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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsDemocratic Underground thread from 2005-tell me this place hasn't changed.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=104x4115919Notice how polite and thought out this thread from 2005 is and compare it to DU today. DU members then, debated all sides of this issue eloquently and thoughtfully without any aggression towards each other. What a great site it was. I would like to see a return to this level of discourse. We certainly need it.
Pretzel_Warrior
(8,361 posts)Who is a force of oppression in the world.
go west young man
(4,856 posts)is you don't have to agree all the time and you can still be civil. You'll notice the responses in the thread are based upon sourced information and not simplistic emotion. They don't attempt to demean each others arguments through equating past arguments, such as you attempt to do with your post. They debate using sourced data and respect each others points of view. What matters is that they separate personal emotion from their arguments and have a good civilized debate. It truly is very different than the DU of today. Essentially you have made my point for me, so thank you for that.
Pretzel_Warrior
(8,361 posts)Top of the mornin to you
El_Johns
(1,805 posts)NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)SMC22307
(8,090 posts)And a perfect example of what the OP was saying.
NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)For their very rightful anger and hatred of Russian homophobia. Then he just kept going on, even posting some video with a transphobic title.
Sometimes civility is overrated. Like when you're confronted with someone defending homophobes and calling your community puppets.
SMC22307
(8,090 posts)I get the impression some DUers don't really care about Russian homophobia, they're just using it to further their anti-Snowden/Greenwald and Obama v. Putin campaigns. Many others, however, are genuine in their anger. Perhaps gowest was targeting the former group, not the actual LBGT community? I'd have to see the thread and video before commenting further, however.
Bluenorthwest
(45,319 posts)The OP deserves the lack of respect he has earned.
SMC22307
(8,090 posts)Guess I'll keep my eyes peeled.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)Response to Pretzel_Warrior (Reply #1)
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Pretzel_Warrior
(8,361 posts)That's ok. I was still civil as I posted about Putin. As an aside, what are your thoughts on Vlad?
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go west young man
(4,856 posts)hrmjustin
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hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)go west young man
(4,856 posts)hrmjustin
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hrmjustin
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sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)actually discussed issues, has changed. Most of DU's real Progressives have moved on to more effective forums. They were the ones who inspired people like me to sign up here. If came across DU today, I would pass considering all the support for Bush policies which back then were rightfully opposed.
Some of us are still here, but sooner or later we progressives will probably stop wasting time trying to argue against Bush policies on a forum where there once was a united opposition to such policies. And spend that time working to overturn those policies together with the many new Progressive organizations which have remained consistent wrt to policies.
I wonder what will happen to the Dem party and forums, when progressives finally have had enough? I am thrilled though to see the many Progressive Orgs out there who have been very effective in actually forcing Dems to, eg, 'take SS off the table' but not fooled that this is just temporary during an election year.
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hlthe2b
(102,448 posts)(to be truthful) place.
MADem
(135,425 posts)Now, we know people for what they really are, without the filter of the mods, hiding any dirt or nastiness away. And now, too, we have to do our OWN hiding--we, in effect, are our own moderators. That's what the HIDE THREAD, IGNORE etc. buttons are for. Instead of having someone else tell us what we should see, we have to be adults and make those decisions ourselves. I like the HIDE THREAD option, myself--when a dedicated crowd of people start beating what I consider a "bullshit" subject to death, I start hitting those X buttons, and I'm happier for it.
You're always going to have trolls--you're always going to have internet weirdos who don't have lives and get their jollies out of fucking with people just because they can only 'feel' when they are being mean and childish. And you're always going to have clever children who like to screw with people and giggle about it.
I like DU3. I've really gotten to appreciate the wisdom of many people here, and I've learned, through "unhidden meanness," which people to avoid.
hlthe2b
(102,448 posts)my own "conscious hide"... And, I have finally discovered enough self-restraint to generally move past threads or comments that would so draw me in, so anger me, that I could become "obsessive" and post something I'd later regret. But I think it is a good thing that admins implemented "ignore".
However, there is a threshold above which overt trolling makes DU very unpleasant and strong moderation (usually with paid moderators) tends to keep that at bay. I think we've managed to stay well below that, but if other major "comment" forums on other popular and combative websites are any indication, then when things heat up for primaries and Presidential election, we may well cross it.
DU goes in cycles. Having been here since its initiation, I find that reassuring.
MADem
(135,425 posts)They're not shy, and they seem to have a good handle on managing the site, big picture. The hosts will key off them, and MIRT will step up to the plate as well, I suspect.
I've been here from the beginning as well. I was a reader at the start, and rarely posted, but I signed up a day or two after the site went live...I was one pissed off pup at the election theft. I had to re-register when I forgot my password and lost access to the email I used to sign up! The place has changed a lot down the years, but IMO I think it's gotten better with time.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)another is recovering from a transplant, but yeah there were good debates even when we disagreed with one another.
go west young man
(4,856 posts)so many times I've logged on to sadly learn that a fellow DU'er who I really enjoyed reading has passed away. It brings you down to earth. RIP to all of them, who taught us all so much.
hfojvt
(37,573 posts)I see some who are still around - Gormy Cuss, Lydia Leftcoast, JanMichael (sort of).
