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go west young man

(4,856 posts)
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 06:34 PM Feb 2014

Democratic Underground thread from 2005-tell me this place hasn't changed.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=104x4115919

Notice how polite and thought out this thread from 2005 is and compare it to DU today. DU members then, debated all sides of this issue eloquently and thoughtfully without any aggression towards each other. What a great site it was. I would like to see a return to this level of discourse. We certainly need it.
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Democratic Underground thread from 2005-tell me this place hasn't changed. (Original Post) go west young man Feb 2014 OP
Let's start by agreeing Putin is a dangerous and evil man Pretzel_Warrior Feb 2014 #1
The point of the post.. go west young man Feb 2014 #2
Agreed, sir. Pretzel_Warrior Feb 2014 #3
That is an example of the problem. "Let's talk, but first agree to my frame." El_Johns Feb 2014 #23
... Cha Feb 2014 #33
/thread NuclearDem Feb 2014 #35
That was rude. SMC22307 Feb 2014 #45
The OP posted another thread where he essentially called the LGBT community MIC puppets NuclearDem Feb 2014 #48
It was still rude. SMC22307 Feb 2014 #53
Aggressively anti gay posts. Bluenorthwest Feb 2014 #109
I'm unaware of any history. SMC22307 Feb 2014 #118
Now that is rude! hrmjustin Feb 2014 #117
This message was self-deleted by its author Th1onein Feb 2014 #98
Lol. Apparently you don't know 'gowestyoungman's history. Pretzel_Warrior Feb 2014 #99
This message was self-deleted by its author Th1onein Feb 2014 #106
Here's some of my old history. go west young man Feb 2014 #164
I agree with PW. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #143
This message was self-deleted by its author Th1onein Feb 2014 #161
Well the op posted this. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #162
Just one of many points I've posted. go west young man Feb 2014 #165
And I disagreed. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #166
This message was self-deleted by its author Th1onein Feb 2014 #172
I wish you the best! hrmjustin Feb 2014 #173
This message was self-deleted by its author LanternWaste Feb 2014 #174
Thanks for the perfect example of how DU, once a place where people sabrina 1 Feb 2014 #186
This message was self-deleted by its author Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #4
I agree that the loss of moderators has made DU a far more raucous (to be nice) and at times ugly hlthe2b Feb 2014 #5
In the old days, all the ugliness was hidden. MADem Feb 2014 #104
Hide function isn't something I use... as I just pass by those threads... hlthe2b Feb 2014 #114
I think once the primaries hit, the admins will be a bit more aggressive on their own. MADem Feb 2014 #168
So many names no longer post here. Well, one poster died and the Cleita Feb 2014 #6
True... it's humbling... go west young man Feb 2014 #18
what about post #58? et. al. hfojvt Feb 2014 #57
PurityOfEssence died, WC Green is recovering from a transplant. I haven't seen Lydia Leftcoast or Cleita Feb 2014 #68
see post #36 hfojvt Feb 2014 #71
Good glad to see Jan Michael is still around but he doesn't post much does he? Cleita Feb 2014 #73
and heeeere's hfojvt Feb 2014 #74
Just remarked on my late pal Purity of Essence in that thread... villager Feb 2014 #90
I always enjoyed his posts when he was active. Cleita Feb 2014 #92
Indeed. Glad to see *you're* still posting here, Cleita! villager Feb 2014 #93
Not for long. I'm just doing some troll clean-up on aisle 69. Cleita Feb 2014 #94
Well, dang. We will miss another one driven off by the general rampant hostility here... villager Feb 2014 #96
Maybe my memory is off temporary311 Feb 2014 #7
Yeah, but it seemed to be confined to those forums back then. Cleita Feb 2014 #8
Agreed. temporary311 Feb 2014 #11
I was mostly lurking when Meta existed, but the thing I liked about it winter is coming Feb 2014 #14
+100 nt Curmudgeoness Feb 2014 #27
as a lounge lizard of the time hfojvt Feb 2014 #59
I found the old lounge a bit daunting. MADem Feb 2014 #105
it was a minefield for a while fizzgig Feb 2014 #141
we had a lot of fun in the lounge fizzgig Feb 2014 #140
that was sort of after my time hfojvt Feb 2014 #151
Bull. You may have found one thread that was "civil" but much of the time it madinmaryland Feb 2014 #9
Totally agree. pintobean Feb 2014 #10
Indirectly, your making my overall point... go west young man Feb 2014 #12
I quit HP ctsnowman Feb 2014 #149
I did a term as a mod and I wouldn't even categorize it that way Hippo_Tron Feb 2014 #181
Or the primaries in 2008. Adsos Letter Feb 2014 #184
What a trip down memory lane.... jaysunb Feb 2014 #13
I think that when a casual visitor comes here and sees 'Impeach Obama' ads Whisp Feb 2014 #19
Your on the money with that one. go west young man Feb 2014 #24
Here here! pablo_marmol Feb 2014 #40
That was also when W was still in office. progressoid Feb 2014 #15
True.... go west young man Feb 2014 #21
I agree with you Andy823 Feb 2014 #65
changes were pretty significant around the 2008 election DrDan Feb 2014 #16
You've noticed that, too, eh? QC Feb 2014 #126
META was the genie that can never go back into the bottle Whisp Feb 2014 #17
Reading Meta changed me and not for the better. I found a level of vitriol and dishonesty that made freshwest Feb 2014 #44
What was META? I don't remember it at all. n/t Iris Feb 2014 #76
The problem with META laundry_queen Feb 2014 #100
If it's changed a bit, it's because since the advent of the rightwing-fundy popularity in the U.S... Sarah Ibarruri Feb 2014 #20
People are under more pressure today, both financial and social. randome Feb 2014 #22
Is anyone who posted on that thread still active here? PCIntern Feb 2014 #25
I believe WCGreen was still posting just prior to his transplant surgery.... mike_c Feb 2014 #28
not on that thread but I was here! I joined up in October, 2004, expecting President Kerry. CTyankee Feb 2014 #43
I was around at that time as well... PCIntern Feb 2014 #77
unfortunately, yes hfojvt Feb 2014 #62
a number of well remembered DUers in that thread.... mike_c Feb 2014 #26
How about this one for a flashback.... go west young man Feb 2014 #29
yup, I remember those threads.... mike_c Feb 2014 #32
I'm just waxing nostalgic. go west young man Feb 2014 #31
I think what you're remembering was when we had a "Common Foe" to rail against... KoKo Feb 2014 #39
+1 Blue_Tires Feb 2014 #170
I think we need to bring Meta back flying rabbit Feb 2014 #30
what was meta? Iris Feb 2014 #107
It was a forum created when DU3 came about designated for the discussion of all things related to flying rabbit Feb 2014 #110
oh, yes.I do remember that now. n/t Iris Feb 2014 #113
