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frwrfpos

(517 posts)
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 01:19 AM Feb 2014

Im amazed and in awe that a thread about SI gets over 500 responses

I care about politics and political issues and I am completely taken aback at the back and forth on the newest issue of Sports Illustrated swimsuit edition.

How can extremely serious issues like the TPP and Comcast/Time Warner deal get much less attention than something so vacuous as SI's latest soft porn swimsuit issue?

There is stuff on the internet that is about 100 times worse than this, in terms of debate and shock factor, yet issues like the TPP. which will literally be the death knell for the middle class in this country get a passing glance here?


I am at a loss.

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Im amazed and in awe that a thread about SI gets over 500 responses (Original Post) frwrfpos Feb 2014 OP
People like shit that's titilating and not overly complicated. LeftyMom Feb 2014 #1
I keep hearing that we are gonna have a revolution. These would be the revoluters, yes? jtuck004 Feb 2014 #23
Well that's understandable. PoliticalPothead Feb 2014 #30
I clicked on this because I thought it was about Staten Island. Smarmie Doofus Feb 2014 #2
I thought it was about silicon awoke_in_2003 Feb 2014 #16
Maybe it is ... maybe it isn't. nt eppur_se_muova Feb 2014 #18
Good point... awoke_in_2003 Feb 2014 #19
That would be "silicone." There's a difference. WinkyDink Feb 2014 #58
This I know. But silicones are made from silicon. :) (Chem PhD) eppur_se_muova Feb 2014 #117
I thought it was about Supplemental Insurance. WinkyDink Feb 2014 #57
Heh. Chorophyll Feb 2014 #63
Those poor women on the cover are being oppressed, doncha know. Forced at gunpoint to strip and pose Electric Monk Feb 2014 #3
Apparently someone is thinking of the children. In_The_Wind Feb 2014 #83
Yes, and that piece of junk. elleng Feb 2014 #4
That isn't new to DU, ellen. pacalo Feb 2014 #21
In one thread we're gathering picture of Putin on absurd things. dorkzilla Feb 2014 #5
It engaged a couple of relatively small groups that are loud and somewhat obsessive Fumesucker Feb 2014 #6
yup! nt flying rabbit Feb 2014 #14
Do not. A HERETIC I AM Feb 2014 #49
Posers getting their post counts up. loudsue Feb 2014 #118
Add to the TPP issues like the millions of Americans that are right now as I type this Vinnie From Indy Feb 2014 #7
This joint sometimes does tend to fixate on the shiny object of the day. pa28 Feb 2014 #8
Ego. flvegan Feb 2014 #9
Relax, have some popcorn. edbermac Feb 2014 #10
And that is the CORE of the problem. obxhead Feb 2014 #25
I spend a good bit more than 20 minutes a day on DU learning about serious issues Fumesucker Feb 2014 #28
There is that phenomenon. obxhead Feb 2014 #33
I think it depends on the time of day arikara Feb 2014 #85
The environment and climate change are what REALLY matter most. Systematic Chaos Feb 2014 #11
The scientific illiteracy on this forum is a goddamn embarrassment. LeftyMom Feb 2014 #12
Scientific illiteracy in American society is a goddamn embarrassment! NutmegYankee Feb 2014 #29
Oh! So that's what the OP meant by SI... cui bono Feb 2014 #44
It's a general discussion treestar Feb 2014 #13
It's just trolling that got its intended results n/t kcr Feb 2014 #15
Meh Loaded Liberal Dem Feb 2014 #17
Brocialism. NuclearDem Feb 2014 #20
That's the second new word I've learned today. Electric Monk Feb 2014 #22
It ain't fair to you, man! Why don't you start a Men's Rights Movement? CTyankee Feb 2014 #32
I couldn't agree more. And have commented it on it, like you, wondering if we get harness all that sabrina 1 Feb 2014 #24
I'm sure that there are people here on DU that make sure the "who cares" trivila gets top billing, RC Feb 2014 #78
The SI with Barbie on the cover? Spitfire of ATJ Feb 2014 #26
I thought "SI" was the "System Internationale," metrics. nt Deep13 Feb 2014 #27
sometimes people just need a break 2pooped2pop Feb 2014 #31
There is really nothing more important than the gluteus maximus... DreamGypsy Feb 2014 #34
thanks for thei info...have had that pain in real life terms and it is no picnic... CTyankee Feb 2014 #35
generally, when an OP gets that many comments, there's some arguin' goin' on! G_j Feb 2014 #36
We all pretty much agree about the deal, and I assume most here have done their IRL work on it. redqueen Feb 2014 #37
Yeah, I've avoided that thread. ZombieHorde Feb 2014 #38
Keep in mind a large portion of those 500 responses are the same people hughee99 Feb 2014 #39
I see you're new here BainsBane Feb 2014 #40
Looking down the list, a great many of those don't seem to be about the cover JHB Feb 2014 #41
It got so many responses because men on DU hate women and love oppression The Straight Story Feb 2014 #42
