13. That's good advice. You only need to hang on till your SSI cames through by Dec.
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 06:09 PM
Mar 2014

Make sure that son-of-a Butch knows that. Have you looked into Welfare and Food Stamps? Those programs are there to help people like you. Also you may try to find a organization in town to throw a fund raiser for you. A friend of mine did that when she had cancer.

dem in texas

(2,674 posts)
10. I don't think you are presenting the full picture
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 06:00 PM
Mar 2014

Has your father's will been probated? Whose name is on the mortgage? Are there other siblings? How do the laws in your state handle a debt of a deceased person? Is your brother's name on the mortgage, does he have a note from your father? Does your brother have the right to list and sell this house? Lots of unanswered questions. You need some legal advice and maybe something can be worked out.

 

Swede Atlanta

(3,596 posts)
14. Legal Aid is needed here.....
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 06:10 PM
Mar 2014

Who is the executor of the father's estate? If it is Butch and Butch is a potential creditor of the estate that means he has a conflict of interest. There is a possibility to challenge him as executor if you can demonstrate there are other assets or other ways to satisfy the debt of your father's estate to Butch. Butch had better have good documentation on the loan. If the father was not paying any interest the IRS might classify the interest forgiveness as a gift. As well if the father was paying interest Butch had better be declaring that as income.

Without more facts it is difficult to see where this may go. But one thing is certain....you need legal support to look at all of the issues here along with the application of state law. Butch can get a note notarized but that doesn't mean he can do what he is planning to do.

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Generic Other

(28,979 posts)
21. DUers are known to help one another
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 06:54 PM
Mar 2014

Sometimes free advice and encouraging words are worth their weight in gold.

Many DUers will not tolerate such unneccessary rudeness, TransitJohn. I think you need to show a bit more empathy.

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OldHippieChick

(2,434 posts)
12. If you don't have a legal aid clinic
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 06:08 PM
Mar 2014

than talk to the law firm handling your SSI appeal. Bitch/Butch has obviously not spoken w/ a lawyer or he would be dealing w/ this in a different manner. He's bluffing, but you haven't given us enough information to give you any further guidance. However, you're not going to get 32k here.

 

stewert

(3,509 posts)
18. OldHippieChick..........
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 06:40 PM
Mar 2014

I'm not trying to get 32k here, I know that is not possible. I am just trying to raise a little money so if I have to move out within the 30 days I will at least have a little money to try and get into a new place somewhere. I have a few friends I can ask if they will let me live with them for a while, and if I have a little money to offer them it will help.

 

stewert

(3,509 posts)
17. More Info.............
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 06:31 PM
Mar 2014

My Dad left the house to me and my younger brother Scott in his will, but my half brother Butch paid off his 2nd mortgage for $32,000, to do that he had my Dad put his name on the deed to the house.

I talked to the attorney who did my Dads will a couple years ago and told him the situation, and he said the fact that Butch has his name on the deed cancels out the will.

My Dad has a mortgage on the house now that I have been paying since he died last May, so I have some money in the house too, I paid $450 a month on the loan for a year.

I have a $40,000 balance on the current home loan with Chase bank.

And btw, I plan to call a free legal aid hotline Monday and see what they say about it.

Warpy

(111,264 posts)
20. Calling the hotline should have been done first before asking for money here.
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 06:47 PM
Mar 2014

Half brother doesn't own the house, he owns one third of the house. At time of sale, he will have to fork over your share in cash. A lawyer can help you untangle who owns what and who owes what to whom.

Solutions will happen according to whether or not he had the proper paperwork done at the time and whether or not you and your brother together will be able to float a second mortgage to cancel his lien and get him off the title.

 

stewert

(3,509 posts)
23. Warpy............
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 07:01 PM
Mar 2014

There is no way possible for me and my brother Scott to float a 2nd mortgage to cancel his lien and get him off the title.

The paperwork looks good to me, but I am not a lawyer, and btw, butch used to own a mortgage company so he knew what he was doing when he paid off that $32,000 2nd mortgage, I am pretty sure he had his lawyers telling him what to do to make it legal.

Warpy

(111,264 posts)
24. You will still get a third of the take if he does force a sale
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 07:08 PM
Mar 2014

A wiser idea might have been to set up a payment plan when your dad died.

Chances are he needs the money, too.

The economy sucks for everybody but the Koch boys.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
41. He doesn't have a lien, he owns the property outright
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 07:33 PM
Mar 2014

According to your other post about the deed. But you didn't know this, and if you were paying a mortgage on his property with your money, then you can reasonably tell him to fork up.

What you want to talk to Legal Aid about is what legal grounds for actions you may have for the purpose of negotiations with him.

sweetapogee

(1,168 posts)
45. the letter
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 07:50 PM
Mar 2014

from Butch seems to indicate that all he wants is his 32K investment, which I think is reasonable. I'm assuming that the total amount of debt that the estate has is 72K. Is there any other debt that the estate needs to pay off?

BTW, you might be able to bill the estate for some of the money you have put into the home since the legal owner passed. Hopefully you can document your outlay.

 

stewert

(3,509 posts)
22. flvegan........
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 06:57 PM
Mar 2014

I found a copy of a quit claim deed. It says this:

The grantor, florian d. senti, county of peoria and state of illinois, for and in the consideration of the sum of one dollar and other good and valuable consideration, Conveys and quit claims to florian d. senti and vernon (butch) senti, father and son, as joint tenants and not as tenants in common, all interest in the following real estate.