Kinda not sorry to lose the people arguing FOR the flat tax.
But what the heck, if they argue civilly...
Who died, though? Witchie?
Cleita
(75,480 posts)Jan Michael for eons.
hfojvt
(37,573 posts)in this very thread
Now I will search for Lydia and Gormy.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)He used to make some really good, intelligent posts when I first landed on DU in 2003.
hfojvt
(37,573 posts)Lydia http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4549087
Yeah, JanMichael has been pretty quiet for a while, even has fewer posts than I do.
and Gormy http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4548213
wow, that last post feature on the profile is really handy for finding lost loves.
villager
(26,001 posts)I still miss him when I see his name pop up around here (he was the one that first told me about this place, eons ago...)
He left behind his wife, and three kids, when he passed last summer... Dammit all...
Cleita
(75,480 posts)RIP PofE.
villager
(26,001 posts)Cleita
(75,480 posts)villager
(26,001 posts)Alas....
temporary311
(955 posts)but wasn't the Lounge the cesspool back then, before Meta took that honor? I seem to recall a few large ban waves over how things were going down in there.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)GD was pretty civil.
I think the biggest problem is that closing Meta didn't make the crap go away. I mean, Meta didn't happen in a vacuum, ya know? It was made that way by a relatively small group of posters. Closing that forum should've been accompanied by a ban wave similar to what was done to stop the old clique wars in the Lounge.
winter is coming
(11,785 posts)was that the crap was concentrated in Meta. There was some incidental sniping in GD, but most of the bar fights stayed in Meta. And really, if there had been a ban wave, perhaps there would have been no need to close Meta.
Curmudgeoness
(18,219 posts)hfojvt
(37,573 posts)I would say that your memory IS off.
Yes there was some nastiness in the lounge, (and some personal relationships that flamed out, sadly) but there was also a lot of conviviality.
Also common at the time was for people to post threads in the lounge that said "omigod GD has flipped out" and link to some flamewar in GD that all of us lizards would laugh about. And comment on, like "look at them tearing each other's heads off", or "they're nuts over there" or "you really need asbestos underwear to post in GD".
For a time there, after Skinner put the kibosh on sex threads, the lounge was actually kinda "GD lite". We had serious discussions without the flames of GD.
It tasted great, and it was less filling.
MADem
(135,425 posts)I didn't feel as though I was "in on the joke." It was a bit cliquish. I always felt like the new kid at the end of the lunch table! The new lounge seems more welcoming, IMO...maybe the old school flavor is what some folks miss...?
That said, I am not complaining--I found plenty to like about other forums and I spent my time in those.
fizzgig
(24,146 posts)lots of in jokes and you never knew what you were going to step in by replying to what appeared to be an innocuous thread.
fizzgig
(24,146 posts)remember when it invaded that douchebag thread in gd? i still giggle about it.
but i got turned off of it for a bit when all that hateful shit went down.
hfojvt
(37,573 posts)even then I was mostly hanging out in GD or GDP and the author of that thread was a friend of mine anyway.
I remember when ForrestGump got hit by the spam filter and most people thought he was tombstoned. I remember picture threads and Southlandshari and the night shift and morning crew and copycats and matchgame 76...
madinmaryland
(64,933 posts)was a shitstorm, going back to the primary races in 2004. At that time, we had a common enemy, and it made things seem a lot more organized, as we were all committed to getting rid of the POTUS at that time.
It was a great site, and still is. Thanks, Skinner!!
pintobean
(18,101 posts)Most of the worst shit-storms were removed in bulk by the mods. It certainly made things look a lot more civil than they were.
go west young man
(4,856 posts)the site operated better back then. This was most likely partially due to moderators, a lack of a jury system (as we have today), and civil DU'ers who didn't hit and run with one liners. As it is today, the approach to discourse is not too dissimilar to threads on Facebook or Huffington Post.
ctsnowman
(1,903 posts)because the mods let a post stand that was hoping for a second Newtown because of the laws we passed here (and many other posts like it). There are days when it gets pretty ugly here and I hope it doesn't descend to the level of HP.
Hippo_Tron
(25,453 posts)When I was there the mods spent most of their time day to day deleting replies with ad hominem attacks. Basically on DU3 you have an easier time getting away with calling someone a poopy-head than you did on DU2. Mods also locked a lot of copycat or spinoff threads. But as far as locking shit-storms, it had to be a completely unmanageable shit-storm to get locked.
Adsos Letter
(19,459 posts)Talk about shitstorm...and the wave of banning that accompanied it.
jaysunb
(11,856 posts)I've wanted to post many times lately about the loss of decorum and respect here at DU, but I can never distill all the things I think have gone wrong.