What a load of crap. cui bono Feb 2014 #45
Another thread about gender, another fail at snark by TSS. NuclearDem Feb 2014 #62
Would you like some more straw? YoungDemCA Feb 2014 #81
I blame the patriarchy! NaturalHigh Feb 2014 #98
I can't even fathom expending energy to debate SI. bobGandolf Feb 2014 #43
And this OP has 45 replies and 23 recs. LiberalAndProud Feb 2014 #46
DUers agree that the TPP and Comcast deals are bad Renew Deal Feb 2014 #47
Nope, there is a significant minority who don't think the TPP is bad Fumesucker Feb 2014 #48
How does "won't admit" = "don't think"? joshcryer Feb 2014 #50
The TPP been discussed fairly heavily on the DU Fumesucker Feb 2014 #51
lol-- that's a great analogy. /nt Marr Feb 2014 #61
but never without bashing Obama joshcryer Feb 2014 #99
I have a negative view of some DUers Fumesucker Feb 2014 #108
I can't think of any I would box on though joshcryer Feb 2014 #110
Box on? n/t Fumesucker Feb 2014 #111
box in, sorry on phone joshcryer Feb 2014 #113
It is the shiny object of the moment. n/t ms liberty Feb 2014 #52
I had to click to see what SI stood for, thought it meant YES in Spanish Bluenorthwest Feb 2014 #53
Google "discussion board"! nt Logical Feb 2014 #54
Because people... butterfly77 Feb 2014 #55
And there's no reason to be ashamed of that fact. n/t cpwm17 Feb 2014 #84
pony ass? sheep ass? horse ass? dog ass? hey... donkey ass? is that what you are saying? seabeyond Feb 2014 #87
Looks like you've got it covered. pintobean Feb 2014 #88
so, you are suggesting any ass will do? really? i was just sure it was a faux pas. hmmmmm seabeyond Feb 2014 #89
And yet----you started a THREAD about it! And you, let's say, misspeak about the TPP here. WinkyDink Feb 2014 #56
A faction on DU has decided that DU TransitJohn Feb 2014 #59
That's what flamebait is designed to do. sufrommich Feb 2014 #60
I trashed that thread early on. nt City Lights Feb 2014 #64
lol! HappyMe Feb 2014 #65
I think it's okay, and even necessary, for people to take a break from serious issues now and then. Chorophyll Feb 2014 #66
They get less attention because we agree on those issues Ruby the Liberal Feb 2014 #67
There is 1 (one) thread on the SI edition and eleventy billion on TPP and ScreamingMeemie Feb 2014 #68
It's a form of civil disobedience. lumberjack_jeff Feb 2014 #69
yet, when stated by the many, not just this minority vocal group you are standing up to their seabeyond Feb 2014 #71
Want more allies? Lobby to decrease the size of the HoF shit list. lumberjack_jeff Feb 2014 #72
first sentence. want more allies? huh? doing ok here jeff. got people that like me personally, seabeyond Feb 2014 #73
Not allies in the personal sense. lumberjack_jeff Feb 2014 #76
that would be the difference looking at the surface and digging a tad to see reality. seabeyond Feb 2014 #77
respect jeff. you and i both know.... it is all in the respect. we did it for years. we can talk seabeyond Feb 2014 #75
This message was self-deleted by its author rrneck Feb 2014 #97
Civil disobedience? YoungDemCA Feb 2014 #79
... or "retaliatory stick poking". Call it what you will. n/t lumberjack_jeff Feb 2014 #100
No, it's a form of douchebaggery. Hissyspit Feb 2014 #104
Meh. I don't think the people annoyed by it will actually miss that particular nose hair. n/t lumberjack_jeff Feb 2014 #106
Because you are fairly new: a warning... Phentex Feb 2014 #70
Wow. A starker summation could not possibly be made. redqueen Feb 2014 #74
Had a similar thought malaise Feb 2014 #80
ok, I thought SI was self-injury undeterred Feb 2014 #82
Me too. cinnabonbon Feb 2014 #92
Exactly. undeterred Feb 2014 #94
The fact that it's too real cinnabonbon Feb 2014 #96
I'm a lot more amazed that it hasn't spawned 15 new threads LadyHawkAZ Feb 2014 #86
Excellent explanation. pintobean Feb 2014 #90
Saw your linked post downthread LadyHawkAZ Feb 2014 #112
Now, there's another in GD pintobean Feb 2014 #114
Apparently so LadyHawkAZ Feb 2014 #120
thanks for the explanation.. frwrfpos Feb 2014 #116
As others have noted.... Bobbie Jo Feb 2014 #91
I am amazed (not) that the poster has not returned to this thread... ScreamingMeemie Feb 2014 #95
You're amazed ... so you started ANOTHER Sports Illustrated thread??? JoePhilly Feb 2014 #93
Between this, the original pintobean Feb 2014 #101
501. nt valerief Feb 2014 #102
Objectification of women is not important? alarimer Feb 2014 #103
Thank you for not dismissing the objection to the celebration of objectification as "theater". redqueen Feb 2014 #105
I wish y'all would make up your minds. lumberjack_jeff Feb 2014 #107
I wanted to say thank you for all of the responses frwrfpos Feb 2014 #109
Downplaying sexism gets many of us upset. Making female objectification commonplace is the problem. uppityperson Feb 2014 #115
Sex sells Boom Sound 416 Feb 2014 #119