Then it has my Fathers signature as the seller, and another signature by my Father next to the word (SEAL)

florian d. senti is my dad, and vernon d. senti is my half brother we call butch.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
34. I'm really sorry but you have no property rights at all in the house. The title has reverted to him
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 07:28 PM
Mar 2014

This will explain Illinois law:
http://www.illinoislawyerfinder.com/articles/you-and-the-law/estate/joint-tanency-joint-tenants-illinois

Each joint tenant, regardless of which one purchased or originally owned the property, has the right to use and to share in the income from the jointly owned property. A joint tenant’s interest in the property terminates upon his or her death, and the surviving joint tenant or joint tenants then own the property free of any claim by the heirs of the joint tenant who died. This may not be the intent of the original joint tenants, because it bars descendants, heirs or beneficiaries and all but the surviving joint tenants from receiving any interest in the property.


That's under Illinois law.

He does have clear title. There may be other laws on the books in IL that give you some eviction protection, but since upon his death your father's interest in the property terminated, the house was not property that could be conveyed in the will.

The only possible legal avenues you have are an undue interest civil action. If your father executed the will after he executed the deed, you could claim that he did not understand what he was doing when he signed the deed. However if your father executed the will before he executed the deed, the will is entirely invalidated and I don't see that there's any chance at all.

Again, I am sorry to be giving you this information.
 

cali

(114,904 posts)
33. I apologize. There is something wrong with using DU as a place to raise money
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 07:27 PM
Mar 2014

I can see asking for help once, but evidently the author has done so repeatedly

JI7

(89,250 posts)
39. i believe his problem is real, if you look the main problem is making the payments
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 07:31 PM
Mar 2014

he has been trying to get SS but has not been able to do it yet. so he asks for people to donate to make the payments.

he has no job . he has put his personal info out also.

JI7

(89,250 posts)
54. it might not be appropriate but i think his problem is real
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 08:08 PM
Mar 2014

but it has probably hurt him more because it looks like his brother has been cheating him . he should have got some legal advisor right away after his dad passed.

jehop61

(1,735 posts)
35. Sent an alert on this guy
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 07:29 PM
Mar 2014

But it never was addressed. He's the DU equivalent of a Nigerian Prince.

 

rdharma

(6,057 posts)
43. You mean the Nigerian Prince I just sent my bank routing info to?
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 07:42 PM
Mar 2014

Damn! I hate when that happens!

I hope MIRT is watching this thread.

anneboleyn

(5,611 posts)
52. NINE TIMES IN THE LAST YEAR? Why is this being permitted? Thank you for posting all of these
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 08:06 PM
Mar 2014

It disturbs me that this person has posted here nine times in the last year asking for money!

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
26. That's not an eviction notice.
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 07:13 PM
Mar 2014

You're under no obligation to move at this time.

I can't tell you anything else because that's not my area of expertise but I do know evictions from years of working in rental housing. Legal notices to quit are rather precise in their wording and how they must be served. That's so far from being a correct notice requiring you to move out that it's not even funny. Getting it notarized to make you think it's something with any weight behind it is damn near comical.

How long evictions take varies wildly. In my area after a 30 day notice expires it takes roughly six weeks to even get a court date, often the court gives people additional time, and then it's longer still before the cops actually show up to get somebody out and change the locks.
Beg, borrow or steal to get a real lawyer.

Crepuscular

(1,057 posts)
29. The quit claim likely
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 07:21 PM
Mar 2014

supersedes the will but if he gets the house, he also gets the mortgage and he should have been the one (or your dad's estate if there is one) paying the mortgage payments since your father passed. I'd stop making those payments right away. Secondly, if you had some kind of agreement with your dad to live in the house (informal lease. making mtg. payments in lieu of rent) butch may have to go through formal eviction proceedings to force you to leave the house before he can list it. Depending on the laws in your state, you should be able to string that out for 4 - 6 months. Or you could go to Butch and say, " Dear Brother O' mine, I made approx. $5,000 in mortgage payments that were your responsibility, if you want me to vacate the property so you can sell it, simply reimburse me for those payments and I'm outta here. It's called cash for keys, he will be familiar with the concept if he was in the mortgage business.

Good luck, hope it turns out well for you.

 

stewert

(3,509 posts)
38. Crepuscular..............
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 07:31 PM
Mar 2014

Since I have been living in the house since my Dad died are the $450 a month payments I have been making to Chase bank considered rent?

I was also the caretaker for my Dad who had alzheimers for 2 years before he died, and I believe Illinois has some kind of law against taking the house of a live-in son who was in the house for that time.


I know it's a complicated legal issue, and I will call the legal aid hotline Monday.

nobodyspecial

(2,286 posts)
53. There is no such law.
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 08:08 PM
Mar 2014

I hope legal aid can help you. Even if you do get SSI, will that be enough to keep the house? It might be better long term to get something smaller and more affordable. What if something big goes wrong? How are you going to replace a roof or furnace? You really can't rely on the kindness of strangers to keep a roof over your head.

JI7

(89,250 posts)
30. some mentioned this before, but how about renting out a room in the house
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 07:22 PM
Mar 2014

and that could help with the monthly payments you need to make .

JI7

(89,250 posts)
31. that letter doesn't even have his legal name , i think your brother may have been scamming you
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 07:24 PM
Mar 2014

for a while now. not just this but other things. you really need to get a legal representative to help you out with this.

 

Voice for Peace

(13,141 posts)
37. In some states you can't be evicted on 30 days notice.
Sat Mar 22, 2014, 07:31 PM
Mar 2014

In general the laws are written for the tenant's benefit,
I believe.

You should check your landlord/tenant laws.

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