Back in the days of the thread you posted, there was less that 25,000 members ( I think) most of whom were fairly thoughtful people that could back up their arguments w/ facts or were open to hear all sides before launching into a tirade. Local DU meetups were the norm and activism was the glue that held us together.
Disrupter's were easily spotted and tombstones passed out appropriately.
But w/ more that 150k + folks here now (with a large number of those being paid trolls) it's nearly completely out of control. While I have been an ardent fan and supporter of DU since the beginning, I sympathize with Skinner, Elad and EarlG when I see the dilemma they find themselves with. At first it was a financial battle to keep the site going, but with new members and their donations, the problem has become the people themselves.
I keep saying (to myself) I'm going to leave, but it's such a habit that it's gotten to be like the proverbial wreck that you can't take your eyes off.
Whisp
(24,096 posts)they might think they belong here. There are some atrocious ads here and I wouldn't discount that that may be a part of the big picture problem. I know money is money, and income is income but my gawd shouldn't there be some kind of line?
go west young man
(4,856 posts)I can't understand it for the life of me. What sense does it make to have opposition ads on our front page? I also wonder why DU'ers linking to Faux "news" stories in LBN is tolerated. It doesn't serve our cause in any way to legitimize those we are working against.
pablo_marmol
(2,375 posts)What the HELL is up with that?
I've been discouraged seeing Obama-bashing books at Costco, but they don't purport to be a left-leaning entity.
progressoid
(50,001 posts)When we had a common enemy, it was easier to overlook our differences.
That said, there were also many flame wars and flame outs. A lot of DUers were TSed in those days for bad behavior and others left voluntarily because of the conflicts.
Politics is messy. And sometimes, so are political websites.
go west young man
(4,856 posts)we are more divided these days. The problem being what we stand for in the Democratic Party. Octafish's Bill Moyers post comes to mind as something that should be uniting us all as far as common adversaries go. http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024546724 It's definitely one of the most important posts around here in a while.
DU posts that get the most attention these days are related to personal issues and not politics from what I see. This can be verified by checking view counts and replies on forum threads. The numbers are much larger for personal hot button issues such as gender, race, and sexual orientation. National and Geopolitics are taking a huge backseat.
A strange analogy would be that DU is becoming like MTV. Lots of emotional reality programming that requires very little thought and not much music.
Andy823
(11,495 posts)Some posters seem to like to "flame bait" and they know what to post in order to get things going. The sad part is that while some point out that the post is simply flame bait, to many others seem to jump on the bandwagon and side with the poster doing the flame baiting.
Like you said, a lot of it seems to be personal issues with no real political discussion just a lot of arguing back and forth. Sometimes the one posting the OP, flam bait, never bothers to reply, they just post, run and start another post with the same goal, which seems to me is trying to divide those who post here.
DrDan
(20,411 posts)it is somewhat easy to spot those that joined just prior to that election
QC
(26,371 posts)That primary season is when the culture of DU changed to what it is now, no doubt.
Whisp
(24,096 posts)and how it was shut down suddenly and without warning.
People still had angst that was developed there and took it to GD and other places after the shutdown. Bile was built up and it had to be spilled somewhere. I think a warning of a shut down would have been a far better idea - hey, kids, place nice or this tent is going down in 2 weeks if you don't smarten up.
META was the biggest mistake and we can't go home again ever to before META - the only way, I think, to reduce the bad effects on present day DU is to bring back a better version of META. How to make it better, I don't know.
freshwest
(53,661 posts)Last edited Sat Feb 22, 2014, 10:21 PM - Edit history (1)
me rethink a lot of things about who I was talking to.Seeing how unnecessarily cruel and personal some of the attacks became, I realized there were people on DU that I did not want to hear from again, as I did not trust their type IRL.
The last time I posted somewhere and saw people that I truly didn't want to talk to, was on a mixed board of left and right posters.
I don't know if that is the case here. I've seen hideous forms of disruptions at other sites with shock content designed to run off women and liberals. It worked, and most of the posters, even the rare decent conservatives who were respectfully arguing their view to give insight, also left.
The conversations degraded to spouting whatever form of propaganda that was ingested that day and regurgitated on everyone. No longer talking, just abuse if one didn't agree.
I see that here at DU at times. When I do, whether it's sent my way or someone else's way, that goes on Ignore. Life is too short to dig through the garbage dump.
At other times, Meta was enlightening by telling the stories of minorities and how the mainstream did not listen to their views. Some have said coming to DU is like that car wreck on the freeway you can't pass without taking a look at it.
You never know what is it going to be here. I have seen some whose pattern is to hit and run to disrupt threads or make mealy mouthed and unproductive comments. They never return to discuss anything in good faith.
They go on Ignore. I still find good people to discuss things with most of the time.