i think most of those people no longer post/comment here. madrchsod Feb 2014 #34
Hard to know. intheflow Feb 2014 #69
wow i sounded so damned smart and nice JanMichael Feb 2014 #36
I coulda sworn you were still around hfojvt Feb 2014 #72
Neither do I nadinbrzezinski Feb 2014 #81
Oh. It has changed. geckosfeet Feb 2014 #37
I remember the Primary Wars of 2004 - which was a lot worse than the Primary Wars II in 2008. Drunken Irishman Feb 2014 #38
You missed an opportunity. winter is coming Feb 2014 #41
Nah. I'm hard left, and the DEMS keep goin' to the right. Suck it, "bi-partisanship." blkmusclmachine Feb 2014 #42
There was NEVER a golden age on DU. Back then the greens trying to rehabilitate Nader KittyWampus Feb 2014 #46
a flashback thread that I keep around hfojvt Feb 2014 #66
Many, many good liberal posters departed woo me with science Feb 2014 #47
+ 1 You are dead on ! n/t jaysunb Feb 2014 #61
Yes. sibelian Feb 2014 #67
The phenomenon of "sleeper cell" accounts, woo me with science Feb 2014 #75
I have this really annoying problem laundry_queen Feb 2014 #101
+1 woo me with science Feb 2014 #167
I understand perfectly well nadinbrzezinski Feb 2014 #83
YEP. Rex Feb 2014 #70
+100 nt Mojorabbit Feb 2014 #89
Or, could it possibly be that life changed and people changed nobodyspecial Feb 2014 #139
+1 a whole bunch! Enthusiast Feb 2014 #142
Lots of posts got removed rrneck Feb 2014 #49
Agree. n/t lumberjack_jeff Feb 2014 #54
That was a post by KitchenWitch. Dr. Strange Feb 2014 #50
There is this too: bvar22 Feb 2014 #51
I remember that poll... go west young man Feb 2014 #120
Maybe people should consider what they post here. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #52
Your making my point for me. go west young man Feb 2014 #122
Well you take it to heart next time you post. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #123
The vitriol is what I'm attempting to point out. go west young man Feb 2014 #152
I never called you or painted you as a homophobe. I painted and said you were wrong. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #153
This is a touch off point... but I wanted to point out something to DU'ers go west young man Feb 2014 #155
Are you saying du went downhill since I joined? hrmjustin Feb 2014 #156
"Well sourced information" BainsBane Feb 2014 #160
Writes the highly emotional poster who has 23,000 posts go west young man Feb 2014 #163
When you tell someone they shouldn't fight for their civil rights BainsBane Feb 2014 #159
My argument was regarding method employed for advocating go west young man Feb 2014 #169
And that was after the Dean/Kerry wars. We surely have lost something here. Skip Intro Feb 2014 #55
It starts at home. You can't expect civility if you don't offer it. cui bono Feb 2014 #103
"Be the change that you wish to see in the world." - Mahatma Gandhi Make7 Feb 2014 #56
That is one example from then Gore1FL Feb 2014 #58
I see what you did there. Rex Feb 2014 #60
I dislike the disconnect between DU versions PowerToThePeople Feb 2014 #63
Part of the reason is that a few of those posters nadinbrzezinski Feb 2014 #64
"Kitchen Witch" Aerows Feb 2014 #80
It has zero to do with the handle. nadinbrzezinski Feb 2014 #82
I still find that dubious Aerows Feb 2014 #84
That I talk to them? nadinbrzezinski Feb 2014 #85
I would take issue with the notion that you ever posted "anything really deep here." Codeine Feb 2014 #127
By the way, one of my lovely cyberstalkers nadinbrzezinski Feb 2014 #132
oh honestly, No one is cyberstalking you sad-cafe Feb 2014 #175
Still following her? hrmjustin Feb 2014 #176
hardly. sad-cafe Feb 2014 #177
No I wposted in this thread as you can see and saw on the latezt page it got to 175 posts. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #178
it is probably futile but I was trying to help Ms. press lady sad-cafe Feb 2014 #182
She can't see you and you should not let her bother you. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #183
What happened to RummyisFrosted? Samantha Feb 2014 #78
So it would be better Aerows Feb 2014 #79
Now you got it! Le Taz Hot Feb 2014 #86
I would guess Aerows Feb 2014 #87
"Snarkiness is not constructive discussion." Gormy Cuss had that right. Perhaps no accident... villager Feb 2014 #88
Snark can be funny or clever. It's the pissy snide passive agressive remarks I don't like. winter is coming Feb 2014 #91
Those pissy snide passive-agressive remarks are exactly the ones I mean... villager Feb 2014 #95
I wouldn't doubt that those are middle schoolers or who mentally never left middle Cleita Feb 2014 #97
It has changed because most of those folks are gone... Deep13 Feb 2014 #102
Response 113 is solid. mattclearing Feb 2014 #108
Check this one out JVS Feb 2014 #111
Well, you can go to any number of topic forums here Art_from_Ark Feb 2014 #112
The majority of posters here are anti-Labor "centrists", now. There's not even a good mix. nt Romulox Feb 2014 #115
The main difference I've noticed, FWIW... War Horse Feb 2014 #116
Large part of it nadinbrzezinski Feb 2014 #119
1 of the first things I do with OPs calling for civility in discourse is look at OP's profile page, uppityperson Feb 2014 #121
Yes I love these moments. hrmjustin Feb 2014 #124
We on DU need to set the example of civility in discusstion KauaiK Feb 2014 #125
The top 10 list and Hate Mail Bag held this place together. Exultant Democracy Feb 2014 #128
Unity on liberal issues held this place together. woo me with science Feb 2014 #131
It was easy to be civil back in the day, when DU threads debated mundane issues stopbush Feb 2014 #129
It's easy to cherry-pick the civil discussions Orrex Feb 2014 #130
Nothing close to today though. NOTHING like today. nadinbrzezinski Feb 2014 #133
Maybe not in GD, but there was plenty to be found Orrex Feb 2014 #134
Well since I post on GD I notice it nadinbrzezinski Feb 2014 #135
YOU"RE A JERK FOR SAYNG THAT!!!!1! Orrex Feb 2014 #136
Well of course I am nadinbrzezinski Feb 2014 #137
AND an ignorant ass... KauaiK Feb 2014 #145
Always nadinbrzezinski Feb 2014 #147
I think I am treated better now than on DU2 ZombieHorde Feb 2014 #138
Well that's only because you tried to eat their braaaaiinnnsssss NuclearDem Feb 2014 #144
In my defense, liberals have the best brains. nt ZombieHorde Feb 2014 #171
I.m.h.o., DU is a shadow of its former self. snot Feb 2014 #146
You conspiracy theorist you... nadinbrzezinski Feb 2014 #148
Backatcha! snot Feb 2014 #150
Thanks for that. :) go west young man Feb 2014 #154
Back then most DUers thought electing a Democratic President would fix everything - Now we have many Douglas Carpenter Feb 2014 #157
This place hasn't changed. Warren DeMontague Feb 2014 #158
No, it hasn't WDeM... MrMickeysMom Feb 2014 #179
I just find all the "bygone days of civility" posts so unintentionally funny. Warren DeMontague Feb 2014 #180
It's ironic defacto7 Feb 2014 #185
 