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
1. People like shit that's titilating and not overly complicated.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 01:23 AM
Feb 2014

In related news People sells five times as many issues as The Economist.

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
23. I keep hearing that we are gonna have a revolution. These would be the revoluters, yes?
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 02:48 AM
Feb 2014

I mean the people that would be doing the revolutioning.

Seem a little lightweight...

eppur_se_muova

(36,317 posts)
117. This I know. But silicones are made from silicon. :) (Chem PhD)
Sun Feb 16, 2014, 12:07 AM
Feb 2014

Basically, I just couldn't pass up that line ...

 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
3. Those poor women on the cover are being oppressed, doncha know. Forced at gunpoint to strip and pose
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 01:26 AM
Feb 2014

and the smiles are obviously cries for help.

Please, won't someone think of the children!

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
83. Apparently someone is thinking of the children.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 02:54 PM
Feb 2014
Barbie's Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Cover Stirs Controversy

Critics say including the doll in the swimsuit layout sends a dangerous message to young women.


http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/video/barbie-sports-illustrated-swimsuit-edition-22514149

pacalo

(24,721 posts)
21. That isn't new to DU, ellen.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 02:35 AM
Feb 2014

One group wants to control DU with their narrow-minded agenda & it's when DUers don't toe their line that "discussions" get more than a minute or two of exposure. I don't blame DUers for pushing back.

Happy Valentine's Day, ellen!






dorkzilla

(5,141 posts)
5. In one thread we're gathering picture of Putin on absurd things.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 01:29 AM
Feb 2014

Its an open forum, and people have differing opinions on every subject. If people weren't interested it would have died with no comments and no recs.

I get what you're saying but at the end of the day all i can say is…get over it.

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
6. It engaged a couple of relatively small groups that are loud and somewhat obsessive
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 01:29 AM
Feb 2014

If you look carefully there's maybe a couple of dozen posters doing most of the heavy lifting in that thread..

Of course that's generally true of long threads, a few posters tend to get in to "back and forth" mode where they natter at each other over relative trivia.



Vinnie From Indy

(10,820 posts)
7. Add to the TPP issues like the millions of Americans that are right now as I type this
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 01:31 AM
Feb 2014

facing the financial catastrophe of their lives because the GOP has suddenly decided to deny unemployment extensions to be reauthorized. The UI issue and the fate of so many laid off workers is hardly a blip here at DU.

For some, outrage and conflict are drugs that make them feel alive and relevant. The SI OP was a choice bit of red meat.

Cheers!

pa28

(6,145 posts)
8. This joint sometimes does tend to fixate on the shiny object of the day.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 01:31 AM
Feb 2014

In fairness, issues like TPP and Time Warner / Comcast get more discussion than you'll see in most places. Secondly, threads like that are also quite a bit of back and forth between the same people thus the high post count.