I agree Meta had to go. Just the effect it had on me would have been worse on a new member. Also some good newbies were run off by the hell they caught in Meta, too.
Iris
(15,673 posts)laundry_queen
(8,646 posts)is it was the type of forum that needed a heavy hand, and because of the jury system, there wasn't one. I think Meta would work if it was the sole forum with mods and very strict rules about posting. I agree that the way it just disappeared didn't do the site any favors. Plus, there should've been...as someone suggested...a 'house cleaning' before shutting down the forum. Instead, the least agreeable posters just migrated to GD.
Sarah Ibarruri
(21,043 posts)the impoverishment of people has not ceased.
The right wingnut fundies are still there, making it virtually impossible to rescue this country.
Libs have reached the end of their rope and will take no more BS, and right wing infiltrators in DU keep provoking by making the same, old, tired right wing ideological BS suggestions that are already hurting this country.
For ex., by now we all know what a flat tax would destroy the buying power of the middle class and working poor, by now we all know what the current tax rate is doing to benefit the rich, and what it's doing to the middle class and working poor, by now we all know that we need to bring tax rates to how they were before the right wing and fundy ideologies became a mantra in this country.
randome
(34,845 posts)It helps breed incivility and I can't blame anyone for that.
[hr][font color="blue"][center]The truth doesnt always set you free.
Sometimes it builds a bigger cage around the one youre already in.[/center][/font][hr]
PCIntern
(25,612 posts)Enquiring minds want to KNOW!
mike_c
(36,281 posts)Msongs is still here, too. I think that's it, though. Lots of familiar folks in that thread.
CTyankee
(63,914 posts)When January of 2005 happened and W was again sworn in, I was in a deep depression. Only DU and Stephanie Miller pulled me out each week day. Thank goddess! I was devastated. If it hadn't had been for them, I would have been sunk...
PCIntern
(25,612 posts)it is just that there are so many names missing and you don't realize who is gone until you read an archived thread...
hfojvt
(37,573 posts)#53, #90, #58, #82, #93, #94, and #64
otherwise, as I mentioned upthread, I only see JanMichael, who rarely posts now, but IS still around, Lydia Leftcoast is still here, I think, and Gormy Cuss.
But not a lot.
And I really liked Sweetheart.
She lived up to her name, IMO.
mike_c
(36,281 posts)I've been active on DU since early 2002, and lurked almost from the beginning. I do agree that the tone of discourse has changed over the years, and that there is a lot more personal nastiness now. When I first began posting here I learned a great deal about how to have anonymous conversations, civilly. The mods more-or-less made sure of it. The serially uncivil still seem to eventually do themselves in, most of the time, but they also seem to linger for longer.
go west young man
(4,856 posts)Truth is All's 2004 exit polling threads. http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=203x56674
We were all coalescing around that one. Some great underground data miners were on the site back then. This was around the time the Dungeon came into existence and we lost some of them. Someone should do a life history of DU featuring the stand out moments.
mike_c
(36,281 posts)Probability theory reared it's head on DU for a while.
go west young man
(4,856 posts)KoKo
(84,711 posts)The change we see is that "our enemy is within us."
It's difficult to deal with that revelation...and it tears apart what we had in common...in those past years.
There are differing theories as to Why and What that is that has torn apart the commonality....and, I'm not going there!
But...many of us see what you see...it's just that ...well...what I said above.
Part of it is I've always thought DU dipped below the "replacement level" of really good posters a few years back...We lost even more with the move to DU3...
flying rabbit
(4,644 posts)If the kids want to play in the cesspool, let them.
Iris
(15,673 posts)I don't remember it.
flying rabbit
(4,644 posts)the site itself. What it became was a place people went with an axe to grind: "a jury didn't hide this post so I am going to vent my outrage and hold my breath until I turn blue. If you don't agree with me you are a republican." It got pretty nasty so the admins put the kibosh on it.
Iris
(15,673 posts)madrchsod
(58,162 posts)intheflow
(28,509 posts)There have been a few name amnesties since then. There's also been a huge influx of new people since Obama was elected so I think some of it is that the older members' voices are drowned out, and also a kind of fatigue has set in with many of us older members. We were wrestling with a lot of these issues in a more intimate setting early on, now DU seems like a grade school playground on some days, and/or troll heaven on others. I used to post a lot, now I hardly post at all because of the newbie discussion dynamic which eschews civility and reason in favor of insults and strawmen.
JanMichael
(24,897 posts)I also noticed that was one year prior to becoming a vegetarian. I said that i was trending that direction and was right.
Oh well so much for sounding and being intelligent. Now it is just a big custerfuck. I do not care enough anymore to create long and documented arguments.
hfojvt
(37,573 posts)and you linked to the state tax report well before I did, many moons later.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)geckosfeet
(9,644 posts)Rancor, hyperbole and raw intolerance come all too easily these days.