go west young man

(4,856 posts)
2. The point of the post..
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 06:38 PM
Feb 2014

is you don't have to agree all the time and you can still be civil. You'll notice the responses in the thread are based upon sourced information and not simplistic emotion. They don't attempt to demean each others arguments through equating past arguments, such as you attempt to do with your post. They debate using sourced data and respect each others points of view. What matters is that they separate personal emotion from their arguments and have a good civilized debate. It truly is very different than the DU of today. Essentially you have made my point for me, so thank you for that.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
48. The OP posted another thread where he essentially called the LGBT community MIC puppets
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 09:53 PM
Feb 2014

For their very rightful anger and hatred of Russian homophobia. Then he just kept going on, even posting some video with a transphobic title.

Sometimes civility is overrated. Like when you're confronted with someone defending homophobes and calling your community puppets.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
53. It was still rude.
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 10:11 PM
Feb 2014

I get the impression some DUers don't really care about Russian homophobia, they're just using it to further their anti-Snowden/Greenwald and Obama v. Putin campaigns. Many others, however, are genuine in their anger. Perhaps gowest was targeting the former group, not the actual LBGT community? I'd have to see the thread and video before commenting further, however.

Response to Pretzel_Warrior (Reply #1)

 

Pretzel_Warrior

(8,361 posts)
99. Lol. Apparently you don't know 'gowestyoungman's history.
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 03:26 AM
Feb 2014

That's ok. I was still civil as I posted about Putin. As an aside, what are your thoughts on Vlad?

Response to Pretzel_Warrior (Reply #99)

Response to hrmjustin (Reply #143)

Response to hrmjustin (Reply #166)

Response to Pretzel_Warrior (Reply #1)

sabrina 1

(62,325 posts)
186. Thanks for the perfect example of how DU, once a place where people
Tue Feb 25, 2014, 03:56 AM
Feb 2014

actually discussed issues, has changed. Most of DU's real Progressives have moved on to more effective forums. They were the ones who inspired people like me to sign up here. If came across DU today, I would pass considering all the support for Bush policies which back then were rightfully opposed.

Some of us are still here, but sooner or later we progressives will probably stop wasting time trying to argue against Bush policies on a forum where there once was a united opposition to such policies. And spend that time working to overturn those policies together with the many new Progressive organizations which have remained consistent wrt to policies.

I wonder what will happen to the Dem party and forums, when progressives finally have had enough? I am thrilled though to see the many Progressive Orgs out there who have been very effective in actually forcing Dems to, eg, 'take SS off the table' but not fooled that this is just temporary during an election year.

Response to go west young man (Original post)

hlthe2b

(102,448 posts)
5. I agree that the loss of moderators has made DU a far more raucous (to be nice) and at times ugly
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 06:41 PM
Feb 2014

(to be truthful) place.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
104. In the old days, all the ugliness was hidden.
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 04:51 AM
Feb 2014

Now, we know people for what they really are, without the filter of the mods, hiding any dirt or nastiness away. And now, too, we have to do our OWN hiding--we, in effect, are our own moderators. That's what the HIDE THREAD, IGNORE etc. buttons are for. Instead of having someone else tell us what we should see, we have to be adults and make those decisions ourselves. I like the HIDE THREAD option, myself--when a dedicated crowd of people start beating what I consider a "bullshit" subject to death, I start hitting those X buttons, and I'm happier for it.

You're always going to have trolls--you're always going to have internet weirdos who don't have lives and get their jollies out of fucking with people just because they can only 'feel' when they are being mean and childish. And you're always going to have clever children who like to screw with people and giggle about it.

I like DU3. I've really gotten to appreciate the wisdom of many people here, and I've learned, through "unhidden meanness," which people to avoid.

hlthe2b

(102,448 posts)
114. Hide function isn't something I use... as I just pass by those threads...
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 10:36 AM
Feb 2014

my own "conscious hide"... And, I have finally discovered enough self-restraint to generally move past threads or comments that would so draw me in, so anger me, that I could become "obsessive" and post something I'd later regret. But I think it is a good thing that admins implemented "ignore".

However, there is a threshold above which overt trolling makes DU very unpleasant and strong moderation (usually with paid moderators) tends to keep that at bay. I think we've managed to stay well below that, but if other major "comment" forums on other popular and combative websites are any indication, then when things heat up for primaries and Presidential election, we may well cross it.

DU goes in cycles. Having been here since its initiation, I find that reassuring.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
168. I think once the primaries hit, the admins will be a bit more aggressive on their own.
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 10:46 PM
Feb 2014

They're not shy, and they seem to have a good handle on managing the site, big picture. The hosts will key off them, and MIRT will step up to the plate as well, I suspect.

I've been here from the beginning as well. I was a reader at the start, and rarely posted, but I signed up a day or two after the site went live...I was one pissed off pup at the election theft. I had to re-register when I forgot my password and lost access to the email I used to sign up! The place has changed a lot down the years, but IMO I think it's gotten better with time.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
6. So many names no longer post here. Well, one poster died and the
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 06:53 PM
Feb 2014

another is recovering from a transplant, but yeah there were good debates even when we disagreed with one another.

 

go west young man

(4,856 posts)
18. True... it's humbling...
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 07:44 PM
Feb 2014

so many times I've logged on to sadly learn that a fellow DU'er who I really enjoyed reading has passed away. It brings you down to earth. RIP to all of them, who taught us all so much.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
57. what about post #58? et. al.
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 10:40 PM
Feb 2014

I see some who are still around - Gormy Cuss, Lydia Leftcoast, JanMichael (sort of).

Kinda not sorry to lose the people arguing FOR the flat tax.

But what the heck, if they argue civilly...

Who died, though? Witchie?

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
68. PurityOfEssence died, WC Green is recovering from a transplant. I haven't seen Lydia Leftcoast or
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 11:28 PM
Feb 2014

Jan Michael for eons.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
73. Good glad to see Jan Michael is still around but he doesn't post much does he?
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 11:38 PM
Feb 2014

He used to make some really good, intelligent posts when I first landed on DU in 2003.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
74. and heeeere's
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 11:40 PM
Feb 2014

Lydia http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4549087

Yeah, JanMichael has been pretty quiet for a while, even has fewer posts than I do.

and Gormy http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4548213

wow, that last post feature on the profile is really handy for finding lost loves.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
90. Just remarked on my late pal Purity of Essence in that thread...
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 01:19 AM
Feb 2014

I still miss him when I see his name pop up around here (he was the one that first told me about this place, eons ago...)

He left behind his wife, and three kids, when he passed last summer... Dammit all...

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
96. Well, dang. We will miss another one driven off by the general rampant hostility here...
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 01:25 AM
Feb 2014

Alas....

temporary311

(955 posts)
7. Maybe my memory is off
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 06:57 PM
Feb 2014

but wasn't the Lounge the cesspool back then, before Meta took that honor? I seem to recall a few large ban waves over how things were going down in there.

temporary311

(955 posts)
11. Agreed.
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 07:25 PM
Feb 2014

I think the biggest problem is that closing Meta didn't make the crap go away. I mean, Meta didn't happen in a vacuum, ya know? It was made that way by a relatively small group of posters. Closing that forum should've been accompanied by a ban wave similar to what was done to stop the old clique wars in the Lounge.

winter is coming

(11,785 posts)
14. I was mostly lurking when Meta existed, but the thing I liked about it
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 07:34 PM
Feb 2014

was that the crap was concentrated in Meta. There was some incidental sniping in GD, but most of the bar fights stayed in Meta. And really, if there had been a ban wave, perhaps there would have been no need to close Meta.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
59. as a lounge lizard of the time
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 10:52 PM
Feb 2014

I would say that your memory IS off.

Yes there was some nastiness in the lounge, (and some personal relationships that flamed out, sadly) but there was also a lot of conviviality.

Also common at the time was for people to post threads in the lounge that said "omigod GD has flipped out" and link to some flamewar in GD that all of us lizards would laugh about. And comment on, like "look at them tearing each other's heads off", or "they're nuts over there" or "you really need asbestos underwear to post in GD".

For a time there, after Skinner put the kibosh on sex threads, the lounge was actually kinda "GD lite". We had serious discussions without the flames of GD.

It tasted great, and it was less filling.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
105. I found the old lounge a bit daunting.
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 04:55 AM
Feb 2014

I didn't feel as though I was "in on the joke." It was a bit cliquish. I always felt like the new kid at the end of the lunch table! The new lounge seems more welcoming, IMO...maybe the old school flavor is what some folks miss...?