I know where you are coming from but after a while you learn to ignore the junk.

flvegan

(64,424 posts)
9. Ego.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 01:32 AM
Feb 2014

People care about what they care about, regardless of anything else.

This matters...to me.

Nothing else matters...to me.

It's the easiest "fuck you" in the world. Delivered to DU as such.

 

obxhead

(8,434 posts)
25. And that is the CORE of the problem.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 03:04 AM
Feb 2014

Far too many would rather sit back with a bag of popcorn over the latest insulting/demeaning tabloid story than spend 20 minutes a day learning about serious life altering issues.

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
28. I spend a good bit more than 20 minutes a day on DU learning about serious issues
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 03:16 AM
Feb 2014

The problem is when you try to discuss issues in an evenhanded and calm way your thread is practically guaranteed to sink like the Titanic..

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024353051

 

obxhead

(8,434 posts)
33. There is that phenomenon.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 03:33 AM
Feb 2014


I wasn't really talking about DUers though.

Thankfully there are DUers out there that keep up the good fight, even while these flame ups happen.

arikara

(5,562 posts)
85. I think it depends on the time of day
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 02:57 PM
Feb 2014

or who sees it, sometimes even who posts it. I've posted really good things in my west coast evening which I'm surprised that sink. Then I realized maybe its because everybody else is in bed and the ones who are up seem to be interested in SI. Then somebody on the east coast will post the same thing in the morning and it goes like crazy.

Systematic Chaos

(8,601 posts)
11. The environment and climate change are what REALLY matter most.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 01:43 AM
Feb 2014

And even in the goddamn Environment/Energy forum it's crickets half the time, unless the thread is about nuclear power. Then it's Fukushima until your eyes bleed. A bad disaster to be sure, but all the bullshit about huge amounts of radiation in the entire Pacific Ocean as a result is just that -- bullshit.

NutmegYankee

(16,204 posts)
29. Scientific illiteracy in American society is a goddamn embarrassment!
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 03:18 AM
Feb 2014

Maybe it's my training as a mechanical engineer that gave me a false impression of what people should know, but I'm appalled over and over again at just how dumb and ignorant people are on science. People can identify the characters on a TV show, but can't list the key element of organic chemistry. And don't get me started on physics...

 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
22. That's the second new word I've learned today.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 02:42 AM
Feb 2014
So something I’m rather proud of even though there is no real way to take credit for it, is that I invented the term “Brocialist” which has started to become common usage on the Left. It was right after “Manarchist” was becoming popular and me and some people online were talking about an equivalent for the WSWS.org type sexist-socialists out there, so I suggested “Brocialist.” And the rest is history. Now by “invent” I should say that I came up with “Brocialist” independently and I had never heard the term used before that moment by anyone else. I fully acknowledge the possibility that someone else could have come up with it before I did, I just never heard it before then and have only seen it become used by others afterwards. Of course there is no way I can possibly prove that I invented “Brocialist” unless I want to dig through thousands of reddit threads and comments to find that discussion. But I’m glad to see that the term took off and is being used in the good work of calling out misogynists and male privilege in the socialist movements.

(more at the link)
http://theredplebeian.wordpress.com/2013/07/26/down-with-brocialism-and-manarchism/


The other word was Neutrois

sabrina 1

(62,325 posts)
24. I couldn't agree more. And have commented it on it, like you, wondering if we get harness all that
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 03:02 AM
Feb 2014

energy that is spent on tabloidism and issues that do not compare to the major issues that affect everyone, maybe we could actually get somewhere.

My own opinion is that some people are doing just fine and have time for trivia like this, and/or it serves to suck energy that would go to serious issues our 'leaders' would prefer we ignore.

Either way, it is embarrassing that on a political board, the cover of a magazine is more important than the loss of our rights, jobs, homes, etc.

I'm pretty sure there are blogs for this kind of thing. THIS one used to be about issues.

 

RC

(25,592 posts)
78. I'm sure that there are people here on DU that make sure the "who cares" trivila gets top billing,
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 02:46 PM
Feb 2014
over the actual important stuff.
The important stuff takes learning, logic, reality, knowledge, comprehension to understand it.
With the Sports Illustrated thread, anyone with any kind of a opinion could jump in. No real knowledge or understanding of anything required. And they did, big time.