Saw something posted on FB today. I immediately thought of DU.
And life goes on. Opportunity slips through our grasp.
Drunken Irishman
(34,857 posts)It was not civil.
winter is coming
(11,785 posts)It would have been interesting to see what would have happened if you'd re-posted the text of KitchenWitch's OP.
blkmusclmachine
(16,149 posts)KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)and the ideologues trashing Gore for not fighting hard enough in the recount were constantly stirring up shit.
What I see happen is people come here, find Lefties and are happy at first and able to tolerate differing viewpoints.
But over time, many DU'ers come here for their ideology fix and start getting more and more annoyed at anyone who doesn't agree 100%.
hfojvt
(37,573 posts)What we seem to do, is to split into warring camps.
Obamabots vs. firebaggers
HOF vs. MRAs (supposed)
to pick two of the biggies, also maybe
gun nuts vs. gun grabbers (supposed)
All you need is about fifteen dedicated members of each gang to keep slinging crap at each other in thread after thread, and a good portion of the rest of us will kinda take sides back and forth, and then get tired of the daily battles.
woo me with science
(32,139 posts)Last edited Sat Feb 22, 2014, 10:13 PM - Edit history (2)
in response to the influx of the corporate propaganda contingent.
As the number of corporate personas here unnaturally increased, and as their tactics became increasingly clear, many good liberals decided that they'd had enough.
Which, of course, was most likely the goal.
jaysunb
(11,856 posts)sibelian
(7,804 posts)I used to post here under a different name (which I will not reveal), whose password I scrambled in a fit of disgust as the tone of the place began to change. I rejoined during the first great debates around healthcare when it really started kicking off.
I've posted less this year as I'm increasingly of the opinion that the site's being used to manipulate liberals rather than discuss politics.
woo me with science
(32,139 posts)Last edited Sun Feb 23, 2014, 12:41 AM - Edit history (1)
accounts created around the time of the site's inception, but which remained dormant for many years before being (re)activated to dispense pro-corporate propaganda and attack liberals, lends credence to your opinion..
laundry_queen
(8,646 posts)where I remember certain names and the dates they've joined...more than a few times I've seen a poster with, say 1,200 posts and 1,185 of them are in the last 90 days...and they joined in 2004. And suddenly they are posting in the most active threads and they are extremely argumentative. In 6 months, they have 8,000 posts and are very well known (usually for being over the top rude). Extremely suspect, for sure.
woo me with science
(32,139 posts)nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)Rex
(65,616 posts)nt.
Mojorabbit
(16,020 posts)nobodyspecial
(2,286 posts)and many no longer had time to spend reading and posting to one website. How long did you expect people could sustain their outrage and the time required to keep up with this place. People move on. And if any of the posters from the good old days were truly your friends, they are still in your life. I have a core group that I am still in contact with and most left this site years ago. It has nothing to do with "corporatists" running them off the site.
Enthusiast
(50,983 posts)I think it remains the goal.
rrneck
(17,671 posts)instead of bookmarked in private files of combatants.
When I first got here it was understood (and I think it was in the TOS) that we were expected to grow a thick skin. The first DUer that responded to my first post here was Iverglas. I don't see the kind of rancor now that I saw when I first joined.
It's a lot harder to get banned now than then. There used to be grave dancing threads all the time, now you hardly see them.
The creation of protected groups helps keeps combatants in neutral corners most of the time. They only emerge when their pet issues become big enough to find their way into the playground, then the sparks fly. Since the software deals with the bulk of low intensity conflict, the admins can concentrate on the main forums and of course they see every alert. Now they can adjust how forums like GD get hosted instead of managing conflict across the entire board. And of course MIRT handles the vast majority of trolls.
I think DU has been designed to be more consumer friendly, which brings with it certain problems, but all in all it's working really well and it's fascinating to watch.
lumberjack_jeff
(33,224 posts)Dr. Strange
(25,927 posts)She was banned back at DU2.
Yes, this place has changed.
bvar22
(39,909 posts)There were a LOT more people here,
and they were a LOT more Liberal.
When was the last poll at DU that had over a thousand replies?
go west young man
(4,856 posts)I voted Kucinich...and haven't seen Bob the drummer in a while either.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)go west young man
(4,856 posts)hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)go west young man
(4,856 posts)We disagreed on a previous argument. There is nothing wrong with disagreeing. Taking that disagreement personally is the point of my OP. I will continue to post and to be civil. I'm into geopolitics. Your obviously more into gender issues than I am. I have pointed out to you on numerous occasions that I am into equal rights for all citizens. We disagree on how that is more readily achieved in regards to Russia. You painted me as a homophobe. (Not much I can do about that except repeat myself)I still stand by that previous post. It's just one opinion of many that I have. i'm sorry you didn't like it. I'm sure we probably agree on more issues than you realize. Peace, once again.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)I painted Putin and the Russian laws he put in as evil. You were challenged on what you posted and rightly so.