That said, I am not complaining--I found plenty to like about other forums and I spent my time in those.

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
141. it was a minefield for a while
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 03:50 PM
Feb 2014

lots of in jokes and you never knew what you were going to step in by replying to what appeared to be an innocuous thread.

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
140. we had a lot of fun in the lounge
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 03:48 PM
Feb 2014

remember when it invaded that douchebag thread in gd? i still giggle about it.

but i got turned off of it for a bit when all that hateful shit went down.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
151. that was sort of after my time
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 06:12 PM
Feb 2014

even then I was mostly hanging out in GD or GDP and the author of that thread was a friend of mine anyway.

I remember when ForrestGump got hit by the spam filter and most people thought he was tombstoned. I remember picture threads and Southlandshari and the night shift and morning crew and copycats and matchgame 76...

madinmaryland

(64,933 posts)
9. Bull. You may have found one thread that was "civil" but much of the time it
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 07:17 PM
Feb 2014

was a shitstorm, going back to the primary races in 2004. At that time, we had a common enemy, and it made things seem a lot more organized, as we were all committed to getting rid of the POTUS at that time.

It was a great site, and still is. Thanks, Skinner!!

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
10. Totally agree.
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 07:21 PM
Feb 2014

Most of the worst shit-storms were removed in bulk by the mods. It certainly made things look a lot more civil than they were.

 

go west young man

(4,856 posts)
12. Indirectly, your making my overall point...
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 07:33 PM
Feb 2014

the site operated better back then. This was most likely partially due to moderators, a lack of a jury system (as we have today), and civil DU'ers who didn't hit and run with one liners. As it is today, the approach to discourse is not too dissimilar to threads on Facebook or Huffington Post.

ctsnowman

(1,903 posts)
149. I quit HP
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 05:27 PM
Feb 2014

because the mods let a post stand that was hoping for a second Newtown because of the laws we passed here (and many other posts like it). There are days when it gets pretty ugly here and I hope it doesn't descend to the level of HP.

Hippo_Tron

(25,453 posts)
181. I did a term as a mod and I wouldn't even categorize it that way
Tue Feb 25, 2014, 12:26 AM
Feb 2014

When I was there the mods spent most of their time day to day deleting replies with ad hominem attacks. Basically on DU3 you have an easier time getting away with calling someone a poopy-head than you did on DU2. Mods also locked a lot of copycat or spinoff threads. But as far as locking shit-storms, it had to be a completely unmanageable shit-storm to get locked.

jaysunb

(11,856 posts)
13. What a trip down memory lane....
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 07:34 PM
Feb 2014

I've wanted to post many times lately about the loss of decorum and respect here at DU, but I can never distill all the things I think have gone wrong.
Back in the days of the thread you posted, there was less that 25,000 members ( I think) most of whom were fairly thoughtful people that could back up their arguments w/ facts or were open to hear all sides before launching into a tirade. Local DU meetups were the norm and activism was the glue that held us together.
Disrupter's were easily spotted and tombstones passed out appropriately.

But w/ more that 150k + folks here now (with a large number of those being paid trolls) it's nearly completely out of control. While I have been an ardent fan and supporter of DU since the beginning, I sympathize with Skinner, Elad and EarlG when I see the dilemma they find themselves with. At first it was a financial battle to keep the site going, but with new members and their donations, the problem has become the people themselves.

I keep saying (to myself) I'm going to leave, but it's such a habit that it's gotten to be like the proverbial wreck that you can't take your eyes off.

 

Whisp

(24,096 posts)
19. I think that when a casual visitor comes here and sees 'Impeach Obama' ads
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 07:49 PM
Feb 2014

they might think they belong here. There are some atrocious ads here and I wouldn't discount that that may be a part of the big picture problem. I know money is money, and income is income but my gawd shouldn't there be some kind of line?

 

go west young man

(4,856 posts)
24. Your on the money with that one.
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 08:08 PM
Feb 2014

I can't understand it for the life of me. What sense does it make to have opposition ads on our front page? I also wonder why DU'ers linking to Faux "news" stories in LBN is tolerated. It doesn't serve our cause in any way to legitimize those we are working against.

pablo_marmol

(2,375 posts)
40. Here here!
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 09:09 PM
Feb 2014

What the HELL is up with that?

I've been discouraged seeing Obama-bashing books at Costco, but they don't purport to be a left-leaning entity.

progressoid

(50,001 posts)
15. That was also when W was still in office.
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 07:37 PM
Feb 2014

When we had a common enemy, it was easier to overlook our differences.

That said, there were also many flame wars and flame outs. A lot of DUers were TSed in those days for bad behavior and others left voluntarily because of the conflicts.

Politics is messy. And sometimes, so are political websites.


 

go west young man

(4,856 posts)
21. True....
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 07:54 PM
Feb 2014

we are more divided these days. The problem being what we stand for in the Democratic Party. Octafish's Bill Moyers post comes to mind as something that should be uniting us all as far as common adversaries go. http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024546724 It's definitely one of the most important posts around here in a while.
DU posts that get the most attention these days are related to personal issues and not politics from what I see. This can be verified by checking view counts and replies on forum threads. The numbers are much larger for personal hot button issues such as gender, race, and sexual orientation. National and Geopolitics are taking a huge backseat.

A strange analogy would be that DU is becoming like MTV. Lots of emotional reality programming that requires very little thought and not much music.

Andy823

(11,495 posts)
65. I agree with you
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 11:11 PM
Feb 2014

Some posters seem to like to "flame bait" and they know what to post in order to get things going. The sad part is that while some point out that the post is simply flame bait, to many others seem to jump on the bandwagon and side with the poster doing the flame baiting.

Like you said, a lot of it seems to be personal issues with no real political discussion just a lot of arguing back and forth. Sometimes the one posting the OP, flam bait, never bothers to reply, they just post, run and start another post with the same goal, which seems to me is trying to divide those who post here.

DrDan

(20,411 posts)
16. changes were pretty significant around the 2008 election
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 07:38 PM
Feb 2014

it is somewhat easy to spot those that joined just prior to that election

QC

(26,371 posts)
126. You've noticed that, too, eh?
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 01:47 PM
Feb 2014

That primary season is when the culture of DU changed to what it is now, no doubt.

 

Whisp

(24,096 posts)
17. META was the genie that can never go back into the bottle
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 07:40 PM
Feb 2014

and how it was shut down suddenly and without warning.

People still had angst that was developed there and took it to GD and other places after the shutdown. Bile was built up and it had to be spilled somewhere. I think a warning of a shut down would have been a far better idea - hey, kids, place nice or this tent is going down in 2 weeks if you don't smarten up.

META was the biggest mistake and we can't go home again ever to before META - the only way, I think, to reduce the bad effects on present day DU is to bring back a better version of META. How to make it better, I don't know.

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
44. Reading Meta changed me and not for the better. I found a level of vitriol and dishonesty that made
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 09:18 PM
Feb 2014

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me rethink a lot of things about who I was talking to.

Seeing how unnecessarily cruel and personal some of the attacks became, I realized there were people on DU that I did not want to hear from again, as I did not trust their type IRL.

The last time I posted somewhere and saw people that I truly didn't want to talk to, was on a mixed board of left and right posters.

I don't know if that is the case here. I've seen hideous forms of disruptions at other sites with shock content designed to run off women and liberals. It worked, and most of the posters, even the rare decent conservatives who were respectfully arguing their view to give insight, also left.