The resultant pile on's, derailments and flame bait, passive-aggressive bullying they inject into an otherwise benign thread, often turns it into a train wreck. The Sports Illustrated thread is just the most recent thread. In this case the perpetually outraged were the guilty ones. But they are losing the fear and what little respect they have from the rest of DU and the push backs against this group are getting stronger.
 

2pooped2pop

(5,420 posts)
31. sometimes people just need a break
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 03:20 AM
Feb 2014

if you think of nothing but what is happening in this country it can become so depressing that continuing to live may be hard. So people have to mix in a little bit of stuff that is mindless.

DreamGypsy

(2,252 posts)
34. There is really nothing more important than the gluteus maximus...
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 03:34 AM
Feb 2014


...after all, the average DU'er has two of them. How else could you sit?

It arises from the posterior gluteal line of the inner upper ilium, and the rough portion of bone including the crest, immediately above and behind it; from the posterior surface of the lower part of the sacrum and the side of the coccyx; from the aponeurosis of the erector spinae (lumbodorsal fascia), the sacrotuberous ligament, and the fascia covering the gluteus medius (gluteal aponeurosis). The fibers are directed obliquely downward and lateralward; The gluteus maximus has two insertions:

those forming the lower and larger portion of the muscle, together with the superficial fibers of the lower portion, end in a thick tendinous lamina, which passes across the greater trochanter, and in is into the iliotibial band of the fascia lata;

the deeper fibers of the lower portion of the muscle are inserted into the gluteal tuberosity between the vastus lateralis and adductor magnus.



It's clear why 550 people would experience an urgent need to comment. Je ne sais pas!

CTyankee

(63,926 posts)
35. thanks for thei info...have had that pain in real life terms and it is no picnic...
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 03:51 AM
Feb 2014

I appreciate the education...I never gave my back end that much thought...until one fine day...ugh...

G_j

(40,372 posts)
36. generally, when an OP gets that many comments, there's some arguin' goin' on!
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 03:54 AM
Feb 2014

if it wasn't this particular topic, it would be another.
The long threads are usually the contentious ones.

redqueen

(115,108 posts)
37. We all pretty much agree about the deal, and I assume most here have done their IRL work on it.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 04:07 AM
Feb 2014

I've seen some knock down drag outs over TPP, but I think we all mostly agree it's fucked and have done the same IRL.


Objectifying women, pushing hard to ensure that it's tolerated, and fighting tooth and nail to maintain the status quo with respect to the ubiquitous dehumanization of half of humanity is something we obviously have far too few bothering much to worry about.

Despite the fact that this shit actually affects our lives. Why do you think there aren't more women in positions of power? Coincidence?

Have you seen Miss Representation?

This knuckledragging bullshit is not just demeaning to women and causing a hostile environment to those who actually give a fuck about the way women are portrayed in media - it's actually holding back progress.


I get that facile, simplistic explanations are ... like ... totally way easier to come up with. But it would actually be nice to see some more thinking about the surrounding issues.

Ha, yeah right... what was I thinking. I forgot what board I was posting on for a moment there.

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
38. Yeah, I've avoided that thread.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 04:10 AM
Feb 2014

I don't judge anyone for participating in the thread, either to attack, defend, or just watch. We all have our priorities and distractions. I just didn't want to get sucked into a Swimsuit thread.

hughee99

(16,113 posts)
39. Keep in mind a large portion of those 500 responses are the same people
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 04:15 AM
Feb 2014

posting multiple times and continuing the "DU gender wars". The fact that it's about the SI swimsuit issue just provides the platform.

BainsBane

(53,116 posts)
40. I see you're new here
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 04:27 AM
Feb 2014

You thought since the site was called Democratic Underground that implied people actually had some sort of political consciousness. It's an understandable mistake.

The only way to deal with that crap is to trash those threads. They are posted for two purposes: to mark territory and incite flame wars. I refuse to give them the satisfaction of participating in their shit fests. Trash thread is your friend.

Also you're better off avoiding GD in favor of the smaller groups that deal more substantively with issues.

JHB

(37,166 posts)
41. Looking down the list, a great many of those don't seem to be about the cover
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 04:44 AM
Feb 2014

Dozens of back&forths that increasingly depart from the actual cover add up.

The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
42. It got so many responses because men on DU hate women and love oppression
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 04:52 AM
Feb 2014

I used to look at women and even have been known to call a few of them pretty.