go west young man
(4,856 posts)using you and me personally. I am a long term DU'er who has posted 3,550 times since November 2004. I usually only post things that I consider surreal thought provoking subject matter in regards to geopolitics and the Great Game. I have served on 4 juries since that time and had 4 posts hidden (all 4 took place 2 weeks ago in the debate you and I disagreed upon). You, on the other hand, have been on DU since February 2012, you have posted 29,215 times, and served on 501 juries. Your stats vs. mine kinda make the point of my OP. DU has changed and not necessarily for the better. I'm pretty sure most of those 29,000 posts are not sourced well laid out information. Who would have time for sourcing info when they are posting at that rate? My point is a simple one...DU has changed. It's emotional but not very factual anymore.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)Btw. How many hides do you have from 2004? I had only one.
Many of my posts were in MIRt from last summer to last month.
I am also a host of several rooms as you can see in my profile.
Most of my ops are in the NY room with some in the religion and interfaith rooms as well.
My OPs always comply with the rules of this site.
If you don't like me you can always put me on ignore but I will not apologize for telling you you were wrong!
Point out anything you like. See what response you get.
Oh I remember you telling me you were banned before. I was never banned.
BainsBane
(53,093 posts)Where exactly does one for "factual" and "well sourced" information that enables them to tell LGBT members how they are allowed to fight for civil rights? Give me a break. You may fool yourself with this smokescreen of objectivity, but you don't fool me.
It's not your business to comment on what hrmjustin posts. One thing he does is volunteer on MIRT and as host of a number of forums and groups, thereby contributing to the running of DU. He is also about the most civil poster that exists on this site, and I have never seen him post anything like your offensive thread scolding LGBT Americans about Russia. I am standing up here to say I see through this ruse of yours.
go west young man
(4,856 posts)since September 2012. I can't keep going around with you guys on that other thread if you won't address the PEW poll that it was all related to. I asked then if you all were willing to explain the numbers on Russian use of alcohol, pre marital sex, gambling and was met with only insults. Yet you continued to use the same PEW poll that the CIA fact book simply discredited with it's numbers. Instead the only responses were 1) I'm a Putin lover, 2) I'm a homophobe, 3) I don't belong at DU. It was all very loud and passionate but did very little to negate my argument as the PEW poll was the basis for the LGBT's anger towards the Russian people. Pretzel Warrior put it out there yet not a soul arguing against my argument wanted to address those discrepancies. The poll had Russians against homosexuality at 72%. The poll had Russians against drinking at 44%. The drinking, gambling and pre marital sex numbers make no sense in a country that is largely non religious ( as communist Russia was) and thereby lend credence to the possibility that the other numbers in the poll are off and also suspect. I think the PEW poll is simply, and ironically, considering we're talking about Russia, propaganda.
https://www.cia.gov/library/publications/the-world-factbook/geos/rs.html
BainsBane
(53,093 posts)It makes sense to me they would take it personally. It doesn't get much more personal than that.
What makes you think it is your right to tell gay people how they should go about fighting for their rights? This reminds me a lot of the men on DU who try to tell feminists what they should care about, or when white folks tell African American members what kind of racism matters. It isn't your position to decide that. The fight isn't yours. If you don't want to be an ally, stay out of it. If you involve yourself in telling gay people what and how they can fight for civil rights, naturally people will view you as hostile to their cause.
Pretending these are just abstract philosophical questions when they have to do with people's basic rights is disingenuous.
go west young man
(4,856 posts)for civil rights in Russia. That was missed by many in that thread. I felt, and still do, that the lack of understanding of Russian culture at DU was actually doing more harm to equal rights than good at the time, as the schadenfreude was making the US look poorly.
Skip Intro
(19,768 posts)DU clearly lacks the mutual respect that was found here in the early years. Open discussion was encouraged and enjoyed, differing views met with fair-mindedness, a certain level of mutual respect was in effect. Now an open and honest discussion of important and timely topics is the extreme rarity rather than the rule it used to be. Some DUers' only reason for being here seems to be to attack those who disagree with them or fail to sing along with their hymns. That is how I see much of the problem - there are a few who want to dictate to others what they must think, and say, and there is a large portion of those being attacked who toss it right back. The jury system might play a small part as well. What a mod once would have hidden for mean-spiritedness and personal attack a jury is a role of the dice.
The really sad part is, we may never return to that era of civility here. But I hope we do.
cui bono
(19,926 posts)Make7
(8,543 posts)It is typically far easier to control one's own behavior than others'.
Gore1FL
(21,160 posts)I bet for everyone one like that there is approximately 1 example of a flame fest. Things have changed a lot since 2001, but flame fests happened, even then.
Rex
(65,616 posts)I also see the edit function is now in stealth mode with no transparency.
PowerToThePeople
(9,610 posts)DU3 has no history of DU2 or DU1. It only lives in our memories. Sure you can try to search for something, but you have to look hard for it.