The conversations degraded to spouting whatever form of propaganda that was ingested that day and regurgitated on everyone. No longer talking, just abuse if one didn't agree.

I see that here at DU at times. When I do, whether it's sent my way or someone else's way, that goes on Ignore. Life is too short to dig through the garbage dump.

At other times, Meta was enlightening by telling the stories of minorities and how the mainstream did not listen to their views. Some have said coming to DU is like that car wreck on the freeway you can't pass without taking a look at it.

You never know what is it going to be here. I have seen some whose pattern is to hit and run to disrupt threads or make mealy mouthed and unproductive comments. They never return to discuss anything in good faith.

They go on Ignore. I still find good people to discuss things with most of the time.

I agree Meta had to go. Just the effect it had on me would have been worse on a new member. Also some good newbies were run off by the hell they caught in Meta, too.

laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
100. The problem with META
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 04:01 AM
Feb 2014

is it was the type of forum that needed a heavy hand, and because of the jury system, there wasn't one. I think Meta would work if it was the sole forum with mods and very strict rules about posting. I agree that the way it just disappeared didn't do the site any favors. Plus, there should've been...as someone suggested...a 'house cleaning' before shutting down the forum. Instead, the least agreeable posters just migrated to GD.

Sarah Ibarruri

(21,043 posts)
20. If it's changed a bit, it's because since the advent of the rightwing-fundy popularity in the U.S...
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 07:54 PM
Feb 2014

the impoverishment of people has not ceased.

The right wingnut fundies are still there, making it virtually impossible to rescue this country.

Libs have reached the end of their rope and will take no more BS, and right wing infiltrators in DU keep provoking by making the same, old, tired right wing ideological BS suggestions that are already hurting this country.

For ex., by now we all know what a flat tax would destroy the buying power of the middle class and working poor, by now we all know what the current tax rate is doing to benefit the rich, and what it's doing to the middle class and working poor, by now we all know that we need to bring tax rates to how they were before the right wing and fundy ideologies became a mantra in this country.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
22. People are under more pressure today, both financial and social.
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 08:03 PM
Feb 2014

It helps breed incivility and I can't blame anyone for that.
[hr][font color="blue"][center]The truth doesn’t always set you free.
Sometimes it builds a bigger cage around the one you’re already in.
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mike_c

(36,281 posts)
28. I believe WCGreen was still posting just prior to his transplant surgery....
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 08:29 PM
Feb 2014

Msongs is still here, too. I think that's it, though. Lots of familiar folks in that thread.

CTyankee

(63,914 posts)
43. not on that thread but I was here! I joined up in October, 2004, expecting President Kerry.
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 09:17 PM
Feb 2014

When January of 2005 happened and W was again sworn in, I was in a deep depression. Only DU and Stephanie Miller pulled me out each week day. Thank goddess! I was devastated. If it hadn't had been for them, I would have been sunk...

PCIntern

(25,612 posts)
77. I was around at that time as well...
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 12:37 AM
Feb 2014

it is just that there are so many names missing and you don't realize who is gone until you read an archived thread...

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
62. unfortunately, yes
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 11:04 PM
Feb 2014

#53, #90, #58, #82, #93, #94, and #64

otherwise, as I mentioned upthread, I only see JanMichael, who rarely posts now, but IS still around, Lydia Leftcoast is still here, I think, and Gormy Cuss.

But not a lot.

And I really liked Sweetheart.

She lived up to her name, IMO.

mike_c

(36,281 posts)
26. a number of well remembered DUers in that thread....
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 08:22 PM
Feb 2014

I've been active on DU since early 2002, and lurked almost from the beginning. I do agree that the tone of discourse has changed over the years, and that there is a lot more personal nastiness now. When I first began posting here I learned a great deal about how to have anonymous conversations, civilly. The mods more-or-less made sure of it. The serially uncivil still seem to eventually do themselves in, most of the time, but they also seem to linger for longer.

 

go west young man

(4,856 posts)
29. How about this one for a flashback....
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 08:32 PM
Feb 2014

Truth is All's 2004 exit polling threads. http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=203x56674
We were all coalescing around that one. Some great underground data miners were on the site back then. This was around the time the Dungeon came into existence and we lost some of them. Someone should do a life history of DU featuring the stand out moments.

KoKo

(84,711 posts)
39. I think what you're remembering was when we had a "Common Foe" to rail against...
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 09:02 PM
Feb 2014

The change we see is that "our enemy is within us."

It's difficult to deal with that revelation...and it tears apart what we had in common...in those past years.

There are differing theories as to Why and What that is that has torn apart the commonality....and, I'm not going there!

But...many of us see what you see...it's just that ...well...what I said above.

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
170. +1
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 11:29 PM
Feb 2014

Part of it is I've always thought DU dipped below the "replacement level" of really good posters a few years back...We lost even more with the move to DU3...

flying rabbit

(4,644 posts)
110. It was a forum created when DU3 came about designated for the discussion of all things related to
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 10:08 AM
Feb 2014

the site itself. What it became was a place people went with an axe to grind: "a jury didn't hide this post so I am going to vent my outrage and hold my breath until I turn blue. If you don't agree with me you are a republican." It got pretty nasty so the admins put the kibosh on it.

intheflow

(28,509 posts)
69. Hard to know.
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 11:33 PM
Feb 2014

There have been a few name amnesties since then. There's also been a huge influx of new people since Obama was elected so I think some of it is that the older members' voices are drowned out, and also a kind of fatigue has set in with many of us older members. We were wrestling with a lot of these issues in a more intimate setting early on, now DU seems like a grade school playground on some days, and/or troll heaven on others. I used to post a lot, now I hardly post at all because of the newbie discussion dynamic which eschews civility and reason in favor of insults and strawmen.

JanMichael

(24,897 posts)
36. wow i sounded so damned smart and nice
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 08:57 PM
Feb 2014

I also noticed that was one year prior to becoming a vegetarian. I said that i was trending that direction and was right.

Oh well so much for sounding and being intelligent. Now it is just a big custerfuck. I do not care enough anymore to create long and documented arguments.

geckosfeet

(9,644 posts)
37. Oh. It has changed.
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 08:59 PM
Feb 2014

Rancor, hyperbole and raw intolerance come all too easily these days.

Saw something posted on FB today. I immediately thought of DU.

Imagine you are explaining the internet to someone from the early 20th century. The entire accumulated knowledge of mankind at our fingertips. And we use it to look at cat pictures and argue with people we don't know.


And life goes on. Opportunity slips through our grasp.
 

Drunken Irishman

(34,857 posts)
38. I remember the Primary Wars of 2004 - which was a lot worse than the Primary Wars II in 2008.
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 09:00 PM
Feb 2014

It was not civil.

winter is coming

(11,785 posts)
41. You missed an opportunity.
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 09:13 PM
Feb 2014

It would have been interesting to see what would have happened if you'd re-posted the text of KitchenWitch's OP.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
46. There was NEVER a golden age on DU. Back then the greens trying to rehabilitate Nader
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 09:35 PM
Feb 2014

and the ideologues trashing Gore for not fighting hard enough in the recount were constantly stirring up shit.

What I see happen is people come here, find Lefties and are happy at first and able to tolerate differing viewpoints.

But over time, many DU'ers come here for their ideology fix and start getting more and more annoyed at anyone who doesn't agree 100%.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
66. a flashback thread that I keep around
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 11:16 PM
Feb 2014
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=104&topic_id=196554

What we seem to do, is to split into warring camps.