I was wrong to compliment them and hurt them in such a way. I have learned on DU that women are delicate and us men need to step up and treat them differently, but also to not treat them in a different manner. Be nice to women and fight for their rights, but only on abortion and not the other choices like posing for a magazine.

Such threads get so many responses because it is all very confusing - can a woman be beautiful and admired? Can she choose to be a model or act in porn? Well, no, all women are forced by the patriarchy into those roles. Except when they are not and pose for magazines for women and by women.

Or something like that.

Hell, I don't know anymore. All I know is women are always oppressed in everything and anything they do and a few chosen women are supposed to lead them and us out of Egypt or something like that.

Oh, and looking at women, holding open doors for them, talking to them unless they talked to your first, etc and so on means you hate them and only want sex with them. You hate women. Period. Because everything you do can be analyzed and ripped apart to show that they are victims of every breath you take.

It is such confusion and telling people they all are misogynists that generate so many replies - because it just is not true (and I am a woman hater because I just disagreed with that assessment. It is a never ending argument unless we all stand up and beg forgiveness and admit our sins. Or something like that to appease.).

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
45. What a load of crap.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 06:29 AM
Feb 2014

I see you can't grasp what it means to be a woman in this world one little bit, nor do you care to. You should give it a try sometime. Better to try to understand what others go through, and if you can't, at the very least try to refrain from posting your open hostility.



NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
98. I blame the patriarchy!
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 03:49 PM
Feb 2014

At least I think that's the correct and accepted response. I haven't seen the SI thread yet, though, so I don't know what has been deemed offensive this time. I could guess, though.

bobGandolf

(871 posts)
43. I can't even fathom expending energy to debate SI.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 05:30 AM
Feb 2014

I wholeheartedly agree with the OP. We are turning into that which we devise.

LiberalAndProud

(12,799 posts)
46. And this OP has 45 replies and 23 recs.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 06:45 AM
Feb 2014

I'm tempted to see what an OP discussing this thread would get. It might be amusing to find out. Instead, I think I'll just trash both threads and say good morning.

Good morning.

Renew Deal

(81,896 posts)
47. DUers agree that the TPP and Comcast deals are bad
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 06:47 AM
Feb 2014

So there is nothing to argue about. The SI issue can be controversial

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
48. Nope, there is a significant minority who don't think the TPP is bad
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 06:55 AM
Feb 2014

Or at least they won't admit they think the TPP might be bad.

Evidently Obama has yet to weigh in on the Comcast thing because I'm not seeing anyone say that's a good deal but you can rest assured that if Obama turns out to be for it there will be more than a few on the DU who will also be for it.

joshcryer

(62,287 posts)
50. How does "won't admit" = "don't think"?
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 07:33 AM
Feb 2014

I didn't "admit" that I thought the SI issue was fucking lame as per usual, but does that mean "I don't think" it is lame as per usual?

I only know of one poster who has positive feelings about TPP. One.

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
51. The TPP been discussed fairly heavily on the DU
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 07:41 AM
Feb 2014

If someone hasn't expressed an opinion on the TPP by now then I'm going to put them down for "won't admit it's bad", which might as well be "doesn't think it's bad".

There are times watching DU is like being in the middle of a school of herring or a murmuration of starlings, seeing a large number of posters dart off in a completely different direction simultaneously is uncanny.





joshcryer

(62,287 posts)
99. but never without bashing Obama
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 05:04 PM
Feb 2014

your assumptions are wrong and automatically presume a negative view of other DUers

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
108. I have a negative view of some DUers
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 08:06 PM
Feb 2014

I'm not sure there is anyone here that doesn't have a negative view of some other DUers. I know damn well there are some DUers that have a negative view of me, they've let me know it in terms that were far from uncertain.

From time to time I try to have an honest and non snarky conversation with DUers I normally disagree with, I almost never get a reply.

For instance I'm fairly sure I told you once that I think you're probably smarter than I am and better informed in some respects.



joshcryer

(62,287 posts)
110. I can't think of any I would box on though
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 08:15 PM
Feb 2014

maybe three DUers who are just pathological liars

I see many DUers who cross on different issues

i.e. Manning supporters but Assange detractors

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
53. I had to click to see what SI stood for, thought it meant YES in Spanish
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 10:28 AM
Feb 2014

But as it turns out it is about sports culture, which is of no interest to me at all. To be precise it is about Straight Culture and Sports Culture. Barf. The worst of the worst.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
87. pony ass? sheep ass? horse ass? dog ass? hey... donkey ass? is that what you are saying?
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 03:10 PM
Feb 2014

clarification. cause it isnt sounding like it need be a human being. just an ass. so curious. cause there was an old republican southern man that sad on tv, that all the men know, the boys living on the farm does it with the various animals. i didnt know. but, maybe you are confirming this for us.

thanks. i advance.