Even DU3 years back is tough to find stuff.
I know (well am pretty sure) KitchenWitch was the first person to send me a private email on DU. I was upset and going to take a break from reading the forums. They said not to let it get under my skin. It was very nice and made me feel better.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)are NO LONGER HERE. They left, or were run off. You ask why? I know the answer, and it is partly why I no longer post anything really deep here.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)Seriously, my friend, you wonder why that person isn't here anymore?
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)Trust me, or not. I still talk to many of those posters on the twitter, rarely, and Facebook.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)nevertheless, I'm very glad you are still here, nadin. You bring a lot to DU and many of us appreciate it.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)Odd, people use their actual names on FB. I know, weird.
And as to me, I find myself posting less and less and is the reason many of those posters left. Some were banned during the great purges of DU. And another one us coming, with elections they always do.
I laugh though, since Alexa ratings continue to crumble. The glory days will not come back. It's all to do with what has happened to this place.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)There are really just a handful of valuable and wonderful posters who add original content of any significant depth -- you're not one of them.
Neither am I, to be sure.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)gave a textbook example of what I mean. I love it when they do that shit.
But this is why this place is no longer as popular as it once was.
And that is fully self inflicted.
sad-cafe
(1,277 posts)you have created the hostility by claiming to be more of an expert on every single issue or thing ever posted then trying to play victim when someone disagrees with you. Humbleness goes a LONG way 100% of the time.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)sad-cafe
(1,277 posts)still following me?
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)I got into it with the op and another up thread. I even got someone putting me on ignore.
sad-cafe
(1,277 posts)by pointing out things all 99% of other posters say that if she would stop, she would feel better.
that's all!
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)Samantha
(9,314 posts)Does anyone know?
Sam
Aerows
(39,961 posts)if we all had names like "Kitchen Witch" and agreed with you?
Le Taz Hot
(22,271 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)Though I suspect you are like me and are about as likely to walk in lock-step with anything as we are to flap our arms and fly to the moon.
I guess that could happen, but I wouldn't count on it
villager
(26,001 posts)...that things have become more corrosive since then?
Also, in the "awww..." dept., saw that Purity of Essence was there, an old college pal who left us -- much much too early -- last year.
We definitely need more thoughtful -- and less snark-reveling -- conversations around here...
winter is coming
(11,785 posts)villager
(26,001 posts)Way too much like middle school, except that my youngest and his friends -- themselves just finished with middle school as of this year -- never seemed as thoughtless or mean-spirited as many of those deliberately pissy/snide posters here do...
Cleita
(75,480 posts)school. Still they are very destructive in what they are doing and should be dealt with.
Deep13
(39,154 posts)...and some of them were banned for some pretty trivial reasons.
mattclearing
(10,091 posts)Response to Reply #40
113. "Double taxation" is a bullshit concept under current laws
Investing in a business is a gamble, and taxation is a COST of the venture.
Taxation isn't ugly thievery, it may be improperly assessed, but it's NOTHING MORE THAN A COST OF THE ENTERPRISE.
Sick, and deeply ingrained within our national consciousness is the fundamental agreement that NOBODY SHOULD EVER TAX US FOR ANYTHING, especially those of us who have some spare money to invest.
This is a truly sick assumption. The regulation and governmental expenses that are NECESSARY to keep our speculative economy free from disruption COST MONEY. Those monies should come from those who gain from this wealth welfare: those who invest.
There is no such thing as double taxation. It's the bellyaching of would-be aristocrats who just can't hack it. Those who complain of this are LOSERS and assholes. I invest and feel that entities in which I invest should pay taxes to defray the services they get from taxpayers. It's not punishment, it's simply paying one's bills.
If there was a TRUE flat tax, I might be persuaded, but it would have to be one with NO LOOPHOLES. I'll give up my mortgage interest write-off. I'll even give up the child-rearing credit.
Let's talk about a "net worth" tax; that'll end the debate.
People who want to make life simple are simpletons. Life is complex, and the needs and abilities of individuals are wildly varied. Trying to make things easy when they aren't is contrary to the heart and soul of civilization. For all the libertarian bellyaching about the wasted time of such complexity, we're far better off with the specialization that society brings us.
Besides all that, vast sweeps of the economy are dependent on the business of our current convoluted tax laws, and although dispensing with many of these laws wouldn't bring too many tears to my eye, I don't think they could be implemented all that well over such chorusing objections, and in interest of us all, it would need to be done gradually to avoid too much shock to the system.
JVS
(61,935 posts)Art_from_Ark
(27,247 posts)and the discussion there is very civil.
Romulox
(25,960 posts)War Horse
(931 posts)This is my second account as well, I first joined quite some time ago. Don't remember exactly when. I lost access to the e-mail address the old one was attached to, hence the new account. Didn't post much in the past either, but I did read.