Obamabots vs. firebaggers
HOF vs. MRAs (supposed)

to pick two of the biggies, also maybe

gun nuts vs. gun grabbers (supposed)


All you need is about fifteen dedicated members of each gang to keep slinging crap at each other in thread after thread, and a good portion of the rest of us will kinda take sides back and forth, and then get tired of the daily battles.

woo me with science

(32,139 posts)
47. Many, many good liberal posters departed
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 09:40 PM
Feb 2014

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in response to the influx of the corporate propaganda contingent.

As the number of corporate personas here unnaturally increased, and as their tactics became increasingly clear, many good liberals decided that they'd had enough.

Which, of course, was most likely the goal.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
67. Yes.
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 11:23 PM
Feb 2014

I used to post here under a different name (which I will not reveal), whose password I scrambled in a fit of disgust as the tone of the place began to change. I rejoined during the first great debates around healthcare when it really started kicking off.

I've posted less this year as I'm increasingly of the opinion that the site's being used to manipulate liberals rather than discuss politics.

woo me with science

(32,139 posts)
75. The phenomenon of "sleeper cell" accounts,
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 11:42 PM
Feb 2014

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accounts created around the time of the site's inception, but which remained dormant for many years before being (re)activated to dispense pro-corporate propaganda and attack liberals, lends credence to your opinion..

laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
101. I have this really annoying problem
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 04:11 AM
Feb 2014

where I remember certain names and the dates they've joined...more than a few times I've seen a poster with, say 1,200 posts and 1,185 of them are in the last 90 days...and they joined in 2004. And suddenly they are posting in the most active threads and they are extremely argumentative. In 6 months, they have 8,000 posts and are very well known (usually for being over the top rude). Extremely suspect, for sure.

nobodyspecial

(2,286 posts)
139. Or, could it possibly be that life changed and people changed
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 03:43 PM
Feb 2014

and many no longer had time to spend reading and posting to one website. How long did you expect people could sustain their outrage and the time required to keep up with this place. People move on. And if any of the posters from the good old days were truly your friends, they are still in your life. I have a core group that I am still in contact with and most left this site years ago. It has nothing to do with "corporatists" running them off the site.

rrneck

(17,671 posts)
49. Lots of posts got removed
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 09:59 PM
Feb 2014

instead of bookmarked in private files of combatants.

When I first got here it was understood (and I think it was in the TOS) that we were expected to grow a thick skin. The first DUer that responded to my first post here was Iverglas. I don't see the kind of rancor now that I saw when I first joined.

It's a lot harder to get banned now than then. There used to be grave dancing threads all the time, now you hardly see them.

The creation of protected groups helps keeps combatants in neutral corners most of the time. They only emerge when their pet issues become big enough to find their way into the playground, then the sparks fly. Since the software deals with the bulk of low intensity conflict, the admins can concentrate on the main forums and of course they see every alert. Now they can adjust how forums like GD get hosted instead of managing conflict across the entire board. And of course MIRT handles the vast majority of trolls.

I think DU has been designed to be more consumer friendly, which brings with it certain problems, but all in all it's working really well and it's fascinating to watch.

bvar22

(39,909 posts)
51. There is this too:
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 10:08 PM
Feb 2014


There were a LOT more people here,
and they were a LOT more Liberal.

When was the last poll at DU that had over a thousand replies?
 

go west young man

(4,856 posts)
152. The vitriol is what I'm attempting to point out.
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 06:20 PM
Feb 2014

We disagreed on a previous argument. There is nothing wrong with disagreeing. Taking that disagreement personally is the point of my OP. I will continue to post and to be civil. I'm into geopolitics. Your obviously more into gender issues than I am. I have pointed out to you on numerous occasions that I am into equal rights for all citizens. We disagree on how that is more readily achieved in regards to Russia. You painted me as a homophobe. (Not much I can do about that except repeat myself)I still stand by that previous post. It's just one opinion of many that I have. i'm sorry you didn't like it. I'm sure we probably agree on more issues than you realize. Peace, once again.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
153. I never called you or painted you as a homophobe. I painted and said you were wrong.
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 06:24 PM
Feb 2014

I painted Putin and the Russian laws he put in as evil. You were challenged on what you posted and rightly so.

 

go west young man

(4,856 posts)
155. This is a touch off point... but I wanted to point out something to DU'ers
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 06:46 PM
Feb 2014

using you and me personally. I am a long term DU'er who has posted 3,550 times since November 2004. I usually only post things that I consider surreal thought provoking subject matter in regards to geopolitics and the Great Game. I have served on 4 juries since that time and had 4 posts hidden (all 4 took place 2 weeks ago in the debate you and I disagreed upon). You, on the other hand, have been on DU since February 2012, you have posted 29,215 times, and served on 501 juries. Your stats vs. mine kinda make the point of my OP. DU has changed and not necessarily for the better. I'm pretty sure most of those 29,000 posts are not sourced well laid out information. Who would have time for sourcing info when they are posting at that rate? My point is a simple one...DU has changed. It's emotional but not very factual anymore.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
156. Are you saying du went downhill since I joined?
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 07:00 PM
Feb 2014

Btw. How many hides do you have from 2004? I had only one.

Many of my posts were in MIRt from last summer to last month.

I am also a host of several rooms as you can see in my profile.

Most of my ops are in the NY room with some in the religion and interfaith rooms as well.

My OPs always comply with the rules of this site.

If you don't like me you can always put me on ignore but I will not apologize for telling you you were wrong!

Point out anything you like. See what response you get.

Oh I remember you telling me you were banned before. I was never banned.



BainsBane

(53,093 posts)
160. "Well sourced information"
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 09:53 PM
Feb 2014

Where exactly does one for "factual" and "well sourced" information that enables them to tell LGBT members how they are allowed to fight for civil rights? Give me a break. You may fool yourself with this smokescreen of objectivity, but you don't fool me.

It's not your business to comment on what hrmjustin posts. One thing he does is volunteer on MIRT and as host of a number of forums and groups, thereby contributing to the running of DU. He is also about the most civil poster that exists on this site, and I have never seen him post anything like your offensive thread scolding LGBT Americans about Russia. I am standing up here to say I see through this ruse of yours.

 

go west young man

(4,856 posts)
163. Writes the highly emotional poster who has 23,000 posts
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 10:23 PM
Feb 2014

since September 2012. I can't keep going around with you guys on that other thread if you won't address the PEW poll that it was all related to. I asked then if you all were willing to explain the numbers on Russian use of alcohol, pre marital sex, gambling and was met with only insults. Yet you continued to use the same PEW poll that the CIA fact book simply discredited with it's numbers. Instead the only responses were 1) I'm a Putin lover, 2) I'm a homophobe, 3) I don't belong at DU. It was all very loud and passionate but did very little to negate my argument as the PEW poll was the basis for the LGBT's anger towards the Russian people. Pretzel Warrior put it out there yet not a soul arguing against my argument wanted to address those discrepancies. The poll had Russians against homosexuality at 72%. The poll had Russians against drinking at 44%. The drinking, gambling and pre marital sex numbers make no sense in a country that is largely non religious ( as communist Russia was) and thereby lend credence to the possibility that the other numbers in the poll are off and also suspect. I think the PEW poll is simply, and ironically, considering we're talking about Russia, propaganda.
https://www.cia.gov/library/publications/the-world-factbook/geos/rs.html

BainsBane

(53,093 posts)
159. When you tell someone they shouldn't fight for their civil rights
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 08:47 PM
Feb 2014

It makes sense to me they would take it personally. It doesn't get much more personal than that.