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
65. lol!
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 12:12 PM
Feb 2014


So you started a thread to discuss the discussion/shit flinging you don't like.

Sorry, but I think that's kind of funny.

Chorophyll

(5,179 posts)
66. I think it's okay, and even necessary, for people to take a break from serious issues now and then.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 12:16 PM
Feb 2014

That said, that SI post might have fit better in the Lounge.

Ruby the Liberal

(26,219 posts)
67. They get less attention because we agree on those issues
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 12:57 PM
Feb 2014

It is disagreements that blow up threads, not everyone posting the same comments in agreement.

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
68. There is 1 (one) thread on the SI edition and eleventy billion on TPP and
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 12:59 PM
Feb 2014

Comcast...

Add up the responses on those eleventy billion threads on TPP and Comcast, and see who wins.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
69. It's a form of civil disobedience.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 01:23 PM
Feb 2014

People are tired of being told to be ashamed for not agreeing with a bullying, dishonest and organized vocal minority. It is this constant unremitting preaching that is getting in the way of serious issues.

I'm kind of indifferent to the thing, and if pressed on the issue I'd give SI an eyeroll for making the swimsuit edition the cornerstone of their franchise.

But sometimes it's worth plucking a nose hair to express an idea.

As far as TPP and Comcast... "To the ramparts! We need a democrat president who won't do these things!"

Oh, wait.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
71. yet, when stated by the many, not just this minority vocal group you are standing up to their
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 01:31 PM
Feb 2014

bullying on, the person and others that put up the OP absolutely deny it was their intent.

i bet half the thread was

uh hu
nu uh
uh hu
nu uh

fuckin obvious
no it isnt

ya

no

but thank you for confirming what most all of us said. it was da menz.... (ya, that would be along with wimminzzz), that were taking owner of territory, regardless of the hostility to women.

and said. out in the open. lol

good for you lumberjack.

it has been an interesting couple days, comparing the threads of the totally awesome, powerful, insiteful, innovative, creative women to the thread featuring an ass.... presented to men.

and how the thread of our young women excelling got little or no, standing up next to the ass presented to men.

ya think? personally, i think that is the point of growth that is so much more interesting and productive than an SI spread.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
72. Want more allies? Lobby to decrease the size of the HoF shit list.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 01:53 PM
Feb 2014

The reason that HoF has a 45(!) person "naughty" list is because the members of the group define themselves by their perceived persecution.

The longer the list, the better, because quantifying the oppression the members of the group face, and justifying the righteousness of their cause is best served by identifying their oppressors by name.

If the members of HoF really wanted open discussion, it would be reflected in the participation allowed in the group. In fact, it is obvious that the most vexing issue for HoF membership is that they can't similarly control the dialog in other groups.

The SI thread was open and candid discussion, and I think it would be prudent to consider it a wake-up call for HoF members to reevaluate their tactics.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
73. first sentence. want more allies? huh? doing ok here jeff. got people that like me personally,
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 01:56 PM
Feb 2014

got people that hate me.

hof is pretty damn active especially comparative. so think we are doing ok on people reading our stufff.

since the number of people on that thread calling it out were not hof... not talking about arguing back and forth, but the one post to call it out....

i think we are doing fine.

since you choose to start your post like this. i feel less inclined to read the rest.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
76. Not allies in the personal sense.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 02:07 PM
Feb 2014

Certainly you've read the posts from people who consider themselves feminists that won't have anything to do with HoF? BB has banned a whole shitload of them.

The fact that I like you personally has nothing to do with my observation of where the zeitgeist of the SI thread came from.

Frankly, I'm beginning to look at the HoF shit list and think that I'm in pretty good company, and I doubt that I'm alone.