Anyway, it's always been heated, but the biggest difference I notice now is the level of distrust. People accusing each other of having ulterior motives, of misrepresentation, assuming that people are dishonest about where they are coming from (and putting words in each others mouths) etc...
Just my 2 cents.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)when people told me to my face that I was not a journalist, never mind the press pass issued by the city police department is in my vest... or that I could not have won any awards, or the variation, all these are vanity since you pay to enter, person shut up when it was pointed to him that ALL awards in Journalism require a small fee for administrative reasons, including the famed Pulitzer. That is when I knew we jumped through a very serious light year or two as it were.
Of course the cyberstalking does not help, and when you have some of the who's who follow, like puppies, to my blog where they were IP banned, you know you got serious issues. And it is them, not me who have the issues.
They got their wish though. We have some serious news right now in my local area, it's not on CNN, therefore not news. Never mind it is very real. And I mean on several fronts. I will not post anything deep anymore either. That is what MY BLOG is for. Personal attacks and cyberstalking are simply NOT tolerated there.
I know you were not talking about me, just decided to give a very concrete example.
But that is why I don't bother with this place much. But perhaps threads like this (and the Alexa ratings ) will wake up the owners who still believe they got no issues. Rumor has it that they wanted to sell in 2008. They should have. Because right now DU is not as valuable as it once was. Oh and some of us no longer buy stars either. And all that is self inflicted.
uppityperson
(115,681 posts)how many hides they have.
I agree, we need more civility here.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)KauaiK
(544 posts)I blame the loss of civility in political discussions on Newt Gringrich. He is epitome of ego strutting and shouting down of any disagreement with him. Ted Cruz and his ilk are the exponential result of Gringrich's reign.
K&R x 1000
[edited for grammar]
Exultant Democracy
(6,594 posts)Just a few things from the admin that tied us all together ever week or in the case of the mail bag every other month or so.
woo me with science
(32,139 posts)It used to be that dispensers of right-wing/corporate talking points were shown the door.
Now that we have a party and a President that aggressively PURSUE a corporate agenda, many, many liberals have departed in disgust at the constant stream of corporate/right-wing propaganda that pollutes DU.
stopbush
(24,397 posts)like the flat tax.
Today, there are REAL issues to be discussed that stir real emotions - like whether or not Justin Bieber should be deported.
Orrex
(63,243 posts)DU2 had its share of bitterness and hostility, too.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)Orrex
(63,243 posts)The Womens' Rights forum, the Religion forum and the Health forum frequently erupted in fairly intense hostility, to name just three. The Guns! Guns! Guns! forum was rather bitter as well.
Sure, more of it shows up in GD now, but I'm not convinced that there's more of it overall.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)But you know what? The owners truly don't care. So the rest of us should not either. I know I smile at how less popular the place is. But that's what they want? Who am I to stop it?
Orrex
(63,243 posts)Well, no, not really.
I was just trying to inject some hostility.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)KauaiK
(544 posts)nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)especially when it comes to what is popular with the cool kids.
There I go, with micro aggressions and everything.
ZombieHorde
(29,047 posts)Most people just put me on ignore now, so I'm not personally attacked nearly as often. There were a lot of angry, insulting people on DU2.
NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)ZombieHorde
(29,047 posts)snot
(10,540 posts)F.w.i.w., I can think of several possible factors, but to me, the biggest one is that DU may have been a victim of its own success.
At its height, DU had a lot of members, including a lot of early-adopter and activist types. As a result, it had real impact and influence.
I think this attracted people who wanted either to hijack and manipulate it to their own ends or simply to undermine it. They use tactics such as described at http://pastebin.com/irj4Fyd5 , and a lot of our best DU'er's were driven off.
F.w.i.w., I wish more DU'er's understood the meaning of "ad hominem attack," and that we consistently followed the principle that such attacks on other DU'er's should not be allowed.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)(and on point)
snot
(10,540 posts)go west young man
(4,856 posts)Douglas Carpenter
(20,226 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)MrMickeysMom
(20,453 posts)All anyone needs to do is to check out the Dungeon! Same as it ever was (CS)
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Like, yeah, I was here for the 2004 primary season. Bygone civility, right.
defacto7
(13,485 posts)A call to civility and past common goals with strong but founded arguments...
Yet when civility, common goals and founded arguments are posed... they die.
When crassness, Adultescence, adolescence, disruptiveness, ad hominem attacks, flamebate, post derailing and gleefully offered hurtful comments are hurled....
the whole site goes wild with uncontrolled excitement and hundreds of recs and replies fly in glorious cacophony. And ignore and trash buttons become the weapon of ultimate choice for an easy kill.
As much as I would personally NOT like it to be that way... it's become an entertainment site. It does have some relevant news aggregation as an addition to the games.
Such is the world these days, such is the Internet.
When two year olds who smear their shit on their crib are the leaders of the posting constituency, this is what you get.