What makes you think it is your right to tell gay people how they should go about fighting for their rights? This reminds me a lot of the men on DU who try to tell feminists what they should care about, or when white folks tell African American members what kind of racism matters. It isn't your position to decide that. The fight isn't yours. If you don't want to be an ally, stay out of it. If you involve yourself in telling gay people what and how they can fight for civil rights, naturally people will view you as hostile to their cause.

Pretending these are just abstract philosophical questions when they have to do with people's basic rights is disingenuous.

 

go west young man

(4,856 posts)
169. My argument was regarding method employed for advocating
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 10:52 PM
Feb 2014

for civil rights in Russia. That was missed by many in that thread. I felt, and still do, that the lack of understanding of Russian culture at DU was actually doing more harm to equal rights than good at the time, as the schadenfreude was making the US look poorly.

Skip Intro

(19,768 posts)
55. And that was after the Dean/Kerry wars. We surely have lost something here.
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 10:23 PM
Feb 2014

DU clearly lacks the mutual respect that was found here in the early years. Open discussion was encouraged and enjoyed, differing views met with fair-mindedness, a certain level of mutual respect was in effect. Now an open and honest discussion of important and timely topics is the extreme rarity rather than the rule it used to be. Some DUers' only reason for being here seems to be to attack those who disagree with them or fail to sing along with their hymns. That is how I see much of the problem - there are a few who want to dictate to others what they must think, and say, and there is a large portion of those being attacked who toss it right back. The jury system might play a small part as well. What a mod once would have hidden for mean-spiritedness and personal attack a jury is a role of the dice.

The really sad part is, we may never return to that era of civility here. But I hope we do.

Make7

(8,543 posts)
56. "Be the change that you wish to see in the world." - Mahatma Gandhi
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 10:27 PM
Feb 2014
"I would like to see a return to this level of discourse. We certainly need it." - go west young man

It is typically far easier to control one's own behavior than others'.

Gore1FL

(21,160 posts)
58. That is one example from then
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 10:45 PM
Feb 2014

I bet for everyone one like that there is approximately 1 example of a flame fest. Things have changed a lot since 2001, but flame fests happened, even then.

 

PowerToThePeople

(9,610 posts)
63. I dislike the disconnect between DU versions
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 11:05 PM
Feb 2014

DU3 has no history of DU2 or DU1. It only lives in our memories. Sure you can try to search for something, but you have to look hard for it.

Even DU3 years back is tough to find stuff.

I know (well am pretty sure) KitchenWitch was the first person to send me a private email on DU. I was upset and going to take a break from reading the forums. They said not to let it get under my skin. It was very nice and made me feel better.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
64. Part of the reason is that a few of those posters
Sat Feb 22, 2014, 11:07 PM
Feb 2014

are NO LONGER HERE. They left, or were run off. You ask why? I know the answer, and it is partly why I no longer post anything really deep here.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
82. It has zero to do with the handle.
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 12:56 AM
Feb 2014

Trust me, or not. I still talk to many of those posters on the twitter, rarely, and Facebook.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
84. I still find that dubious
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 12:58 AM
Feb 2014

nevertheless, I'm very glad you are still here, nadin. You bring a lot to DU and many of us appreciate it.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
85. That I talk to them?
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 01:02 AM
Feb 2014

Odd, people use their actual names on FB. I know, weird.

And as to me, I find myself posting less and less and is the reason many of those posters left. Some were banned during the great purges of DU. And another one us coming, with elections they always do.

I laugh though, since Alexa ratings continue to crumble. The glory days will not come back. It's all to do with what has happened to this place.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
127. I would take issue with the notion that you ever posted "anything really deep here."
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 01:54 PM
Feb 2014

There are really just a handful of valuable and wonderful posters who add original content of any significant depth -- you're not one of them.

Neither am I, to be sure.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
132. By the way, one of my lovely cyberstalkers
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 02:59 PM
Feb 2014

gave a textbook example of what I mean. I love it when they do that shit.

But this is why this place is no longer as popular as it once was.

And that is fully self inflicted.

 

sad-cafe

(1,277 posts)
175. oh honestly, No one is cyberstalking you
Mon Feb 24, 2014, 11:37 PM
Feb 2014

you have created the hostility by claiming to be more of an expert on every single issue or thing ever posted then trying to play victim when someone disagrees with you. Humbleness goes a LONG way 100% of the time.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
178. No I wposted in this thread as you can see and saw on the latezt page it got to 175 posts.
Mon Feb 24, 2014, 11:49 PM
Feb 2014

I got into it with the op and another up thread. I even got someone putting me on ignore.

 

sad-cafe

(1,277 posts)
182. it is probably futile but I was trying to help Ms. press lady
Tue Feb 25, 2014, 12:52 AM
Feb 2014

by pointing out things all 99% of other posters say that if she would stop, she would feel better.

that's all!

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
86. Now you got it!
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 01:03 AM
Feb 2014
Engaging in lock-step makes the world a whole lot easier to deal with don't 'cha know.
 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
87. I would guess
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 01:05 AM
Feb 2014

Though I suspect you are like me and are about as likely to walk in lock-step with anything as we are to flap our arms and fly to the moon.

I guess that could happen, but I wouldn't count on it

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
88. "Snarkiness is not constructive discussion." Gormy Cuss had that right. Perhaps no accident...
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 01:15 AM
Feb 2014

...that things have become more corrosive since then?

Also, in the "awww..." dept., saw that Purity of Essence was there, an old college pal who left us -- much much too early -- last year.

We definitely need more thoughtful -- and less snark-reveling -- conversations around here...

winter is coming

(11,785 posts)
91. Snark can be funny or clever. It's the pissy snide passive agressive remarks I don't like.
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 01:20 AM
Feb 2014
Way too much like middle school cliques.
 

villager

(26,001 posts)
95. Those pissy snide passive-agressive remarks are exactly the ones I mean...
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 01:25 AM
Feb 2014

Way too much like middle school, except that my youngest and his friends -- themselves just finished with middle school as of this year -- never seemed as thoughtless or mean-spirited as many of those deliberately pissy/snide posters here do...

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
97. I wouldn't doubt that those are middle schoolers or who mentally never left middle
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 02:23 AM
Feb 2014

school. Still they are very destructive in what they are doing and should be dealt with.

Deep13

(39,154 posts)
102. It has changed because most of those folks are gone...
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 04:12 AM
Feb 2014

...and some of them were banned for some pretty trivial reasons.

mattclearing

(10,091 posts)
108. Response 113 is solid.
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 06:25 AM
Feb 2014
PurityOfEssence Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-17-05 08:38 AM
Response to Reply #40
113. "Double taxation" is a bullshit concept under current laws
Investing in a business is a gamble, and taxation is a COST of the venture.

Taxation isn't ugly thievery, it may be improperly assessed, but it's NOTHING MORE THAN A COST OF THE ENTERPRISE.

Sick, and deeply ingrained within our national consciousness is the fundamental agreement that NOBODY SHOULD EVER TAX US FOR ANYTHING, especially those of us who have some spare money to invest.

This is a truly sick assumption. The regulation and governmental expenses that are NECESSARY to keep our speculative economy free from disruption COST MONEY. Those monies should come from those who gain from this wealth welfare: those who invest.

There is no such thing as double taxation. It's the bellyaching of would-be aristocrats who just can't hack it. Those who complain of this are LOSERS and assholes. I invest and feel that entities in which I invest should pay taxes to defray the services they get from taxpayers. It's not punishment, it's simply paying one's bills.