At year end, I purged 6 or 7 names from TMG shit list and it has done a lot of good.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
77. that would be the difference looking at the surface and digging a tad to see reality.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 02:15 PM
Feb 2014

so many of the people that use... i am a feminist too, an ally, when in all cases they prove otherwise moves me not at all.

been there and done that. as inclusive as i personally could possibly be, for not. made not an iota of difference. only opened the door for further attack to keep a particular agenda alive.

i am the sucker of the group. you get that. every moment is another moment/opportunity for peace. there always. with all. everyone. i am so damn easy and you know jeff...

i am so righteously right on with how our hosts are dealing with peoples intent to refuse to be respectful in that group.

we do not demand respect thru out du. as a matter of fact, kinda seen as the weak move by too many. but, that one small space can be a respectful environment for all. for discussion.

and others, not part of hof, recognize that.

not the ones that cannot/willnot be respectful. but a whole lot of others on du.

surely, that should be ok for the few.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
75. respect jeff. you and i both know.... it is all in the respect. we did it for years. we can talk
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 02:01 PM
Feb 2014

in respect, or in hof, .... your ass is out of there. that is how i parented jeff, that is what i expect in my life, and that is what i give. respect. and it is also how my personal space, environment works. kids value adn appreciate that. it is a lesson for us all.

all one needs do is walk into hof and have a discussion respectfully. if a person is clueless what respect is all about, they tend to fail. many on that list have no interest in being respectful to a group of women for anything in the world. so they are out.

you have issue with women insisting when others come into our space you do it respectfully?

now... respectfully jeff.... i am outta here. may or may not respond, but, surely will read. just not in the mood to play this little game though. too many people are aware so i do not have to go thru it all, to make sure things are clearly seen.

a beautful day to you

Response to lumberjack_jeff (Reply #72)

Hissyspit

(45,788 posts)
104. No, it's a form of douchebaggery.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 07:37 PM
Feb 2014

I have ALL kinds of problems with HoF posters and thir insistence that all confirm to their particular concepts, but that OP is dishonest and a hateful flamebait poke in the eye.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
70. Because you are fairly new: a warning...
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 01:31 PM
Feb 2014

all the sexism you want but DON'T POST ABOUT BIGFOOT!

Seriously.

cinnabonbon

(860 posts)
96. The fact that it's too real
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 03:30 PM
Feb 2014

is the reason why it needs to be talked about and understood. There are a lot of misconceptions out there about it.

LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
86. I'm a lot more amazed that it hasn't spawned 15 new threads
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 03:04 PM
Feb 2014

all complaining about the awfulness of the first thread.

You're new here, so let me explain that this is not an uncommon thing. It happens every month or so. Someone posts a gender-issue OP. Usually it's to do with women wearing something less than burqas or otherwise being sexy without permission, although that can vary. Two or three people post something supportive and/or approving, a couple others show up to disagree, and the thread blows up like C4 on the Mythbusters set. Six or seven more threads spring up complaining about the first thread. Six more spring up to complain about the complaint threads. After a week or so, the issue suddenly dies and there's a brief break, then someone makes another post...

It's theater. You'll start to recognize the players after awhile.

Welcome to DU.

Bobbie Jo

(14,341 posts)
91. As others have noted....
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 03:18 PM
Feb 2014

You're new here.

I've also noticed that you've been complaining about DU'ers right outta the gate.

Kinda like walking in the back door, putting your feet up on the table and complaining that the free coffee tastes like crap.

Meh.

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
95. I am amazed (not) that the poster has not returned to this thread...
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 03:27 PM
Feb 2014

I would have never guessed that would happen.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
103. Objectification of women is not important?
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 05:35 PM
Feb 2014

I think it is and I think that is all the SI cover is about. More sexism and evidence of our sexist culture.

I can't tell you what you should think is important, but I think that is.

redqueen

(115,108 posts)
105. Thank you for not dismissing the objection to the celebration of objectification as "theater".
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 07:52 PM
Feb 2014

It's shocking how predictably regressive some on this site can be on some issues.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
107. I wish y'all would make up your minds.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 08:03 PM
Feb 2014

Is the SI swimsuit OP a vitally important discussion topic of objectifying phallopressive bla-de-bla or is it trollish flame bait?

Retreat to the batcave to coordinate the message then get back to us.

 

frwrfpos

(517 posts)
109. I wanted to say thank you for all of the responses
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 08:06 PM
Feb 2014

Im sorry I couldnt get back to the thread. I started it late last night.

uppityperson

(115,681 posts)
115. Downplaying sexism gets many of us upset. Making female objectification commonplace is the problem.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 08:38 PM
Feb 2014

Calling it "vacuous" it telling as far as how you feel about sexism and objectification of women

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