If there was a TRUE flat tax, I might be persuaded, but it would have to be one with NO LOOPHOLES. I'll give up my mortgage interest write-off. I'll even give up the child-rearing credit.

Let's talk about a "net worth" tax; that'll end the debate.

People who want to make life simple are simpletons. Life is complex, and the needs and abilities of individuals are wildly varied. Trying to make things easy when they aren't is contrary to the heart and soul of civilization. For all the libertarian bellyaching about the wasted time of such complexity, we're far better off with the specialization that society brings us.

Besides all that, vast sweeps of the economy are dependent on the business of our current convoluted tax laws, and although dispensing with many of these laws wouldn't bring too many tears to my eye, I don't think they could be implemented all that well over such chorusing objections, and in interest of us all, it would need to be done gradually to avoid too much shock to the system.

War Horse

(931 posts)
116. The main difference I've noticed, FWIW...
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 11:16 AM
Feb 2014

This is my second account as well, I first joined quite some time ago. Don't remember exactly when. I lost access to the e-mail address the old one was attached to, hence the new account. Didn't post much in the past either, but I did read.

Anyway, it's always been heated, but the biggest difference I notice now is the level of distrust. People accusing each other of having ulterior motives, of misrepresentation, assuming that people are dishonest about where they are coming from (and putting words in each others mouths) etc...

Just my 2 cents.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
119. Large part of it
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 12:14 PM
Feb 2014

when people told me to my face that I was not a journalist, never mind the press pass issued by the city police department is in my vest... or that I could not have won any awards, or the variation, all these are vanity since you pay to enter, person shut up when it was pointed to him that ALL awards in Journalism require a small fee for administrative reasons, including the famed Pulitzer. That is when I knew we jumped through a very serious light year or two as it were.

Of course the cyberstalking does not help, and when you have some of the who's who follow, like puppies, to my blog where they were IP banned, you know you got serious issues. And it is them, not me who have the issues.

They got their wish though. We have some serious news right now in my local area, it's not on CNN, therefore not news. Never mind it is very real. And I mean on several fronts. I will not post anything deep anymore either. That is what MY BLOG is for. Personal attacks and cyberstalking are simply NOT tolerated there.

I know you were not talking about me, just decided to give a very concrete example.

But that is why I don't bother with this place much. But perhaps threads like this (and the Alexa ratings ) will wake up the owners who still believe they got no issues. Rumor has it that they wanted to sell in 2008. They should have. Because right now DU is not as valuable as it once was. Oh and some of us no longer buy stars either. And all that is self inflicted.

uppityperson

(115,681 posts)
121. 1 of the first things I do with OPs calling for civility in discourse is look at OP's profile page,
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 12:16 PM
Feb 2014

how many hides they have.

I agree, we need more civility here.

KauaiK

(544 posts)
125. We on DU need to set the example of civility in discusstion
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 01:46 PM
Feb 2014

I blame the loss of civility in political discussions on Newt Gringrich. He is epitome of ego strutting and shouting down of any disagreement with him. Ted Cruz and his ilk are the exponential result of Gringrich's reign.

K&R x 1000

[edited for grammar]

Exultant Democracy

(6,594 posts)
128. The top 10 list and Hate Mail Bag held this place together.
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 01:59 PM
Feb 2014

Just a few things from the admin that tied us all together ever week or in the case of the mail bag every other month or so.

woo me with science

(32,139 posts)
131. Unity on liberal issues held this place together.
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 02:10 PM
Feb 2014

It used to be that dispensers of right-wing/corporate talking points were shown the door.

Now that we have a party and a President that aggressively PURSUE a corporate agenda, many, many liberals have departed in disgust at the constant stream of corporate/right-wing propaganda that pollutes DU.

stopbush

(24,397 posts)
129. It was easy to be civil back in the day, when DU threads debated mundane issues
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 02:04 PM
Feb 2014

like the flat tax.

Today, there are REAL issues to be discussed that stir real emotions - like whether or not Justin Bieber should be deported.

Orrex

(63,243 posts)
134. Maybe not in GD, but there was plenty to be found
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 03:05 PM
Feb 2014

The Womens' Rights forum, the Religion forum and the Health forum frequently erupted in fairly intense hostility, to name just three. The Guns! Guns! Guns! forum was rather bitter as well.

Sure, more of it shows up in GD now, but I'm not convinced that there's more of it overall.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
135. Well since I post on GD I notice it
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 03:23 PM
Feb 2014

But you know what? The owners truly don't care. So the rest of us should not either. I know I smile at how less popular the place is. But that's what they want? Who am I to stop it?

Orrex

(63,243 posts)
136. YOU"RE A JERK FOR SAYNG THAT!!!!1!
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 03:24 PM
Feb 2014

Well, no, not really.

I was just trying to inject some hostility.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
147. Always
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 05:17 PM
Feb 2014

especially when it comes to what is popular with the cool kids.

There I go, with micro aggressions and everything.

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
138. I think I am treated better now than on DU2
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 03:42 PM
Feb 2014

Most people just put me on ignore now, so I'm not personally attacked nearly as often. There were a lot of angry, insulting people on DU2.

snot

(10,540 posts)
146. I.m.h.o., DU is a shadow of its former self.
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 05:16 PM
Feb 2014

F.w.i.w., I can think of several possible factors, but to me, the biggest one is that DU may have been a victim of its own success.

At its height, DU had a lot of members, including a lot of early-adopter and activist types. As a result, it had real impact and influence.

I think this attracted people who wanted either to hijack and manipulate it to their own ends or simply to undermine it. They use tactics such as described at http://pastebin.com/irj4Fyd5 , and a lot of our best DU'er's were driven off.

F.w.i.w., I wish more DU'er's understood the meaning of "ad hominem attack," and that we consistently followed the principle that such attacks on other DU'er's should not be allowed.

Douglas Carpenter

(20,226 posts)
157. Back then most DUers thought electing a Democratic President would fix everything - Now we have many
Sun Feb 23, 2014, 07:28 PM
Feb 2014
who are disappointed and many who are in denial. There were those who believed in spite of all evidence to the contrary that the most prominent Dems whether Howard Dean or Wesley Clark or John Kerry or certainly this rising star who was just elected Senator from Illinois were progressives who would forcefully pursue a progressive agenda. They believed this because they wanted to believe it and simply ignored their ACTUAL positions and records. Some of those people became quite disappointed. Others have created massive walls of denial.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
180. I just find all the "bygone days of civility" posts so unintentionally funny.
Mon Feb 24, 2014, 11:52 PM
Feb 2014

Like, yeah, I was here for the 2004 primary season. Bygone civility, right.

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
185. It's ironic
Tue Feb 25, 2014, 03:44 AM
Feb 2014

A call to civility and past common goals with strong but founded arguments...

Yet when civility, common goals and founded arguments are posed... they die.

When crassness, Adultescence, adolescence, disruptiveness, ad hominem attacks, flamebate, post derailing and gleefully offered hurtful comments are hurled....

the whole site goes wild with uncontrolled excitement and hundreds of recs and replies fly in glorious cacophony. And ignore and trash buttons become the weapon of ultimate choice for an easy kill.

As much as I would personally NOT like it to be that way... it's become an entertainment site. It does have some relevant news aggregation as an addition to the games.

Such is the world these days, such is the Internet.

When two year olds who smear their shit on their crib are the leaders of the posting constituency, this is what you get.

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